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[REPOST, 2022] - "Roe, Roe, Roe-ing my boat, gently into this stream"
(This was originally posted to my WordPress blog "Thoughts of the Free" in May 2022.)
Oh, joy. Here we go again.
Yep, it’s the internet’s laziest political commentator here, back after several months of silence to talk about one of his least favorite topics: abortion! Yay! In case you haven’t heard, this just happened, meaning abortion is now no longer protected here in the States under federal law. Not a huge surprise, but still a very facepalm-inducing moment for this country nonetheless. So, rather than sit around and debate every single person who’d like to argue with me on this subject, I figured I’d get in front of this whole thing, and preemptively put my logical scalpel to work here and now.
Before we proceed, let me make one thing absolutely clear right off the bat: if your go-to arguments against abortion are along the lines of “it’s murder!”, “it’s irresponsible adulting!”, “it’s against God!”, or more, do not even bother trying to respond to this post. Not only is this branch of reasoning weak (for reasons that I’ll dig into as we go forward), but the fact is that moral arguments in general do not stand up to scrutiny at all on this topic. I am also not about to grind to a halt here to argue about some unproductive conceptual nonsense like “when does life begin? 12 weeks?!” or “but what about edge cases like rape?!”, because these are where the point goes to die a slow and painful death. Got it? Okay, good. Let’s move.
Let’s really get started in a place you probably won’t expect: the Bible. If you’re one of the folks who follows it, I implore you to open yours to Numbers 5:11, read onward from there, and take note of what that section describes. What you’ll find there is a very detailed commandment, from God himself to his priests, for abortions to be induced on wives who cheat on their husbands. This also isn’t even to speak of numerous other moments, such as Exodus 12:19, where God himself goes a step above abortions and personally kills unspecified masses of born children, demonstrating multiple times over that the lives of both the unborn and children aren’t quite as sacred as claimed in this religion. To attempt to handwave this fact away in support of the Christian anti-abortion case by claiming “it’s okay when God does it” is to engage in a hilariously meta kind of moral relativism that conservatives would not accept in any other context, so please, don’t try this response either.
As an aside: the problem with going to church and listening to sermons about the Bible is that you rarely ever learn anything truly new from them. You just skip around at random and hear a lecture about some part that gets worked into a generic message about the positives of being faithful. If you’re a Christian, professing faith in the Bible, and you haven’t heard of these parts before, you should ask yourself why that is.
But you didn’t come here to listen to this, right? Nah, what does the atheist brony know about the faith?! We want some real meaty bits to take in on this subject, dammit! Argument bits so meaty that they make you feel like you’re choking to death on a 72oz. steak of RAW TRUTH, with a side of BUTTERED FACTS AND LOGIC! AHAHAHAHAHAHAAAAAAAAAAA– [coughs uncontrollably]
Uh… Sorry. Moving on.
See, the religious part is only one part of this. When it comes to moral arguments, I hold the true centrist position when it comes to abortion: I do not care. I’m of the belief that I would never personally have an abortion (and would prefer my partners also not), but that if other people do want to have them, that’s their right, and not something for me to concerned with. Since this is a “moral gray zone” issue, and I have no desire to play to moral arguments on the subject of abortion anyway, ethics is what really needs to be talked about here.
An anti-abortion moral argument would state that a fetus is a person, and has the right to be kept alive through to birth as such. Now, this alone doesn’t hold up when you think about it for a minute. Picture, for a moment, a situation where someone is standing over a cliff, holding a 3-months-developed live fetus in one hand (we’re assuming it’s still, you know, alive in this hypothetical), and a 3-year-old named Billy in the other. This hypothetical person tells you to pick which one of the two they drop. I’m reasonably certain that everyone, in this scenario, would choose to save Billy. If a fetus were really a person, that would be closer to a 50/50 split.
BUT… Let’s go even further. For the sake of the argument, let’s say that, yes, fetuses are people, and they have full personhood. In that case, the best way to test the anti-abortion position is to think of a similar situation involving a grown person. How ’bout it?
The scene: I, an absolute moron, have just hopped in my car and gone driving up Highway 61 at half past midnight, after downing way too many liters of whiskey. I get my deeply drunk self to the Huey Long Bridge, drive up the wrong entry ramp, and promptly slam head-on into a fellow driver, surviving with only moderate injuries. A several-hours-long coma and a quick airlift to a Baton Rouge hospital later, I wake up to find that the person I played a game of automotive jousting with is barely clinging to life. They’re only able to do so because, while I was unconscious, the doctors discovered that we share a blood type, and decided to start transfusing my blood into them without my consent. If I tell them to stop pumping my blood into the victim of this crash, they’re guaranteed to die.
In this hypothetical scenario, I’m the one who’s entirely at fault for this ordeal. There’s no question as to how we got here. The question is: should the state (or even just the hospital) have the power to force me to keep this person alive against my will, using my bodily resources? I would say the answer is no, but I invite you to ask this question for yourself. When you do so, remember that this is a hypothetical where we assume the other party is a fully-grown adult; trying to apply this logic of personhood to afetus will take this argument into some very, very absurd philosophical territory.
With the religious, moral, and ethical arguments against abortion not standing up to scrutiny… well, what are we really left with?
We already know what the myriad negative effects are of denying abortions to pregnant women. It’s not irresponsible adult behavior to not have a child when you likely can’t afford to raise one, for reasons that should be fairly self-evident. Nor is it reasonable to demand that every prospective abortion-seeking mom instead bear the kid and put them up for adoption, not the least of the reasons being that dumping a millionnew children would cause our already-overburdened foster care system to collapse, especially without a sudden surge in adoptive parent candidates to accompany it. (EDIT FROM FUTURE HAWK: Now that I think about it... don'tcha think that it would help on that front to stop arbitrarily outlawing queer couples' ability to adopt? We already know that the kid would be as fine in that company as they would be with a straight couple.)
In short… there’s no big socioeconomic benefits to banning abortions either. So, really: what reason is there?
Like I said earlier, I want all of you, anti-abortion people who may be reading, to take some time out and ask yourselves: why do I believe this? Was this knee-jerk hatred for pregnancy termination a position you arrived at through some process of critical thinking, with all of the above factors in mind, or something you’ve been told to believe by the people you listen to? Be it the biblical literalist pastors who can only claim the Bible opposes abortion by engaging in some very tenuous interpretation, a political apparatus that found an easy issue to get you sloganeering about as a distraction, or anything else: what was it? Most of all: can you arrive at your current position after asking yourself all of the questions posed here?
Well, I hope you at least have an interesting answer. Maybe that’ll keep me from wanting to measure my ruler every time this subject comes up. See y’all later.
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As mentioned already, though, some groups just will not be tolerated or accepted here due to them being morally corrupt and unsafe by nature. Are there people who belong to these groups who are safe? Perhaps... in extremely rare cases. But most that I have seen and come into contact with are most certainly NOT safe and will not be welcomed to this blog.
Here is the short version:
- DDLG/Daddy Dom Little Girl
- MDLB/Mommy Dom Little Boy
- DDLB/Daddy Dom Little Boy
- MDLG/Mommy Dom Little Girl
- CGL/Care Giver Little
- ABDL/Adult Baby Diaper Lover
- Ageplay
- ANY type of Littlespace and/or Age Regression that is NSFW
- Kink or kink-related
- Petplay
- Hybristophilia (paraphilia in which sexual arousal, facilitation, and attainment of orgasm are contingent upon being with a partner known to have cheated, lied, participated in infidelity, or committed a crime - such as rape or murder)
- Erotophonophilia (paraphilia in which sexual arousal and attainment of organism are contingent upon the death/murder of a human being)
- Transgender Pee Kink
- ANY kink revolving around urination or the passing of bowel movements
- Rabiosexuality
- Anything or anyone on the Virosexual spectrum
- Necrophilia
- Trad-wife
- Trad-fem
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- IPCE
- NAMBLA
- CSC
- Project Truth
- René Guyon Society
- MAP
- NoMAP/NMAP
- SoMAP
- Pedophile
- Pederast
- P.E.A.R. 🍐 (Pro Expression Anti Repression)
- Pedophile/Pedarest Apologists and Sympathizers
- ANY other glorification of attraction to children
- The aesthetics of Nymphet (also called nymphette, jailbait, doelette, coquette) and Faunlet
- Ero Kawaii (Japanese subculture that combines Western notions of sexiness and Japanese cuteness)
- Hospitalcore/Medcore
- Itami Kawaii (subgenre of kawaii that focuses on depressing and sad topics and imagery)
- Pukecore
- Yanderecore
- Body Horror
- Rape/Rapists
- Rape/Rapist Apologists and Sympathizers
- Incest
- Incest Apologists and Sympathizers
- Incels
- Incel Apologists and Sympathizers
- MGTOW/Men Going Their Own Way
- Anyone who identifies as an “alpha male” or “alpha male personality”
- People who claim to be “red-pilled”
- If you support child abuse of any kind or excuse it away as “discipline”
- Pro-spanking of any kind (sexual or otherwise)
- If you are pro-suicide or believe suicide-baiting and/or harassment is okay
- If you are disrespectful of people who have passed on who were victims of depression or suicide
- Beastiality
- Zoophilia
- Pro-animal abuse of any kind
- Pro-hunting-for-sport or pro-fishing-for-sport
- Extreme vegans or extreme vegetarians who believe humanely killing an animal for food is abusing them or are against hunting for necessary reasons
- Anti-feminism or anti-feminist
- Anti-egalitarianism
- Holocaust Deniers
- NSDAP/National Socialist German Workers' Party members
- NSDAP/National Socialist German Workers’ Party apologists and sympathizers
- Nazis
- Neonazis
- Nazi Apologists and Sympathizers
- Neonazi Apologists and Sympathizers
- Einsatzgruppen
- Schutzstaffel
- SS-Totenkopfverbände
- “Good Germans”
- Anything to do with the right-facing Swastika
- Bigotry of any kind (particularly against legitimate religions, romantic and sexual orientations, gender identities, neopronouns, neurodivergent people, mentally ill people, and mental disorders)
- Otherkin
- Otherkin Apologists and Sympathizers
- Fictionkin
- Fictionkin Apologists and Sympathizers
- If you use “autistic,” “gay,” “fag,” “qu*er,” “n*gger,” “ret*rded,” or any similar words as insults
- Support Autism Speaks
- Support PETA
- Support the YouTuber Onision/OnisionSpeaks/UhOhBro
- Belligerent antivaxxers
- Anyone who believes vaccines cause autism
- Anyone who is an extremist when it comes to abortion (pro-birthers or extreme pro-aborts)
- Exclusionists
- Racists
- Sexisists
- Porn blogs - hardcore or softcore
- SWERFs
- Any undue bigotry towards sex workers
- THINSPO
- Any people or blogs that glorify eating disorders
- Fatphobia
- Thinphobia
- Ableism/being mean to or oppressing Disabled people
- Anyone who is against d/Deaf and hard-of-hearing rights
- Anyone who unironically uses the terms “hearing loss” and “hearing impaired,” unless the d/Deaf person actually has lost their hearing or self-identifies that way
- Cringe blogs/people who support cringe culture
- People who spread misinformation around about DID/Dissociative Identity Disorder or who are anti-DID. (Alters are real and valid for people with DID - do NOT call them insane or stupid.)
Here is the long version with specifics and clarification for anyone who needs them:
DDLG/Daddy Dom Little Girl, MDLB/Mommy Dom Little Boy, DDLB/Daddy Dom Little Boy, MDLG/Mommy Dom Little Girl, CGL/Care Giver Little, ABDL/Adult Baby Diaper Lover, Ageplay, or ANY type of Littlespace and/or Age Regression that is NSFW. Yes, this does include anyone who calls someone Daddy or Mommy in a NSFW or sexual way. (SFW Littlespace or people who need Age Regression due to extreme trauma or other underlying issues are welcome and accepted here!) If you claim to be a SFW Littlespace or Age Regressor but are actually NSFW, I will immediately report and block you. Children and those who need these safe spaces deserve to be safe.
IPCE, NAMBLA, CSC, Project Truth, René Guyon Society, MAP, NoMAP/NMAP, SoMAP, Pedophile, Pederast, P.E.A.R. 🍐 (Pro Expression Anti Repression), or ANY other glorification of attraction to children. Children cannot consent in ANY situation. Children/Underage individuals - 0-17 years - deserve to be safe. Monsters who would compromise their safety aren’t EVER welcomed here.
If you are interested in or a part of the following aesthetics, stay away from me and my blog: Nymphet and/or Faunlet, Ero Kawaii, Hospitalcore, Itami Kawaii, Pukecore, Yanderecore, and Body Horror.
Rape or Incest blogs... or people who find no issues with these things. Also, rape apologists and sympathizers and incest apologists and sympathizers. Y’all are morally deprived and will NEVER be welcome here.
Incels, as well as Incel apologists and sympathizers will NEVER be welcome here. You know where the door is and can show yourself out.
MGTOW/Men Going Their Own Way - While this started off as a great idea to teach men that it is okay to be single and still enjoy life without a girlfriend or boyfriend, it quickly spun out of control when incels got involved. For that reason, please don’t interact with me if you are a part of this group.
Anyone who identifies as an “alpha male” or “alpha male personality” please don’t ever interact with me. Any man who claims to belong to these labels generally only wants to control women and not respect them. There’s the door, morons.
People who claim to be “red-pilled” but instead just use the label to excuse bad behavior towards women and other marginalized groups.
If you support child abuse of any kind or excuse it away as “discipline” you are NOT welcome here and you NEVER will be. Child abuse includes emotional, psychological, mental, financial, physical, and sexual abuse. It also includes spanking. If you are pro-spanking of any kind (sexual or otherwise), DO NOT INTERACT with this blog or with me.
If you are pro-suicide or believe suicide-baiting and/or harassment is okay, GFY.
If you are disrespectful of people who have passed on who were victims of depression or suicide, do not interact.
Bestiality or Zoophilia. Animals cannot offer or accept consent, so y’all ain’t welcome here.
People who are pro-animal abuse are not welcome. NOTE: I am not vegan or vegetarian. I am, however, staunchly against animal abuse. I am also against hunting and fishing unless it absolutely must be done - say, for example, if you are stranded somewhere and you are freezing cold and you kill an animal and skin it so you won’t freeze to death, and you then use the animal as food as well, and try to use every part of it for some purpose. That is okay in my book! But if you go out and just kill an animal because you can, or because you want some trophy on your wall? That is awful. If you are an extreme vegan or extreme vegetarian who believes humanely killing an animal for food is abusing them or you are against hunting for necessary reasons, do not interact with me.
Kink or Kink-related people or blogs. Some specific kinks that are DEFINITELY NOT welcome are Petplay, Hybristophilia (paraphilia in which sexual arousal, facilitation, and attainment of orgasm are contingent upon being with a partner known to have cheated, lied, participated in infidelity, or committed a crime—such as rape or murder), Erotophonophilia (paraphilia in which sexual arousal and attainment of organism are contingent upon the death/murder of a human being), Transgender Pee Fetish, ANY fetish revolving around urination or the passing of bowel movements, Rabiosexuality, anything or anyone on the Virosexual spectrum, and Necrophilia.
Trad-Wife or Trad-Fem. (These individuals may have some good ones among them who are good faith actors and are not claiming moral superiority over anyone, or those who legitimately enjoy the fashion around this type of behavior, but most will not be welcome due to their extremism, anti-feminism, and anti-egalitarianism.)
RadFem or TERF or TWERF (like the ones in this video: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=9RuXrlASic0&list=PL6qeiiywoGbwy8VdT7lHhGSRXa0R7bmkr&index=6&t=8s )
Anyone who is anti-feminism, anti-feminist, or anti-egalitarianism.
Holocaust Deniers, NSDAP/National Socialist German Workers' Party members or apologists or sympathizers, Nazis, Neonazis, Nazi Apologists and Sympathizers, Neonazi Apologists and Sympathizers, Einsatzgruppen, Schutzstaffel, SS-Totenkopfverbände, and “Good Germans.” Also, anything to do with the right-facing Swastika - the one used by the Nazis as a symbol that was stolen and changed from the original one that was used in Hinduism, Buddhism, and Jainism. (As someone with German heritage myself, I find extreme offense to anyone who adheres to these ideologies. Don’t ever interact with me.)
Bigotry of any kind, but particularly against certain legitimate religions, romantic and sexual orientations, gender identities, neopronouns, neurodivergent people, mentally ill people, and mental disorders. (Notice I said LEGITIMATE. There are some identities that I do not accept, like Fictionkin, Animekin, Otherkin, etc. If you are a LEGIT identity, like Genderfluid or Asexual, for example, then you are welcome here and this is a safe space for you. Additionally, I will use any pronouns you want, so long as they are legitimate. I won’t call anyone dog/dogself or tree/treeself but I will call people they/themselves or ey/emself, for example.)
If you are otherkin or are pro-otherkin, especially if you are fictionkin or are pro-fictionkin.
If you use “autistic,” “gay,” “fag,” “qu*er,” “n*gger,” “ret*rded,” or any similar words as insults.
If you support Autism Speaks. They are a terrible organization that is not at all for Autistic people’s rights.
If you support PETA. PETA is a nasty organization that steals, tortures, and kills animals. It also spreads misinformation about real animal rights.
If you support the YouTuber Onision/OnisionSpeaks/UhOhBro. He is a despicable human being and should never be supported.
If you are an outlandish and rude antivaxxer or someone who believes vaccines cause autism. (An allergy to mercury and various metals which are often found in vaccines can cause what seems to be autistic tendencies, but that is an allergic reaction and is not really autism. Additionally, being against vaccines for legitimate medical reasons is fine - for example, if someone is allergic to eggs or chicken and thusly cannot get vaccinated due to most vaccines containing chicken embryonic DNA, that is fine. Also, if you are against vaccines for ethical and moral reasons, that is also okay. Animals like chickens, mice, monkeys, cows, and pigs are often inhumanely tested on for vaccinations and also are often hurt in the process of removing the necessary components from them to make the vaccines. Being against vaccinations for this reason is also fine. Being an anti-vaxxer while ignoring science and putting others down who are pro-vaccination is NOT okay and will not be tolerated.)
If you are an extremist when it comes to abortion. I don’t care which side of the argument you are on - I will not accept pro-birthers or extreme pro-aborts. I understand “pro-birther” to mean those who claim that people must absolutely NEVER have an abortion, even when it is a case of life and death for the mother and child. It also refers to those who are against the general medical procedure of ectopic pregnancy abortions. I understand “extreme pro-aborts” to mean those who would abort in every circumstance and never want women to have children. It also applies to those who would force or coerce a woman into getting an abortion against her will. It also applies to those who support aborting a perfectly healthy baby due to only its biological sex or some other underlying condition (ex. “I wanted a baby boy and I am pregnant with a baby girl. Well, guess I gotta abort her and try again for a boy!” or “I wanted a NORMAL baby, not one with autism/down syndrome/disabilities/handicaps/etc.”).
If you consider yourself to be an exclusionist and are rude or loud about it. Respectful exclusionists may or may not be welcomed here - that is up to the blog owner to decide upon.
Racism and sexism are not tolerated here under any circumstances.
Porn blogs - hard or soft - and SWERFs, as well as any undue bigotry towards sex workers. (I don’t accept softcore or hardcore pornographic blogs interacting with me and my blog, but I also do not shame people in the industry unless they are taking unsafe measures and not keeping themselves healthy, regardless of gender or biological sex. Don’t shame people if they have willingly chosen such a job. If they were coerced or forced into such a job or are underage, then that is a massive issue that I do not tolerate. But if the person has chosen this work willingly, I won’t shame them for it... so long as they are being safe.)
THINSPO or any other people or blogs that glorify eating disorders. Also, anyone who is fatphobic or thinphobic. NOTE: If you object to being so overweight that you have severe medical problems or no longer have an average human shape (see “My 600 Pound Life” for references), then that is fine. What I mean by “fatphobia” is the idea that society shames, blames, and piles guilt upon those who are overweight or fat. If you willingly call people “porker” or “heifer” or any other nasty terms because of their higher weight numbers, you are NOT welcome here. As for thinphobia, objecting to legitimate medical issues like bulimia and/or anorexia is fine. Calling people “chicken legs” or saying that they “need to fatten up” or “get some meat on those bones” is NOT acceptable. Calling anyone any nasty names because of their lower weight numbers is NOT welcome here. (If you have an eating disorder then you are welcome, so long as you don’t think the disorder is a good thing, that everyone would benefit from having an eating disorder, or if you are refusing any type of help - professional or otherwise - with your eating disorder... may that help be planned for the future or current.)
Ableism. As someone who has PTSD and is disabled, ANY type of ableism - be it for physical reasons or mental/psychological reasons - will not be welcomed here. If you are mean, cruel, or oppressive towards anyone on the Disabled spectrum, please leave my blog alone and do not ever interact with me.
Anyone who is against d/Deaf and hard-of-hearing rights. Please also do not use the terms “hearing loss” or “hearing impaired” when referring to a d/Deaf person unless that person actually has lost their hearing or self-identifies that way.
Cringe blogs/people who support cringe culture are not welcome here. (Meme blogs are fine, so long as they don’t make fun of inoffensive interests of people.)
People who spread misinformation around about DID/Dissociative Identity Disorder or who are anti-DID. Alters are real and valid for people with DID - do NOT call them insane or stupid. They are dealing with trauma as well as they can.
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PLEASE DO NOT interact if you fit, are related to, are linked to, or identify as ANY of the descriptors below. Thanks.
If you do interact and I find that you do fit ANY of these descriptors, I reserve the right to block you and/or report you, depending on the severity of the tag you fit (I won’t report most kink blogs, for instance, but children deserve to feel safe so I will report any blog that is run by a pedophile or openly identifies as anything related to them).
Anyone who is a “bad faith actor” is not welcome. Generally this applies to concepts like politics, feminism, equality, etc. (If you are a “good faith actor” for any of these groups or others, then you are welcome! It’s the ones that aren’t being legitimate that I take issue with here.)
Extremism of any kind will not be tolerated. Most groups - with some exceptions below - are not extreme in nature. It’s the extremists that I find issue with. As an arbitrary example, if you belong to an Abrahamic religion (Jew, Christian, Muslim, etc.) you are welcome here... unless you fall into the category of extremist (for example, if you think that EVERYONE MUST convert to your religion and if they don’t they deserve to be murdered). Another example is feminism. You can be a feminist, and I don’t care how you identify - but if you are a radical feminist who claims that men deserve to be put to death simply for being men when they are doing nothing to you or other women to oppress them, then we have an issue.
As mentioned already, though, some groups just will not be tolerated or accepted here due to them being morally corrupt and unsafe by nature. Are there people who belong to these groups who are safe? Perhaps... in extremely rare cases. But most that I have seen and come into contact with are most certainly NOT safe and will not be welcomed to this blog.
Here is the short version:
- DDLG/Daddy Dom Little Girl
- MDLB/Mommy Dom Little Boy
- DDLB/Daddy Dom Little Boy
- MDLG/Mommy Dom Little Girl
- CGL/Care Giver Little
- ABDL/Adult Baby Diaper Lover
- Ageplay
- ANY type of Littlespace and/or Age Regression that is NSFW
- Kink or kink-related
- Petplay
- Hybristophilia (paraphilia in which sexual arousal, facilitation, and attainment of orgasm are contingent upon being with a partner known to have cheated, lied, participated in infidelity, or committed a crime - such as rape or murder)
- Erotophonophilia (paraphilia in which sexual arousal and attainment of organism are contingent upon the death/murder of a human being)
- Transgender Pee Kink
- ANY kink revolving around urination or the passing of bowel movements
- Rabiosexuality
- Anything or anyone on the Virosexual spectrum
- Necrophilia
- Trad-wife
- Trad-fem
- RadFem or TERF or TWERF (like the ones in this video: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=9RuXrlASic0&list=PL6qeiiywoGbwy8VdT7lHhGSRXa0R7bmkr&index=6&t=8s )
- IPCE
- NAMBLA
- CSC
- Project Truth
- René Guyon Society
- MAP
- NoMAP/NMAP
- SoMAP
- Pedophile
- Pederast
- P.E.A.R. 🍐 (Pro Expression Anti Repression)
- Pedophile/Pedarest Apologists and Sympathizers
- ANY other glorification of attraction to children
- The aesthetics of Nymphet (also called nymphette, jailbait, doelette, coquette) and Faunlet
- Ero Kawaii (Japanese subculture that combines Western notions of sexiness and Japanese cuteness)
- Hospitalcore/Medcore
- Itami Kawaii (subgenre of kawaii that focuses on depressing and sad topics and imagery)
- Pukecore
- Yanderecore
- Body Horror
- Rape/Rapists
- Rape/Rapist Apologists and Sympathizers
- Incest
- Incest Apologists and Sympathizers
- Incels
- Incel Apologists and Sympathizers
- MGTOW/Men Going Their Own Way
- Anyone who identifies as an “alpha male” or “alpha male personality”
- People who claim to be “red-pilled”
- If you support child abuse of any kind or excuse it away as “discipline”
- Pro-spanking of any kind (sexual or otherwise)
- If you are pro-suicide or believe suicide-baiting and/or harassment is okay
- If you are disrespectful of people who have passed on who were victims of depression or suicide
- Beastiality
- Zoophilia
- Pro-animal abuse of any kind
- Pro-hunting-for-sport or pro-fishing-for-sport
- Extreme vegans or extreme vegetarians who believe humanely killing an animal for food is abusing them or are against hunting for necessary reasons
- Anti-feminism or anti-feminist
- Anti-egalitarianism
- Holocaust Deniers
- NSDAP/National Socialist German Workers' Party members
- NSDAP/National Socialist German Workers’ Party apologists and sympathizers
- Nazis
- Neonazis
- Nazi Apologists and Sympathizers
- Neonazi Apologists and Sympathizers
- Einsatzgruppen
- Schutzstaffel
- SS-Totenkopfverbände
- “Good Germans”
- Anything to do with the right-facing Swastika
- Bigotry of any kind (particularly against legitimate religions, romantic and sexual orientations, gender identities, neopronouns, neurodivergent people, mentally ill people, and mental disorders)
- Otherkin
- Otherkin Apologists and Sympathizers
- Fictionkin
- Fictionkin Apologists and Sympathizers
- If you use “autistic,” “gay,” “fag,” “qu*er,” “n*gger,” “ret*rded,” or any similar words as insults
- Support Autism Speaks
- Support PETA
- Support the YouTuber Onision/OnisionSpeaks/UhOhBro
- Belligerent antivaxxers
- Anyone who believes vaccines cause autism
- Anyone who is an extremist when it comes to abortion (pro-birthers or extreme pro-aborts)
- Exclusionists
- Racists
- Sexisists
- Porn blogs - hardcore or softcore
- SWERFs
- Any undue bigotry towards sex workers
- THINSPO
- Any people or blogs that glorify eating disorders
- Fatphobia
- Thinphobia
- Ableism/being mean to or oppressing Disabled people
- Anyone who is against d/Deaf and hard-of-hearing rights
- Anyone who unironically uses the terms “hearing loss” and “hearing impaired,” unless the d/Deaf person actually has lost their hearing or self-identifies that way
- Cringe blogs/people who support cringe culture
- People who spread misinformation around about DID/Dissociative Identity Disorder or who are anti-DID. (Alters are real and valid for people with DID - do NOT call them insane or stupid.)
Here is the long version with specifics and clarification for anyone who needs them:
DDLG/Daddy Dom Little Girl, MDLB/Mommy Dom Little Boy, DDLB/Daddy Dom Little Boy, MDLG/Mommy Dom Little Girl, CGL/Care Giver Little, ABDL/Adult Baby Diaper Lover, Ageplay, or ANY type of Littlespace and/or Age Regression that is NSFW. Yes, this does include anyone who calls someone Daddy or Mommy in a NSFW or sexual way. (SFW Littlespace or people who need Age Regression due to extreme trauma or other underlying issues are welcome and accepted here!) If you claim to be a SFW Littlespace or Age Regressor but are actually NSFW, I will immediately report and block you. Children and those who need these safe spaces deserve to be safe.
IPCE, NAMBLA, CSC, Project Truth, René Guyon Society, MAP, NoMAP/NMAP, SoMAP, Pedophile, Pederast, P.E.A.R. 🍐 (Pro Expression Anti Repression), or ANY other glorification of attraction to children. Children cannot consent in ANY situation. Children/Underage individuals - 0-17 years - deserve to be safe. Monsters who would compromise their safety aren’t EVER welcomed here.
If you are interested in or a part of the following aesthetics, stay away from me and my blog: Nymphet and/or Faunlet, Ero Kawaii, Hospitalcore, Itami Kawaii, Pukecore, Yanderecore, and Body Horror.
Rape or Incest blogs... or people who find no issues with these things. Also, rape apologists and sympathizers and incest apologists and sympathizers. Y’all are morally deprived and will NEVER be welcome here.
Incels, as well as Incel apologists and sympathizers will NEVER be welcome here. You know where the door is and can show yourself out.
MGTOW/Men Going Their Own Way - While this started off as a great idea to teach men that it is okay to be single and still enjoy life without a girlfriend or boyfriend, it quickly spun out of control when incels got involved. For that reason, please don’t interact with me if you are a part of this group.
Anyone who identifies as an “alpha male” or “alpha male personality” please don’t ever interact with me. Any man who claims to belong to these labels generally only wants to control women and not respect them. There’s the door, morons.
People who claim to be “red-pilled” but instead just use the label to excuse bad behavior towards women and other marginalized groups.
If you support child abuse of any kind or excuse it away as “discipline” you are NOT welcome here and you NEVER will be. Child abuse includes emotional, psychological, mental, financial, physical, and sexual abuse. It also includes spanking. If you are pro-spanking of any kind (sexual or otherwise), DO NOT INTERACT with this blog or with me.
If you are pro-suicide or believe suicide-baiting and/or harassment is okay, GFY.
If you are disrespectful of people who have passed on who were victims of depression or suicide, do not interact.
Bestiality or Zoophilia. Animals cannot offer or accept consent, so y’all ain’t welcome here.
People who are pro-animal abuse are not welcome. NOTE: I am not vegan or vegetarian. I am, however, staunchly against animal abuse. I am also against hunting and fishing unless it absolutely must be done - say, for example, if you are stranded somewhere and you are freezing cold and you kill an animal and skin it so you won’t freeze to death, and you then use the animal as food as well, and try to use every part of it for some purpose. That is okay in my book! But if you go out and just kill an animal because you can, or because you want some trophy on your wall? That is awful. If you are an extreme vegan or extreme vegetarian who believes humanely killing an animal for food is abusing them or you are against hunting for necessary reasons, do not interact with me.
Kink or Kink-related people or blogs. Some specific kinks that are DEFINITELY NOT welcome are Petplay, Hybristophilia (paraphilia in which sexual arousal, facilitation, and attainment of orgasm are contingent upon being with a partner known to have cheated, lied, participated in infidelity, or committed a crime—such as rape or murder), Erotophonophilia (paraphilia in which sexual arousal and attainment of organism are contingent upon the death/murder of a human being), Transgender Pee Fetish, ANY fetish revolving around urination or the passing of bowel movements, Rabiosexuality, anything or anyone on the Virosexual spectrum, and Necrophilia.
Trad-Wife or Trad-Fem. (These individuals may have some good ones among them who are good faith actors and are not claiming moral superiority over anyone, or those who legitimately enjoy the fashion around this type of behavior, but most will not be welcome due to their extremism, anti-feminism, and anti-egalitarianism.)
RadFem or TERF or TWERF (like the ones in this video: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=9RuXrlASic0&list=PL6qeiiywoGbwy8VdT7lHhGSRXa0R7bmkr&index=6&t=8s )
Anyone who is anti-feminism, anti-feminist, or anti-egalitarianism.
Holocaust Deniers, NSDAP/National Socialist German Workers' Party members or apologists or sympathizers, Nazis, Neonazis, Nazi Apologists and Sympathizers, Neonazi Apologists and Sympathizers, Einsatzgruppen, Schutzstaffel, SS-Totenkopfverbände, and “Good Germans.” Also, anything to do with the right-facing Swastika - the one used by the Nazis as a symbol that was stolen and changed from the original one that was used in Hinduism, Buddhism, and Jainism. (As someone with German heritage myself, I find extreme offense to anyone who adheres to these ideologies. Don’t ever interact with me.)
Bigotry of any kind, but particularly against certain legitimate religions, romantic and sexual orientations, gender identities, neopronouns, neurodivergent people, mentally ill people, and mental disorders. (Notice I said LEGITIMATE. There are some identities that I do not accept, like Fictionkin, Animekin, Otherkin, etc. If you are a LEGIT identity, like Genderfluid or Asexual, for example, then you are welcome here and this is a safe space for you. Additionally, I will use any pronouns you want, so long as they are legitimate. I won’t call anyone dog/dogself or tree/treeself but I will call people they/themselves or ey/emself, for example.)
If you are otherkin or are pro-otherkin, especially if you are fictionkin or are pro-fictionkin.
If you use “autistic,” “gay,” “fag,” “qu*er,” “n*gger,” “ret*rded,” or any similar words as insults.
If you support Autism Speaks. They are a terrible organization that is not at all for Autistic people’s rights.
If you support PETA. PETA is a nasty organization that steals, tortures, and kills animals. It also spreads misinformation about real animal rights.
If you support the YouTuber Onision/OnisionSpeaks/UhOhBro. He is a despicable human being and should never be supported.
If you are an outlandish and rude antivaxxer or someone who believes vaccines cause autism. (An allergy to mercury and various metals which are often found in vaccines can cause what seems to be autistic tendencies, but that is an allergic reaction and is not really autism. Additionally, being against vaccines for legitimate medical reasons is fine - for example, if someone is allergic to eggs or chicken and thusly cannot get vaccinated due to most vaccines containing chicken embryonic DNA, that is fine. Also, if you are against vaccines for ethical and moral reasons, that is also okay. Animals like chickens, mice, monkeys, cows, and pigs are often inhumanely tested on for vaccinations and also are often hurt in the process of removing the necessary components from them to make the vaccines. Being against vaccinations for this reason is also fine. Being an anti-vaxxer while ignoring science and putting others down who are pro-vaccination is NOT okay and will not be tolerated.)
If you are an extremist when it comes to abortion. I don’t care which side of the argument you are on - I will not accept pro-birthers or extreme pro-aborts. I understand “pro-birther” to mean those who claim that people must absolutely NEVER have an abortion, even when it is a case of life and death for the mother and child. It also refers to those who are against the general medical procedure of ectopic pregnancy abortions. I understand “extreme pro-aborts” to mean those who would abort in every circumstance and never want women to have children. It also applies to those who would force or coerce a woman into getting an abortion against her will. It also applies to those who support aborting a perfectly healthy baby due to only its biological sex or some other underlying condition (ex. “I wanted a baby boy and I am pregnant with a baby girl. Well, guess I gotta abort her and try again for a boy!” or “I wanted a NORMAL baby, not one with autism/down syndrome/disabilities/handicaps/etc.”).
If you consider yourself to be an exclusionist and are rude or loud about it. Respectful exclusionists may or may not be welcomed here - that is up to the blog owner to decide upon.
Racism and sexism are not tolerated here under any circumstances.
Porn blogs - hard or soft - and SWERFs, as well as any undue bigotry towards sex workers. (I don’t accept softcore or hardcore pornographic blogs interacting with me and my blog, but I also do not shame people in the industry unless they are taking unsafe measures and not keeping themselves healthy, regardless of gender or biological sex. Don’t shame people if they have willingly chosen such a job. If they were coerced or forced into such a job or are underage, then that is a massive issue that I do not tolerate. But if the person has chosen this work willingly, I won’t shame them for it... so long as they are being safe.)
THINSPO or any other people or blogs that glorify eating disorders. Also, anyone who is fatphobic or thinphobic. NOTE: If you object to being so overweight that you have severe medical problems or no longer have an average human shape (see “My 600 Pound Life” for references), then that is fine. What I mean by “fatphobia” is the idea that society shames, blames, and piles guilt upon those who are overweight or fat. If you willingly call people “porker” or “heifer” or any other nasty terms because of their higher weight numbers, you are NOT welcome here. As for thinphobia, objecting to legitimate medical issues like bulimia and/or anorexia is fine. Calling people “chicken legs” or saying that they “need to fatten up” or “get some meat on those bones” is NOT acceptable. Calling anyone any nasty names because of their lower weight numbers is NOT welcome here. (If you have an eating disorder then you are welcome, so long as you don’t think the disorder is a good thing, that everyone would benefit from having an eating disorder, or if you are refusing any type of help - professional or otherwise - with your eating disorder... may that help be planned for the future or current.)
Ableism. As someone who has PTSD and is disabled, ANY type of ableism - be it for physical reasons or mental/psychological reasons - will not be welcomed here. If you are mean, cruel, or oppressive towards anyone on the Disabled spectrum, please leave my blog alone and do not ever interact with me.
Anyone who is against d/Deaf and hard-of-hearing rights. Please also do not use the terms “hearing loss” or “hearing impaired” when referring to a d/Deaf person unless that person actually has lost their hearing or self-identifies that way.
Cringe blogs/people who support cringe culture are not welcome here. (Meme blogs are fine, so long as they don’t make fun of inoffensive interests of people.)
People who spread misinformation around about DID/Dissociative Identity Disorder or who are anti-DID. Alters are real and valid for people with DID - do NOT call them insane or stupid. They are dealing with trauma as well as they can.
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DO NOT INTERACT LIST
PLEASE DO NOT interact if you fit, are related to, are linked to, or identify as ANY of the descriptors below. Thanks.
If you do interact and I find that you do fit ANY of these descriptors, I reserve the right to block you and/or report you, depending on the severity of the tag you fit (I won’t report most kink blogs, for instance, but children deserve to feel safe so I will report any blog that is run by a pedophile or openly identifies as anything related to them).
Anyone who is a “bad faith actor” is not welcome. Generally this applies to concepts like politics, feminism, equality, etc. (If you are a “good faith actor” for any of these groups or others, then you are welcome! It’s the ones that aren’t being legitimate that I take issue with here.)
Extremism of any kind will not be tolerated. Most groups - with some exceptions below - are not extreme in nature. It’s the extremists that I find issue with. As an arbitrary example, if you belong to an Abrahamic religion (Jew, Christian, Muslim, etc.) you are welcome here... unless you fall into the category of extremist (for example, if you think that EVERYONE MUST convert to your religion and if they don’t they deserve to be murdered). Another example is feminism. You can be a feminist, and I don’t care how you identify - but if you are a radical feminist who claims that men deserve to be put to death simply for being men when they are doing nothing to you or other women to oppress them, then we have an issue.
As mentioned already, though, some groups just will not be tolerated or accepted here due to them being morally corrupt and unsafe by nature. Are there people who belong to these groups who are safe? Perhaps... in extremely rare cases. But most that I have seen and come into contact with are most certainly NOT safe and will not be welcomed to this blog.
Here is the short version:
- DDLG/Daddy Dom Little Girl
- MDLB/Mommy Dom Little Boy
- DDLB/Daddy Dom Little Boy
- MDLG/Mommy Dom Little Girl
- CGL/Care Giver Little
- ABDL/Adult Baby Diaper Lover
- Ageplay
- ANY type of Littlespace and/or Age Regression that is NSFW
- Kink or kink-related
- Petplay
- Hybristophilia (paraphilia in which sexual arousal, facilitation, and attainment of orgasm are contingent upon being with a partner known to have cheated, lied, participated in infidelity, or committed a crime - such as rape or murder)
- Erotophonophilia (paraphilia in which sexual arousal and attainment of organism are contingent upon the death/murder of a human being)
- Transgender Pee Kink
- ANY kink revolving around urination or the passing of bowel movements
- Rabiosexuality
- Anything or anyone on the Virosexual spectrum
- Necrophilia
- Trad-wife
- Trad-fem
- RadFem or TERF or TWERF (like the ones in this video: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=9RuXrlASic0&list=PL6qeiiywoGbwy8VdT7lHhGSRXa0R7bmkr&index=6&t=8s )
- IPCE
- NAMBLA
- CSC
- Project Truth
- René Guyon Society
- MAP
- NoMAP/NMAP
- SoMAP
- Pedophile
- Pederast
- P.E.A.R. 🍐 (Pro Expression Anti Repression)
- Pedophile/Pedarest Apologists and Sympathizers
- ANY other glorification of attraction to children
- The aesthetics of Nymphet (also called nymphette, jailbait, doelette, coquette) and Faunlet
- Ero Kawaii (Japanese subculture that combines Western notions of sexiness and Japanese cuteness)
- Hospitalcore/Medcore
- Itami Kawaii (subgenre of kawaii that focuses on depressing and sad topics and imagery)
- Pukecore
- Yanderecore
- Body Horror
- Rape/Rapists
- Rape/Rapist Apologists and Sympathizers
- Incest
- Incest Apologists and Sympathizers
- Incels
- Incel Apologists and Sympathizers
- MGTOW/Men Going Their Own Way
- Anyone who identifies as an “alpha male” or “alpha male personality”
- People who claim to be “red-pilled”
- If you support child abuse of any kind or excuse it away as “discipline”
- Pro-spanking of any kind (sexual or otherwise)
- If you are pro-suicide or believe suicide-baiting and/or harassment is okay
- If you are disrespectful of people who have passed on who were victims of depression or suicide
- Beastiality
- Zoophilia
- Pro-animal abuse of any kind
- Pro-hunting-for-sport or pro-fishing-for-sport
- Extreme vegans or extreme vegetarians who believe humanely killing an animal for food is abusing them or are against hunting for necessary reasons
- Anti-feminism or anti-feminist
- Anti-egalitarianism
- Holocaust Deniers
- NSDAP/National Socialist German Workers' Party members
- NSDAP/National Socialist German Workers’ Party apologists and sympathizers
- Nazis
- Neonazis
- Nazi Apologists and Sympathizers
- Neonazi Apologists and Sympathizers
- Einsatzgruppen
- Schutzstaffel
- SS-Totenkopfverbände
- “Good Germans”
- Anything to do with the right-facing Swastika
- Bigotry of any kind (particularly against legitimate religions, romantic and sexual orientations, gender identities, neopronouns, neurodivergent people, mentally ill people, and mental disorders)
- Otherkin
- Otherkin Apologists and Sympathizers
- Fictionkin
- Fictionkin Apologists and Sympathizers
- If you use “autistic,” “gay,” “fag,” “qu*er,” “n*gger,” “ret*rded,” or any similar words as insults
- Support Autism Speaks
- Support PETA
- Support the YouTuber Onision/OnisionSpeaks/UhOhBro
- Belligerent antivaxxers
- Anyone who believes vaccines cause autism
- Anyone who is an extremist when it comes to abortion (pro-birthers or extreme pro-aborts)
- Exclusionists
- Racists
- Sexisists
- Porn blogs - hardcore or softcore
- SWERFs
- Any undue bigotry towards sex workers
- THINSPO
- Any people or blogs that glorify eating disorders
- Fatphobia
- Thinphobia
- Ableism/being mean to or oppressing Disabled people
- Anyone who is against d/Deaf and hard-of-hearing rights
- Anyone who unironically uses the terms “hearing loss” and “hearing impaired,” unless the d/Deaf person actually has lost their hearing or self-identifies that way
- Cringe blogs/people who support cringe culture
- People who spread misinformation around about DID/Dissociative Identity Disorder or who are anti-DID. (Alters are real and valid for people with DID - do NOT call them insane or stupid.)
Here is the long version with specifics and clarification for anyone who needs them:
DDLG/Daddy Dom Little Girl, MDLB/Mommy Dom Little Boy, DDLB/Daddy Dom Little Boy, MDLG/Mommy Dom Little Girl, CGL/Care Giver Little, ABDL/Adult Baby Diaper Lover, Ageplay, or ANY type of Littlespace and/or Age Regression that is NSFW. Yes, this does include anyone who calls someone Daddy or Mommy in a NSFW or sexual way. (SFW Littlespace or people who need Age Regression due to extreme trauma or other underlying issues are welcome and accepted here!) If you claim to be a SFW Littlespace or Age Regressor but are actually NSFW, I will immediately report and block you. Children and those who need these safe spaces deserve to be safe.
IPCE, NAMBLA, CSC, Project Truth, René Guyon Society, MAP, NoMAP/NMAP, SoMAP, Pedophile, Pederast, P.E.A.R. 🍐 (Pro Expression Anti Repression), or ANY other glorification of attraction to children. Children cannot consent in ANY situation. Children/Underage individuals - 0-17 years - deserve to be safe. Monsters who would compromise their safety aren’t EVER welcomed here.
If you are interested in or a part of the following aesthetics, stay away from me and my blog: Nymphet and/or Faunlet, Ero Kawaii, Hospitalcore, Itami Kawaii, Pukecore, Yanderecore, and Body Horror.
Rape or Incest blogs... or people who find no issues with these things. Also, rape apologists and sympathizers and incest apologists and sympathizers. Y’all are morally deprived and will NEVER be welcome here.
Incels, as well as Incel apologists and sympathizers will NEVER be welcome here. You know where the door is and can show yourself out.
MGTOW/Men Going Their Own Way - While this started off as a great idea to teach men that it is okay to be single and still enjoy life without a girlfriend or boyfriend, it quickly spun out of control when incels got involved. For that reason, please don’t interact with me if you are a part of this group.
Anyone who identifies as an “alpha male” or “alpha male personality” please don’t ever interact with me. Any man who claims to belong to these labels generally only wants to control women and not respect them. There’s the door, morons.
People who claim to be “red-pilled” but instead just use the label to excuse bad behavior towards women and other marginalized groups.
If you support child abuse of any kind or excuse it away as “discipline” you are NOT welcome here and you NEVER will be. Child abuse includes emotional, psychological, mental, financial, physical, and sexual abuse. It also includes spanking. If you are pro-spanking of any kind (sexual or otherwise), DO NOT INTERACT with this blog or with me.
If you are pro-suicide or believe suicide-baiting and/or harassment is okay, GFY.
If you are disrespectful of people who have passed on who were victims of depression or suicide, do not interact.
Bestiality or Zoophilia. Animals cannot offer or accept consent, so y’all ain’t welcome here.
People who are pro-animal abuse are not welcome. NOTE: I am not vegan or vegetarian. I am, however, staunchly against animal abuse. I am also against hunting and fishing unless it absolutely must be done - say, for example, if you are stranded somewhere and you are freezing cold and you kill an animal and skin it so you won’t freeze to death, and you then use the animal as food as well, and try to use every part of it for some purpose. That is okay in my book! But if you go out and just kill an animal because you can, or because you want some trophy on your wall? That is awful. If you are an extreme vegan or extreme vegetarian who believes humanely killing an animal for food is abusing them or you are against hunting for necessary reasons, do not interact with me.
Kink or Kink-related people or blogs. Some specific kinks that are DEFINITELY NOT welcome are Petplay, Hybristophilia (paraphilia in which sexual arousal, facilitation, and attainment of orgasm are contingent upon being with a partner known to have cheated, lied, participated in infidelity, or committed a crime—such as rape or murder), Erotophonophilia (paraphilia in which sexual arousal and attainment of organism are contingent upon the death/murder of a human being), Transgender Pee Fetish, ANY fetish revolving around urination or the passing of bowel movements, Rabiosexuality, anything or anyone on the Virosexual spectrum, and Necrophilia.
Trad-Wife or Trad-Fem. (These individuals may have some good ones among them who are good faith actors and are not claiming moral superiority over anyone, or those who legitimately enjoy the fashion around this type of behavior, but most will not be welcome due to their extremism, anti-feminism, and anti-egalitarianism.)
RadFem or TERF or TWERF (like the ones in this video: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=9RuXrlASic0&list=PL6qeiiywoGbwy8VdT7lHhGSRXa0R7bmkr&index=6&t=8s )
Anyone who is anti-feminism, anti-feminist, or anti-egalitarianism.
Holocaust Deniers, NSDAP/National Socialist German Workers' Party members or apologists or sympathizers, Nazis, Neonazis, Nazi Apologists and Sympathizers, Neonazi Apologists and Sympathizers, Einsatzgruppen, Schutzstaffel, SS-Totenkopfverbände, and “Good Germans.” Also, anything to do with the right-facing Swastika - the one used by the Nazis as a symbol that was stolen and changed from the original one that was used in Hinduism, Buddhism, and Jainism. (As someone with German heritage myself, I find extreme offense to anyone who adheres to these ideologies. Don’t ever interact with me.)
Bigotry of any kind, but particularly against certain legitimate religions, romantic and sexual orientations, gender identities, neopronouns, neurodivergent people, mentally ill people, and mental disorders. (Notice I said LEGITIMATE. There are some identities that I do not accept, like Fictionkin, Animekin, Otherkin, etc. If you are a LEGIT identity, like Genderfluid or Asexual, for example, then you are welcome here and this is a safe space for you. Additionally, I will use any pronouns you want, so long as they are legitimate. I won’t call anyone dog/dogself or tree/treeself but I will call people they/themselves or ey/emself, for example.)
If you are otherkin or are pro-otherkin, especially if you are fictionkin or are pro-fictionkin.
If you use “autistic,” “gay,” “fag,” “qu*er,” “n*gger,” “ret*rded,” or any similar words as insults.
If you support Autism Speaks. They are a terrible organization that is not at all for Autistic people’s rights.
If you support PETA. PETA is a nasty organization that steals, tortures, and kills animals. It also spreads misinformation about real animal rights.
If you support the YouTuber Onision/OnisionSpeaks/UhOhBro. He is a despicable human being and should never be supported.
If you are an outlandish and rude antivaxxer or someone who believes vaccines cause autism. (An allergy to mercury and various metals which are often found in vaccines can cause what seems to be autistic tendencies, but that is an allergic reaction and is not really autism. Additionally, being against vaccines for legitimate medical reasons is fine - for example, if someone is allergic to eggs or chicken and thusly cannot get vaccinated due to most vaccines containing chicken embryonic DNA, that is fine. Also, if you are against vaccines for ethical and moral reasons, that is also okay. Animals like chickens, mice, monkeys, cows, and pigs are often inhumanely tested on for vaccinations and also are often hurt in the process of removing the necessary components from them to make the vaccines. Being against vaccinations for this reason is also fine. Being an anti-vaxxer while ignoring science and putting others down who are pro-vaccination is NOT okay and will not be tolerated.)
If you are an extremist when it comes to abortion. I don’t care which side of the argument you are on - I will not accept pro-birthers or extreme pro-aborts. I understand “pro-birther” to mean those who claim that people must absolutely NEVER have an abortion, even when it is a case of life and death for the mother and child. It also refers to those who are against the general medical procedure of ectopic pregnancy abortions. I understand “extreme pro-aborts” to mean those who would abort in every circumstance and never want women to have children. It also applies to those who would force or coerce a woman into getting an abortion against her will. It also applies to those who support aborting a perfectly healthy baby due to only its biological sex or some other underlying condition (ex. “I wanted a baby boy and I am pregnant with a baby girl. Well, guess I gotta abort her and try again for a boy!” or “I wanted a NORMAL baby, not one with autism/down syndrome/disabilities/handicaps/etc.”).
If you consider yourself to be an exclusionist and are rude or loud about it. Respectful exclusionists may or may not be welcomed here - that is up to the blog owner to decide upon.
Racism and sexism are not tolerated here under any circumstances.
Porn blogs - hard or soft - and SWERFs, as well as any undue bigotry towards sex workers. (I don’t accept softcore or hardcore pornographic blogs interacting with me and my blog, but I also do not shame people in the industry unless they are taking unsafe measures and not keeping themselves healthy, regardless of gender or biological sex. Don’t shame people if they have willingly chosen such a job. If they were coerced or forced into such a job or are underage, then that is a massive issue that I do not tolerate. But if the person has chosen this work willingly, I won’t shame them for it... so long as they are being safe.)
THINSPO or any other people or blogs that glorify eating disorders. Also, anyone who is fatphobic or thinphobic. NOTE: If you object to being so overweight that you have severe medical problems or no longer have an average human shape (see “My 600 Pound Life” for references), then that is fine. What I mean by “fatphobia” is the idea that society shames, blames, and piles guilt upon those who are overweight or fat. If you willingly call people “porker” or “heifer” or any other nasty terms because of their higher weight numbers, you are NOT welcome here. As for thinphobia, objecting to legitimate medical issues like bulimia and/or anorexia is fine. Calling people “chicken legs” or saying that they “need to fatten up” or “get some meat on those bones” is NOT acceptable. Calling anyone any nasty names because of their lower weight numbers is NOT welcome here. (If you have an eating disorder then you are welcome, so long as you don’t think the disorder is a good thing, that everyone would benefit from having an eating disorder, or if you are refusing any type of help - professional or otherwise - with your eating disorder... may that help be planned for the future or current.)
Ableism. As someone who has PTSD and is disabled, ANY type of ableism - be it for physical reasons or mental/psychological reasons - will not be welcomed here. If you are mean, cruel, or oppressive towards anyone on the Disabled spectrum, please leave my blog alone and do not ever interact with me.
Anyone who is against d/Deaf and hard-of-hearing rights. Please also do not use the terms “hearing loss” or “hearing impaired” when referring to a d/Deaf person unless that person actually has lost their hearing or self-identifies that way.
Cringe blogs/people who support cringe culture are not welcome here. (Meme blogs are fine, so long as they don’t make fun of inoffensive interests of people.)
People who spread misinformation around about DID/Dissociative Identity Disorder or who are anti-DID. Alters are real and valid for people with DID - do NOT call them insane or stupid. They are dealing with trauma as well as they can.
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Bernie Sanders suffers from Great Man syndrome. It afflicts all white men, some worse than others and it can’t be cured. In Bernie world Hillary’s popularity was only “because she was a woman.” Bernie’s followers lap up this hogwash because they don’t know any better, because they too have been conditioned to believe what the Great Man says no matter what. But Hillary, of course, was speaking up for the Obama coalition, that was black mothers of shooting victims (she was criticized for this, of course), women and children all over the world and here in the US (and criticized for this). She offered practical solutions to difficult problems that were actually workable. She didn’t make false promises like a false prophet, like a god. Hillary had a great plan for dealing with college debt, and wanted to extend and improve the Affordable Care Act. Hillary actually knew she could do the job well but like so many of us women know, not only aren’t we trusted to do the job, no one believes we CAN do the job.
I’m sorry that Bernie said what he said about Hillary and women. It fed into the warped frenzy of misogyny that overtook his so-called revolution. He still thinks, and his followers think, that he would have beaten Trump. He couldn’t even win in the primary. There was no rigging, there was no collusion. She won four million more votes that he did. The people chose HER and not him. All Bernie did was help Trump win. He knows this, which is why he’s now on a desperate speaking tour to not become Ralph Nader in he public’s eyes. Blame Hillary, blame the democrats. Do anything BUT blame Bernie. And Bernie is exactly who deserves much of the blame for what he’s done, what he is still doing, to ensure the democrats lose and lose again in four years.
Would Bernie have beaten Trump? The answer is no one can say for sure but I would guess that absolutely no, he could not have. Here are the reasons why.
But first, you might be inclined to say, “we’re fighting a fascist, why aren’t we uniting against Trump?” he reason is that we can’t unite because we are deeply and sharply divided still. 2.5 million more votes than Trump is what Hillary Clinton will have had by the end of the election. He won but just barely. He won the electoral college by going after the Bernie voters and counting on third party voters to sabotage Hillary’s lead and it worked. Bernie Sanders must take responsibility for his part in this or there will be no moving forward. You can’t lie to people when the evidence is right in front of them.
Historically speaking, this election was always the Republican’s to lose. The pendulum swing of American election cycles is maddeningly predictable: Both parties find it hard to hold onto the White House for more than 2 terms in a row. Reagan did it. But he’s really the only one in recent history. JFK and FDR both died in office and that’s the only way we ever got a successor elected, since the 1800s. We had one shot to win for the Democrats and that was to make the case that the last eight years were working for Americans, that Obama’s policies and presidency had been a success, and that we wanted four more years to finish what he had started, to overcome the obstructionist roadblocks, and buttress the Obama legacy with a Supreme Court that would work to uphold his great strides. But Bernie Sanders ran a campaign as a newly minted Democrat against the Democrats! With that reckless miscalculation, he lost this election for himself and for Hillary before it even started. His entire campaign became a beta test commercial for Trump’s candidacy, as Trump noted which Hillary attacks had traction and adopted every single talking point (minus the free college and free healthcare) that Bernie had hammered her with. Bernie helped Trump immeasurably. Bernie knew could not have beaten Trump unless he’d been Obama’s chosen successor and be handed the baton to continue Obama’s policies. Since that wasn’t happening, Bernie’s only option was to tell voters that nothing about the past two terms was good enough for the American people. He made that case that the Democrats had fallen short. A ridiculous claim, but several thousand people in key states fell for it. Sure, after he lost the nomination Bernie tried to change horses mid-stream but it never really worked for him. By then, he had convinced a few million voters in his flock that Hillary was too corrupt to deserve their vote. 3 or 4 million of his most fervid supporters could never snap out of their brainwashing. If anything, some felt doubly betrayed, and many of them turned on Bernie, called him a “sellout” when got behind Hillary.
The Republicans had major opposition research ready to launch on Bernie Sanders that would have made his numbers drop quickly significantly in the polls. But Bernie was never attacked by Hillary’s team, nor by the GOP. Ask yourself why and the reason is obvious. The GOP wanted to run against Bernie. They knew they had far more volatile stuff to dump on him that the whimpering “emails, emails, emails” chant that had lost all its pizazz. Their strategy was to leave Bernie alone because the better Bernie looked, the worse Hillary looked. Newsweek’s Kurt Eichenwald laid out some of that oppo research and this is what he found:
Here are a few tastes of what was in store for Sanders, straight out of the Republican playbook: He thinks rape is A-OK. In 1972, when he was 31, Sanders wrote a fictitious essay in which he described a woman enjoying being raped by three men. Yes, there is an explanation for it — a long, complicated one, just like the one that would make clear why the Clinton emails story was nonsense. And we all know how well that worked out.
Then there’s the fact that Sanders was on unemployment until his mid-30s, and that he stole electricity from a neighbor after failing to pay his bills, and that he co-sponsored a bill to ship Vermont’s nuclear waste to a poor Hispanic community in Texas, where it could be dumped. You can just see the words “environmental racist” on Republican billboards. And if you can’t, I already did. They were in the Republican opposition research book as a proposal on how to frame the nuclear waste issue.
Also on the list: Sanders violated campaign finance laws, criticized Clinton for supporting the 1994 crime bill that he voted for, and he voted against the Amber Alert system. His pitch for universal health care would have been used against him too, since it was tried in his home state of Vermont and collapsed due to excessive costs. Worst of all, the Republicans also had video of Sanders at a 1985 rally thrown by the leftist Sandinista government in Nicaragua where half a million people chanted, “Here, there, everywhere/the Yankee will die,’’ while President Daniel Ortega condemned “state terrorism” by America. Sanders said, on camera, supporting the Sandinistas was “patriotic.”
The Republicans had at least four other damning Sanders videos (I don’t know what they showed), and the opposition research folder was almost 2-feet thick. (The section calling him a communist with connections to Castro alone would have cost him Florida.) In other words, the belief that Sanders would have walked into the White House based on polls taken before anyone reallyattacked him is a delusion built on a scaffolding of political ignorance.
Unfortunately, Sanders supporters think he’s god-like and thus, they rely solely on those inflated poll numbers. Nate Silver would tell them that you can’t really trust polls until you’ve seen the candidate “punched” completely by the opposition party. Silver thinks now it was a mistake for Hillary not to attack him because now no one will ever believe he could have been attacked the way she has been for decades. To them, Hillary had it coming but the truth is Bernie has never been considered a threat enough TO ATTACK in the first place.
3. Bernie is Jewish (as am I in case you want to start blamesplaining). He’s a socialist. And he’s an atheist. Do I need to explain this one? Obama might have been black but he was Christian. A man of faith. And though he was accused of being a socialist he is not. Bernie actually is! Has always been a socialist, bragged about being one, has expressed an affinity for Fidel Castro on video, and hates the Democratic party for not being leftist enough. The Jewish part is a touchy subject, but we have to be realistic about the American “heartland.” Is flyover America ready for a Jew in the White House? Let’s ask Joe Lieberman. Or how about ask voters in 40 states who have never sent a Jewish senator to Washington D.C. Ever. 40 states. Never Elected. A Jewish Senator. In 230 years. Are Ohio, North Carolina, Florida, Wisconsin, Pennsylvania, suddenly ready to see a Jew in the Oval Office? I do not believe they are. Not in the America that just elected Donald Trump. They aren’t even ready for a woman. The Bernie people don’t seem to know this other half of America exists. To Bernie and his supporters all those people who just voted for Trump are did so because Bernie wasn’t on the ballot. Seriously, that’s what they think.
4. Bernie Sanders promised to raise taxes on just about everyone, even a small amount on the middle class. If you think any politician can win a national election by saying they are going to raise taxes on the middle class, you have another think coming. Yes, Bernie’s ideas on trade, and certainly on the climate, are appealing to most but his platform was predicated on making the government pay for everything. When you put together his own history of never having a job for his first 30 years as an adult, never really earning a paycheck that wasn’t from the government, you can fill out the bubbles from there, right? You can visualize the Republican TV ads, yes? Please tell me you can.
5. He couldn’t win the primary. In the Land of Nod , the sad fable is that Bernie was cheated by the DNC. That’s what the Republicans wanted the Berners to believe, that’s the story they seeded, nurtured and harvested, and so it was! The most hardcore Berniacs threw one hissy fit after another, stoned Wasserman-Schultz, threatened to bust up the convention all because Hillary Clinton won more votes. He lost. Not by a little, by a lot. 55% — 43%. But for a huge number of his sullen supporters, if Bernie couldn’t have the prize, the no one could. That was their attitude. But the fact is Bernie’s supporters simply didn’t vote in large enough numbers. They didn’t even vote down ballot during the primaries. They didn’t vote for any of the progressive candidates Bernie had anointed, like Russ Finegold and Zephyr Teachout. For all their demonizing of Debbie Wasserman-Schultz, they couldn’t even be bthered to vote for her Bernie-certified opponent Tim Canova. The “revolution” was failing at every level, all across the country. The giddy crowds showed up at rallies but apparently standing in line to vote wasn’t exciting enough. Maybe no one ever taught these people about government. They certainly don’t seem to know much about safeguards the three branches help ensure. Bernie Sanders lost so badly in the South he never could have won the general election with those kinds of numbers even with Hillary out of the way. His excuse? “Oh, they’re just too deeply conservative in the south.” And worse: “Oh, they’re not educated about the issues.” Great way to connect with black voters, there, Professor Sanders! Dismiss them as being too ill-informed to know what’s good for them. Charming. Perhaps if Bernie had one more year of campaigning to strengthen his weaknesses, he might have got a better toehold. But he didn’t. The theory is that good reasonable Democrats would shunned him the primaries would have come ‘round and voted for him in the general. But I’m betting many would have fled altogether and voted for Trump, for the three following reasons.
6. a) Isis. If you didn’t get that Isis was a big part of this election you were living in a bubble, a fantasy bubble where your biggest fear is fracking. But the news that most people watch like CNN or Fox News? It’s all Isis all the time. Fear of Isis is pumped into their living rooms around the clock and it’s become ingrained in our national reality. These voters aren’t staring at Facebook and reading biased boutique news sites that tell progressive liberals what they want to hear (gluten free water cures cancer!). They’re looking around at the world from their own homes and they’re scared. Whether Bernie and his minions thought Isis was a threat is irrelevant. The voters clearly did and they thought it in a big way. It’s an issue much more important to a truckdriver than free college. And there are millions of longhaul truckdrivers. Trump and Hillary Clinton both mopped the floor with Bernie Sanders on Isis and terrorism and foreign policy. Remember the Daily News interview? Bernie forgot to study for that exam. 6. b) Economy. Trump pretended to be Bernie’s best friend because it made Hillary look bad. He used Bernie like a bar rag, sopping up the stale foam of angry white dudes, hipster or otherwise, who could not believe their Feel-the-Bern icon of virtue had been beaten by a girl. 6. c) Immigration. See 6a) and 6b) Because the greatest trick Trump ever pulled was convincing a stunningly large swath of white Americans that all their terrorism fears and the economic woes would magically evaporate if we could only Build That Wall. So it was all about Isis, the economy, and immigration. It was in the beginning, it was in the end, and it is now. Trump would have crushed Sanders on those key points alone and it wouldn’t have even been hard.
7. Bernie is in it for Bernie. He probably would have chosen Cornel West as his running mate, but it’s pretty clear he would not have chosen anyone he would want to share the stage with, because he didn’t like sharing the stage with anyone, not even his poor wife. (“Don’t stand next to me!”) So his veep would have been… who knows. Certainly not dynamo Elizabeth Warren. She would have swooped in like Bernie’s charismatic caregiver. Although in the dreamland of liberal utopia it would have been Sanders and Warren. But even that duo would have lost and lost badly to Trump. Outside the major cities where most of us dwell, the majority of Americans saw Trump and Sanders as different species of outsiders. That’s both funny sad, because Bernie only seemed like an outsider, because nobody in 49 states had ever heard of him before last year, despite his decades in public office. So given that choice, to those voters, Trump would have been basically Bernie except glitzy capitalism instead of scary socialism, Trump was Bernie except with a strong hand against terrorism instead of weak one. Trump was Bernie except with the sultry MILF by his side. None of this would have sat well with a man as vain as Bernie Sanders. Bernie would have been pressured by his all-or-nothing followers to pick a progressive veep so now you’ve got the Bernie progressive vote, you’ve got some of the loyalist Democrats, but you’ve lost ALL of the moderates who are too freaked out about taxes and Isis to take a chance on a radically left ticket.
8. Change in America is incremental and slow. It does not come quickly. After two terms of a Democratic president, the American people have never and will never move farther to the outer reaches in the same direction of the party in power. America is populated by mostly moderates who care more about paying taxes (or not) than just about anything else. Whatever Bernie is offering, this is an electorate that could barely accept Obamacare because they thought it was socialism — what kind of a crackpot does one have to be to think Americans would be ready to veer all the way to 100% government-run health care? They wouldn’t. They won’t. Not yet. I’m so sick of having this conversation with people and if Bernie Sanders runs in 2020 then and only then will they understand, just like the McGovern supporters learned and the Nader voters. You learn that ugly lesson once. For those of us who have lived through people learning that lesson, to watch it learned over again is not just frustrating, it’s tragic. All the left seems able to do is put republicans in power, until they get a clue about what America is and what America isn’t.
9. Liberals were living in a bubble of illusion, including and especially the Berniecrats. They were following what the media kept saying and the media focused entirely too much on Sanders — only when he hurt Hillary. They never focused on his policies. They didn’t want to talk policy. Policy is boring. Let’s watch the scrappy senator take down the powerful woman. Let’s watch Trump take Hillary down. That’s what they were invested in. And they lulled Americans into falsely believing the democrats had it in the bag. This is true now and it would have been true if Bernie won. The only difference is that now Bernie would have to find another scapegoat to explain what would have been a landslide loss for him. But the polls, they would cry, the polls! Because the polls were all they had and the polls were wrong when it came to Trump. They were wrong. Liberals need to break out of that bubble because the joke is on us. America is laughing at us and our hysteria and in order to save the environment, fight for civil and LGBT rights we have to get smarter about it and getting smarter about it does not include living in a deluded fantasy that “Bernie would have won.” No, he wouldn’t have.
10. You can’t lead the democratic party and focus only on the white working class as Bernie did. You can’t lead the democratic party by not acknowledging the success of its two term president, Barack Obama. You can’t lead the democratic party by perpetuating the false notion that Hillary Clinton was only where she was because she was a woman. The democratic party is not the party of the white working class. It stands for a bigger, broader group than that. Bernie writes it off as “identity politics” but it’s bigger than that because America, and the world, are changing. Hillary has more of a record of action than Bernie ever had in 30 years. To discount that is to tell a lie. If you tell enough lies sooner or later they catch up with you and Bernie’s would have caught up with him. He should never have divided the democrats the way he did. He should never have influenced so many young people not to choose pragmatism.
On top of our deep sense of sadness (and yes, everlasting anger) over the way this election was manipulated by the FBI, by WikiLeaks, by Putin, by news media both slanted and fake — it’s just exhausting two weeks later to have to listen to Bernie’s simplistic lectures about the Democrats “failure to connect” with the white working class, and scolded for not seeming to know what people in America care about. It has become depressing and tiresome to watch Bernie continue to blame Hillary even now. Had he ever tried to discourage the character assassination against her early on, we would have had a chance. But Bernie could not stand it that Hillary was beating him. He still can’t stand it and he still can’t believe it. It’s time for him to stop already. Just stop.
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If you are an extremist when it comes to abortion. I don’t care which side of the argument you are on - I will not accept pro-birthers or extreme pro-aborts. I understand “pro-birther” to mean those who claim that people must absolutely NEVER have an abortion, even when it is a case of life and death for the mother and child. It also refers to those who are against the general medical procedure of ectopic pregnancy abortions. I understand “extreme pro-aborts” to mean those who would abort in every circumstance and never want women to have children. It also applies to those who would force or coerce a woman into getting an abortion against her will. It also applies to those who support aborting a perfectly healthy baby due to only its biological sex or some other underlying condition (ex. “I wanted a baby boy and I am pregnant with a baby girl. Well, guess I gotta abort her and try again for a boy!” or “I wanted a NORMAL baby, not one with autism/down syndrome/disabilities/handicaps/etc.”).
If you consider yourself to be an exclusionist and are rude or loud about it. Respectful exclusionists may or may not be welcomed here - that is up to the blog owner to decide upon.
Racism and sexism are not tolerated here under any circumstances.
Porn blogs - hard or soft - and SWERFs, as well as any undue bigotry towards sex workers. (I don’t accept softcore or hardcore pornographic blogs interacting with me and my blog, but I also do not shame people in the industry unless they are taking unsafe measures and not keeping themselves healthy, regardless of gender or biological sex. Don’t shame people if they have willingly chosen such a job. If they were coerced or forced into such a job or are underage, then that is a massive issue that I do not tolerate. But if the person has chosen this work willingly, I won’t shame them for it... so long as they are being safe.)
THINSPO or any other people or blogs that glorify eating disorders. Also, anyone who is fatphobic or thinphobic. NOTE: If you object to being so overweight that you have severe medical problems or no longer have an average human shape (see “My 600 Pound Life” for references), then that is fine. What I mean by “fatphobia” is the idea that society shames, blames, and piles guilt upon those who are overweight or fat. If you willingly call people “porker” or “heifer” or any other nasty terms because of their higher weight numbers, you are NOT welcome here. As for thinphobia, objecting to legitimate medical issues like bulimia and/or anorexia is fine. Calling people “chicken legs” or saying that they “need to fatten up” or “get some meat on those bones” is NOT acceptable. Calling anyone any nasty names because of their lower weight numbers is NOT welcome here. (If you have an eating disorder then you are welcome, so long as you don’t think the disorder is a good thing, that everyone would benefit from having an eating disorder, or if you are refusing any type of help - professional or otherwise - with your eating disorder... may that help be planned for the future or current.)
Ableism. As someone who has PTSD and is disabled, ANY type of ableism - be it for physical reasons or mental/psychological reasons - will not be welcomed here. If you are mean, cruel, or oppressive towards anyone on the Disabled spectrum, please leave my blog alone and do not ever interact with me.
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Cringe blogs/people who support cringe culture are not welcome here. (Meme blogs are fine, so long as they don’t make fun of inoffensive interests of people.)
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Let’s clear up this hooey with “orlandomakeup” right here, right now.
* * * TW: Mentions of violence, attempted murder, rape culture, abuse, a suicide attempt, alcohol (spiked drink) and severe bullying. * * *
This post was typed with a calm mind. It’s not an angry retaliation. I want to set the facts straight on this issue. I have no desire for anyone to send hate to orlandomakeup or boycott them-- I only encourage a boycott of anything that supports Autism Speaks.
This person is not keen on keeping facts straight. They’re projecting their own behavior onto me. I’m merely laying out the facts and letting the rest of the chips fall where they may.
(Note: I made some minor edits and corrections because I was interrupted several times while trying to type this and it posted to my blog instead of drafts for some reason. It should all be correct now as of 1:35pm PST on August 5, 2017.)
First off, it sounds like orlandomakeup is a caregiver and not autistic themselves. The artist is not the problem, it’s the person promoting their art. I think the artist is unaware that Autism Speaks is harmful, but orlandomakeup seems to conveniently leave off any means of contacting the artist who painted the artwork.
Anyway, here’s the facts of what happened.
My reblog of the post in question. Orlandomakeup deleted the original, so you won’t find it on their page unless they reposted it from scratch.  http://butterflyinthewell.tumblr.com/post/163797108223/orlandomakeup-buy-a-painting-and-support-autism
They responded via the post comment system. It’s on the post, but I’ll put the text of it here, too: (images of the art left off to prevent the screenshot from getting huge, you can see them if you click the link I shared above.)
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Their text on the post: 
“Buy a painting and support autism. 10% of sale will be donated to Autism Speaks. Painting created through the eyes of autism.
White snowflake on cobalt blue background. Acrylic paint. Small amount of blue glitter for added sparkle. Feeling of calm, winter, peace, tranquility, contentment. 16"x20" canvas.
#autism #autistic #abstractart #artforautism #aspergerssyndrome #autismspectrumdisorders #highfunctiningautism #autismspeaks #autisticartist #autismawareness #autismsupport #photooftheday #potd #abstractart #aspergers #lifewithautism #artforaspergers
(Ebay link left off to avoid it getting clicks.)”
My reblog text:  
“Don’t buy this art. The money goes to a charity that harms autistic people. I wish the OP would support ASAN instead at autisticadvocacy.org because that charity really helps autistic people without trying to silence or erase us.”
And their comment
“The artist is autistic, and Autism Speaks has never harmed her. You speak of bullying yet you bully. The artist has been bullied everyday of her life due to autism. She has even been held by gun and knife, shot and stabbed at, and beaten until left nearly for dead. Your hate exemplifies why people are bullies towards those of us with autism.”
They’re calling me a bully because I reblogged the linked post above and told people not to buy “this art” because it’s supporting Autism Speaks and said I wished the artist would support ASAN instead. ASAN (Autistic Self-Advocacy Network) is a charity run by autistic people that actually helps autistic people and not parents / caregivers / anybody except the actually autistic people. 
They equated my behavior to being bullied-- to being shot, stabbed, beaten, etc. Just...what? I was bullied in nearly the same way for being autistic, same as the artist. I was never shot at (thank God), but for all 4 years of high school I was threatened with rape and murder, survived a murder attempt, narrowly escaped a rape situation by refusing a drink spiked with vodka that would’ve intoxicated me to a blackout, I endured public humiliation on an almost daily basis and attempted suicide once because none of the authority figures who were supposed to protect me did shit to stop the bullying...
...and orlandomakeup is equating my saying “don’t buy this art because it supports Autism Speaks” to THAT?
Wow, talk about trivializing bullying. Just wow.
At no point do I say “ewww, don’t by this artist’s art ever!” or “eew, this art is ugly!” or “the artist sucks!”
All I did was point out that buying that art will support Autism Speaks, a charity that harms autistic people. 
Orlandomakeup is defending Autism Speaks on the grounds that “it never hurt them (the autistic artist)”.
Again, I need to remind people that defending a person or organization as “good” because “it / they didn’t hurt me / this person!” is like saying someone who abuses their spouse is a good person because they distribute food at a homeless shelter. That person may help the poor, but they still go home and beat the shit out of their spouse and they are NOT a good person.
Likewise, Autism Speaks is not a good organization. Just because (general) you saw it do good doesn’t mean it is good. It still stigmatizes and demonizes autism and their claim of “acceptance” is “accept that your child has an autism diagnosis, but don’t accept their autism.” Autism Speaks changed “cure” to “solution”. All they did was change a word, not their rhetoric. Autism Speaks is harmful to autistic people the same way PETA is harmful to animals. They care about profit, not lives.
So, I still ask-- where is the bullying behavior this orlandomakeup person claims I’m engaging in? Nowhere. Orlandomakeup, reblogged stuff about bullying and made one long callout post that doesn’t directly name me even though it’s very obviously about me. Keep in mind they did this after they blocked me, and I only found out because someone who follows me saw their post. I figured it would look at it out of curiosity. I plan to let this whole thing go after this point, but I want to clear the facts up before they get all muddled and twisted their through distorted view. 
Here is a link to their callout post. http://chicglamgeek.com/post/163823401339/fifty-shades-of-bullies  (DO NOT SEND HATE!!!)
ETA: Forgot a link due to constant interruptions while writing this post. Here’s their “bully” tag where they again attack me without naming me.  http://chicglamgeek.com/search/bullying  I didn’t bother screencapping. If they delete stuff, it just proves they’re trying to hide that they’re projecting their behavior onto me.
I also have a screenshot of their big post. Linked due to size. http://imgur.com/a/Dr4zG
The text of the post is in the description area below the image so that those who are blind or have trouble processing screenshots can read the post, too. I’ll add the text under the cut of this post just in case imgur farts.
They claim I’m showing “disdain” of the art when that’s not even close to what I was doing, but orlandomakeup won’t see any other POV except their own. I fully endorse buying the autistic artist’s art (because it’s beautiful art!), just don’t buy the art that supports Autism Speaks. 
If someone knows how to contact the autistic artist to tell them about A$, please do.
There. Those are the facts of the situation. I’m now washing my hands of it. Orlandomakeup can continue calling me a bully if they want. I wanted my side of the issue out there in case they continue trying to convince people that I bullied them. 
I did not bully orlandomakeup or the autistic artist. I am not saying orlandomakeup is a bad person.
Unfortunately, orlandomakeup is misrepresenting everything I said and is projecting their own behavior onto me. They could have blocked me and carried on, but they chose to write that long and obvious post and may be talking trash about me in private. (I have no way to know, nor do I care. I know who I am and what I represent.) 
Again, I say this is not posted in anger. I posted my side to ensure the facts are straight. From here on out orlandomakeup can say whatever they want about me, but I know I’m telling the truth to the best of my ability.
Please do not harass them or send hate. That solves nothing. 
If you feel an urge to send them something mean, do yourself a favor and close the tab instead, okay?
Text below. Bolding is their references to me.  Btw, I’m amused that they think I’m a Millennial. I’m not a Millennial. I was born in 1980. I just turned 37 (as of July 29, 2017).
There are two basic types of bullies.
1. Those who have full understanding of their actions and seek power and control.
2. Those who lack the intellectual capacity to understand their behavior.
The latter is the most dangerous, because there is no reasoning with them. They disparage and harass with the belief that they are doing no wrong. All bullies are shallow, insecure, and need numbers. They have no strength of their own. They are weak.
Millennials are exceedingly becoming the bullies about which they speak. They bully as a platform for drama and attention. They lack the intelligence to acknowledge their faults and how to conduct themselves. They lack professionalism and decency. Millennials suffer from narcissism. They think their lives and stories are more compelling, because they want attention. However, there are bullies well into their late ages that also have these characteristics.
These bullies can be found at any age and are not confined to school. They are coworkers, neighbors, strangers, and, more dangerously, online. Bullies intend to harass even if the are not intelligent to know they are bullying. At any age, they have the ability to know they should not perpetuate negativity, but some still claim they do not understand how their actions are harmful. While this may seem contrary, consider that when you address their behavior with them, they insist they are “not bad” people, ask their friends to insist they are nice, even say they are Christian. Your addressing their behavior puts them on notice that they are harmful. At this point, they become aware that they are engaging in this behavior but are defensive to avoid admitting they are wrong. Introverts and intelligent people admit when they are wrong, because they are more concerned with data and facts than feelings. They have no incentive to lie. They do not rely upon external validation. Extroverts do. This is not to say that all extroverts lack intellectual capacity, only that they are more motivated to be bullies.
Here are some examples of bullying that were unprovoked and occurred in situations where the person being harassed did not know the bully and/or was not interacting with the bully:
1. I like how you match your lipstick to your sweater. On second thought, I don’t. It’s ugly. You’re a bitch.
2. You need to pray to be normal.
3. Jesus can make you not be Asian.
4. We don’t want, you know, the black people in our neighborhood.
5. You’re not celibate. Look at you. You look like a model.
6. Don’t buy this art.
7. You need to smile.
Why are these words harmful? One of the “rules” of Christianity is to do unto others as you would have done unto you. If you cannot say something nice, do not say it at all. These examples ignore cultural and biological differences. They are punitive.
1. Introverts do not need compliments. In fact, they sometimes find compliments offensive. This “compliment” was a way to seek attention. The person did not receive attention, so he had intent to harm to assuage his feelings of insecurity.
2, 3, & 7. While there is a normal distribution, statistically speaking, people are not normal. There are cultural and physiological differences, which may seem “odd,” but those differences do not warrant being forced beliefs of the insecure. If you do not smile, shake hands, laugh at jokes, or make eye contact, you are not abnormal. You handle / process emotion differently.
3 & 4. Racist and ethnocentrist.
5. There is no look of celibacy. If one prefers to preserve his/her temple, then others should not assume their inability to keep their legs shut afflicts everyone.
6. Demanding that others boycott art defames the artist, nothing else. That statement alone shows disdain for the artist and/or the art. If one feels financial contribution to the artist is repulsive, or one feels the contribution would benefit one to the detriment of others (i.e. Boycotting people who shop at Hobby Lobby* as opposed to boycotting Hobby Lobby itself), then one should make the distinction. There is a difference between harassment and social awareness. Using the Hobby Lobby example, a person who shops at Hobby Lobby may not be aware of the practices of the establishment. Demanding people avoid the individual is harmful, seeks to exclude, and seeks to harass the individual rather than the establishment. Demanding the person avoid Hobby Lobby is completely different. A mature minded, intelligent person knows the difference. A bully who lacks intellectual capacity does not make the distinction.
The best way to handle someone who disparages you and claims they did nothing wrong is to ignore him/her. S/he will have friends to join in the disparage fest, because s/he is insecure and has to belittle everyone and everything that is secure. S/he needs power and control to compensate for the lack of power and control s/he feels with his/her life. S/he is unreasonable, immature, unprofessional, and lacks mental capabilities to examine his/her actions. This type of person always has to be right and will never understand his/her shortcomings. Additionally, these people are not intelligent enough to understand that constant communications from them and/or others on their behalves are harassment. It is no different than painting the n- word or the word “slut” on someone’s locker or home. It is no different than walking by someone bound, throwing rocks at them.
The best last word is the one left unsaid. This does not make one weak. It makes one mature and intelligent enough to understand the other person is deficient. In other words, thou shall not give pearl to the swine. Do not waste your energy on people who are unwilling to accept and admit their faults, those who are incapable of higher thought processing.
* This in no way suggests anyone boycott Hobby Lobby. People have their own reasons for shopping or not shopping there.
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Rooftop Danger || Barbara, Al Sah-him, Felicity
Please note the trigger warning before reading
Barbara: Christian was going to kill her. It was official. As she waited for the elevator to go to the top she knew she was walking probably to her death. What did she have that the League could want? She'd been in a coma for 7 months. As the door dinged she took a deep breath and released it. As it opened she calmly walked out refusing to show the 10 assassins waiting for her any fear.
Al Sah-him Oliver waited patiently, his eyes forced on the bound hilt of his sword. The artfully crafted forged piece of steel sat on the table before him. His mind raced with the reality of his fate; Barbara Gordon's unborn child threatened the fine balanced he'd given everything up to cover. Ra's heir had the power to change the tides; a rightful successor could easily usurp Oliver's place on the marble throne. Nyssa and Talia had long since eradicated their ties with the league and this left him to carry the mantle. He needed to take out the threat as quickly as possible. His fingers came together and apart with the soft clicking of the clock that hung on the back wall. "Do not harm her," he spat out as the men begun to canvas the building awaiting her inevitable arrival.
Barbara: Barbara calmly walked down the hall and up the stairs, though she was more willing to admit waddling was a better description. The stairs tired her out as she reached the top. "It's okay, parasite," Barbara whispered as she reached the top stopping to catch her breath after a particularly vicious kick, "Mommy's got this," she said rubbing her belly hoping it soothed the baby inside. The door opened and she came out of the roof. There he stood, her quick research called him Al Sah-him, Wraith Al Ghul. "One day I'll understand what is with The League and rooftop meetings. You do understand I'm 7 months pregnant. I'm prone to dizzy spells. Unless of course, your goal is to push me off. "
Al Sah-him: Oliver felt the breath of time beginning to close in on him. He slipped the sword back into the leather bound sheath that hung along his hip. The iron-wrought compact bow strapped to his shoulders with a full quiver of arrows.   This was war and a man of his status would always dress appropriately for battle. The horizon darkened just along the crease, the stormy clouds rolling in readily for the chaos. The sound of her labored breath shrouded in hollow of the wind. "I am glad that you've come to your senses, Ms. Gordon." Oliver turned back towards her dropping back from the edge; his feet met the gravel top with a soft thud. "It would have been a shame killing Ms. West. Her willingness to die for her brother--it's honorable at best." His eyes dropped to the bulbous belly that greeted him, visions of Felicity rippled through his mind. Oliver faltered for a moment before carrying forward. "You're quite the elusive woman. I've gone through a lot of trouble looking for you."
Barbara "You missed the hospital for the last 7 months,"  Barbara snarked fight the urge to step back as he came closer. "Iris West is innocent. You made a deal, I come here she's released. Last time I checked The League always followed through on its agreements," Barbara said hoping that he couldn't tell how confused and scared she was.
Al Sah-him: "Killing a comatose woman would serve me nothing," Oliver retorted. It had only come to light that the woman was bearing a child of the league. Barbara's life meant nothing to him but the child that sapped off her, that was the prize. "Ms. West will be released and unharmed. I am quite the benevolent man," he closed the gap between them. His gloved fingers grasped her jaw aggressively. "You seem confused and frightened. It's quite unfortunate, is it? To be condemned by one insignificant life."
Barbara: "How kind of you. I bet you even bless them before you murder people," she snapped at him. She refused to let this man feel like he had done her a favor. She was relieved to hear that, that part of the league hadn't changed. She tried to jerk away from him but couldn't break the hold without putting the baby in danger. "What are you talking about? What do you want from me?"
Al Sah-him: It was League tradition to send their foes off with an old proverb; essentially a message to bring once they'd crossed to the other side. Oliver's expression darkened but the voice in his head screamed to pardon the young woman with mercy. She'd hardly experienced life yet here she about to relinquish it all together. "That child you carry." He tipped her chin up so she understood the words that fall from his lips. "That is an heir to the league. You will come back to Nanda Parbat and this child will be raised in the name of our crusade." His words firm. If she didn't comply, he would take her back with him forcibly. "If you try to resist, I will see that everyone you love perish right before your eyes."
Barbara: Horror filled within her. "NO, she denied, "You -- you raped me? When? Why" tears of disgust filled her. She didn't know if this was better or worse than thinking it had been Joker's. She jerked away from him stumbling to get away from the man.
Al Sah-him: Oliver rushed forward to grab her forearms. The valiant parts of his soul raged against her claim. "No," he said with a curt tone. "This is not /my/ heir. But the heir of the previous Demon's Head. I don't know when it happened but it has. I knew not of your existence till you awoke pregnant."
Barbara: "Oh, Ra's," Barbara said horror evident in her face. "I'm carrying Ra's child," her voice showing how horrified the idea made her. "Is it even mine at all or am I just an incubator for one of the The League's science experiments," Barbara screamed. "Well, you can't have it! I'll stop you. I'll make your precious League pay for what it did to me," she promised.
Al Sah-him: Oliver didn't want to inflict harm on the young woman. She looked so fragile beneath the harsh flash of light from the rolling storm. In the distance, the cracking echo of thunder taunted them. "You speak with confidence on a matter that you aren't in control of." Oliver grabbed her by the collar, "you will hand over this child or I'll take it with force. The choice is yours."
Barbara: "I will ruin you," Barbara said coldly looking into the harsh eyes. She wouldn't show fear to this man. This was her body and her child. This baby had a father who would love and cherish them and her. The fire burned in her. "I will ruin the League because I am Batgirl and Oracle. I am a member of the Bat family and they will not let Ra's touch me or my child. We will burn your kingdom to the ground if you come for my child, ever. "
Al Sah-him: Rushing them back towards the edge, Oliver tipped the woman back against the sharp edge of the roof. The gravel from their feet skirted over the edge into the blackened abyss below. "Such strong words from such an insignificant being. Where were they when the clown shot you? Or when you recovered alone for months. You're not as important as you're making yourself, Oracle." Oliver hissed. "If I weren't in such a giving mood, I'd drop you to your death and you'd become another flash in the pan tragedy."
Felicity: The door swung open and standing there in horror and anger stood Felicity. "OLIVER," she yelled, "Let. Her. Go." Felicity had seen the broadcast of reporter's kidnapping and the demand for Barbara Gordon. She immediately began to search and found what she had been looking for. The nurse who had inseminated the comatose woman. The money paid to the nurse from a fake company. She traced the company to the League of Assassins.  She didn't care if it was Oliver's child. It some ways it relieved her that Oliver would rather inseminate a woman then sleep with one. She knew the demand on Oliver to have an heir. It's what made her hide RJ for so long. Fear they would take her son.
Al Sah-him: Oliver could see the light warning from her eyes just as it receded in his soul. The Demon's head had tainted every good part of him, warping all the positive human traits into a weapon. His gloved fingers loosened slightly to invoke fear in her; it was the only way she'd comply. His eyes glossed over allowing the darkness shield him from the guilt that begun to seep into his bones. It was just then the voice that haunted him rang against the crack of lightening. Felicity. Oliver looked back at the woman, clicking his tongue to heed the members who fled in to restrain her. "This doesn't concern you, Felicity."
Felicity: "It does, that's RJ's little brother or sister! I won't let you hurt them," she said running to grab his arm and pull Barbara to safety but his grip was too strong.
Barbara: Barbara's eyes widened in panic as she realized this man very well might drop her. The blond was scared enough to fight a man who outweighed her by sixty pounds and was a trained killer. Barbara began to claw at his hand trying to loosen his grip enough to be able to break the hold like Batman had taught her.
Felicity: “You are not this darkness, Oliver. You are not this thing that Ra's has convinced you to be. You are the man I love. You are the man I'm still waiting for and fighting for. We, RJ and I, just want you to come home. Because you can, Oliver. You can come home. I know you don't think you can, but you can, I promise. "
Al Sah-him: He looked at Felicity cracks showing in his armor. His eyes turned back to Barbara and hardened until she invoked their son’s name. Their son. They had a son. He had seen the woman’s medical records. The child she carried was a girl, not the son that Ra’s longed for.
Felicity: “The baby is not a threat to you Oliver. You and I both know it. It’s a girl. You know Ra’s has not use for another daughter. If you take her to Nanda Parbat, Ra’s will just ruin her like he ruined Nyssa. Let her go. Please, Oliver. Let her go and come home to me.”
Barbara: Barbara prayed that the Wraith al Ghul would listen to the woman. She had seen her in magazines before her sleep, but couldn’t remember her name till the assassin called her Felicity. This was Felicity Smoak. She was the VP of Palmer Tech. She wondered how this business woman fit into everything.
Al Sah-him: “He can’t know about RJ,” Oliver insisted, “He’ll take him. Nyssa and I have claimed to be trying and unsuccessful. I -- I couldn’t. Not with her. If he knows,” Oliver said his voice breaking.
Felicity: “Everyone assumes he’s Ray’s. Our family is the only one who knows the truth. They’re the only ones who need to know. RJ knows you're his father. We’ll keep him out of school till he’s old enough to be able to keep the secret. I’ve been thinking about homeschooling him anyways. He’s way beyond his classmates. We’ll figure it out,” she promised him.
Barbara: Barbara knew to stay quiet. To let this trouble couple talk and find a way back to each other. A little girl. She wanted to cry. She was having a little girl. She had avoided finding out what the baby was or anything out about the baby. It would make it real. But now, now that she was in danger of losing her baby, her daughter she couldn’t imagine the grief she would feel.
Al Sah-him: Oliver looked a Felicity then Barbara before releasing her. “Go,” he said calmly. “I will tell Ra’s that the baby is not his. That you are pregnant with a girl and were pregnant before inseminated. You must deliver early,” he said firmly.
He looked a Felicity studying her face, would she really let him come home to their family after everything he had done?
Felicity: Felicity wanted to sob in relief when Oliver released the girl. She listened as he gave instructions to Barbara. “I’ll help you,” she promised Barbara. “We’ll make it work, I promise. We’ll protect you and your baby,” Felicity said.
Barbara: Barbara nodded, she knew she had to follow his instructions for this to work. She would have to deliver early. She’d have to force labor or have a C-section. It was the only thing to do to protect her baby. She smiled at Felicity’s offer, “Thanks, but I have a house full of Bats to protect us. I’m not scared. Thank you, Al Sah-him, Oliver. I know what you risk by doing this. I promise, I will honor our agreement,” she said bowing.
Al Sah-him: He nodded his head and motioned. An assassin came from the shadows. He heard Felicity’s gasps as she recognized the woman. “ Ta-er al-Sahfer, escort Ms. Gordon home. Ensure her safety. Then have the members return. Take them home, do this for me, my old friend, and know I wish you and Nyssa happiness.” He saw the sadness that entered Ta-er al-Sahfer’s beautiful face. She knew he was signing his death sentence should he ever meet Ra’s al Ghul again. She nodded, “Be happy, Oliver,” she said kissing his cheek. “You too, Sara.”
Felicity: Felicity smiled at Barbara and nodded before turning her attention to Oliver. She couldn’t help the gasp as Sara Lance came from the shadows. Her heart broke for this woman. She had been a true friend to Oliver for so long. She wanted to wrap her arms around Sara and say thank you but knew the assassin would not appreciate it so she took Barbara’s hand and squeezed it. “Be safe.”
Barbara: Barbara wanted to argue that she didn’t need an escort but knew this was to keep the other members of the League from questioning her leaving. She felt her hand being taken and turned to Felicity. She smiled at the blond and nodded. “Thank you,” she said and following Ta-er al-Sahfer as she led her to the door not bothering to look back. There was too much to do.
Al Sah-him: Turned to Felicity, “This will not be easy, Felicity. I’m not -- I’m not the man who left. I have done things,” he said. “I don’t know how to be a father.”
Felicity:  Felicity smiled and leaned up kissing him. She pressed her forehead to his as she stroked the nape of his neck with her fingers. “All you have to do is want to be one,” she said firmly. “We’ll figure out the rest of it as we go. I promise.”
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DO NOT INTERACT LIST
PLEASE DO NOT interact if you fit, are related to, are linked to, or identify as ANY of the descriptors below. Thanks.
If you do interact and I find that you do fit ANY of these descriptors, I reserve the right to block you and/or report you, depending on the severity of the tag you fit (I won’t report most kink blogs, for instance, but children deserve to feel safe so I will report any blog that is run by a pedophile or openly identifies as anything related to them).
Anyone who is a “bad faith actor” is not welcome. Generally this applies to concepts like politics, feminism, equality, etc. (If you are a “good faith actor” for any of these groups or others, then you are welcome! It’s the ones that aren’t being legitimate that I take issue with here.)
Extremism of any kind will not be tolerated. Most groups - with some exceptions below - are not extreme in nature. It’s the extremists that I find issue with. As an arbitrary example, if you belong to an Abrahamic religion (Jew, Christian, Muslim, etc.) you are welcome here... unless you fall into the category of extremist (for example, if you think that EVERYONE MUST convert to your religion and if they don’t they deserve to be murdered). Another example is feminism. You can be a feminist, and I don’t care how you identify - but if you are a radical feminist who claims that men deserve to be put to death simply for being men when they are doing nothing to you or other women to oppress them, then we have an issue.
As mentioned already, though, some groups just will not be tolerated or accepted here due to them being morally corrupt and unsafe by nature. Are there people who belong to these groups who are safe? Perhaps... in extremely rare cases. But most that I have seen and come into contact with are most certainly NOT safe and will not be welcomed to this blog.
Here is the short version:
- DDLG/Daddy Dom Little Girl
- MDLB/Mommy Dom Little Boy
- DDLB/Daddy Dom Little Boy
- MDLG/Mommy Dom Little Girl
- CGL/Care Giver Little
- ABDL/Adult Baby Diaper Lover
- Ageplay
- ANY type of Littlespace and/or Age Regression that is NSFW
- Kink or kink-related
- Petplay
- Hybristophilia (paraphilia in which sexual arousal, facilitation, and attainment of orgasm are contingent upon being with a partner known to have cheated, lied, participated in infidelity, or committed a crime - such as rape or murder)
- Erotophonophilia (paraphilia in which sexual arousal and attainment of organism are contingent upon the death/murder of a human being)
- Transgender Pee Kink
- ANY kink revolving around urination or the passing of bowel movements
- Rabiosexuality
- Anything or anyone on the Virosexual spectrum
- Necrophilia
- Trad-wife
- Trad-fem
- RadFem or TERF or TWERF (like the ones in this video: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=9RuXrlASic0&list=PL6qeiiywoGbwy8VdT7lHhGSRXa0R7bmkr&index=6&t=8s )
- IPCE
- NAMBLA
- CSC
- Project Truth
- René Guyon Society
- MAP
- NoMAP/NMAP
- SoMAP
- Pedophile
- Pederast
- P.E.A.R. 🍐 (Pro Expression Anti Repression)
- Pedophile/Pedarest Apologists and Sympathizers
- ANY other glorification of attraction to children
- The aesthetics of Nymphet (also called nymphette, jailbait, doelette, coquette) and Faunlet
- Ero Kawaii (Japanese subculture that combines Western notions of sexiness and Japanese cuteness)
- Hospitalcore/Medcore
- Itami Kawaii (subgenre of kawaii that focuses on depressing and sad topics and imagery)
- Pukecore
- Yanderecore
- Body Horror
- Rape/Rapists
- Rape/Rapist Apologists and Sympathizers
- Incest
- Incest Apologists and Sympathizers
- Incels
- Incel Apologists and Sympathizers
- MGTOW/Men Going Their Own Way
- Anyone who identifies as an “alpha male” or “alpha male personality”
- People who claim to be “red-pilled”
- If you support child abuse of any kind or excuse it away as “discipline”
- Pro-spanking of any kind (sexual or otherwise)
- If you are pro-suicide or believe suicide-baiting and/or harassment is okay
- If you are disrespectful of people who have passed on who were victims of depression or suicide
- Beastiality
- Zoophilia
- Pro-animal abuse of any kind
- Pro-hunting-for-sport or pro-fishing-for-sport
- Extreme vegans or extreme vegetarians who believe humanely killing an animal for food is abusing them or are against hunting for necessary reasons
- Anti-feminism or anti-feminist
- Anti-egalitarianism
- Holocaust Deniers
- NSDAP/National Socialist German Workers' Party members
- NSDAP/National Socialist German Workers’ Party apologists and sympathizers
- Nazis
- Neonazis
- Nazi Apologists and Sympathizers
- Neonazi Apologists and Sympathizers
- Einsatzgruppen
- Schutzstaffel
- SS-Totenkopfverbände
- “Good Germans”
- Anything to do with the right-facing Swastika
- Bigotry of any kind (particularly against legitimate religions, romantic and sexual orientations, gender identities, neopronouns, neurodivergent people, mentally ill people, and mental disorders)
- Otherkin
- Otherkin Apologists and Sympathizers
- Fictionkin
- Fictionkin Apologists and Sympathizers
- If you use “autistic,” “gay,” “fag,” “qu*er,” “n*gger,” “ret*rded,” or any similar words as insults
- Support Autism Speaks
- Support PETA
- Support the YouTuber Onision/OnisionSpeaks/UhOhBro
- Belligerent antivaxxers
- Anyone who believes vaccines cause autism
- Anyone who is an extremist when it comes to abortion (pro-birthers or extreme pro-aborts)
- Exclusionists
- Racists
- Sexisists
- Porn blogs - hardcore or softcore
- SWERFs
- Any undue bigotry towards sex workers
- THINSPO
- Any people or blogs that glorify eating disorders
- Fatphobia
- Thinphobia
- Ableism/being mean to or oppressing Disabled people
- Anyone who is against d/Deaf and hard-of-hearing rights
- Anyone who unironically uses the terms “hearing loss” and “hearing impaired,” unless the d/Deaf person actually has lost their hearing or self-identifies that way
- Cringe blogs/people who support cringe culture
- People who spread misinformation around about DID/Dissociative Identity Disorder or who are anti-DID. (Alters are real and valid for people with DID - do NOT call them insane or stupid.)
Here is the long version with specifics and clarification for anyone who needs them:
DDLG/Daddy Dom Little Girl, MDLB/Mommy Dom Little Boy, DDLB/Daddy Dom Little Boy, MDLG/Mommy Dom Little Girl, CGL/Care Giver Little, ABDL/Adult Baby Diaper Lover, Ageplay, or ANY type of Littlespace and/or Age Regression that is NSFW. Yes, this does include anyone who calls someone Daddy or Mommy in a NSFW or sexual way. (SFW Littlespace or people who need Age Regression due to extreme trauma or other underlying issues are welcome and accepted here!) If you claim to be a SFW Littlespace or Age Regressor but are actually NSFW, I will immediately report and block you. Children and those who need these safe spaces deserve to be safe.
IPCE, NAMBLA, CSC, Project Truth, René Guyon Society, MAP, NoMAP/NMAP, SoMAP, Pedophile, Pederast, P.E.A.R. 🍐 (Pro Expression Anti Repression), or ANY other glorification of attraction to children. Children cannot consent in ANY situation. Children/Underage individuals - 0-17 years - deserve to be safe. Monsters who would compromise their safety aren’t EVER welcomed here.
If you are interested in or a part of the following aesthetics, stay away from me and my blog: Nymphet and/or Faunlet, Ero Kawaii, Hospitalcore, Itami Kawaii, Pukecore, Yanderecore, and Body Horror.
Rape or Incest blogs... or people who find no issues with these things. Also, rape apologists and sympathizers and incest apologists and sympathizers. Y’all are morally deprived and will NEVER be welcome here.
Incels, as well as Incel apologists and sympathizers will NEVER be welcome here. You know where the door is and can show yourself out.
MGTOW/Men Going Their Own Way - While this started off as a great idea to teach men that it is okay to be single and still enjoy life without a girlfriend or boyfriend, it quickly spun out of control when incels got involved. For that reason, please don’t interact with me if you are a part of this group.
Anyone who identifies as an “alpha male” or “alpha male personality” please don’t ever interact with me. Any man who claims to belong to these labels generally only wants to control women and not respect them. There’s the door, morons.
People who claim to be “red-pilled” but instead just use the label to excuse bad behavior towards women and other marginalized groups.
If you support child abuse of any kind or excuse it away as “discipline” you are NOT welcome here and you NEVER will be. Child abuse includes emotional, psychological, mental, financial, physical, and sexual abuse. It also includes spanking. If you are pro-spanking of any kind (sexual or otherwise), DO NOT INTERACT with this blog or with me.
If you are pro-suicide or believe suicide-baiting and/or harassment is okay, GFY.
If you are disrespectful of people who have passed on who were victims of depression or suicide, do not interact.
Bestiality or Zoophilia. Animals cannot offer or accept consent, so y’all ain’t welcome here.
People who are pro-animal abuse are not welcome. NOTE: I am not vegan or vegetarian. I am, however, staunchly against animal abuse. I am also against hunting and fishing unless it absolutely must be done - say, for example, if you are stranded somewhere and you are freezing cold and you kill an animal and skin it so you won’t freeze to death, and you then use the animal as food as well, and try to use every part of it for some purpose. That is okay in my book! But if you go out and just kill an animal because you can, or because you want some trophy on your wall? That is awful. If you are an extreme vegan or extreme vegetarian who believes humanely killing an animal for food is abusing them or you are against hunting for necessary reasons, do not interact with me.
Kink or Kink-related people or blogs. Some specific kinks that are DEFINITELY NOT welcome are Petplay, Hybristophilia (paraphilia in which sexual arousal, facilitation, and attainment of orgasm are contingent upon being with a partner known to have cheated, lied, participated in infidelity, or committed a crime—such as rape or murder), Erotophonophilia (paraphilia in which sexual arousal and attainment of organism are contingent upon the death/murder of a human being), Transgender Pee Fetish, ANY fetish revolving around urination or the passing of bowel movements, Rabiosexuality, anything or anyone on the Virosexual spectrum, and Necrophilia.
Trad-Wife or Trad-Fem. (These individuals may have some good ones among them who are good faith actors and are not claiming moral superiority over anyone, or those who legitimately enjoy the fashion around this type of behavior, but most will not be welcome due to their extremism, anti-feminism, and anti-egalitarianism.)
RadFem or TERF or TWERF (like the ones in this video: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=9RuXrlASic0&list=PL6qeiiywoGbwy8VdT7lHhGSRXa0R7bmkr&index=6&t=8s )
Anyone who is anti-feminism, anti-feminist, or anti-egalitarianism.
Holocaust Deniers, NSDAP/National Socialist German Workers' Party members or apologists or sympathizers, Nazis, Neonazis, Nazi Apologists and Sympathizers, Neonazi Apologists and Sympathizers, Einsatzgruppen, Schutzstaffel, SS-Totenkopfverbände, and “Good Germans.” Also, anything to do with the right-facing Swastika - the one used by the Nazis as a symbol that was stolen and changed from the original one that was used in Hinduism, Buddhism, and Jainism. (As someone with German heritage myself, I find extreme offense to anyone who adheres to these ideologies. Don’t ever interact with me.)
Bigotry of any kind, but particularly against certain legitimate religions, romantic and sexual orientations, gender identities, neopronouns, neurodivergent people, mentally ill people, and mental disorders. (Notice I said LEGITIMATE. There are some identities that I do not accept, like Fictionkin, Animekin, Otherkin, etc. If you are a LEGIT identity, like Genderfluid or Asexual, for example, then you are welcome here and this is a safe space for you. Additionally, I will use any pronouns you want, so long as they are legitimate. I won’t call anyone dog/dogself or tree/treeself but I will call people they/themselves or ey/emself, for example.)
If you are otherkin or are pro-otherkin, especially if you are fictionkin or are pro-fictionkin.
If you use “autistic,” “gay,” “fag,” “qu*er,” “n*gger,” “ret*rded,” or any similar words as insults.
If you support Autism Speaks. They are a terrible organization that is not at all for Autistic people’s rights.
If you support PETA. PETA is a nasty organization that steals, tortures, and kills animals. It also spreads misinformation about real animal rights.
If you support the YouTuber Onision/OnisionSpeaks/UhOhBro. He is a despicable human being and should never be supported.
If you are an outlandish and rude antivaxxer or someone who believes vaccines cause autism. (An allergy to mercury and various metals which are often found in vaccines can cause what seems to be autistic tendencies, but that is an allergic reaction and is not really autism. Additionally, being against vaccines for legitimate medical reasons is fine - for example, if someone is allergic to eggs or chicken and thusly cannot get vaccinated due to most vaccines containing chicken embryonic DNA, that is fine. Also, if you are against vaccines for ethical and moral reasons, that is also okay. Animals like chickens, mice, monkeys, cows, and pigs are often inhumanely tested on for vaccinations and also are often hurt in the process of removing the necessary components from them to make the vaccines. Being against vaccinations for this reason is also fine. Being an anti-vaxxer while ignoring science and putting others down who are pro-vaccination is NOT okay and will not be tolerated.)
If you are an extremist when it comes to abortion. I don’t care which side of the argument you are on - I will not accept pro-birthers or extreme pro-aborts. I understand “pro-birther” to mean those who claim that people must absolutely NEVER have an abortion, even when it is a case of life and death for the mother and child. It also refers to those who are against the general medical procedure of ectopic pregnancy abortions. I understand “extreme pro-aborts” to mean those who would abort in every circumstance and never want women to have children. It also applies to those who would force or coerce a woman into getting an abortion against her will. It also applies to those who support aborting a perfectly healthy baby due to only its biological sex or some other underlying condition (ex. “I wanted a baby boy and I am pregnant with a baby girl. Well, guess I gotta abort her and try again for a boy!” or “I wanted a NORMAL baby, not one with autism/down syndrome/disabilities/handicaps/etc.”).
If you consider yourself to be an exclusionist and are rude or loud about it. Respectful exclusionists may or may not be welcomed here - that is up to the blog owner to decide upon.
Racism and sexism are not tolerated here under any circumstances.
Porn blogs - hard or soft - and SWERFs, as well as any undue bigotry towards sex workers. (I don’t accept softcore or hardcore pornographic blogs interacting with me and my blog, but I also do not shame people in the industry unless they are taking unsafe measures and not keeping themselves healthy, regardless of gender or biological sex. Don’t shame people if they have willingly chosen such a job. If they were coerced or forced into such a job or are underage, then that is a massive issue that I do not tolerate. But if the person has chosen this work willingly, I won’t shame them for it... so long as they are being safe.)
THINSPO or any other people or blogs that glorify eating disorders. Also, anyone who is fatphobic or thinphobic. NOTE: If you object to being so overweight that you have severe medical problems or no longer have an average human shape (see “My 600 Pound Life” for references), then that is fine. What I mean by “fatphobia” is the idea that society shames, blames, and piles guilt upon those who are overweight or fat. If you willingly call people “porker” or “heifer” or any other nasty terms because of their higher weight numbers, you are NOT welcome here. As for thinphobia, objecting to legitimate medical issues like bulimia and/or anorexia is fine. Calling people “chicken legs” or saying that they “need to fatten up” or “get some meat on those bones” is NOT acceptable. Calling anyone any nasty names because of their lower weight numbers is NOT welcome here. (If you have an eating disorder then you are welcome, so long as you don’t think the disorder is a good thing, that everyone would benefit from having an eating disorder, or if you are refusing any type of help - professional or otherwise - with your eating disorder... may that help be planned for the future or current.)
Ableism. As someone who has PTSD and is disabled, ANY type of ableism - be it for physical reasons or mental/psychological reasons - will not be welcomed here. If you are mean, cruel, or oppressive towards anyone on the Disabled spectrum, please leave my blog alone and do not ever interact with me.
Anyone who is against d/Deaf and hard-of-hearing rights. Please also do not use the terms “hearing loss” or “hearing impaired” when referring to a d/Deaf person unless that person actually has lost their hearing or self-identifies that way.
Cringe blogs/people who support cringe culture are not welcome here. (Meme blogs are fine, so long as they don’t make fun of inoffensive interests of people.)
People who spread misinformation around about DID/Dissociative Identity Disorder or who are anti-DID. Alters are real and valid for people with DID - do NOT call them insane or stupid. They are dealing with trauma as well as they can.
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Why Hindus fail in their lives
Has anyone ever think why the majority of Hindus often fail in their lives' test? Well, I found an interesting fact, perhaps negotiable for some, but for me it's crucial. how many of you often pay attention to the uploads from religious teachers? Me, quite often, especially after my marriage because now I have two extreme biological and psychological variations in the forms of two-limbed creatures to deal with descended from claimed to be same ancestors, Apes, literally they are😀.
Though I fiercely advocate the Hindus to remain as Hindus majority of the time I find myself intrigued in video uploads and podcast from other religious preachers, note it I am not interested in their bigotry but I am spellbound at their teaching on family life. I scoured through various internet sights for lessons regarding family from Hindu monks, to my surprise there isn't any or may not be interesting.
Our mutt and seers preach about the various ways to reach eternity and attaining salvation, they know how to connect to God easily but not with family and loved one. They can teach you about how to evoke kundalini or awake your sixth sense but not your common sense (I guess they strongly believe that all Hindus have it by birth itself).
On the other hand, Islamic scholars and Christian priests teach ways to reach God without abandoning your family. They know chanting verses from the Quran and the Bible alone would not help the one who has a dysfunctional family, they don't believe that your ancestor's shenanigans may cast imprecations on you and in turn, you may be exiled from all the luxuries from your own life, they won't ask you ever to ignore someone for the other one, they don't ask you to endure your evil parents only because they are your parents otherwise you may be denied the entry to heaven as you failed in fulfilling the duty as a son or daughter. (THEY DO SO MANY OTHER CONUNDRUMS WHICH MAY NOT APPLICABLE IN THIS CONTEST 😀).
Monks and saints from Hinduism, may I have your attention please, how many of the prodigy do you think you need to preach about our religion? I guess, roughly, 1/4th of the people from our community. (i am pretty sure that the other religions also do need the same proportion of people from their community for the same purpose).nevertheless, you solely post the educational videos which are more apt for them and deliberately ignore the 3/4 and their ways of life. If at all your advice may not either practical or simple to comprehend to the majority of the general population. It's unfathomable for me if you ask me to elope from my family to Himalayan valley to meditate whenever I quarrel with my husband, it's quite absurd for him to admonish me in the name of respect to elders all the time his mother cross her horn with me as she mistook her role and responsibility as a mother in law, I can not have my children always grounded whenever they point me out my mistake only because I am their mother and with the policy that mothers are always right.
A number of videos I watched from some Muslim and Christian priests in which they are providing some classical and standard way of solutions by clearly stating the mistakes from the wrongdoers irrespective of their age and position in their family. They are precisely analysing the gravity of the situation and the emotional background of the people and single out the accusers even if they are the prominent one in the family than the Hindu Pandits who invariably take the sides of elders. Don't you think its the high time to change the slogan "matha, pitha, guru, daivam" as we daily come across the news of so many atrocities such as father raped daughter, mother killed the child to flee with her lover, teacher sodomised the student etcetera? Consider it as a request upload sensible new podcasts regarding family life relating to contemporary lifestyle.
Tail: In my husband's family some do not have children(including us) and some others have some other problem, finally some jointly concluded to approach a pandit.As per calculating the position of celestial bodies position and its movement he did his job well but failed to notify and acknowledge the fact that astrology and some humans lives always do not go together.On the basis of his almanack long back dead ancestors and daughter in laws are the reason for the low sperm count of the men in this family!!!!😂😂😂😂.
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So...You’re a High Priest/Priestess
Are you really? Here’s a question, have you ever puffed out your chest and arrogantly proclaimed so? Have you ever tried to use that title to intimidate people into doing what you want? Do you feel a rush of power as you say this? If you answered Yes to any of these questions…guess what…you’re not. Here’s why I say you aren’t. Being a Clergy in any facet is not an excuse to abuse others or to lord power over other people. You are fallible and you Do have to answer to higher powers. It matters not if you believe in them or not, they will lay down the karmic smackdown when you decide to be an arrogant prick. Did that word shock your senses? Prick. If you’ve ever used your title to intimidate someone who disagrees with you or whatever reason you have to attempt to abuse it, you are not Clergy. Yes, being a High Priest or Priestess is a form of clergy, it’s an all encompassing word, so don’t get your “I’m not Christian” panties in a bunch. Walk away from your soap box and listen.
Who am I? Why am I qualified to lecture on this topic? In comparison to the vast universe, I am no one important. I hold no other title myself, aside from High Priestess. It was not something I strived to become, it just happened. People turned to me for help or guidance. Many people of many faiths and irregardless of their path, I guided them in the way I knew best. I have protected others from rotten people that call themselves by many religious titles, christian, pagan, heathen, buddhist, ect. Becoming one of the leaders or guides as I see it, is not an excuse to hold power over other people. It’s not. Now, there are some of you reading who are angry right now and I’ll tell you why. It’s because I just made you feel guilty of your behavior.
Being a High Priest or Priestess is also not simply a title. Nor is it an excuse to stroke your EGO. That arrogance and Ego-stroking belongs in Satanism, not in Paganism or Wicca. If that’s your reasoning for taking on that title, perhaps you should venture more toward the Satanic path, where Ego is king and it’s all about you (in other words, you’re God).
To be a High Priest/Priestess, means you’re responsible to the community. Yes, there are times where someone is so off the beaten path of Paganism or even Wicca, that a little hard guidance and tough love is necessary. Over the course of 15 years as a practicing Pagan myself, I have watched as people with little to no experience, declare themselves a leader, a clergy and are only in it for the power trip. Guess what? There is no power in this position. You don’t suddenly become a God or Goddess, you aren’t suddenly gifted with every mythical power you have read about. What you are gifted with is the ability to help and guide others. To protect people from themselves (sometimes) and to help ensure the health of the community.
For too long, I have watched as our community has not only drifted apart, been torn apart but been poisoned. Every child with a paycheck and a Hot Topic in their town wants to be the next Nancy Downs. That isn’t what Paganism is about. It’s not sacrificing animals, hurting children or women. It’s about loving Mother Earth (who is female) and respecting all things she has created. It’s a matriarchal faith, where the Goddess is primary but the God is vital to help protect and create. Just because you buy a Pentacle and a spell book, does not make you a Witch, a Pagan or a Wiccan. There is so much more to it than that. It calls for more responsibility upon you. It means paying attention to the natural cycles of the earth, respecting nature, not forcing your will on others and harming none.
There needs to be a serious revamp an adjustment of who can and cannot be a High Priest or Priestess. If you have ever stolen, committed rape, murder, or pedophelia, you are never qualified to be any form of clergy. A position such as this, calls upon you to be of pure heart and intentions. Do not give the excuse that it’s “part of my faith” or it’s “the way I practice”. Absolutely not. Nothing in any one of the paths gives clearance for these crimes against man. Again I will say Harm None. Now, some of you are saying that “I don’t subscribe to the Wiccan Rede.” Well, karma is very real and it will catch up with you. It doesn’t matter if you choose Aphrodite as your Goddess, gratuitous sex and images are not what she is about. She is not lust, she is love, know the difference or get a dictionary.
Here is where some of my words contradict themselves, you are however, allowed and encouraged to pull that status card when you see someone who claims themselves Pagan or Wiccan and they are doing whatever they want. They are casting spells without thought, treating people in whatever way they feel is appropriate (using their Witch status to intimidate) or you feel they are far too young to understand what it is they are playing with. Your plastic Pagans and Dabblers and such. Or in the case of an event I went to a few years ago, they leave a public park trashed after a gathering. When they give the community a bad name because of their behavior. This is not an organized religion but there are still rules and if you are a “High Priest or Priestess” you are responsible for helping to enforce them. There needs to be order brought back to our community. Thanks to shows like Charmed and Buffy, everyone wants to be a Witch, without ever realizing that we have far more rules than any other faith. Just no one has bothered to enforce them because we get rebellion in return. Even the Satanic religion (organization) has rules they must abide by. They do not “do whatever feels good.” So why do we have a bunch of little Pagans who think that behavior is okay? Because there is no real leadership anymore.
So, if you’ve gotten this far, I do hope you consider my words seriously. That you see the plague spreading across the Pagan community and you are willing to do something about it. Also, that if you realize, you have not been a true Priest/Priestess, you correct your behavior. Another note before I leave you, having 2-5 years experience does not qualify you for that responsibility. You are in no way ready for that path. It also means you have to teach lessons (not just about herbs, spells and crystals) but real life and Pagan lessons. By that I mean if someone is fooling around with a Ouija board and they get a demon in their house, you make them clear it. Otherwise, they will continue to make irresponsible decisions and expect you to clean it up. Whatever spell they cast, you have to teach them that they are responsible for the results, magick is not a game. Are you ready for that responsibility? You have to ensure their safety and well being while in circle and even when they are not around you. You do that by advising them when you see they are stepping in an unsafe direction or giving them information on herbal cures for what ails them. No Christian Clergy have this level of responsibility.
If you have not stopped reading by now, congratulations, you have intestinal fortitude. I am fully aware that my words will anger some people and that in the back of their mind they’re thinking “Who the heck does she think she is? She can’t tell me what to do.” No, I cannot, you’re right about that. Just don’t bother to approach and speak to me in public and don’t contact me when you have nasty spirits walking around your living room. I will not help you. The Goddess will correct you, not me. Take into consideration what I am saying and please, let’s start making a difference in a small portion of humans. We all know, the world is already turning into a cesspool of ego and selfishness. Let’s none of us help contribute.
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afurst · 7 years
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Why Are Christians the Most Persecuted Minority in The World? – Dialectic Two Step
The image displayed shows the results of an Open Doors 2016 study of the top 50 nations where Christian’s face persecution. It should be noted that the study is in the context of an organization whose goal is to evangelize. Evangelism takes as its foundation the idea the Christianity is a superior religion to the local majority religion.
To begin, I want to call out what facts I consider to be solid.
Christianity is the largest religion. A larger population is subject to a larger variety of phenomena; including acceptance, rejection, and persecution. People who adhere to Mithraism do not get persecuted. But that’s because their population is 0.
One point of contention I have is with the casting Christians as a persecuted minority. Christianity is the largest religion in the world. Even if we ignore 1600 years of post-Constantine history and look at the last century, persecution by Christians on non-Christian states and between Christian states have been highly lethal. There’s a certain “pot calling the kettle black” element to this rhetoric.
Christianity claims the following “Jesus answered, “I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.” John 14:6. Apostasy is contentious. It seems like a perfect recipe for conflict.
But in the same way that a woman never deserves to be raped, a Christian, by virtue of their religious choice, should not be persecuted. Disapproval, dissent, and disagreement are all on the table. But harming another on the basis of religious affiliation is fundamentally wrong.
I feel compelled to note that the majority of states on this list are Muslim. This is not surprising given the competition between Islam and Christianity for the hearts and minds of humanity.
The next group is Marxists states. And last, there are states where Islam, Hinduism, and Christianity intersect.
Viewing the data in this light, it seems that a vast majority of persecution arises out of interreligious conflict.
I think we have to call out the role that Islam is playing in inter-religious conflict. Click To Tweet
I think we have to call out and protest the role that Islam is playing in exacerbating inter-religious conflict. But the list above is the view from the Christian side. There is also a view from the other side that needs to be acknowledged. There’s a lesson there.
Who’s Right?
I think there is a reasonable argument to be made that religions can’t all be right. In fact, I personally feel that none of them are right; not simply because there are no logical proofs for any supernatural religious claims, but because being right is not what religion is about.
The word religion means to reconnect with the divine. God, by definition is incomprehensible, indescribable, and beyond our senses. Flying in the face of that meaning, religious institutions offer dogma; claims of certainty about the divine. Conflict between religions on points of dogma seems contradictory to its purposes.
Conflict between religions on points of dogma seems contradictory to its purposes. Click To Tweet
Within the Christian community the value of eccumenacle engagement is immense. Communities are strengthened where differences are set aside. If that isn’t God weighing in on the argument, I don’t know what to think.
As the world gets smaller and global religions begin to share the same crowded spaces, there are more differences to be set aside. There are larger communities to foster and there are more opportunities to reconnect with the divine.
If there is a God, I see her waiting, ever patiently, for us to grow up and understand that we are all part of creation. We each have our own divine connection that needs to be fostered, respected, and held to the standard of the golden rule. There are many dogma that need retiring. These are not failing of a God, but of the fragile and fleeting wills and minds of men.
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History moves forward; progress continues. Religions appear, thrive, and go extinct. The divine remains. There is a lesson there, we have a short time to learn it. Peace be with you.
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THE PA BISHOPS EXPLAIN LAW TO THEIR CONGREGATIONS
PA State Attorney General’s Office Child Protection Department Strawberry Square Harrisburg, PA 17120
RE: PA BISHOPS BLATANTLY LIE TO PROTECT PEDOPHILES AND THEIR POCKETBOOKS - PA Bill 1947
Dear Sir or Madam:
The bishops in PA, from what I can tell, led by Chaput (Slap you) of Philadephia, are falsely claiming that PA Bill 1947 bill unfairly targets non-profits.  They say that the bill excludes those in the public sector.  The bill says the exact opposite.  It specifically waives sovereign immunity so those in the public sector can be sued.  They forced all the parishes in the state to publish their lies in their bulletins, thereby deliberately shredding any credibility the local parishes may have left. I talked to my local legislator.  Luckily, most parishioners completely ignored the notice.
From what I have seen, Cardinal Dolan is also joyfully jumping at the chance to further trash Church credibility with the upcoming NY State version.
An old saying is, “If you throw a stick into a pack of dogs, the one who is hit, yelps.”  Please track down who is behind this campaign.  If they are putting so much effort into protecting pedophiles, you are likely to find the highest concentration of predators under their protection. Chaput recently published a mostly gibberish column on the need for Catholics to become politically active.  I agree, but most of my activism is against what is preached on the altar.
Ever since the previous entity in possession of the vatican proudly proclaimed the church’s preference for pedophiles seven years ago, I have been actively protesting.  Benne Dick’s statement comparing women who want to be priests with pedophiles highlighted the vatican’s policy and practice. Promote the pedophile – Excommunicate the woman. They just hired a new one this May.
I do not want creatures who prefer pedophiles to women on the same planet as my children. The vatican has continued to promote their rape culture as theology since then.  I am furious that these proud pagan pedophiles continue to claim they are associated with the Catholic Church.  You go after them on the legal front and I will go after them on the theological.  I have already written the papal nuncio.
The Washington Post recently had an excellent editorial on the need for men to fight the rape culture in order to eliminate it.  Too many men prefer the power trip.  The vatican enshrines it as holy.
(Note that the ‘bishop’s campaign against the bill came out AFTER Francis’s tour of Philadelphia.  I have heard they disagree on issues.  So is Francis in favor or against this practice?) How long do the Cardinals and Bishops think they can flat out lie to us before they lose all credibility? William Donohue’s Catholic League’s website had a big tirade saying the only purpose of the bill was to “stick it to Catholics”  Legal opinion expressed by a sociologist.  .  My local pastor endorsed his site as a great source of Catholic Truth and handed out one of his articles that essentially said that women who dress provocatively deserve to be raped. I have been telling these ‘pro-Catholic’ protestors that their actions are shredding the credibility of the Church.  The Catholic League shut down for awhile afterwards.  I don’t know if it was my e-mail to them or the hierarchy shut them down I have heard that the legislator who sponsored the bill was a victim of pedophilia and was literally crying for justice. .  My main objection is the bill is a very inefficient means of distributing funds to ‘solve’ the problem.  Lawsuits mainly benefit lawyers and their few chosen clients.  The majority are left to suffer & the law changes nothing. The law would strip the organizations of the funds they need to function.  It would also hamper their ability to rectify the problem.  Most of them were only guilty of blind trust in their staff. Unfortunately, the bill would more likely punish the innocent rather than the guilty.  They are all dead or retired, leaving the charitable non-profits and government schools having to cut services to enrich the lawyers of the victims.  It would be more practical to sue for the release of the records so that active pedophiles could be tracked down and stopped. The below is a cogent argument for a new policy that would avoid frivolous lawsuits about clerical pedophilia, but bring justice to victims. http://ncronline.org/blogs/faith-and-justice/extending-statute-limitations The law SPECIFICALLY covers children abused by ANY person.  In that aspect, public school victims have the same rights as all others.  However, when it comes to SUING an institution (a legal recourse after the fact), the law has also to address existing statutes on sovereign immunity; a protection not afforded private institutions.  It does not do that retroactively because such would be clearly unconstitutional FOR GOVERNMENT.  There is now an argument that it is unconstitutional FOR PRIVATE AGENCIES as well. Now ‘Cardinal’ Dolan is jumping for joy at the opportunity to further trash the Church’s reputation with the similar NY bill.  He is already hard at work trying to pre-settle to limit costs. Then all the lying depraved thugs decided to endorse the lying depraved thug for President because it says it is “Pro Life.“  I’m sure the same way it “Digs Coal.”  Coal is dirty, expensive, and inconvenient compared to natural gas.  Who in their right mind is going to buy coal?  Even if they did, the coal industry is like nearly every other industry in the world – automated.  My brother – in –law looked it up.  90% of the active coal companies hire about 5 people because of people doubling up on job descriptions and automation.  So to double production, they would hire 5 more?  The NYT had the article on the bagel basket makers.  They used to hire hundreds; all missing fingers.  They hire a fraction of what they used to and production jumped via automation.  It is the same worldwide. The Boston Post editorial about the Republican “nanny state”.  The Republican Party endorses small government while demanding totalitarian powers. Trump advocates using Second amendment rights to eliminate First Amendment Rights.  The First Amendment “prohibits the making of any law respecting an establishment of religion.”  Trump wants to bring back the Inquisition for screening refugees and immigrants. Who you can marry Which bathroom you can use Artificial price control on consumer goods and wages (Communism) Reversing the technological advances that resulted in cheap natural gas and expensive coal Medical Marijuana – (All Republicans have medical degrees) political prisoners  (Stalinist) Breaking up the banks = communism. Funerals for miscarriages Width of hallways in reproduction clinics So Trump, using Adolf Hitler’s Slogan – “Make America (Germany) Great Again advocates destroying everything that makes America Great. As President, he would be required to swear to uphold the Constitution while campaigning to destroy it. I am fed up.  You stay with Benne Dick’s elect of the church, the pedophiles, the penis worshippers, and the sub standard Latin scholars and I will acknowledge I am part of the walled out where it is safe.  I have never seen an organization work so hard to achieve the theological, religious and moral credibility of child pornographers.  That will give me at least 6 hours more a week in which to write these letters and to pray for the conversion of the vatican from paganism to Christianity.  I feel like the little boy crying out that the Emperor has no clothes! I will, however; continue writing to everyone I can think of to protest this policy of pedophilia until I see some believable evidence that the Vatican looks at Christ and sees something other than a penis and looks at our children and sees something other than prey. Unfortunately, I have seen no evidence that the current pope has implemented policies for papal senility.  In all my life, I have never seen a more dangerous mental handicap than the male ego. Put Another Log on the Fire Tompall Glaser
Put another log on the fire Cook me up some bacon and some beans And go out to the car and change the tire Wash my socks and sew my old blue jeans Come on, baby, you can fill my pipe And then go fetch my slippers And boil me up another pot of tea Then put another log on the fire, babe And come and tell me why you're leaving me Now don't I let you wash the car on Sunday? Don't I warn you when you're gettin fat? Ain't I gonna take you fishin' with me someday? Well, a man can't love a woman more than that Ain't I always nice to your kid sister? Don't I take her driving every night? So, sit here at my feet 'cause I like you when you're sweet And you know it ain't feminine to fight So, put…
SD FARMER EXPLAINS FAMILY LAW TO ME
I can also tell you about legal opinion expressed by a SD farmer that is giving me an ulcer.  My two adult autistic spectrum children stayed with my brother for over a year while my daughter attended college.  My son couldn’t drive and needed to be chauffeured back and forth into town for work 4 days a week for about 4 hours of work a day.  When my brother tried to teach him to drive, he took the door off the truck backing it into a yard pole.  After over a year of trying, my brother realized that Nick was not capable of obtaining a driver’s license.  It is incredibly easy to learn to drive in SD.  The roads are dead flat, straight, and have almost no vehicles on them. He had better luck teaching my daughter.  She got her driver’s license. He took her halfway across the state to be evaluated by a psychologist so she could get counseling services which she blew off. She took advantage of my brother’s hospitality and chauffeur service, then cut contact when she got to college. All in all, he did wonders for them.  My son had never held a job before and my daughter had refused to learn to drive until being out there forced her to. The college counselors told my brother that they couldn’t talk to him unless he was a legal guardian, which is bogus.  Students only need to sign a release form to allow counselors to talk to family members.  I wouldn’t want to keep track of 700 release forms either. My son got homesick and decided to come home after the second winter. My brother told me, that neither of my children were allowed back on his farm unless I IMMEDIATELY got guardianship on both of them; like guardianship is something you pick for your children like a pair of underwear at K-Mart.  Guardianship is NOT easy.  An adult child has to be essentially passed out on the street to get it.  This here is American where you have the God given right to starve to death on the street if you want. The courts are legally obligated to take the least restrictive action.  Guardianship is the nuclear bomb of the options. It involves 2 lawyers: 1 to prove the child is competent and one to prove they aren’t.  It cannot be done across state lines and it is expensive, potentially taking resources away from the adult child. It does NOT happen IMMEDIATELY.  It can take several months. I tried to explain this to my brother.  He said he was tired of trying to talk sense into me. Guardianship is not a magic spell. If not done correctly, it can make the situation WORSE. It can cut the child off from social services.  If you do not have physical control on the adult child, they can destroy people or property in protest of the guardianship and drive you into bankruptcy. It took months before I could get a lawyer to call me back.  The one who did is legally obligated under his contract to reply within 24 hours even to say he cannot help. In the support groups, I am usually the one explaining to the lawyers and other parents how the system works. The transitional counselor (new to the job) said I knew more than she did and was the most organized parent she had seen. So in effect, my brother told my children to leave and not come back. I am sorry that they were not enough help to him for him to want to have them around.  I can well understand he is fed up and I am grateful for what he did for my children, but don’t say it is MY fault for not doing the legally impossible IMMEDIATELY.
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