all the women in greys anatomy are fruity… prove me wrong.

(apart from bailey)

the way addison showed up randomly in an episode in s4, successfully delivered a baby that had complications, set in motion not only callie’s bi awakening (in regards to erica) BUT ALSO her relationship with erica, AND managed to have tension with meredith in the final scene at joe’s. literally who is doing it like her

if we are comparing buck's queer storyline to erica hahn's I can see leaves

are we also wanting eddie's to be comparable to callie torres' I was married to a [woman] and catholic parent issues?

i'm rewatching grey's anatomy

Greys anatomy characters don't be biphobic to callie challenge 100% fail (except mark sloan)

I'll probably die on this hill all alone but

Erica Hahn deserved better!

honestly… justice for dr erica hahn

Your grey’s anatomy thoughts have really got me watching it on netflix after years away. What are your feelings on Erica Hahn if you have any? I remember reading somewhere that Arizona as a character was created in response to her.

I really liked Erica Hahn, and I've been disappointed she hasn't returned, honestly.

The thing about Hahn is that her exploration of her identity and her sudden realisations felt so real and genuine, especially for a woman who's obviously so autistic and doesn't realise that she is. It's evident she struggles a lot with her neurodivergence and especially with looking with nuance on everyone's position around her, like...

Especially in a hospital like Seattle Grace where no one is professional and everybody sucks.

I thought she was funny and cool and a lot of fun!

And unlike Arizona Robbins, she's not, you know, a controlling abuser who's only depicted as negative for those traits (totally coincidentally) when she becomes physically disabled.

Callie fucking every lesbian in Seattle Grace.

Committed Love – Arizona Robbins/Penny Blake/Erica Hahn

A/N: Day 25 for @polyamships Multiamory March. GIF 1 made for me by @whoreofthecottage

“You’ve got to be joking…” Meredith’s grumble is audible even as Arizona walks past with both Erica and Penelope, two women she had thought, hoped, would be gone. Penelope’s laugh echoes in the quietness, her smile clear even as she settles with both Arizona and Erica. Later, alone with Erica, Penny admits what had happened on shift, seeming a little exhausted. Callie, it seemed, had been in a few too many of Penny’s surgeries, the woman’s exhaustion dealing with her ex and Meredith at the same time was clear and Erica sighs just slightly. “Callie lacks commitment, we don’t.” “She seemed sure we’d all… break apart.” “She always says that, she’s always wrong… it failed when she tried to break me away from Arizona, and it’ll fail every time she tries to break us up. We chose you Penny… not her. She’s just pissed about it.” Penny’s sigh is soft even as she settles closer to Erica, waiting for Arizona to come home. She knows, well enough, that they both love her, all she has to do now is trust herself.

i so badly wish erica and callie’s relationship worked out in the end because it was one of my favorites on greys

Erica Hahn in 4x05: I only date men

Erica Hahn in 5x06:  I am so gay. I am so, so, so gay. I am extremely gay.

Grey’s Anatomy Poll: Day 23

I don't know if you watch Grey's Anatomy but in this week's episode (19x15), there's a kid who is a patient just when he was supposed to have his bar mitzvah, and so the doctors organize for him to be able to do it at the hospital. And he does it with his grandfather who hadn't been able to have one in Germany. It was really a nice scene :)

Awwww, Nonnie! Thank you for telling me! That sounds so sweet. I used to watch Grey's Anatomy, but i kind of had to stop. I loved Callie's storyline with Erica Hahn. I know, seems unpopular. She started out as a not-very-nice surgeon, but I liked it when they brought her back and allowed her to be more human. I liked that she became a multi-faceted character. And then when they were started to throw out hints about her and Callie? When they were doing the build up for them? Don't get me wrong, it was still NOT in the ballpark of hetero slow burns, I guess you could call it a 'mid burn', though it was still better than what most mlm couples get (with maybe the exception of Black Sails and Our Flag Means Death, at least of what I've seen). I was the eyes emoji. And then the show actually followed through, it ACTUALLY let them get together and kiss with the music swelling? :o I was in awe, I loved it, I was SO there for it. They even explored what it means for Erica to figure out she's gay later in life versus Callie exploring her bisexuality (I didn't always love how they went about Callie's bisexuality, but I did like that they let them each have her own discovery story).

And then they just... got rid of Erica? And in almost no time replaced her with Arizona? And it was so clear they were intent on telling a wlw story, which was awesome, but when the audience didn't react well enough to Erica, they just... got rid of her and brought in a younger, "softer" version of her, as if queer characters are that easily replaceable. I was offended. I LIKED having an older queer woman's story being told. And I get Erica didn't start out nice, but by the time her and Callie got together, I did like her. So it was hard for me to warm up to Arizona. And even when I kind of reluctantly accepted her, because hey, it's better than no queer rep for wlw, I ended up not liking a lot of what they did with Callie and Arizona. Like the way Callie gets pregnant. They had a ridiculous fight between her and Arizona, just so Callie wouldn't be technically cheating when she sleeps with Mark and gets pregnant, and then Arizona comes back and magically, all the stuff that drove her and Callie apart is not there anymore, and Arizona accepts the baby with relative ease, but it just became yet another storyline that doesn't show how MOST same sex parents ACTUALLY become parents. So IDK when exactly, but at some point around that time, I quit GA rather than quietly rage about how bad the wlw rep was IMO.

I want you just to understand what it means that you managed to make me wanna watch an ep of GA again! IDK, but I will. Thank you so much for telling me about that and just in case you're curious? There are actually a lot of real life stories like that! Holocaust survivors who get to make up for the bar and bat mitzvahs they were robbed off. Here's an example, there's a program that brings survivors annually to the Western Wall in Jerusalem to have their bar/bat mitzvah there! I find it very moving, because THEY are so clearly moved by what they get to do.

Have a great day, lovely! As always, my ask tag. xoxox