Be with someone who will take care of you. Not materialistically, but takes care of ur soul, ur well being, ur heart & everything that’s you

I am going to be successful in every aspect of my life.

Spiritual Journey

With the quarantine going on, I saw all of my new free time as a chance to to take control of my peace. I began a spiritual journey to align my chakras and ultimately exist on a higher frequency than I was before. A major part of my new routine includes eating with intention. I make a healthy breakfast each morning, so as to be nurtured by the Earth instead of processed foods. Especially for my first meal of the day. (And, caring about the foods you put into your body is part of respecting and loving yourself- which I’m working on.) Right now I am focusing on my Root Chakra, so I intentionally incorporated red vegetables and fruits into my meals. I try to eat outside, while grounding. After, I stay outside to stretch and meditate, taking in the earth and expressing my appreciation for all it provides us with. After one week, I have experienced great change regarding my mental stability and overall feeling of self. I make conscious decisions to step in Love each day. Enjoy a few pictures of the meals I experienced this past week :)

this 'trusting your intuition' stuff is not for the bitch-made.

friendly advice to not revolve your life around one person, one feeling, one place, one memory, one problem. the complexity of life and the diversity of the world is beautiful and you have the right to explore it. do not settle for less. you deserve better.

sis... your education, career, and money will never wake up one day and decide to leave you

Hello, world! I’m fat. I look good. That’s all, thank you.

DO NOT BEG MEN TO LOVE YOU

Y'all better be drinking water.

One of the most challenging things I’ve had to learn is that healing must be intentional. There is no one golden day that comes and saves you from all your misery. Healing is a practice. You have to decide that it’s what you want to do and actively do it. You have to make a habit out of it. Once I learned that, I only looked back to see how far I came.

I’m fine as fuck and I really sat here and thought I wasn’t lmao what a scam.

If you're ever bored, here's a list of Studio Ghibli films you can watch for free.

Castle In The Sky (1986) Grave of the Fireflies (1988) My Neighbor Totoro (1988) Kiki’s Delivery Service (1989) Only Yesterday (1991) Porco Rosso (1992) Pom Poko (1994) Whisper of the Heart (1995) Princess Mononoke (1997) My Neighbors the Yamadas (1999) Spirited Away (2001) The Cat Returns (2002) Howl’s Moving Castle (2004) Tales from Earthsea (2006) Ponyo On A Cliff From The Sea (2008) The Secret World of Arrietty/The Borrower Arrietty (2010) From Up on Poppy Hill (2011)

If any of the links stop working, please let me know so I can fix it.

For Castle In The Sky, wait for the free user button to be clickable and it will send you to the video.

So what’s next? You heal. You grow. And you help others.

sisyoureagem

Stuck in the Mud?

I found myself in a bad mood a few minutes ago. About to go on another tumblr rant about how nobody cares about me and how i’m just an background character in everyone else’s life.

But rather than wallow in my depression as i usually do, i thought i’d channel the energy into something to help me and others heal.

imma open the meat of this post up with a story:

I want to get my nose pierced, and i want tattoos. My mom sure as hell doesn’t approve. But guess what?  Im grown. and better yet, im living life for me. I gotta do what makes me happy at the end of the day. Who gives a damn. Don’t live your life based on how everyone else feels about your decisions. Don’t concern yourself with the expectations or perceptions that others have of you. You know you, so act accordingly. every day there is at least one decision i make that my mother complains about. She’ll never be happy and i damn sure am not about to waste my life trying to get her approval. Im getting my nose pierced on my birthday and that’s that on that.

second, i find it easy to get upset at others for just blatantly not giving a damn about me. But instead of being upset imma try to do the same. Not give a damn about nobody else. Just do me and do what helps me progress my cause. dont waste any more time on people who dont do a damn thing for you. People show you that you’re a backup option? Then stop being available to them. Never let people use you as a last resort. Id rather sit at home doing nothing than go to an event with people who didnt want me there in the first place. Absolutely not. And stop giving free rides and free services. Dont let anyone use you for what you can do for them.

the moral of tonight’s post is, live for you. feel like nobody cares about you? Then YOU care about you. If nobody has your back, let yourself know that YOU got your own back and thats all you need. Stop letting people walk all over you. “No” is an answer AND a justification. Stop explaining yourself, because people will start to expect you to justify your decisions and thats not necessary.

this post was inspired by a series of sza songs and features, such as “Stuck in the Mud ft. SZA” by Isaiah Rashad, “9″ by Willow and SZA, and “Morning View” by SZA and Towkio