I don't know when everyone somehow collectively forgot the actual definition of queerbaiting but like... yall know queerbaiting was never about REAL PEOPLE'S actual identities right? It's about the MEDIA they put out.

Queerbaiting is when media hints that there will be queer rep to lure in a queer audience with no intention of ever delivering on that rep.

Queerbaiting is NOT when a celebrity experiments with gender or sexuality without coming out. They are allowed to explore!

Queerbaiting is NOT when an author writes a queer book without explicitly stating they share the same sexual or gender identity!

Queer media is NOT queerbaiting just because you don't know the creator's sexuality or assigned gender at birth!

Is the media explicitly queer? Then it's not queerbaiting! Simple as that! No one owes you an explanation of their own identity, full stop.

since mrs, ms, and mr are all descended from the latin word magister, i propose the gender neutral version should be mg, short for "mage"

WITCHCRAFT!!!!!!!!

I love women. I’m half woman myself on my mothers side.

you know I really wish I could be a jauntily-dressed little nonbinary fag wearing dark academia vamp-core outfits but the truth is ...I'm way too lazy. I'm pajama nonbinary. I wanna sleep instead

I'll admit I used to get worked up about it, cuz let's be real, sometimes they don't make sense. then I realized humans don't make sense, and now if I ever find myself starting to get worked up I'm like "you know what? doesn't matter. makes em happy. fuck it"

and then I stop thinking about it and I'm fine

you see whenever i dont understand someone's sexuality or gender or pronouns or whatever i go "ohwell this has nothing to do w me!" and move on w my day

An asexual and pansexual become room-mates and have wacky adventures

The show is called ‘All or Nothing’

I edited a shirtless pic of myself in procreate to make my chest flat and I am just enamored.

like it makes me so excited I wanna show it off to everyone but I have no one to show it off to. like who goes around like HEY CHECK OUT THIS PHOTO EDIT I MADE OF ME WITH MY TOP OFF AND TITLESS ISNT IT NEAT?! who wants to be shown that? no one.

but rly I think I could look at it all day. kinda weird, but man, the euphoria. like a sparkler

they were so funny for this

thought my mom was oblivious to think there were no signs of me not being cis growing up and then my sister reminded me that every time we played pretend I insisted on being a boy💀

could online stores please stop categorizing things by mens/womens/childrens and just categorize by adults/childrens

like mens/womens can be subcategories but like. why do I have to wake thru childrens shoes just cuz I wanna see what both the mens and womens sections have to offer

It’s okay to not want to have sex ever. It’s okay to never even try it.

literally- LITERALLY my eternal struggle now which I most certainly did not for see. my poor cats. their guardian now squawks at them

Testsoterone and my absolutely terrible meow.

y'know I made this blog mainly for my transition journey yet I haven't rly posted much abt my transition ...oh well anyway I decided I want top surgery and I wanted to make a post to share some insight

part of the reason it took me so long to decide I wanted top surgery is bc chest dysphoria has never actually been that bad for me; there have only been a couple times where it was at the forefront of my mind, and I definitely have a fem side, so I was worried it wouldn't be the right decision and was kinda stuck in the "devil you know" mindset.

however, in all that debilitating deliberation I completely forgot to consider the flip side of that whole dilemma: gender euphoria. it wasn't until I watched a particular video by another nb person who'd gotten top surgery where they showed different how they repped their fem side post-op that it clicked - and it clicked hard. that's when I decided I want top surgery, and I haven't doubted the decision since. it's felt so, so very right (not to say it's wrong to have doubts).

gender-affirming surgery isn't just about negating dysphoria. it's about achieving euphoria. that's reason enough. you don't have to make do with "meh".