its always funny watching a vitriolic anti whos pretty popular in ur fandom rb from another kinda popular fandom blogger who you know for a fact has a side account dedicated to strilondecest bc you follow both their main and side account. i love it i love fooling antis their morals and brains are weak and gossamer thin and none of them can fuckin read

a woman will be 28 or whatever and all the 24 year olds are in shock like “no fucking way I seriously couldn’t tell. you don’t look near death at all”

I'm gonna say it.

It's unhinged to assume that someone's taste in fiction equates to what they believe is moral or good, or is something they want to see or experience in real life.

That is a bonkers assumption to make.

I'm tired of humoring people with long arguments about it when the simple fact is it is a totally fucking absurd reach to accuse someone who enjoys something in fiction of being in favor of it in real life.

I'm tired of pretending like this is a legitimate position to hold-- that they should be afraid of fiction's dire influence on a reader's moral decay or that it's a sign of what the author secretly wants for realsies in real life.

I hate hate hate hate how dog friendly everything is in the city now. Barring medical necessity, there is no reason to bring your dog to a restaurant, there is no reason to bring your dog to the grocery store, there is no reason to bring your dog to the nail salon. Dogs do not need to go everywhere you go why am I being forced to be around dogs all the time

nudges u go read @bonus-links ✨

the act of self creation

words inspired by julian k jarboe

cone 5.5 stoneware plate wall hanging

Tears of the something or other idfk

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One more joke hate: You may claim to be a woman but biologically you are a featherless biped and thus a man.

Finally a good argument for why I'm actually a man

i just don’t think “is dude gender neutral” is that productive of a conversation because a word can be gendered and still used regardless of gender. i call my male friends girlypop and my female friends man but i don’t think anybody would agree that those are somehow not gendered terms.

the real question is just “would you be willing to apologize and stop using a word if somebody told you it made them uncomfortable?” the answer to which in a surprising number of cases is no mostly because it seems like overall ppl r more upset abt getting accused of transphobia than they are abt being transphobic

@she-ra-ra-skirt i see your point and i do totally understand where youre coming from, but we dont actually know what that cis guy intended. it very well couldve been a complete accident. i know ive almost gotten walked in on countless times and its been a complete accident, though one that left me scared shitless cause, yknow, trans man in public bathroom and/or changing space. but my point is its good that youre thinking about this stuff and even better that youre willing to learn but even though op's experience is scary and was def creepy to go through, we shouldnt inject our own narratives into op's post. just read it and take it how its layed out yknow? boil it down and its singularly about trans people (this trans man specifically in this case) not necessarily being safe in public bathrooms even if they more often than not pass /gen

“trans men don’t have any real safety concerns to worry about” i can’t wear a mask when i go into public bathrooms even though i’m higher risk and bathrooms are some of the easiest places to get sick because i don’t reliably pass when my facial hair is covered and i can’t risk not passing when i use the men’s room, but i also can’t just use the women’s room for safety anymore because i don’t reliably pass as either binary gender anymore. so my only options are to risk getting sick, take my chances with the consequences of not passing, or just never use the bathroom in public (which has its own health risks).

and today, it almost didn’t even matter that i was putting myself in danger to ensure that i passed because, thanks to a faulty lock and a man who didn’t think to knock, i came very close to having my half-naked body exposed to a bathroom full of cis men. if i hadn’t been holding my coat on my lap because there was nowhere in the stall to put it, every single guy waiting in the (very crowded) bathroom would’ve seen that i didn’t have a dick. how well do you think that would’ve gone for me? my money’s on Not Well At All.

Giiiirl you need a shot of b12

I miss them every day i love you alpha kids ive been non stop wtching old homestuck cosplay videos and pmvs I LOVE THEM we dont get art and videos like that anymore u_u ive got things planned to pay homage to some older stuff.

b2 stan 4 lyfe theyre the best band... jake is my bias. and also dirkjakes 🙄

STILL feeling like the only fictive on this site whos really fuckin uncomfortable with other fictives talking about generally-to-really-personal shit and *tagging it with ships* like please. please stop. i want to look at davedirk in peace without some random guy running into the room yelling HEY YOURE LOOKING AT ME ACTUALLY. like bro i get it i am also ''a dave'' but im just a fuckin guy first. person first fictive 3rd tbh

2009:A Strider Odyssey

Your shit is wrecked or some other fuckin' thing.

now draw him lost at sea and succumbing to the madness