• Buy a matching set of bras & panties or lingerie
• Sweep/Vaccum your floor and make your bed
• Clean off your bathroom counter
• Set out an outfit for the next day
• Shave your legs and apply coconut oil
• Then put on cute pajamas
• Light a warm scented candle
• Wash your face, use a face mask, apply toner & lip balm
• Make tea or hot cocoa
• Write a to do list
• Sit down on your made bed and watch TV because fuck yes baby girl you got this
ultimately i think kindness is the most radical thing you can do with your pain and your anger. it’s like, you take everything awful that’s ever been done to you, and you throw it back in the world’s teeth, and you say no, fuck you, i’m not going to take this. you say this is unacceptable. you say that shit stops with me.
humans are fucking terrible and this awful world we live in will fucking kill you but if you are kind, if you are brave and clever and try really hard, you can defy it. you can impose on this bleak and monstrous structure something beautiful. even if it’s temporary. even if it doesn’t heal anything inside you that’s been hurt.
i’m gonna sleep and i’m gonna wake up and i swear by everything in this deadly horrible universe i’m gonna make someone happy.