Thinking about the time I was out in the west texas desert at the only restaurant in town and a person walked past decked out in leather and spikes and the old lady who would sit out there and say the wildest things saw them walk past and promptly asked "are you gay? because that's how gays dress" and they quickly said "I don't discriminate" and kept walking. An iconic move. I could never. That lady SCARED me. So anyways shout-out to that person because I just know that they are probably a super cool person to be around. (While we were standing there she also told my friend she had one hell of a suntan and neither of us knew how to respond to that🧍)

It's a very strong urge to tell my grandma jokes

Not me completely forgetting about Tumblr for a long time🧍

Sorry it has taken so long to answer all these😅 life hit me like a bus these past few weeks and I finally have it sorta back together

I am 13 and Bisexual.I was like that for a long while but I found out just few months ago.I only came out to my friends.Even though my parents are not homphobic I an still a bit scared about telling them.I don t know what to do.Can. you advice me on this matter , please?

It's ok to be a little scared about telling your parents. It's a pretty big thing to do. But if they aren't homophobic they are already on the right path to being supportive parents. :))

Okay, so, like I'm bi ace and I make a lot of gay jokes xD Do you think that's a part of bi culture? And do you know about more things in that culture? Or O should I ask somewhere else? xD

Jokes are a big thing in the bi culture lol. The things I know about the bi culture are that finger guns are a huge thing. Also hiding your face with your hand. I forgot the last main one though haha.

Alright so... lately I've been questioning my sexuality because up till middle school I thought I was straight where I went through a period in which I thought I was ace but now that I'm 17 and almost a senior I'm wondering if I'm Bi or Pan mainly leaning more towards Pan but how can I know for sure? Because I was straight due to a religious upbringing and then ace because i was raised for sex after marriage. But now I'm like girls are pretty cute though and i have a crush on my agender friend.

Ah yes the joy of labeling your sexuality. It took me forever to figure out whether I was pan or bi. I talked to my friends about it all the time. I eventually figured out that I was pan, but I honestly don't ever label it. In your head you just know that you aren't straight. I would look up the difference between bi and pan and see if that helps. :))

i came out to a few of my friends as bi a while ago, and one of those friends recently came out to me as questioning her sexuality, but she’s very unsure about what her sexuality actually is. What can i do to help her figure herself out?

For lots of people, it's a self discovery thing. Just being supportive helps alot :))

Hey um, sorry to be a bother, just asking around, but do you know if there's a word for pansexual or panromantic but with a heavy preference? Like, you like all genders and in the end, all that matters is if you like them or not, but you have a gender that you find the, uh, idk favourite? Most attractive? Most likely to crush on? Can pan people have stuff like this? Or is it something else?

Hey there! I'm not sure if theres a word for that but I'm pan and I lean towards girls, so I think it is different for every person :))

i never got to actually talk to the girl i liked. i just watched her slip through my fingers like sand and ive never been sadder. i cried a total of seven times today. who would have thought that a person i have never even talked to could give me this amount of heartache and make me cry. its actually pretty pitiful when i think about it :(

That's a big oof 😔 don't worry, you will find someone else :)

I'm one of only two openly lgbtq students at my school, and all of the other schools nearby have a lot of students who are open about their sexuality, one even has a gsa. There are 103 students in my grade; for just 2 to be lgbt is impossible, so I'm worried anyone else is too scared to come out (I don't want to pressure anyone to come out, don't get me wrong). How do I make people feel more accepted in my school, where I can't start a gsa (no other clubs in the school)?

It might not just be the school that makes them scared to come out. There are always things outside of school that could make them not want to, but you never know. You could get cute little pins and stickers that you can give to people! It maybe small, but you can be surprised at what it does :))

Hi uh so I'm a 18 year old girl and I had a new years party at my house with my close friends and when midnight hit me and my friend (also a girl) kissed and it was my first kiss. I have identified as asexual for a few years now but I really liked the kiss, but I'm not interested in sex. I'm very confused and dont know what to do

Kisses sure do differ from sex. I'm not an asexual so I'm not completely on the knowing side of what to do, but I'm jealous that you got a new years kiss. I respect you bro. But back to the question. Relationships dont revolve around sex so you should totally go with your heart on this one :))

Hello! Sorry for bothering you but I just need some advise. I think I am bi? I am not sure but I told my parents that I was questioning my sexuality and they replied with, "everyone goes through this." That kind of set me back from figuring this all out and made me question things even more. All I know is, I am not straight. I am definatly attracted to the same genderI was hoping you could give advise about my parents and figuring this all out? Sorry for rambling a lot!

Parents sure are something else sometimes. They weren't the best at wording what they said. :/ In my opinion it could have gone alot worse, but it really didnt help you at all. If you are attracted to the same gender then you are bi, or at least for sure not straight. :)) You don't have to label your sexuality :))

Hi how ya doing, so my best friend came out to the clan (what we call our friend group) a few weeks ago as trans. We completely accepted him being that a good amount of us are LGBTQ+, ngl some of us are still adjusting to the name and pronouns but there's one friend I'm calling her Ava because that's her name lol. She basically refused to call him by his name because she is so used to calling him by his dead name, Nessa. I tried thanking to her, I'm still adjusting but she refused halp

Having a friend come out to you as trans is a pretty big thing. I would give Ava some time to completely adjust to the changes and see if she will call him by his name. If she doesn't, well some people just cant let go of the old person that they used to know.

I was scrolling through tumblr on the bus, and my friend leaned over and said 'hey, you're on tumblr, what's your username?'. As my bio says I'm bi, and I haven't come out to him because I'm not sure how he'll react, I jerked my phone away and said 'no, there's something on there I'm not comfortable you knowing, sorry'. What should I do? Should I tell him I'm bi? Should I just not bring it up and leave it at that? If ypu can help that'd be really helpful because I don't want him to feel bad.

Telling him that you are bi is up to you. That's honestly a personal preference if you want to or not. If you think he would be cool with it, I would tell him :))