Proshippers built the selfship community, you can’t push us out. Just block us, but we have every right to be in this community.

reminder that liking horrible things in fiction does not make you a bad person

Platonic F/O: Who do we know that has handcuffs?

F/O: Well S/I and I-

S/I: *elbows F/O*

F/O: ...wouldn't know.

imagine your shipcest f/o isolating you from everyone else in your life. after all, why would you need anyone else when you have them? the only reason you would need friends is if they weren’t enough- if you planned on abandoning them.

you don’t plan on abandoning them, do you?

Imagine someone shoving you towards your f/o, making your bodies touch and make you two feel another's body warmth. Bonus when this third party shoves your head forward to make you and your f/o kiss.

Because if you two are too shy or awkward or make the first move, someone else has to do it.

Antis go away, this post does not apply to you

shoutout to the selfshippers who are actually insane over their f/os. the f/o is not the problem, they are, they're the toxic one in the situation and are not ashamed of it

shoutout to the yandere selfshippers

imagine your F/O buttoning up the pajama shirt they picked out for you, your skin and hair still wet from the bath they just gave you

imagine them having you kneel between their legs with your back facing them so they can brush your hair

imagine them praising you for doing all the chores and tasks they gave you so well

"my perfect love," they murmur sweetly. "my sweetest dear"

imagine them leaning down to kiss the top of your head after they're done and pulling you towards the bed to tuck you in

imagine the moment your F/O realized that they are going to marry you

maybe it's when they see you smile and laugh one day, and they take in all the details of your face and voice—the bridge of your nose and the corners of your eyes scrunching up, your cheeks making your bottom eyelids crescent, the lovely sound of your simple joy, and they just know. they know they're going to marry you, that you're the one with complete certainty

maybe it's when they're away from you, at work, running an errand, or just having some general alone time and as they think about you, they are stricken with the knowledge that they will marry you. it's all so sudden but there is no denying it, not that they even want to deny it, and maybe even overwhelming, but it settles warmly in their chest. oh yes, yes, you will be their one and only

till death do you part, they just need to start looking for a ring now

I love you selfshippers who imagine their F/Os as freaky degenerates!

🩷 Those who's F/Os are related to their S/I

🩵 Those who's F/Os are loli/shota/kodocons

❤️ Those who's F/Os are abusers

🖤 Those who's F/Os are manipulative

🤍 Those who's F/Os are unredeemable

Regardless of what your dynamic may be, always remember that selfshipping has no rules! Make your relationship with your F/Os anything you want it to be!

Need my F/O to shower me with love and reassurance, because I’m feeling insecure again.

because there’s a lot of imagines around openly affectionate F/Os, here’s one for all of you with a F/O who struggles with open, carefree affection

imagine your F/O showing you more nontraditional and quieter forms of affection

imagine them cutting fruit for you to snack on and leaving it by you without a word. making you little things—such as origami or doodles and giving them to you. bringing you things they know you like and things they find interesting, like pretty rocks and hand picked wild flowers. taking photos of you while you aren’t looking and admiring them in private. they take notice of the simple things you enjoy and sneak you gifts while you aren’t looking, getting you bookmarks and keychains and other things around your interests. they may not be able to say they love you, be it from shyness, nerves, a sense of shame/”this is too corny”, or some other reason, but they will show you in so many little ways

imagine them placing a hand on your shoulder. pointing out a mistake with your hair and fixing it before you can do it. sitting next to you with your skin barely touching or perhaps not even touching at all. focusing solely on you and you alone—because you are the only thing of importance to them. always hovering around and unable, or perhaps not daring, to touch you for longer than a moment. they may not be able to hug and kiss you, be it from shyness, nerves, a sense of shame/insecurity, but they will still find other, quieter ways, to show you affection

imagine them alone thinking about your laughs, the things you find amusing and delightful, the brightness of your smile, how badly they wanted to kiss and hold and tell you how much they love you and feeling so overwhelmed with unspoken love and barely shown affection for you that builds up with nowhere to go

imagine them hiding doodles they made of you in a sketchbook/diary/notes app. seeing things in stores they know you’ll like and wanting to buy it for you. looking in the mirror disheveled and gripping the sink wondering how they fell so hard for you

imagine them listening to you rambling and “i love you” forms in the back of their throat but nothing comes out. imagine them needing you to know, needing to show you, just how much they care and finding little ways to do so that is comfortable for them

they may not be loud and open about their feelings, but your F/O loves you all the same 💛

Sorry it takes me so long to answer asks. I don't notice I've gotten them when I'm on mobile unless I check my settings or I'm online the moment I get them and see the notification.

I'll try to check them more often.

Selfshippers saying proshippers don't belong in the selfship community... clearly don't know what the 'pro' in proship stands for.

It's "for shipping" in general, which what self-shipping is all about too, only one of the people you're shipping... IS YOU! It literally doesn't matter whether someone is proship or not, we're ALL shipping ourselves with our silly little fictional dudes.

IT DOESN'T MATTER!

Exactly. They probably think the "pro" stands for "problematic", and it confuses me, English is not my first language but even I know the pro- in something either means "in favor of/for" or "expert" lol.

That was a nasty anon there so I just wanna say you’re one of the people who made me feel seen and comfortable knowing that there were people who I belonged with in the selfshipping community!! I’m a happier person overall after finding your blog because I realized that were other people like me, and plus you seem cool too!!

Aww. That's so sweet, thank you. I'm glad you feel happier! You seem cool too anon. You're welcome here. <3

These proship blogs have like dedicated stalker antis and they (antis) think they’re somehow the “normal” ones.

imagine your F/O squishing your face in their hands, tilting your face left then right until you ask them what they're doing and then they smile and kiss you