If I could write a book, it would be about a person being isekaied to a different world where they had to meet their soulmate (prophesy of some sort), but no one knows who that soulmate is. There is a young king of a neighboring kingdom who is hated due to having "no heart" (he's just ace and everyone is aphobic). The main character is ace too and constantly denies the soulmate prophesy. One day, a whole group is on the beach when sirens attack causing everyone to go into a trance, but the king and main character are unaffected due to their asexuality. They notice each other and just stand there like the Spider-Man meme. Anyway, they decide to marry just to get everyone off their backs and live happily ever after as best friends.

I am not a good story teller, but this is what I would write if I could.

As an aroace I would love a relationship where they are just my best friend and then they give me soul crushing hugs every once in a while and cuddle

my (an aroace's) plans for the future:

adopt a cat

grow my own garden

buy a witches hat

buy a witches cauldron

convince the children in my street that im a witch

a nice witch

ill bake cookies for them

adopt a child

convince the children in my street that my child is a magical person in training

listen i’m ace but i would totally let a vampire drink my blood through my neck sexily okay

i can't believe i'm truly at that point where i would rather listen to christian music than anything else on the radio. i hate hearing about people's romance and sex lives and heteronormative shit takes. i truly do not care about your ex, new bitch, or her sundress.

on christian radio, they're just happy to say, "hey jesus, i love you. thanks for loving me." it's about love and healing, and that's all i need. on spotify, i can listen to my own favorite songs. 99.9% which are not christian, but when i don't have my headphones, it's nice having an alternative

Why aren't hyper religious Christians and asexuals besties?

"no sex before marriage!"

And none after as well, they should love that!

I mean it’s true that some employers see you as less professional if you don’t wear makeup, but it’s not all employers in all industries and I think it’s unhelpful to scare young women into believing that makeup is 100% mandatory to get ahead in the workplace. There’s a fair chance your boss won’t give a shit, or will be afraid of you kicking up a legal fuss. None of my female colleagues wear makeup. Nobody cares. Everyone still asks us for our advice. We’re not getting fired or denied promotions for getting old or not being hot.

I think a good approach is to stop wearing makeup at your job and see what happens. If it’s a problem, someone will let you know (and you can consider if that’s something you’re willing to put up with in a workplace, no judgment either way). If it’s not an issue and nobody says anything, then good. Just keep being yourself.

Contrary to popular belief aro AND aces (aroaces) more commonly DONT date then do. They can still date and they’re still valid yes, but most don’t.

wow . the intimacy of tea

Intimacy isn't just about sex. It's having heart-to-hearts, staying up all night talking, sharing childhood memories, thoughts, fears, dreams & hopes for the future. It's uncontrollable laughter, direct eye contact and feeling each other without touching - it's exchanging energy.

Angelica Letsjevna Shakhabova

Rest in peace to the touch starved arospec and/or aspecs. You deserve more hugs.

"and historians said they were bestest of friends" they were. they were both aro/ace and in a qpr

One of the reason I used to think I was attracted to someone was when I would blush so bad when they complimented me

but no I‘m just THAT BAD at taking a compliment

"more than best friends but less than lovers."

hurts so bad because it's so untrue, queer platonic relationships (and regular platonic relationships) are not less than romantic lovers in anyway, the whole point is it's on the same emotional intimacy scale.

not every story is or has to be a romance

not every story is or has to be a romance

not every story is or has to be a romance

not every story is or has to be a romance

not every story is or has to be a romance

not every story is or has to be a romance

not every story is or has to be a romance

not every story is or has to be a romance

not every story is or has to be a romance

not every story is or has to be a romance

not putting shippy stuff! in the canon! is not a crime! if the story! is about that!