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Little miss decided to join all memberships into one (thatbitching 101) so now it's goalsetting + productivity + unfiltered in one. Little miss basically moving to BMAC :)

How can I appear rich?

Hi love! It's all about self-regard, proper hygiene, attention to detail, expanding your mind, and learning how to hold your own. Some tips to elevate your appearance and aura are available in the post linked HERE and below. Hope this helps xx

The Behaviour Book: A Manual for Ladies, 1853

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Yall want to know what I find embarrassing?

People who fall for rage bait online. Attention is the current currency and some people online will say the most inflammatory thing, and hide it behind ignorance just to get a rise out of people bc they know it’s going to shared, liked, commented on, and stitched into oblivion. Driving up their engagement and paying them big bucks.

When I was In junior high/middle school I moved to a new state and was being bullied by the ppl around me bc as a black girl I didn’t present a certain kind of way. I was flat, and lanky, I didn’t have loose 3c curls down my back, I was dark skin, and I “spoke white”. One thing I learned was to ignore them. While the dumbasses around them laughed at their very unoriginal takes, I minded my business. I turned to my friends and started conversation, I stopped telling the teachers and the guidance counselors about my problems bc they didn’t do anything, and I just let these ppls failures speak for itself.

After a little bit they started to become comical. They were always in drama, and never did their work on time or right but they had it in them to bother me. Like bitch you think I’m bout to sit here and waste my energy arguing with you?! I guess I must have started radiating that superiority complex bc they reduced bothering me.

It’s ok to believe you’re too good to be involved in the argument/debate/conversation. It’s even better when you understand that the person/people you’re arguing with have no intention of learning anything. Your attention is their reward and once you stop giving them attention watch how their inflammatory behavior ceases to exist.

Just keep calm and carry on.

Here’s some things I saved to my Pinterest board last night.

Keep entertaining the thought of taking at least a one month long break from my business and investing myself.

Buying gym clothes, getting a gym membership ,and start working out consistently.

Getting a good ,every day wig constructed while I grow out my hair.

Buy make up and figure out my personal makeup style.

And getting some basic going out clothes that I can depend on when the need arises since I basically exist in my work uniform.

It’s just so hard to get back to yourself when you’re trying to build something. It Feels like a frivolous and selfish decision, a form of suicide.

I haven’t launched anything for my brand in two months, so I don’t know why I’m acting like one month off is going to kill me. The difference is though in these past two months I’ve been preparing for my next launch. Where as when choosing to take a break I know I won’t be preparing anything. I’ll just be stalling.

Decisions decisions.

Hello Elle! Do you invest in stocks? If yes, can I ask what are your strategies?

Hey! Not currently because I used to work in a role that made investing in a lot of my favorite companies really difficult but if you're a young investor, you have a golden ticket: time. Leverage it by starting early to maximize the power of compound interest. The key is to prioritize long-term growth through diversification.

Here's a strategy: Build your foundation with low-cost index funds for broad market exposure. Add a sprinkle of carefully researched growth stocks for potentially high future gains, but limit them to a small portion of your portfolio to manage risk. Consider sector ETFs for targeted diversification, but be cautious not to overexpose yourself to any one sector. To smooth out market volatility, set up a regular investment plan to consistently contribute fixed amounts. Stay informed about the financial world, but focus on your long-term plan and avoid emotional decisions. Remember, investing involves risk. Only invest what you won't need in the short term and consider consulting a financial advisor for personalized guidance based on your specific goals and risk tolerance. Hope this helps!

Your top hypergamy dating tips?

Crack the old money vs. new money code.

Within the hypergamy realm lies a crucial question: old money or new money? Both offer advantages, but the "right" choice depends on your priorities. So let's break it down. Old money families often boast generational wealth--think trust funds, inherited estates, and established investment portfolios. The men often have established social circles that can be near impossible to crack, but if you're trying to make the impossible your reality, look for charity events or attend benefits that align with their philanthropic causes. Also forget bragging about your possessions or accolades; focus on intelligent conversation and shared interests. New money earners are essentially the opposite. For the most part they haven't yet settled into a life of quiet luxury so might be more willing to splurge on adventures and experiences. With a new money man, get comfortable discussing your own goals and successes in a confident way. Both offer equal and opposite advantages, so before embarking on your journey, figure out exactly which kind dating experience you're after and get to work.

90% of success is showing up.

Translation: you've got to start frequenting the areas that well to do men frequent. Think of it like this, the best relationships are built on common ground. Do you love sailing? Look for regattas or yacht club socials. Foodie? Target those exclusive wine tastings or cooking classes. But here's the key: don't be disingenuous. Only show up in spaces where you can be a good conversationalist, ask thoughtful questions, and be your most charming and informed self. By genuinely pursuing your passions in upscale settings, you'll meet men who share your interests and see you as someone who can fit right into their lives. The goal here is to find someone who matches your pace, someone who understands your values and views you as their kin.

Intelligence is the ultimate aphrodisiac.

A sharp mind is inherently captivating. Being well-read and knowledgeable on various topics shows you're curious about the world and have a depth that goes beyond the superficial which will naturally pique interest. A woman who can hold their own in a conversation about current events, philosophy, or even niche hobbies is a dream date for someone who craves intellectual engagement (and trust me, if a guy is secure and successful in his own right, he will want to be intellectually challenged). Read books, listen to podcasts, take online courses, you know the drill. WSJ, Barrons, The New York Times, and Bloomberg News are great sources to start with.

Always look your best.

Let's be honest, looks matter. And the reality is, a wealthy and attractive man is going to have his pick of some of the most beautiful women out there. And while a relationship is a complex dance of shared values, intellectual connection, and emotional compatibility, taking pride in your appearance absolutely translates into dating success. So here's what you do: You hit the gym, eat nutritious foods, and prioritize sleep. You find clothes that flatter your figure and reflect your personality. You whiten your teeth, practice good oral hygiene, and don't forget the power of a genuine smile. You find a hairstyle that suits you, keep your nails neat, and take care of your skin. And most importantly, you pursue hobbies, read widely, and cultivate engaging conversation skills. Girls with passions are magnetic and girls who look their best are irresistible.

Cultivate a strong personal brand.

What truly grabs attention is being known for something specific. Why? Because a signature look, a unique title (think "Astrophysicist Chef" or "Sustainable Fashion Entrepreneur"), or even a passion project you're deeply involved in guaranteed will spark curiosity. Gone are the awkward "what do you do?" exchanges. Your personal brand gives you a built-in conversation starter. Imagine: "I see you're a marine biologist with a focus on coral conservation - fascinating." Suddenly, you have a genuine connection point. Example, my personal brand lies in contrasts. I'm very feminine and girlish yet I have dreams of starting a billion-dollar business one day. I always make sure to show both sides of myself right off the cuff so I can leave audiences with an overwhelming sense of intrigue and confusion. And you know what? It works. In a room full of people unsure of who they are or who they want to become, having an iron-clad personal brand will take you right to the forefront of a man's consciousness.

Authenticity is key.

I'm no stranger to the fact that entering affluent circles can be downright stifling at times, but even during waves of extreme imposter syndrome, you've got to resist the urge to pretend you're someone you're not. I've met girls who insisted they grew up on the Upper East Side when everyone knows they grew up in Harlem, girls who got their noses done and skin lightened in attempts to pass as racially ambiguous, and girls who flat out lied about the colleges they attended. And you know what? Doing so got them absolutely nowhere because anyone with half a brain could see right through it. The rich aren't a monolith--they're not going to throw you out to the wolves because they find out you weren't in fact a debutant who grew up in Greenwich. Wealthy guys, above all, want a partner who brings more to the table than a carefully curated façade. You can absolutely fit right in to a room full of millionaires by maintaining your social awareness, sharing your passions and interests, and believing that you have every right to be there. So be comfortable in your own skin. It's incredibly attractive.

Lovingly, Elle

I took a micro dose of magic mushrooms last night.

Things got emotional. Because I was in bed I was bouncing back an forth between a dream and being awake.

When I was awake I would have two voices in my head. My conscious was saying that I was beautiful and didn’t need to be insecure and my subconscious was quickly affirming it in a crystal clear voice. Could’ve sworn the bitch was in the room with me.

When I was dreaming I was dreaming that I was in love and it was pretty intense so someone who has never been a relationship. I was a little jealous when I woke up ngl.

Took another dose this morning (4 days on 3 days off) and I’m currently at work. I’m very talkative with my customers when they come in and everything I’m watching on TikTok is sooooo funny lol.

I definitely feel less anxious.

I took an exam for school today and passed!

So happy right now. First exam of the semester.

Feeling: Studious

An exercise that I have to do everyone once in a while is make a list of problems I can identify in my life or the lives of those around me, and think of a business idea that solves a problem.

This is a great way to boost my self esteem and remind myself that I can get rich off my own ideas.

The only problem with this is when I think of something good I want to stop everything I’m doing and dedicate myself to it before God gives my idea to someone else 🥰🥹.

Goals:

Make back what I spent on bulk order

Have $500-$1000 extra left over and don’t touch it.

Grow another 1000 followers on Instagram

Luxury moodboard pt 8 🥂

Omg you guys! This girl that I sent a product to posted my business and I got 100+ more followers.

Obviously followers does not equal sales but I’m so thankful to have their attention because now I can warm them up for future launches.

Feeling: Good

Where’s my soaking tub filled with oat powder, almond oil, and roses?

Where’s my magic mushroom tincture and my hormone balancing mock tail?!

Where’s my naturium hydrating body wash and my aha body lotion?!

Where’s my caudalie clay mask?!

Where’s my body size red light chamber?!

Wheres my indoor sauna?!

Brooooooooooooooooooo