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my new roommate said that her last roommate had an eating disorder and then talked to me about her clean eating and weight loss goals and how she buys clothes that are a little snug to motivate her to lose more
and like honestly? i have anorexia but this is why i constantly talk about the dangers of the “health and fitness” industry and diet culture bc we have essentially normalized certain symptoms of disordered eating but it’s ok if it’s under the guise of health i guess???
like how is calling it “clean” eating NOT a way to moralize food
how is intermittent fasting NOT the same thing as skipping meals
how come when i buy clothes that don’t fit, it’s something i have to tell my therapist about because it means i am putting pressure on myself to fit into them, but if a “normal” person does it then it’s just motivation for them?
where is the fucking line???
and more importantly when are we going to start acknowledging that the entire world is pro-ana but that’s too harsh of a description so we slap some health buzzwords on it to make it palatable
when are we going to take responsibility for encouraging disordered behavior instead of labeling those of us with EDs as the crazy/imbalanced ones
your fucking Whole30 or keto or whatever “clean” diet you’re on is just as restrictive as the diets we create for ourselves due to our disorders. but we are the crazy ones, right
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okay so my internet friend just decided to call me puppy as a nickname and,,,,, why do I feel Like This??!!!? and then "okay pup" SIR UR MUCH SHORTER THAN ME AND A YEAR YOUNGER AND I THOUGHT YOU WERE A BIGTIME BOTTOM™ BUT TURNS OUT I'M A BIGGER BOTTOM???? HELP I DIDN'T THINK I LIKED TJIS
#trans#transgender#actually ftm#ftm#protect trans women#transisbeautiful#transition#fashion#ftm pride#bottomboy#bottom energy#puppy#pup#pet names#nicknames
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"i was a transtrender" no you werent. you were just questioning your identity and then you decided that wasn't for you. that's a fucking healthy thing to do. fuck off lmao
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literally anything that could inspire poetry pls send it
Send me Prompts
Please send me prompts, aesthetics, verses for writing poetry,
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I know i called you bro but im kinda in love with you
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god if i could look like this every day maybe i could actually find a cute boy to play with my hair :( alas I have no idea how to take care of myself to make that happen
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I was gonna jerk off today but I've decided to do art instead maybe
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Advice For People Making Positivity Posts About Trans Guys
cw: mention of biological sex characteristics
Don’t:
Use the word “period” for the love of god… we have dysphoria for a reason? Mentioning the thing that women do is triggering as fuck because it makes us remember what’s going on down there and what our bodies do and we don’t want to remember this, at all. We’re not meant to be doing that, so just stop.
Do:
Use “monthly”/“sharkweek”
Don’t:
Refer to our CHEST as “breasts”. Again, this is triggering as fuck. None of us want to be reminded of the fact that we have breasts. Stop using female terms to refer to our body, please. Yes, our body is what it is and we do have a female body we know this, we’re not indenial, but using terms that are commonly associated with women when we are not women is not okay. Just stop.
Do:
Use the word “chest”
Don’t:
Call our private parts “vagina”… oh my god. Why does this need to be said, really like, why would you even say that at all. I honestly can’t say anything that I haven’t already said.
Do:
Use “down below”/“privates/private parts”/“penis”/“bottom area”
Don’t:
PUT ATTENTION ON OUR BODY PARTS. We don’t want to hear things like “to the guys with big hips”, “to the guys with feminine/high voices” and “to the guys with curves" etc. It is just focusing on the fact that our body is this way and we’re trying as much as possible to make our body what it should be.
These things are all examples of social dysphoria that can trigger sex dysphoria. Please. I’m on T and this shit still annoys me because I remember seeing this all pre-T and it made me so dysphoric. You’re just hurting other guys. Words are words, true, but they still hurt especially when we have dysphoria about these parts. Guys don’t want to come across a post that’s meant to make them feel good, read the first line and it says “To the guys with large breasts you are valid!” get that out of here! You are being so inconsiderate to what we suffer with and if you are trans, maybe tone it down and think about other people?
Reminder: we are not women, so stop talking about our parts in female terms.
Before I get that one person, obviously if you are speaking medically/giving medical advice then yes, there is no way around this but any other time, work around it. I’m sorry if this post has come across harsh but legit, it needs to be said.
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I can't seem to find that list of FTM gender affirming things, or that you're the blog that made one. Could you please help me out?
Lee says:
I’m not sure exactly what you’re looking for, so check out these links!
Dysphoria:
Coping with dysphoria masterpost
Disablity-friendly dysphoria tips
Transmasculine dysphoria
Dysphoria when you have to wear a dress
Dysphoria and periods / Period Dysphoria
Masturbation with dysphoria
Presentation/Clothes:
Masculine Makeup / Kii’s masculine makeup / Fiber mascara beard
Finding Masculine Clothing in the Women’s Section (our own article)
Dressing to flatter your body type
Our Masculine Clothes post
How to dress better than James Bond
Where to Get Men’s Clothes that Fit
Packing/Binding:
Lee’s post on packing 101 and packer size
Our binding FAQ
Binding without a binder
Passing:
Passing tips
How to pass as male
Guide to being read as male
Hudson’s FTM Guide
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Lee says:
If it’s that time of the month, take a look at this handy info!
Menstrual supplies:
Pyramid Seven brand gender neutral period boxers
First Line Leakproof
Thinx boyshorts
What to Know Before You Buy Period Underwear
Let’s Talk About Disability, Periods, and Alternative Menstrual Products
How to use tampons, pads, and menstrual cups
How to Wear a Pad
Incontinence pads (may help dysphoria bc they’re designed for men instead of for periods but they’re similar enough to work for periods)
Wearing men’s underwear during period
Transfeminine dysphoria:
Transfeminine period dysphoria
Yes, Trans Women Can Get Period Symptoms
Transmasculine dysphoria:
My Period and Me: A Trans Guy’s Guide to Menstruation
Transmasc period dysphoria
Gender dysphoria and your cycle
MENstruation
Our Dysphoria Tips Masterpost
Stopping periods with birth control:
Everything you need to know about stopping your period with birth control
Birth control you can take on T
Everything you need to know about birth control
Excuses to tell your parents when you ask to stop period
What You Need to Know About Birth Control and Breast Cancer
What’s up with birth control pills and vaping?
Will the chemicals in birth control mess me up?
What are birth control side effects?
Can I get birth control at Planned Parenthood without my parents’ permission?
Birth Control Your Own Adventure
Does depo-provera cause depression?
Are Low-Dose Birth Control Pills Right for You?
Stopping periods other ways:
Testosterone FAQ
Hysterectomy
Endometrial Ablation
PMS:
Period pain
Coping with cramping
Self-care
6 Signs Your PMS Is Something More Serious
Period-related issues:
Endometriosis / 4 Things Everyone Needs to Know About Endometriosis
He Is 1 in 10: A Trans Man Shares What Life is Like With Endometriosis
PCOS
PMDD / Premenstrual Dysphoric Disorder & what to do about it
When Your Period Signals a Problem (tw gendered language)
Causes of irregular periods (tw gendered language)
Help! I need to see a gynecologist
Pelvic pain and persistent menses in transgender men
Planned Parenthood
9 LGBTQ People Speak Out About Pre-Menstrual Dysphoric Disorder
Other:
Period tracking apps
Here’s a Friendly Uterus to Bust the Menstruation Myths Getting You Down
Packing during your period
Period influencing gender identity?
Followers, feel free to add on!
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hey! in the midst of all this, spreading this information could potentially save LOTS of folks out there in protest! it costs Absolutely NOTHING to share. the original thread is on Twitter by strwbrrymew. the link to the thread is here, it contains more important information to note, including a video about how to do a proper eye flush should someone be teargassed.
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It’s a few minutes away from the new year where I’m at and I’m celebrating it in the best way. Going to get some wine soon. Happy New Year everyone! Hope you stick around with lil ol’ me in the new year! #unexpectedxdevelopments #hisogon
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Chapters: 21/?
Fandom: Hunter X Hunter
Rating: Explicit
Warnings: Rape/Non-Con, Underage
Relationships: Gon Freecs/Hisoka, Gon Freecs & Hisoka
Characters: Hisoka (Hunter X Hunter), Gon Freecs, Zushi (Hunter X Hunter), Killua Zoldyck, Illumi Zoldyck
Additional Tags: Rape/Non-con Elements, Implied Relationships, Sexual Tension, Angst and Feels, Sugar Daddy
Summary:
After losing his nen, Gon traveled three years with Kite and the chimera ants. Hunting exotic animals had led to all kinds of adventures, but Gon felt like something was missing. At some point, contact dropped off altogether with everyone and so he decided it was time to leave the wilderness and go visit Mito-san and, of course, his friends!
First stop, Yorknew City. He knew Zushi was still in Heaven’s Arena. He would start there.
But, Zushi wasn’t the only reunion awaiting him at the ever eventful Heaven’s Arena~
and look out for the giveaway announcement in the end notes…
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brew me coffee and hug me in the morning
#creative writing#poetry#yearn time#you ever just yearn#do you ever yearn#im starting to yearn#yearnposting#poem#help my poor soul#coffee#caffeine#gay#bi#mlm aesthetic#mlm
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