thegenvyisreal
southwestern pansy
Hoagie. 31, he/him, nby trans man, queer. Fat, spoonie, mentally ill. Feminist, leftist, inclusionist. 18+. Current fandoms: Good Omens, OFMD, Helluva Boss, The Sandman. Welcome to my humble bagel.
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is the tgirl wearing a collar doing it because she has a fetish, or just because it's a cute accessory? is the gay man in leather and a pup mask actually being "indecent" or is he just dressed up like a dog because it's fun? are drag queens doing it because crossdressing is sexy or because drag is an expression of who they are as a person? does the furry walking around in full suit have a boner under their outfit or do they just like cosplaying as their cute cartoon squirrel oc?
you will never know. you can never tell. sometimes even the people doing these things won't have an answer. is it a sex thing? is it kink? who fucking knows! there is no line! public expressions of sexuality aren't immoral to begin with, but if you make any attempt to suppress them, you have to decide what is and isn't allowed, and you are going to get it wrong. there is no way to untangle kink from personality and hobbies and interests. kink does not even necessarily involve sex. sometimes it's just self-expression and vulnerability and sharing a particular dynamic with another person. sounds a lot like (checks notes) literally every other human experience that exists.
i'll say it again: the person wearing a leash in your vicinity is not sexually assaulting you. they're just wearing a leash.
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i can’t think straight ive got brainfag
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before you see something and recoil at the price, be it handmade items, services, art, whatever. when you see something and you think, "i wouldnt pay more than $15 for that," you seriously have to ask yourself: if i were offered that same $15, would i make this object? would i spend the time to teach myself this skill to get this done, for $15? would i do this service for that same $15? would that be worth my time and effort?
yeah, that handmade necklace is $140. you might only be willing to pay $40 for that same necklace, but would you make it for $40 if someone asked you to?
you want to pay the babysitter fifteen bucks for the three hours she's watching your child. but would you honestly do that for $15? would you go into a stranger's house and change their baby's diaper and care for its needs, for $15?
you think its ridiculous that this artist is charging $30 for an icon commission. would you spend years catching up to their skill level to make that same drawing, start using your skill to make some extra cash, and then spend three hours on a drawing just to get $15?
would you be willing to work for $5 an hour?
no?
then don't be angry when someone else won't.
you don't have buy the service, it's okay if some things aren't within your budget or comfort zone, and it's also okay if the product isn't worth that much money to you. but do not be angry. be glad, because you know of another person out there who isn't being exploited for their time.
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imagine you're frolicking in a field, prancing through long grass, singing "falalalala~", occasionally picking a flower. etc, etc. but a guy in the same field is watching you, about 20 paces away. he lowers his opera glasses (which he was using to watch you) and starts clutching his head and screaming with blind rage because of how much you're pissing him off. that's what it's like to be on the internet.
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“no matter how badly you think you’re doing it, someone else has done it a lot worse and been fine” is applicable to a wide, wide range of things and i say it to myself all the time
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I had a dream that tiktok invented "girl occultism". I don't know what that is and my brain is scaring me
Dianic Wicca
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new Calypso’s Birthday behind the scenes pics
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French trans woman Marie-Pierre Pruvot, known by her stage name Bambi
Female Mimics magazine 1965
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Midnight Pals: Terfcon
JK Rowling: hello children
Rowling: i'm back from genussspect con '23
Stephen King: from what?
Clive Barker: it's her terf convention, steve
Rowling: IT ISS MORE THAN JUSSST A TERF CONVENTION
Rowling: we had nazisss there too
Rowling: man i jussst had ssuch a blasst at genussspect con 23
Rowling: going to panelss
Rowling: watching the terfssuit parade
Rowling: commissssioning artissstsss in artisstss alley to draw my terfsssona
King: wait whats your terfsona?
Rowling: oh here check thiss out
Rowling: hisss name isss robert galbraith and he'sss a losst prince from planet mobiousss on a misssion to avenge the death of hisss sensai
Rowling: by harassssing people in public toiletss
Rowling: robert galbraith isss sssso cool
Rowling: he'sss a bessst sselling author and he totally doesssn't have anyone living in the ventsss of his ssscottish casstle
King: oh i see you drew him with a sword there
Rowling: ITSSS A KATANA
Rowling: but the coolessst thing about robert galbraith isss how he sstandss up for proper gender roless
Barker: why's he a dude
Rowling: what
Barker: why'd you pick a dude for your terfsona
Rowling:
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Rowling: my favorite part of the convention was the terfsssuit parade
Rowling: when we all put on our besst big sshapelesss tradwife sshift dresssess and styled our bangss
Rowling: check out these photoss i took
Barker: oh its a hobbit parade
Rowling:
Frank Belknap Long: was there a klingon party?
Rowling: a what
Rowling: what are you talking about
Rowling: of courssse not!
Long: wow well, this convention sounds pretty mid
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I honestly don't understand people who say Republicans and Democrats are the same.
We literally have real world examples of the difference.
Queer people are starting an exodus from Florida and Texas to blue states.
And being able to see the massive difference between Florida and Minnesota is not an endorsement of the Democratic party.
The Left has been fighting so hard to show people everything is on a spectrum and yet... ugh.
Asking for details and a plan is not siding with genocide.
And I'm worried some people don't realize the number of people who genuinely like Biden and Trump. Like, even if everyone who voted for Biden just to not get Trump voted for a third party, they would be massively outnumbered by the folks who think those two are the bee's knees. We have just enough numbers to spoil the election and get Trump. But not even close to the numbers to straight up win an election.
Being realistic about that is not a moral failing.
I watched my mom suffer and die because of Trump's incompetence. I can't do another 4 years of Trump. I'm sorry.
I will not risk making the US a giant Florida.
#Biden is evil#This is known#But he's all that stands in the way of the conservatives wiping me off the face of the earth#So yeah I'm gonna vote for him#We live in hell#politics
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cast and crew dancing from Leslie's tiktok (with sound!)
#ofmd#ofmd spoilers#OH MY GOD I'M GAY#Also this is amazing#THIS IS AMAZING!!!!#I LOVE THEM ALL#videos
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People are talking about not voting for Biden.
Again.
I'm just so tired of this argument.
I just can't do Trump again.
I can't.
His incompetence killed so many people. A panel estimated 40% of COVID deaths could have been averted.
One of those deaths was my mother.
She was killed because people didn't trust the vaccines and they didn't think masks were worth the inconvenience. That man could have gone on TV and said "This is the Trump vaccine and it is great." He could have sold fucking MAGA masks on his website. He had 100% influence over his dipshit followers and could have used that for the greater good. But he was too vain to wear a mask in public and bungled the vaccine rollout.
And now I worry some of my trans loved ones may not make it through another far right administration. They have this giant target on their back right now and conservatives seem determined to eradicate as many trans lives as possible.
I wrote a whole ass post about how I didn't care for Biden. I still don't. But when I try to imagine what a right wing administration would be doing right now... that seems like it would be a nightmare orders of magnitude worse than the current nightmare.
As someone with an untreatable chronic illness, I know the feeling of being presented with choices where all of them suck. And I have had to survive by choosing the least sucky option over and over.
It feels bad every single time.
I hate it.
And I still fucking choose.
It should be different. There should be better choices. I shouldn't have to choose the least bad thing among all bad things.
But there are people and things in this world I feel are worth sticking around for, so I continue to choose the least sucky thing.
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everyone's masc til they have to put on the customer service voice
#Multiple respondents in my old job (it was cold calling)#Brought up my faggy demeanor#One beloved respondent said I sounded 'fruity as hell' before hanging up#Bless you sweet R I have cherished that phrase since#I've been asked if I was a faggot#To which I replied yes#They hung up#And QA wasn't the most pleased#But godDAMN is it hard to maintain a masculine voice for 6 hours on the phone#I had a customer service voice before starting T#And I still slip into it when I'm not paying direct attention#Hopefully one day it'll become second nature to keep my voice in my natural register#But until then it's all fruit all the time#hell yeah#trans stuff#transmasc stuff
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I've been active on tiktok this whole time oop
Have a recent one 👉🏻👈🏻
#I'm a trans guy and everything about this is so gender affirming!!#The tiktok is a fucking mood and the post under it is great too#T is amazing#Everyone should be able to access it!!#It shouldn't be a controlled substance!!#Stay winning all my fat and hairy babes (gn)#fat positive
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This is literally my favorite tweet of all time. It’s so powerful.
She Freaken Forgor Me
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Just a thought. When Crowley prevented Elspeth from comitting suicide, we as a fandom assumed that it was because he didn't want the girl to end up in Hell. But what if it was more than that? We have confirmation from Neil himself that Elspeth and Wee Morag were intended to be a couple. And seeing how Wee Morag saw grave robbing as a morally wrong thing, and she only agreed to do it to help Elspeth, I think it's fair to say that when she died, she ended up in Heaven. As such, if Elspeth would've comitted suicide, the two of them would have ended up in differite afterlives. And maybe Crowley knew that. And maybe the reason he persuaded Elspeth to live a good life was that so she could be reunited with Wee Morag in the afterlife. And if he did do that, what a romantic gesture.
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