When you have abusive parents they have the upper hand. They were handed that upper hand when you were born into their care, and they rely on continuing to exert the power it gives them over you well into your adulthood if you let them.

The thing is, you don't have to let them.

When you were a child things were different. You probably learnt that the best way to deal with them was to give them whatever they want and in return they would reward you with an easier living situation. Maybe youd be your mums pseudo therapist because she'd scream less when she felt listened to. Maybe you'd end the friendships your dad told you to because he was easier to live with when he wasn't angry. They held your rights and your needs against you because they could. More importantly, they did it because they were the main beneficiaries of that dynamic.

What do they have now?

If they have everything to gain from you, what do you have to gain from them?

Consider this an opportunity to renegotiate the terms of your relationship with them. You don't have to give them everything they want anymore if you don't want that too.

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Read that again and again …release our children our youth credit @fadiqu @mothersagainstgenocide

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My sperm donor verbally abused me for using my Nightlight app on my iPad in an attempt to drown out the noises of the lawn mower that my uncle was using to mow the lawn earlier today and then when I said that he was yelling at me, he denied it in addition to abusing me for crying, even slamming my late grandpa's bathroom door in anger during his one bathroom break at the time for good measure. Oh, and he cares more about my stupid ears than he has ever cared about me when he saw that I was wearing my headphones. I hope that whatever soup he gets to eat is always cold in the middle!

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