just came to terms with myself about being a trans guy recently and was able to get the okay for hrt!

but after coming out to family my parents weren't very supportive and kept telling me i will regret it and that i sound like a drug addict when i tried to defend myself, was also told to cancel the appointment

any advice..?

i don't think i will cancel but i'm a little lost and scared

I’m not sure what advice I can give that will actually help you because I don’t know that anything you could do would change how they feel. If it’s important to you to keep your relationships with them I’d say keep advocating for yourself and keep explaining how you feel them as best as you can. I would bet they’re not going to be very receptive so definitely be careful and don’t keep making yourself vulnerable if they’re not going to treat you well.

If hrt is something you want you should go for it no matter what anyone else says about because it’s your body!

I hope you family comes around anon and I wish you luck

Am I a bad person for not wanting my parents at a band thing?

I'm a trans masc. My parents are transphobic. "I don't believe in transgender" To quote.

In my band, I go by my real name and pronouns. My parents want to be there. I said no. My mom got mad at me, and told me to just "go eat my food", with an incredulous look.

Am I wrong for this?

I apologize for the late reply but you are never wrong for not wanting people who don’t support you around. You should always be surrounded by people who love and support who you really are and you shouldn’t feel guilty for wanting the same.

Hi, im new to your blog and i knew i had to ask this because im a little lost here. (Pronouns he/they btw) I really want to change my name, but I don't know whether I should, I guess? Like my chosen name is Milo, and I have history with the name. (I had a boy alter-ego when I was younger and that was his name) but I feel guilty trying to change it. So I settled on my nickname. My name makes me uncomfortable sometimes, but I just don't know if I'm "allowed" to change it. It's so different compared to my legal one. I really do like the name Milo though, but I don't know if I should change it or if people will be mad that it's not similar/the same as my old one.

Hi friend! I understand that it’s scary to want to change something about yourself. Being trans is a series of changes and for some people those changes never stop. You should never worry whether or not these changes will please other people because your transition is about what makes YOU happy. Change your name, change it again, go by more than one, do whatever makes you happy.

I wish I could be skinny so I could actually pass and not just be considered the androgynous fat friend in my friend group. I've been feeling quite depressed lately and I don't know what to do. I know if I lose weight binders would work better and I could ress more masc, but I've tried to diet before and it made me feel like shit. Any advice?

I know how frustrating it is but this is not a problem that you need to change. It’s up to everyone else to change how we view other people. I know a majority of trans rep is skinny white people and it’s harmful to a lot of people. I know it’s really difficult but you don’t need to change yourself for other people.

I will say, if you ever decide to work out definitely do your research and try to stay motivated for you and how it makes you feel not because of how you look. Exercise can improve a lot of things for you but don’t let it become something about your self image.

I feel for you anon and I’m wishing you all the best as a fellow non skinny trans person

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Taylor swift is such an enigma to me. How can some some incredibly mid be so popular. Like genuinely I need to know.

Please help me. My name is Shirley. I am autistic and disabled. I ran away from my abusive parents a few years ago. I’ve been moving from place to place. A couple of months ago I was able to find my own apartment. Things went downhill when I was fired from my job. It has been very difficult for me to find employment due to mental health issues. I have been transferring money out of my credit card to my debit card in order to pay my rent. I also have to pay interest. This time, I’ve really hit rock bottom. My credit card is about to be maxed out and I could get evicted. I don’t think I could survive out in the streets.

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if you aren't best friends with your lover and a little bit in love with all your friends than what's the fucking point

GQ. Isn’t Acab basically a similarly problematic term as „all men are evil“? Why are we putting individual people into an evaluation when a hand full of them factually are not bad people? We should hate on the principles, on the lack of support from the social system, and on the poor competence and discipline from many cop unities. „Defund the police“ makes more sense than Acab imo. But maybe I’m not informed enough, idk

The thing is that being a cop is a choice. It’s your choice to be a cop and STAY a cop. I wouldn’t really believe anyone who tried to plead ignorance at this point but if you are a person who wants to make a difference in the world and help people, being a police officer is not the way to do it. If you are a cop, you’re an accomplice to any wrong doings that cops have done in my eyes.

Cops have a power they shouldn’t have whether they use it that way or not. I don’t believe every single cop is inherently an evil person, but I do believe that if you have chosen to be a cop, you are supporting a system of genocide and realistically there isn’t a way that you wouldn’t know that.

Men do not have a choice because they were born that way.

"The Don't Say Gay Law has been cut down to size in more ways than this.

- LGBTQ+ students and staff may now be protected by anti-bullying and anti-discrimination measures

- Libraries are free to restock LGBTQ+ books

- LGBTQ+ topics may be discussed freely

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Florida teachers can discuss sexual orientation and gender ID under ‘Don’t Say Gay’ bill settlement

I really wish someone had told me there was a possibility that I just wouldn’t pass and that eventually it would be ok.

im very scared to transition. On one hand, id love to. On the other hand, i want to visit my country some day. I want to see the cities and touch the buildings and feel my culture under my skin. But that country is iraq. You can guess why thats an issue

I can’t imagine how hard this must be for you. I’m holding out hope that one day it’ll be possible for all trans people to be safe everywhere. I’m hoping especially for you that your home isn’t taken from you just because you’re choosing to do what makes you happy.

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Can someone tell me where these feminine trans guys with massive tits who wear push-up bras and skimpy outfits that I keep seeing transphobes complain about are? I’d love to see massive tboy boobs.

If you’re trans but not transmasc or transfem I love u