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thatuselessenbywitch · 4 months
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My favorite part about being sapphic is when the things I love about other women become things I love about myself. One day I was tracing another woman’s stretch marks in a dim bedroom light. And then, seemingly by accident, I was doing it to myself in my bathroom mirror. I loved the feeling of a full hand of flesh when I grabbed a woman’s hips, and then mine didn’t need to be so skinny anymore. I looked at a woman’s lower stomach pudge and thought it was so soft and cute, then never wanted a flat stomach again. Loving women can be so healing when you come from a world that doesn’t.
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thatuselessenbywitch · 4 months
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having a panic attack while you're with your friends but everyones laughing and not giving a shit about you
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thatuselessenbywitch · 4 months
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The tricky balance between reclaiming a trigger vs triggering yourself by engaging with it again
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thatuselessenbywitch · 4 months
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thatuselessenbywitch · 4 months
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*kisses you while you're in the middle of infodumping* Sorry, you're just being really sexy right now. Continue.
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thatuselessenbywitch · 4 months
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slay first day at school and the first thing ppl talk about during lunch is calories
I'm gonna actually fuvking kill myself
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thatuselessenbywitch · 4 months
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Reblog the writers’ fortune cookie for luck!
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thatuselessenbywitch · 4 months
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Christ without HRT is just cis.
Trans Jesus confirmed
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thatuselessenbywitch · 4 months
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Tired of washboard abs propaganda. We must post more tummy.
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thatuselessenbywitch · 4 months
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"I'm dyslexic. I'm not stupid."
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thatuselessenbywitch · 4 months
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might sound crazy but people with pd’s don’t want to hear about your negative experiences with people who have pd’s even under the guise of supporting us. I promise “my narcissistic wifebeater dad was an absolute nightmare but I know not all people with npd are like that!” or having an anecdote about your toxic ex who had bpd doesn’t actually help end the stigma. why not just stick with “having a personality disorder doesn’t make you inherently abusive” and leave it at that without making it about you💞
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thatuselessenbywitch · 4 months
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those without borderline personality disorder love to talk about how those with the disorder are "abusive" and "dangerous", but literally a majority of the time we act out because a boundary was crossed. people step all over us and we are the bad ones when we suddenly react and act out when we aren't listened to. ok
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thatuselessenbywitch · 4 months
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Frankie => some kind of beige
Emma => clear blue, sometimes bright yellow
Blake => dark green
Monique => pitch black
Amber => pink but like a really soft pink, not pastel but a salmon-like pink (does it make any sense?)
folks with synesthesia what colors do yall associate with these names. (oc making)
Frankie
Emma
Blake
Monique
Amber
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thatuselessenbywitch · 4 months
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i’ve been posting a lot lately but i do have one thing i wanna share.
when you become an artist, of any kind. a musician, painter, author, actor, dancer etc. you slowly train your mind to notice details more.
if you sing or play music, your ears have to learn to notice fine differences between things like a D# and D natural. so your ears hear fine differences outside of music too.
if you paint or draw, your eyes and brain and hands become trained to work together, noticing small details and changing them. you notice colors, specks of dust, and the ever annoying water stain on your notebook.
if you read a lot, your mind learns to find the beauty in everything. a book may describe a river as a flowing soul painted blue, ever wishing to find an end, and the description sticks with you.
if you dance, your body knows how to find itself in a space. it learns where everything is around it, and is amazing at analyzing others movements.
if you act, you learn things in how people talk and act, and how to replicate it, you see the behaviour in animals and wonder how to personify it.
art shows us the voices of things that can’t speak, and the details of the world around us. being artists shows us the things in the world others cannot recognize, makes connections between the unrelated. art is always influencing us.
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thatuselessenbywitch · 4 months
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fuck it. shout out to "high functioning" neurodivergents
the ones who can mask easily, the ones who can get social cues, the ones who have managed to go most of their life not even knowing they were ND because they didn't present as the stereotypical ND person.
the ones who can pay attention in class, understand social etiquette, who understand societial expectations
the ones who don't feel neurodivergent enough bc they don't struggle in the same ways/areas a lot of NDs do, or they can't relate to other NDs' experiences because they always understood these things easily
the ones with high empathy, the ones who DO get the joke, the ones who are constantly told that they can't possibly be neurodivergent because they don't act like what you'd expect a neurodivergent person to act like.
you are neurodivergent enough. you are valid, and so are your experiences. not struggling as much as others do in some places doesn't mean you dont struggle at all. your condition and diagnosis is valid. your symptoms are valid. YOU ARE VALID. not checking all the supposed boxes doesn't mean you aren't neurodivergent. you are enough. you are valid. you are loved. you are valued. you matter. you belong in neurodivergent spaces, you deserve to use whatever resources are available to you, you are allowed to take up space in these communities. and i am so, so proud of you.
feel free to, and actually, i encourage you to reblog this with your experiences. we belong in this community as much as anyone else. please also tag this w/ any neurodivergent conditions i may have forgotten 💙
since this is getting lots of notes I'd like to add, even if you're undiagnosed or maybe self diagnosed, for whatever reason, (i.e. can't get access to a diagnosis, not being taken seriously, or just not wanting an official diagnosis, etc.) this still applies to you. actually especially to you folks. don't think for a second you're not valid just bc you don't have the paperwork or whatever to say it
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thatuselessenbywitch · 4 months
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As an Egyptian, I feel the need to apologize on behalf of my ancestors for the creation of mpreg.
However, it does give me the perfect excuse to draw and write mpreg and call it "reconnecting with my cultural identity and heritage", so why would I? (/j)
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thatuselessenbywitch · 4 months
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Honestly, I think from the moment that Percy found out that not every demigod has a loving mortal parent they can depend on, when they already can't depend on the gods, and that Annabeth specifically, hasn't had anyone take care of her like that since she was 7, he decided he would be the one to.
They take care of each other up to that point, but I think that's when he starts noticing how much she takes care of them. She already knew if she didn't no one else will. She protects them against humans, she stands with them against monsters, she always brings up the rear of the group when they're running, and she is always the first one to make a move when they're fighting. She does it because no one is going to protect her if she doesn't do it herself. No one is going to protect Grover and Percy if she isn't.
In the arch, he pretty much tells her he would fight the gods for her, and then he goes on to do just that.
Athena, the one person who was supposed to protect her willingly pushes monsters her way, she lets Echidna and the chimera into a place that was supposed to be safe. Her decision is that Annabeth should be punished, and say what you want, but I think she knew that Annabeth would think through every scenario and know that someone had to stay and hold them back. And I think she knew that Annabeth would be the one to stay. Because that's the way she raised her, knowing that no one cared whether she lived or died. And I think that's the cruellest part.
Which is why Percy's sacrifice means so much more. He not only made the decision to trade his life for hers and fight the monster so she and Grover could escape, but he also made the conscious choice to push back against Athena's wishes. He fought a goddess for her, Athena said "Annabeth will die for her impertinence" and Percy said "Not today, not ever"
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