Today I let down my guard. I am excepting and embracing all my flaws and fears. I am becoming more open and transparent about my true thoughts and feelings. I am learning to love me so much that I really DON’T care what others think about me. I am learning that it is ok to be vulnerable, emotional, sensitive, weak, passionate, sensual, scared, honest, funny, and strong. I am learning that everything that made me weak and fearful is not creating a stronger and fearless woman ready to Live her life unapologetically and without asking for permission from anyone! : 2018 told a story, 2019 revealed the truth, and 2020 is making dreams become reality 🦋 : : : : : #youready #yepjustlikethatsis #sandeeismyname #femaleboss #lingeriebusiness #hostesslife #partyplanner #speakitintoexistence #livinglife #blackwriter #imaboss #createthelifeyouwant #picoftheday #instamood #nofilter #browngirlmagic #overfortyandfabulous #confidentblackwoman #beenfabulous #youbettercatchup #livingmylife #noregrets #isaidwhatisaid #periodt #createthifeyouwant #mylifemyway #womenwholead #womenworkingtogether #iamfabulous (at Sandee and the City) https://www.instagram.com/p/B4_Ui7Cpkfy/?igshid=13991kbch4gfz

Hello beautiful people and happy Monday.... stop complaining about Monday’s and start doing something that makes you love Monday’s and every other day of the week just like we be living for Friday 🖤🦋❤️ ====================================================== So how are you starting or how did you start your Monday? 🤔 =========================== I am starting my Monday off by staying hydrated drinking my alkaline @smartwater and only allowing positive thoughts and vibes to enter my mind from both myself and others I come in contact with all day today 🙏🏾====================================================== Monday’s should be just as amazing as the other 6 days 🦋 ======================================================#happymonday😊 #alkalinesmartwater #yepjustlikethatsis #beautyteacher #sandeeismyname #createyourlife #mentalhealthmonday #beautypro (at Sandee and the City) https://www.instagram.com/p/B34mlAgpV0l/?igshid=sftomo0ij4rn

I was told as a little girl that kids are to be seen and not heard and I played my position. : : I was also told when I grew up to become a woman that women should be submissive and know her position and I played my position. : : Then I was told a women’s place is in the kitchen and the bedroom and I played my position. : : Being quite and listening gave me the ability to see things others may not see (paying attention to detail). : Being submissive and knowing my position allowed me to be passionate and empathetic for others (learned to lead) : Being a quick learner in the kitchen/bedroom allowed me to know that you don’t have to use words to get your point across (power of persuasion) : : The moral of the story is don’t keep dwelling on what your life was and go hard making your life what it’s supposed to be 🖤🦋❤️ ==================================================== #yepjustlikethatsis #sandeeismyname #naturalbrownbeauty #selfcaresunday #lingerieboutiqueowner #beautypro #browngirlsaredope #locsandtatts ========================= (at Sandee and the City) https://www.instagram.com/p/B33BMjQpyUg/?igshid=1qpngtapj9t5q

I was told as a little girl that kids are to be seen and not heard and I played my position. : : I was also told when I grew up to become a woman that women should be submissive and know her position and I played my position. : : Then I was told a women’s place is in the kitchen and the bedroom and I played my position. : : Being quite and listening gave me the ability to see things others may not see (paying attention to detail). : Being submissive and knowing my position allowed me to be passionate and empathetic for others (learned to lead) : Being a quick learner in the kitchen/bedroom allowed me to know that you don’t have to use words to get your point across (power of persuasion) : : The moral of the story is don’t keep dwelling on what your life was and go hard making your life what it’s supposed to be 🖤🦋❤️ ==================================================== #yepjustlikethatsis #sandeeismyname #naturalbrownbeauty #selfcaresunday #lingerieboutiqueowner #beautypro #browngirlsaredope #locsandtatts ========================= (at Sandee and the City) https://www.instagram.com/p/B33AySQFPIF/?igshid=h8g8lhiw2j0l

Grand Rising beautiful Queens & Kings... hope you were able to rest well, take a deep breathe in, smile, and thank God/Mother Earth for waking you up and able to visibly see another day. . Happy Friday 3rd day of April... today is gonna be a fabulous day. . Remember this journey you’re on is only what you make it.. don’t stress over shit that’s no in your control. . Enjoy your morning ❤️ : : : : : : #quotes #quotestoliveby #enjoytoday #liveinthemoment #mindfullness #higherliving #highvibration #awakening #staygrounded #spiritualawakening #lawofattraction #motivationalquotes #inspirationalquotes #freeyoursoul #nourishyoursoul #mentalhealth #selflove #loveyourselffirst #healthyhabits #positivehabits #happinessalways #emotionallywoke #emotionalwellbeing #innergrowth #protectyourenergy #selfaware #workingonme #manifestwhatyouwant #yepjustlikethatsis #sandeeismyname (at Good Morning) https://www.instagram.com/p/B-hRGweDQEe/?igshid=phli6vzxwn71

You know the vibe.... : When today is your last day of work, no weddings tomorrow morning, and you are off work until January 2020 🥂💃🏾🎉🥳🥰😈 . . . . . . . . . . . #blackgirlmagic #ownyourshit #transformationjourney #womenwithpurpose #liveonpurpose #speakitintoexistence #trustyourjourney #lifestyleinfluencer #createthelifeyouwant #womenrock #thegirlgang #levelingup #sandeeismyname #confidenceissexy #mytruth #womenworkingtogether #womenareamazing #liveyourtruth #intentionalliving #learntoletgo #womenwhohustle #freeyourmind #browngirlsrock #youarepowerful #womenempowerment #blackgirlmagic✨ #yepjustlikethatsis #createthelifeyoulove #liveyourpurpose #myblackisbeautiful💋 (at Sandee and the City) https://www.instagram.com/p/B6UMjU7JlPq/?igshid=1nfeihf8f1gfp

Disclaimer: this is my page you don’t like what you see unfollow me because I’m tired of being afraid to be me!!! ____ I am becoming more transparent and vulnerable and I am also learning that I have to walk away from things I can’t change. Work on changing the things I can, and love myself every step of the way 🦋 . . . . . . . . . . . #blackgirlmagic #ownyourshit #transformationjourney #womenwithpurpose #liveonpurpose #speakitintoexistence #trustyourjourney #lifestyleinfluencer #createthelifeyouwant #womenrock #thegirlgang #levelingup #sandeeismyname #confidenceissexy #mytruth #womenworkingtogether #womenareamazing #liveyourtruth #intentionalliving #learntoletgo #womenwhohustle #freeyourmind #browngirlsrock #youarepowerful #womenempowerment #blackgirlmagic✨ #yepjustlikethatsis #createthelifeyoulove #liveyourpurpose #myblackisbeautiful💋 (at Sandee and the City) https://www.instagram.com/p/B56Erwup56V/?igshid=6vxotqtdiel3

Happy Thanksgiving to each and every one of you beautiful people. I hope that everyone is surrounded by amazing friends and family and that you are forever grateful for every moment giving to you good and bad 🦋❤️ . . . . . . . . . . . . . #blackgirlmagic #ownyourshit #womenwithpurpose #liveonpurpose #speakitintoexistence #trustyourjourney #lifestyleinfluencer #createthelifeyouwant #womenrock #thegirlgang #levelingup #sandeeismyname #confidenceissexy #mytruth #womenworkingtogether #womenareamazing #liveyourtruth #intentionalliving #learntoletgo #womenwhohustle #freeyourmind #browngirlsrock #youarepowerful #womenempowerment #blackgirlmagic✨ #yepjustlikethatsis #createthelifeyoulove #liveyourpurpose #myblackisbeautiful💋 (at Sandee and the City) https://www.instagram.com/p/B5bGss4JkVi/?igshid=1cic8yhr3ivkl

If you stppped to read this then this message is for you 😉 : What’s for you is for you no matter how many times you fall or someone push you. :__________________________________: :__________________________________: : : : : : : #quotes #quotestoliveby #enjoytoday #liveinthemoment #mindfullness #higherliving #highvibration #awakening #staygrounded #spiritualawakening #lawofattraction #motivationalquotes #inspirationalquotes #freeyoursoul #nourishyoursoul #mentalhealth #selflove #loveyourselffirst #healthyhabits #positivehabits #happinessalways #emotionallywoke #emotionalwellbeing #innergrowth #protectyourenergy #selfaware #workingonme #manifestwhatyouwant #yepjustlikethatsis #sandeeismyname (at Brooklyn, New York) https://www.instagram.com/p/B9QVCHtpm94/?igshid=sb8fhpisgjnf

The best kind of love is when you fall in love with yourself despite all the shit you’ve been through 🦋 . . . . . . . . . . . #blackgirlmagic #ownyourshit #transformationjourney #womenwithpurpose #liveonpurpose #speakitintoexistence #trustyourjourney #lifestyleinfluencer #createthelifeyouwant #womenrock #thegirlgang #levelingup #sandeeismyname #confidenceissexy #mytruth #womenworkingtogether #womenareamazing #liveyourtruth #intentionalliving #learntoletgo #womenwhohustle #freeyourmind #browngirlsrock #youarepowerful #womenempowerment #blackgirlmagic✨ #yepjustlikethatsis #createthelifeyoulove #liveyourpurpose #myblackisbeautiful💋 (at "New York City-The City that Never Sleeps") https://www.instagram.com/p/B6lXey7ppbI/?igshid=ifi9ol5t1qu4

The day I did this photo shoot I was so broken and so full of hurt and pain. The photo shoot was supposed to represent a woman going through a transitional moment in her life.. A woman that is finding her voice, her strength, her worth, her confidence, her passion and purpose, her happiness through the pain, and her reason for living. . . I was then and still am now healing and smiling through the pain... growth is hard... transitioning into new seasons are even harder because sometimes you have to let go of things and people you love and care for in order to properly heal and learn to love whole heartedly with no limitations, judgements, or conditions. . . The person that I have been and is now is not the woman I am going to be... when you finally learn to love yourself more than anyone else could possibly love you... there’s no limit to what you are captor doing in return ❤️🦋🖤 . . . . . . . . . . . #blackgirlmagic #ownyourshit #transformationjourney #womenwithpurpose #liveonpurpose #speakitintoexistence #trustyourjourney #lifestyleinfluencer #createthelifeyouwant #womenrock #thegirlgang #levelingup #sandeeismyname #confidenceissexy #mytruth #womenworkingtogether #womenareamazing #liveyourtruth #intentionalliving #learntoletgo #womenwhohustle #freeyourmind #browngirlsrock #youarepowerful #womenempowerment #blackgirlmagic✨ #yepjustlikethatsis #createthelifeyoulove #liveyourpurpose #myblackisbeautiful💋 (at New York, New York) https://www.instagram.com/p/B6lMThIJspu/?igshid=gofs8itoilcc

Right or Wrong I’m gonna piss somebody off anyway and I won’t even know it #alamierda (fuck it) 🤷🏽‍♀️ : Sunday’s Ritual: ❤️🦋 self care: body and soul . . . . . . . . . . . #blackgirlmagic #ownyourshit #transformationjourney #womenwithpurpose #liveonpurpose #speakitintoexistence #trustyourjourney #lifestyleinfluencer #createthelifeyouwant #womenrock #thegirlgang #levelingup #sandeeismyname #confidenceissexy #mytruth #womenworkingtogether #womenareamazing #liveyourtruth #intentionalliving #learntoletgo #womenwhohustle #freeyourmind #browngirlsrock #youarepowerful #womenempowerment #yepjustlikethatsis #createthelifeyoulove #liveyourpurpose (at Brooklyn, New York) https://www.instagram.com/p/B6ZOhvMpAkF/?igshid=bkw6q8z7lyl4

I’ve learned so much about myself this year and I am getting more confident, stronger, more self aware, I have more self love, and I will not apologize for anything that makes me happy and gives me peace.... I am transforming most wont like me anymore and I am going to lose some people that I was once close to but I’m ok with that because with new beginnings comes change.... I’m ready 🦋 . . . . . . . . . . . #blackgirlmagic #ownyourshit #transformationjourney #womenwithpurpose #liveonpurpose #speakitintoexistence #trustyourjourney #lifestyleinfluencer #createthelifeyouwant #womenrock #thegirlgang #levelingup #sandeeismyname #confidenceissexy #mytruth #womenworkingtogether #womenareamazing #liveyourtruth #intentionalliving #learntoletgo #womenwhohustle #freeyourmind #browngirlsrock #youarepowerful #womenempowerment #blackgirlmagic✨ #yepjustlikethatsis #createthelifeyoulove #liveyourpurpose #myblackisbeautiful💋 (at Sandee and the City) https://www.instagram.com/p/B5_CgJKJB-d/?igshid=1rolw0crjvwyb

I am no longer available to make anyone comfortable..... a la mierda you 💕 . . . . . . . . . . #blackgirlmagic #ownyourshit #transformationjourney #womenwithpurpose #liveonpurpose #speakitintoexistence #trustyourjourney #lifestyleinfluencer #createthelifeyouwant #womenrock #thegirlgang #levelingup #sandeeismyname #confidenceissexy #mytruth #womenworkingtogether #womenareamazing #liveyourtruth #intentionalliving #learntoletgo #womenwhohustle #freeyourmind #browngirlsrock #youarepowerful #womenempowerment #blackgirlmagic✨ #yepjustlikethatsis #createthelifeyoulove #liveyourpurpose #myblackisbeautiful💋 (at Sandee and the City) https://www.instagram.com/p/B5-iq3VpgZt/?igshid=1trf8jzmqi5z

Give yourself permission to be yourself and do it unapologetically 🦋 . . . . . . . . . . . #blackgirlmagic #ownyourshit #transformationjourney #womenwithpurpose #liveonpurpose #speakitintoexistence #trustyourjourney #lifestyleinfluencer #createthelifeyouwant #womenrock #thegirlgang #levelingup #sandeeismyname #confidenceissexy #mytruth #womenworkingtogether #womenareamazing #liveyourtruth #intentionalliving #learntoletgo #womenwhohustle #freeyourmind #browngirlsrock #youarepowerful #womenempowerment #blackgirlmagic✨ #yepjustlikethatsis #createthelifeyoulove #liveyourpurpose #myblackisbeautiful💋 (at Sandee and the City) https://www.instagram.com/p/B55WEk5JAlA/?igshid=136hfkozukgzz

I don’t need to wear a crown to know I’m a Queen 🦋 . . . . . . . . . . . #blackgirlmagic #ownyourshit #transformationjourney #womenwithpurpose #liveonpurpose #speakitintoexistence #trustyourjourney #lifestyleinfluencer #createthelifeyouwant #womenrock #thegirlgang #levelingup #sandeeismyname #confidenceissexy #mytruth #womenworkingtogether #womenareamazing #liveyourtruth #intentionalliving #learntoletgo #womenwhohustle #freeyourmind #browngirlsrock #youarepowerful #womenempowerment #blackgirlmagic✨ #yepjustlikethatsis #createthelifeyoulove #liveyourpurpose #myblackisbeautiful💋 (at Sandee and the City) https://www.instagram.com/p/B53aBi-pnvc/?igshid=d4j9wmyo6dw5