#yada yada I need to focus on things that actually get me money. And this is def not oneš
Mmmmm yessss I think I will delete that art after I sleepā¦.. yessssssss
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Dec 25
Merry Christmas Dad,
Sorry, I can't be there.
I know Christmas is usually hard cause of Mom and all, but I hope you're not taking it too hard without me there. I'm safe, I promise. I'm here, real and alive, and I know you're probably struggling, but I'll be home soon.
I think the others were surprised when I told them it was Christmas. I know the Dw's were, so we did a little crash course on Christmas. And then! Did you know Willow is Jewish? I didn't! How long have I known her, and it never came up?Ā
I mean, I'm sure it might have come up before, but I guess I didn't think about it, so we talked about Hanukkah, too. There's a lot I didn't know about Hanukkah, too! That it actually happened at the start of December, so we completely missed it. I feel a little bad about that.
We talked about doing presents, but we don't really have the money for that sadly, and even then, what are we going to do with a bunch of presents anyway? It's not like we can actually do anything significant. They'd have to be helpful, or it would be better for us to sell them to get things we need to travel and get home.Ā
I think the older kids mostly talked about it because Grace and I are so young. Still, I had to tell them that we understood our situation and that it wouldn't change any time soon, so we should focus on getting home first and foremost.Ā
So yeah, Merry Christmas (and very late Hanukkah) to us; we're still celebrating this whole other type of ceremony, but I don't think that it's going to change much. We'll be home sooner or later.
Yada, yada, yada.Ā
I'll write to you soon.Ā
Love, Jack
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hey, srry to be the one to rant in ur inbox but i saw u were open to anons and ur one of the few ppl ik in this fandom space thts around my age group and i was just wondering. how??
ive been on tumblr and in fandom/fanfic communities since i waz around 15, its basically my main hobby and pretty much the only social outlet i have, and ive just been so down and so lonely because ive been feeling shunned and excluded pretty much everywhere once i disclose my age and i absolutly completely understand WHY bc there r so many younger ppl in these places, but i dont know what else to do. it feels like nothing is fun anymore. the general consensus seems to b that i should just fck off and have some kids and pay bills until i die. how do u deal with it?? are u ever bothered by it? i feel likr a creep for even being here still, but itās one of the only things i still have tht brings me joy. srry if that was a lot, i feel bad even compareing myself to u in any way because im nowhere near as talented as u are, absolutly delete this if it makes u uncomfortable whatsoever
hope u are doing well yourself š ty for being u
First of all, NEVER be sorry to rant to my inbox!! And I truly feel appreciative for you to tell me all of this. This is a safe space and you're always welcome to it! My reply is a bit long, I didn't want to flood anyone with a super long post, so the rest is beneath the cut.
I completely understand how you feel, about the age thing and the ever present societal norms of "Must be an adult, must have kids, must do this, yada yada". Its depressing as fuck.
I've been into anime and manga since around 13-14 years old (apart from Pokemon which I've loved -And still do!- since the age of 5.)
I always wrote fanfics, always did fanart, even if I thought it was absolute garbage, I was still so happy just doing it. It has been something that got me through the toughest times in my life. I struggle with suicidal depression, always have for as long as I can remember, even back in my single digit days before even becoming a teenager. When I started to reach the age of "adulthood" I started to shy away from what I loved doing because I felt as an adult, I wasn't allowed to enjoy what I truly loved anymore, cause I needed to "grow up." And I did that. For a while. I rarely acknowledged anime. I sold all of my manga, my wall scrolls, my merch. I stopped drawing/writing it as much cause I needed to focus on being an adult, paying my bills, going to college, all that crap.
But, I got worse in my depression. I self harmed, had to go to therapy, had to start medication, and at one point I actually wrote that final goodbye note because I couldn't handle the norm of "being a mature adult" so I figured I must be useless otherwise. If I wasn't happy playing my adult role in society, what was the point of me even living?
During this time I went to college for 3 years, stressing, crying, working on a degree that I didn't even want because I thought it was expected of me. (I've always wanted to go to an art school and get a degree there. But my parents and everyone else in family told me, thats not a real degree. So I left it behind...) For 3 years I wasted my time and money and sanity to try to appease the people who don't pay my bills, don't put food in my mouth and certainly don't do shit for me otherwise, and I finally stopped and thought...
WHY?
WHY am I trying to impress and fit in with people who don't even really know me or provide for me?
I dropped out of the college that was stressing me out. I lost that money, but oh well, I was miserable, and my mental health is more important to me.
I don't want kids. I don't want that boring life of "just work til your dead". I don't want to have boring hobbies that I don't even like just to fit in with the people of my age range who I could care less about.
I'm turning 30 in a few months, and I regret wasting a few years of my life trying to fit into this norm of, bullshit. (And please note to whoever is reading this, if doing a lot of the 'norm' and having a family with kids and everything IS happiness for you, that is beautiful!! I am only referring to the people who don't want that life, and it should NOT be forced upon them.)
I love anime. I love drawing it, writing fics for it, interacting with other people over it, and I don't know why I ever tried to deny that.
I was afraid to return online in the fandoms because surely everyone must only be young teenagers right? Actually, not at all!
I've interacted with SO MANY people near my age range, and, it is truly amazing.
There are lots of people close in age, sometimes they're just a little difficult to find, but they are there, I promise, and they are amazing. I've enjoyed anime more in my adult life now than when I was younger tbh because I stopped caring about what others think and that my age is literally just a number. I'll be 30. So what, that doesn't change what I love. My body is getting older, that's all. I am still ME.
My fiance and I still go out and play Pokemon Go, collect Pokemon cards, like, I have BINDERS full of cards. The store we go to is ALWAYS packed with other people our age and way older who love Pokemon, Digimon, YuGiOh, and all sorts of other anime things they offer there.
These people are out there!
I started being more open with my likes and interests with strangers and coworkers, and I found out a lot of people really are into this, but felt they had to keep it hidden cause they didn't want anyone to think they were weird because of their age.
I surround myself with those who I know are supportive of me, or don't have a problem with my likes and interests and I stay away from those who try to shame me, and I kick them out of my life because I don't need that negativity in my circle. Some people my age who aren't into anime don't have a problem with me being into it at all. They've never shunned me for it. If anyone does, goodbye.
Life is short, its hard, its shitty. It doesn't need to be made worse by trying to appease those who aren't providing for you or feeling like you're not allowed to love what you love. So enjoy the things you love to enjoy. If there's something that you can latch onto that brings honest happiness into your life, cherish it.
I hope this helped in some way...even if just a tiny bit...
I know it was long, but I wanted to explain as much as I could so you don't feel like you're alone or left behind in the fandoms because of age. I tried to deny what brought me joy, and it only brought me more misery. I hated it.
I'm so much happier now, and I truly hope this type of peace comes for you soon as well.
Always feel free to drop in my inbox as anon, I would NEVER delete something like this.
Again, I hope this helped. If I didn't acknowledge something, or seemed to entirely misunderstand, I dearly apologize and please correct me if needed!!
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Why am i like this why am i like this why am i *screams*
Story time because this happened at morning and im still internally screaming. My spanish teacher asked me to walk with her for a second cause she wanted to ask me smth, so i went with her kinda freaked out cause, well its me i go worst case scenario always. So, what she wanted to talk about, is that shes noticed i dont usually stare people in the eye when im talking. She said shed notice that for a while but that the last few days (since ive been talking to her more cause of a thing were working on) she just noticed and was curious why i did that. And if i was just zoning out. Then she started mentioning how i didnt look at her in class yada yada you get it.
I dont like looking people in the eye, but i didnt really notice how much i didnt do it till now. But i didnt feel like explaining that because "yeah looking people in the eye can be hard"
So i just
Lied
DONT ASK WHY MY BRAIN DECIDED TO TELL HER I WAS HAVING SIGHT ISSUES AND THATS WHY I AVOIDED LOOKING UP AT HER IN CLASS CAUSE I COULDNT SEE THE BOARD
But now i lied my ass off and told her id get an oftalmologist appointement in a few weeks because i was panicking š
One i neither have the time or money to attend
I mean, my sight *has* been off and i did want to get that checked BUT NOW I SOMEHOW MADE UP AN APOINTEMENT NEXT WEEK??
Kill me murder me assasinate me
Just in case im mentioning this cause i think its funny how i caught myself into ths situation
Zia..... omg š
Ok first of all don't beat yourself up. I understand why you wouldn't want to tell her that you might have ADHD and you have every right not to share that with people. Also impulse control is a symptom, one that gets me into trouble a lot too.
I don't know if you want moral support it solutions or both. Tbh idk. If you really don't have the time and money to see an eye doctor you could just tell her that if she asks again? Because if you tell her you went to the appointment and it turns out you don't need glasses then if it turns out later on you do then that might be hard to explain? And if you tell her that you do need glasses and it turns out that you don't then you're pretty much gonna have the same problem.
I don't know. Maybe you should talk to your parents about getting an appointment with an eye doctor if you feel comfortable doing so and then see what they say and go from there. Like I understand not wanting to say anything about ADHD but maybe if you have been wanting to get your eyes checked you could tell them that?
Also, in terms of getting distracted in class I find that sometimes giving my hands something to do helps, like doddling or playing with a pen. Also they say coffee can act like natural ADHD meds and instead of waking an adhd person's mind up like it does for most people, it actually helps it focus. Idk if this is true for me personally, I just like the taste and I know my head hurts if I don't have my coffee.
Sorry I don't know if you wanted advice or not but that's just where my brain goes lol. I'm sorry that you're in this situation. It sucks. It sucks even more that this world is so ableist we have to invent cover stories to explain away our neurodivergint behavior. It's not fair.
But I'm here if you wanna talk ā¤
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yes i did this during my lunch break (and in english)
General:
Rate the Ship - Ā Awful | Ew | No pics pls | Iām not comfortable | Alright | I like it! | Got Pics? | Letās do it! | Why is this not getting more attention?! | The OTP to rule all other OTPs
How long will they last? - Mm, if not lifelong than like a good amount of years. They occasionally also see other people though (poly coded)
How quickly did/will they fall in love? - T had to think about actually dating Klaus before getting into it. She looked into his past, everything. She didnāt want to be hurt. Klaus, however was likeĀ āmm, personality, shes pretty, smart, im in.ā
How was their first kiss? - It was pleasant, it was random, after T met Klausā siblings. It wasnāt out of nowhere, but she was like :Thank you for introducing me to your broken family. *smooch*āCasual, but not casual.
Wedding:
Who proposed? - Klaus did. It wasnāt big either, he was just likeĀ ādo weddings appeal to you?ā and sheās always been on the fence about getting married, but she figured to might as well do it.
Who is the best man/men? - Klaus had Diego as his best man actually.
Who is the braidās maid(s)? - T had her mom as her maid of honor.
Who did the most planning? - They both did equal planning. Theyād talk it over and everything, but T likes to have everything exact, so she looked over everything, over and over until she found it fine enough.
Who stressed the most? - Klaus, actually. T enjoys putting things in order, and planning, but Klaus was worried about how everything would go. He wanted to make sure everything went right, and that most of all, T was happy.
How fancy was the ceremony? - Back of a pickup truck | 2 | 3 | 4 | Normal Church Wedding | 6 | 7 | 8 | 9 | Kate and William wish they were this big.Ā It was a forest wedding, so kinda big, but small enough as to where it felt special.
Who was specifically not invited to the wedding?- Anyone that even remotely made T feel uncomfortable. If they were gonna cause issues, they can do it elsewhere. The trees didnāt want to hear arguing. (her one aunt who didnāt want her marrying a white man)
Sex:
Who is on top? - Topazi Um, theyāre both switches, but it honestly depends on the mood. If one of them had a rough day, then the other would be the top.Ā
Who is the one to instigate things? - Either of them, it depends.
How healthy is their sex life? - Barely touch themselves let alone each other | 2 | 3 | 4 | Once a couple weeks, nothing overboard | 6 | 7 | 8 | 9 | They are humping each other on the couch right now. One look and the clothes are off (or on theyāre kinky fucks)
How kinky are they? - Straight missionary with the lights off | 2 | 3 | 4 | Might try some butt stuff and toys | 6 | 7 | 8 | 9 | Donāt go into the sex dungeon without a horseās head. Tās fairly kinky, and so is Klaus, so they combine it to create just *sighs*. Their closets have a specific section for sex toys, spicy clothes.
How long do they normally last? - It depends. If they start when theyāre high energy, itāll be for longer, but if itās later in the day, or after work, itās for less time. an hour or so.
Do they make sure each person gets an equal amount of orgasms? - Mm, sometimes. If T gets frustrated with herself, and she might be in a bit of a tizzy, Klausāll step in and sheāll focus on his pleasure instead of her own. But T usually has more than Klaus, usually 2 more.
How rough are they in bed? - Softer than a butterfly on the back of a bunny | 2 | 3 | 4 | The bedās shaking and squeaking every time | 6 | 7 | 8 | 9 | Their dirty talk is so vulgar itād make Dwayne Johnson blush. Also, the wallās so weak it could collapse the next time they do it. If the mood calls for it, Topazi wonāt hesitate to absolutely ruin Klaus. She really likes it rough, and so does Klaus, but they like being gentle every now and then.
How much cuddling/snuggling do they do? - No touching after sex | 2 | 3 | 4 | A little spooning at night, or on the couch, but not in public | 6 | 7 | 8 | 9 | They snuggle and kiss more often than a teen couple on their fifth date to a pillow factory. T is touch oriented, and rarely ever doesnāt want to be touched in some way. She wants all of the hugs during aftercare, and Klaus is very happy to give it to her.
Children:
How many children will they have naturally? - None. T thought about having kids, but she doesnāt trust her body, or herself, so she just doesnāt do it.
How many children will they adopt? - They have pets. (a snake and two kitties)
Who is the stricter parent? - T. Sheāll be likeĀ āMiko, I told you not to jump off the counter.ā but Klaus is likeĀ ālet him be, heās just a little shaken up.ā but no like water bottles, just a mild scolding.
Cooking:
Who does the most cooking? - T used to do a lot of cooking, but Klaus also tag teams her. Especially if itās a huge meal.Ā
Who is the most picky in their food choice? - Klaus wonāt do oatmeal, or anything mushy. But T is likeĀ āif this even looks wrong, Iām not eating it.ā It doesnāt matter who cooks it though, sheāll eat from anyone, but if something looks or tastes different than how sheās used to eating it, sheāll eat some out of respect, but in the end may just get more safe things like water, fruit etc.Ā
Who does the grocery shopping? - Both of them. T writes the list (bc sheās very detailed), and they both get half of the list and tag-team. But T has told Klaus whatās safe, whatās not, all that.Ā
How often do they bake desserts? - Almost every weekend. Theyāre both a bit impulsive, Klaus more than T, so they have an entire fridge dedicated to baking items.
Are they more of a meat lover or a salad eater? - T rarely ever eats red meat, and Klausāll eat anything, so itās a big mix between the two of them. She tries to get everything balanced, then she gets cravings and everything is thrown out of the window.
Who is more likely to surprise the other(s) with an anniversary dinner? - Klaus. He likes repaying T, and whenever T tries to do something nice, something pops up and she canāt. Itās also best for him to do tiny things, not big things, so she doesnāt feel like itās a competition between the two of them.Ā
Who is more likely to suggest going out? - Klaus. Topazi wants to go out and everything, and sheās impulsive, but never really does anything about it.
Who is more likely to burn the house down accidently while cooking? - Klaus because he almost fucked the kitchen up when he was high and forgot to put his blunt out (the paper towels caught fire, yada yada)
Chores:
Who cleans the room? - T does a lot of cleaning. Not that she feels like she has to, she just enjoys it, plus it gives her a sense of completion.
Who is really against chores? - Klaus sometimes. Itās not that he doesnāt want to, they usually just creep up on him when he really doesnāt want to do them.
Who cleans up after the pets? - Both of them do it equally. Klaus moreso than T though, because one wrong inhale and sheās ill.
Who is more likely to sweep everything under the rug? - Klaus. He can forget about something and itās just gone. His object permanence is shitty.
Who stresses the most when guests are coming over? - Neither of them. T likes company, and people over, but she does try to make sure no naughty things are left out for people to see.
Who found a dollar between the couch cushions while cleaning? - T almost threw it away, (it was balled up), but she was likeĀ āhmm my brain is trying to tell me somethingā so she was likeĀ āoh hells yeah moneyā
Misc:
Who takes the longer showers/baths? - Depends, but mostly Klaus, because he does his thinking in the shower (like his dad). T, however, knows sheās gonna look like a fucking cherry when she gets out, and she needs to keep her skin not flaky.
Who takes the dog out for a walk? - Um-. If they had a dog, it would be either one of them, but Klaus more often than T, because when sheās painting or gardening, she canāt be bothered to focus on anything other than what sheās doing at that moment.
How often do they decorate the room/house for the holidays? - Very lack-luster. For xmas, they have a tree, but T puts stupid shit around the house. For Easter, she painted an egg pink and labeled it asĀ āthe easter bunnyās left testicleā and for Halloween, they have a spooky corner. She canāt do pranks though, she understands them, but sheāll scream then immediately kick to defend herself.
What are their goals for the relationship? - T wants to enjoy what life she has with Klaus. She just wants someone to love her and keep her company.
Who is most likely to sleep till noon? - Both of them. Topazi likes cuddles, and sometimes the sleep is so good you have to just stay down. Plus, sheās her own boss, and their animals are smarter than they initially thought, but if she hears the fucking snake tank open, her eyes are wide fucking open.Ā
Who plays the most pranks? - Even though she gets a bit frustrated from them, T likes to do cute pranks. You know those toys that you throw and they stick to something, sheāll do those. And Klaus throws like sticky tack at the wall. Those she can handle. But she doesnāt understand the purpose of someone fake sneezing on her. (like me, please dont do that shit, i dont like it)
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Hear me out- AssClass Open World Video Game
Whaaaat?
Listen, I know AssClass has/ had several video games, and the mobile one was centered aroundā¦ cards I think? (I got into AssClass after the game shut down RIP.) But imagineā¦ open world AssClass gameā¦ set in Kunugigaokaā¦ where you can create your own characterā¦ and you can befriend all of the 3-E kids (and maybe even the teachers/ some main campus students)ā¦ plus skill treesā¦ different stat points that you can allocate to build your characterā¦ lessonsā¦ different weaponsā¦ different assassinationsā¦ just IMAGINE. The P O T E N T I A L.Ā
Okay I have many unrealistic thoughts about this idea so I just had to vomit them all out. This is a long post. You have been warned.
Character Creation
Like the premise of half of the AssClass Wattpad fics, you can create your own character/ 3-E student! You can customize hair colour, eye colour, hairstyle, etc. To prevent OP assassins, MC will be a normal student at Kunugigaoka who had been dropped down to 3-E because of 1) poor grades or 2) violation ofĀ school rules.Ā
I think it would be nice if the player could choose the reason why MC was sent to 3-E. If they choseĀ āpoor gradesā, MC would have a lower INTĀ stat and have a harder time in lessons/ exams. If they choseĀ āviolation of school rulesā, while MC would have the default INT stat, they would have a harder time befriending the other students due to their negative reputation.Ā
I think some sort of RPG style stat point allocation would be fun, with basics such as STR, AGI, VIT, and INT. As MC levels up, they gain more stat points. STR of course boots raw power, AGI for speed, VIT for stamina I guess, and maybe INT for increased chances of critical attacks?
Gameplay
There are two parts- the main quest, and the sidequests. Obviously the main quest is the plot of AssClass, while the sidequests can be cutesy little ways to increase your bonding/ friendship with the 3-E kids.
I think in this hypothetical game, there would be roughly 365 in-game days to correspond with the time 3-E spent with Korosensei. For every day in the game, the player would have to complete certain necessary tasks. Once the tasks are completed, they can either choose to do sidequests/ other stuff, or move on to the next day. Some of the days are plot relevant, such as the day of Irinaās first appearance, the day of the Island Assassination etc., but for most days, the player can do whatever they want.
It would be interesting to see how this game would do weekends and holidays. Why am I phrasing it as if itās ACTUALLY real. :P I guess MC can go out to town and meet up with their friends? And they definitely need to train for the Island Assassination during the summer holidays.
The Best of Both Worlds
Assassination Classroom is not only about assassination- itās also about education. And this game will show both sides of 3-E.
Studying
The INT stat of MCs will contribute to this side of the game. Iām thinking there might be three compulsory lessons (taught by Korosensei/ Irina) and maybe one training session per day (at least, per schoolday). Like maybe the lessons will be mini-quizzes or mini-games or something, and after a lesson is successfully completed, MC gains XP andĀ knowledge, which can then be used inā¦ assassinations, I guess? And of course the knowledge will be used for clearing exam levels. The more knowledge MC has, the easier time they have with exams and assassinations. The INT stat affects how much knowledge MC can gain in one lesson.
Test and exams are sort of like mini-bosses and bosses in the game. Since AssClass portrays exams as some sort of actual boss fight, it would be fun to do that in the game as well. Maybe a higher knowledge level allows you to choose more powerfulĀ āweaponsā to bring into theĀ āarenaā (aka. exams).
Assassination
The STR, AGI and VIT stats would contribute to the assassination part. A skill tree sounds COOL, especially with the wide range of skills the 3-E kids have. Like maybe at the beginning, only knife skills and shooting skills are unlocked, but as the game progresses, MC can choose between camouflage/ combat/ traps/ infiltration and more!
MC can train their skills during compulsory daily training sessions (taught by Karasuma) and optional afterschool practices. It would be nice if the training session can somehow focus on different skills on different days (?). It would also be WACK if thereās a shooting arcade in Kunugigaoka Town or something so MC can train during the holidays.
And now for the exciting part! ASSASSINATION ATTEMPTS! :D :D
Iāve tried to keep things simple, but I feel like Iāve oversimplified assassinations lol :P So there are three parts to a basic attempt- 1) DistractĀ 2) Attack 3) Critical Hit. Itās exactly what it sounds like. Distract Korosensei using something, attack him to disorient him and block his path, and the final critical killing blow. All three parts are necessary.Ā
(Of course there are different sorts of attempts- like poisoning, but those are special cases.)
Assassination attempts can be made easier if the player has the right information- such as information on Korosenseiās weaknesses.Ā The player can also choose the weapon(s) and the item(s) that will distract Korosensei.
Of course none of the attempts actually succeed (because Korosensei has plot armour), so maybe the game can judge the assassination attempt using other methods (damage dealt, stamina left or something?)
MC uses stamina to activate skills. When all of their stamina runs out, they fail the attempt and they do not get any rewards.
While MC can attempt solo assassinations, itās best if they find some friends (more on that later). Group assassinations require a certain amount of friendship between the participants because cooperation is necessary. Assassinations can only be attempted once a day, and they reward the player with XP, knowledge, and maybe experience to upgrade their skills.
The Main Quest
Basically all the canon stuff you see in the manga and anime. Maybe cutscenes can be used lol. While compulsory activities (lessons, training sessions) and optional activities (assassinations, afterschool practices) are available every schoolday, plot-relevant days will force the MC to participate in events like exams, whole-school assemblies, or assassinations. While MC can react to the events, they cannot change the main plot no matter how much they try. Korosensei still has to die. Sorry :P
Sidequests
Quests that can increase your friendship level with the 3-E kids. And maybe they can give out special items. Like perhaps after completing a sidequest with Sugaya, not only do you get closer to Sugaya, you can also unlock theĀ ācamouflageā skill or something.
Friendships
It would be ideal if you can like, befriend ALL OF THE 3-E KIDS. I actually thought a lot about this.
MCās Friends
Maybe MC has like five friend slots or something, which can be filled up with NPCs (3-E kids) after a certain friendship level is reached. TheseĀ āMCās friendsā will form a squad of sorts and will sit with MC during lunch, go out with MC during holidays etc. They can also cooperate much better during assassinations.
Reputation
If MC behaves well, their reputation increases, and they get more friendship XP through each interaction. Vice-versa when MC behaves badly. If the player chooses āviolation of school rulesā as the reason why MC was dropped into 3-E, they will automatically start off with a low reputation.
Friendship level
MC can talk to NPCs and react correspondingly to get friendship XP and increase their reputation. Some NPCs are easier to approach, like Isogai and Kataoka. You gain more friendship XP compared to the default amount. Others, like Chiba and Hayami, are very introverted, so you gain less friendship XP per interaction. You can give gifts to NPCs. You can even give birthday gifts if you know when their birthday is. Through interactions, MC can gain knowledge of the NPCs, such as their favourite colour, food, etc, and give them presents which correspond to their likes.Ā
If MC reacts negatively, they will lose friendship XP and reputation.
Maaaaybe there can be different levels likeĀ āClassmatesāĀ āAcquaintancesāĀ āGroupmatesāĀ āPartnersāĀ āFriendsāĀ āClose Friendsā and āBest Friendsā. And maybe evenĀ āRivalsā andĀ āEnemiesā if MC insults them LMAO.
When a friendship is maxed out, the classmate gives MC something special. It could be a weapon, or an accessory, or a book that can increase knowledge or something.
Established Friendships
The 3-E kids already have friendships of their own! And if you befriend a 3-E kid, itāll be easier/faster to befriend that studentās friends. For example, if you befriend Yada, itāll be way easier to befriend Kurahashi. The same happens if you insult a 3-E kid. If you insult Hayami, you wonāt find a very friendly Chiba anytime soon.
Group AssassinationsĀ
In order to be able to recruit a classmate into a group assassination, MC needs to have a certain level of friendship with them. The recruited classmate can have special skills, like increased speed for Kimura, infiltration skills for Yada, close combat skills for Karma etc, which can be very useful. I think being friends with Nagisa also gives you special insight into Korosenseiās weakness. The higher the friendship level, the better the group will work.
For example, you can have Kurahashi perform the Distraction, MC and Kataoka Attack, and Chiba perform the Critical Hit. Or maybe MC can train up their skills and perform the critical hit themselves.
Romances???
I have NO idea how this would work??? It would probably fuck up the canon crushes/ relationships lol. Itāll probably require a maxed out friendship.
Kunugigaoka Town
MC gets to hang out in town!! Yeeeeee
There are different shops in town which can be used to buy gifts/ supplies for assassinations.
MC can visit shops/ eat with classmates to gain friendship XP after school/ during weekends and holidays.Ā
NOTE: THEY ALL REQUIRE MONEY
MC probably receives some pocket money every week/month. They may also earn money from other places (such as jobs)????? Maybe they can convince Isogai to give them a discount? Lmaoo.
(Maxed out friendship with Muramatsu definitely allows you to eat at his familyās shop for free :D)
Maaaybe thereās a gym/ shooting arcade that allows MC to train outside of school.
Anyways Iām tired, this is all I have for today. If youāve managed to come this far, thanks for reading this chaotic mess of an idea dump :D (Sorry for the weird phrasing and sentence structures ;-;) Iām definitely not an expert with video game terminology, and if anyone has something to add, please do so! :D
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Positivity
When I first decided I wanted to write a blog, I asked my instagram buddies what topicās theyād like to hear about. And one that I got more than once wasĀ āHow are you always so positive?āĀ
Which was surprising to read more than once, as well as flattering. One of my friends, who I think is the bubbliest sweetest angel on earth specifically saidĀ āEven when youāre having a hard day or going through a tough time youāre so positive and joyful. How?!ā
And it got me thinking...am I actually that positive of a person? And if so, just like they asked...how?
I think the first part has to do with my natural disposition: I have always been a super sweet kid. I always cared about other people, and animals (animals more duh), and have ever since I was little really seen the good in everyone and wanted the best. Thatās definitely just part of who I am, I think. However, itās not all of who I am.
I mentioned in my last blog that I suffered from clinical depression in college. Before that, when I was young I had some body image issues and eating issues. Iāve always had issues feeling confident: in fact, this blog is really REALLY hard and scary for me. I just donāt feel like anyone cares. My mind instantly goes toĀ āWhy would anyone care? Who am I? Iām not special.ā While itās natural for me to see the good in others, it is also natural for me to see the not-good in myself. So the jump from that to depression took one thing: the death of my friend Scott Preston.Ā
Scott and I met freshman year in high school and we just clicked. We were definitely an odd pair of friends, but I saw the good in him and loved him very much. Ā He ended up leaving our school, but we stayed in touch and Iād go hang out with him sometimes at lunch or after school on the days I had my momās car.Ā
Scott smoked pot a lot: but so did a lot of my friends. I didnāt...yet. So it wasnāt a big deal or alarm for me. Scott also, like me,Ā got migraines. So, one day when we were hanging out after I had surgery on my hand, he asked for my extra vicodin. Again, being the sweet-seeing the best in people-young girl that I was, I didnāt even think about it. Plus he said it was for his migraines. I gave him the vicodin.Ā
A week later, his dad came in and yelled at him about his grandmotherās medication being missing. After his dad walked out, he admitted he was taking her meds from her. All I could muster up wasĀ āScott, you shouldnāt do that. You should be careful.ā And about a month later, he crashed his Dodge Ram into a tree almost killing himself and his friend. He went into rehab and I just kept waiting to call. Feeling responsible somehow. My feelings of guilt for not saying more kept me from calling. And my need to be liked and not upset people is what kept me from saying more that afternoon when I had the chance.Ā
I talked about him to my new college friends, and really was planning on calling him soon. And then, I got a phone call that Scott was dead. And I took it all on as my fault. I became incredibly depressed and was in danger of seriously hurting myself. I got help, saw a therapist who sent me to a psychiatrist and got put on medication. Then more medication. Which made me numb. But not depressed. When I smoked pot it brought me up enough that I was my old self. But I didnāt want to be taking antidepressants and smoking pot to feel normal. So, I made the decision when I ran out of meds to just not renew my prescription knowing that the chances of my depression coming back was pretty much 100%.Ā
And guess what? I was right, I relapsed. And something else happened in my life that was pretty terrible. But I remember that when that second event occurred I saidĀ āLosing Scott took me to a dark place, and I will not give this other person the honor to mean as much to me as Scott did and pull me back. Iāll get through this.ā I talked A LOT about my feelings. I journaled. I did yoga. And I let myself cry when I wanted to. Eventually, I came up for air. I personally give yoga all the credit: But I think my willpower had a lot to do with it too.
Ever since then, it truly has been aĀ āItās not worth it to go back thereā mentality to me. I know what itās like to want to end it, I know what itās like to hurt yourself, I know what itās like to live in this dark cloud where you feel nothing but sad and empty. And life is too short to live that way.Ā
So how do I stay positive? Well, I constantly focus on the things I HAVE!
We live in a culture that thrives off of us being in aĀ ālackā mentality. Like sheep.Ā āI donāt have timeā is usually the thought when we wake up. I donāt have energy, I donāt have enough money, Iām not skinny enough...when I make this much money or have this phone or this car...blah blah bullshit. YOU HAVE SO MUCH.Ā
I always focus on the gifts of my life: which truly are plentiful. Iām healthy. I have use of my limbs. I can breathe without machines. I live in a country that for the most part allows me as a woman to LIVE (right now some horrible stuff is happening in the South and Midwest) but: I was able to get an education. I went to the top public college in the country UCLA, thanks to loans that Iām still paying off, grants, and work study. I work hard and I am grateful I get to work. I get to vote. I can wear whatever I want. I have a strong amazing mom that supports me even when she doesnāt agree with me. My list goes on!
And when things have gotten bad: like when my mom was diagnosed with lung cancer and my whole world came crumbling down, I found a way through. I cried, I was scared. Ā I journaled and I prayed and I thanked God for finding it early and for giving us the opportunity to get her healthy. I focused not on my fear or her cancer, but on her recovery even before we knew if that was a thing. I was thankful I had friends that I could call when she told me so they could rally around me for support. That bought groceries and meals for us, that helped ME get through it: because as an only child of a single parent it was a lot to handle. Itās a lot to handle no matter what: itās cancer.Ā I was thankful that I had the ability to work through my fear and sadness at my job. Teaching yoga helped me, and even more so being able to talk with my students about it: in fact, one class two of my studentās asked me straight up what was going on:Ā Mellisa and Heather. And they both had dealt with very similar things and were there for me. What a blessing!Ā
Now, every time...okay, not EVERY, but almost every time I get frustrated or annoyed with my mom, I remind myself that Iād rather her be here alive and healthy to drive me nuts than for her to be gone. Iām so grateful sheās cancer-free now! Oh moms!Ā
I focus on the good. Itās a HABIT you have to cultivate, like working out and eating well. BUT it makes it so when you get in a car accident: youāre grateful it wasnāt worse. So when youāre in traffic: youāre grateful you have a vehicle and a place to go. When somebody is a dick: youāre grateful you arenāt them and donāt treat people like that.Ā
Things can ALWAYS be worse. And for me, they have been. So what a gift it is to have this moment, and to choose to focus on how fortunate I am and how much I have.
I make a conscious decision to live life through a lens of gratitude and abundance, not of lacking. You can do that, too! I know the best way to start, is to every single day think of 5 things youāre thankful for. You can do it in the morning in bed, or before bed in a gratitude journal, OR BOTH! Also: tell your friendās you appreciate them out of the blue. When you put that good out there, it comes back to you!
And that doesnāt mean I donāt get sad or mad. But when I do, I just let that happen. I feel it, because thatās important. Iāll usually vent to my husband or one of my best friends.Ā And then eventually, I breathe and let it go and focus on the good. Itās not always easy. There are times where my mind is likeĀ āyes I know this could be worse...ā but my heart is still upset. But eventually, you get there.
Also, sometimes, I think of a friend Iāve lost-like the amazing Laura Allio. And if Iām about to complain about something, I remember how much I wish she were alive to be able to bitch about it...and also that she wouldnāt. And that itās a gift to even be able to complain, or move my body when Iām tired, to have a job to have to go to...yada yada. And that will get me right back on track.Ā
My mom always used to say to me growing up (because she had quite an emotional daughter that cried a lot)Ā āIs this going to bother you in 3 days? In 3 weeks? In 3 months? THEN LET IT GO!ā lol And she's right. As momās tend to be. Most of the things we get SO bogged down by, don't affect us a few days later. So why let it taint the day youāre living now?
Another thing I did that was SO helpful with journaling are mantra meditations. So I pick a few mantraās I like and I play some binaural beats from youtube. I sit with my eyes closed. I inhale, and on my exhale I say the mantra. Sometimes out loud. Sometimes in my head. Certain mantras will INSTANTLY create a smile. Here are some of my favorites:
Ā āI deserve love.ā
āI am the light.ā
āMy income is constantly increasing.ā
āI allow my life to move with ease and joy.ā
If you haven't heard of Louise Hay, I HIGHLY SUGGEST looking her up. One of her go-toās is to sayĀ āI love you (enter your name here)ā while looking in the mirror. She has an amazing little book calledĀ āHeal your bodyā where she gives you mantras for actual ailments your body! Itās AMAZING!
Iām thankful for you. For your support. For your time. For reading this. For being here in the world. Remember to choose to look at how abundant you are! I mean, youāre reading a blog on the internet right now! WHAT IS THAT?! There are people in this world that donāt even have clean water, not to mention the ability to sit somewhere (because so help me god if you are driving I will come after you) and read a blog post about positivity!
Thank you thank you!Ā
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Your Light in the Mist - Chapter 11
More than a week had elapsed since my last yoga session, and I was pleasantly surprised at my lack of stiffness. My iPod sat silent in the grass next to my matā¦the sound of the waves crashing against the rocks proved to be the only music I required. Especially at six in the morning. The sun had just begun to rise behind us, its warmth exacerbating the flush my workout normally provided.
Simonās skill level was far, far above mine, and some of the poses he worked through made me stop dead in my tracks as I admired the way his body seemed to defy the very laws of physics. He volunteered to work with me whenever we had the time, and I gratefully accepted, though I fully understood that a grace such as his was something that couldnāt be taught.
We chatted while cooling down, learning that our birthdays were only a day apart, his on October 30th, mine on October 31st. He found my being a Halloween baby hilarious, and I was tickled that we shared the same astrological sign. Fellow Scorpios - no wonder heād liked my tank top. I tried to get him to reveal his birth year, but he adamantly refused until I offered mine up first. The look of delight on his face as he screeched out āme too!ā was adorable, and when he high-fived me and christened me his sister from another mister I embraced him and kissed his cheek, grinning at the lovely blush it caused.
I took a seat at the patio table and opened my laptop with the intention of starting work on Tomās website design. Simon sat next to me, both of us facing the ocean, and he began typing away on his phone. He harrumphed and gave me some wicked side eye.
My brow furrowed. āFor fuckās sake, what NOW?ā
He showed me his screen, scrolling through his inbox. āSeven more since last night. Youāve made an awful lot of extra work for me, woman.ā I rolled my eyes. He turned on his chair to face me. āIām curious, thoughā¦I thought you just lectured to and consulted with PR firms, which would mean their actual clients wouldnāt know much about you at all. So, itās kinda surprising that an artist would be willing to jump ship and leave their current rep in the dust to wind up where you are, wouldnāt you say?ā
I sighed and finished editing my open layer in Photoshop before replying. āI started out working directly with clients. My first was Anne Rice. Sheās is a family friend and was willing to give me a chaā¦ā
He put a hand on my shoulder and shoved. āGET. OUT. Iām assuming this means youāre from or lived in New Orleans at some point? But it mustnāt have been for long, because you have zero accent.ā
āYour assumption is correct. Born there, raised there, relocated to New York City in 1998.ā
He nodded emphatically. āSo you dumped the accent. Understandable.ā
It was my turn for side eye. āI didnāt dump it. It justā¦faded.ā
He snorted. āWhatever you say, Maude.ā
I pinched his arm, reveling in the resulting squeal he emitted. āFaded. Iām like a chameleon with accents. Soon Iāll be picking up your dialect and sounding like a pretentious asshat, too. In which case, you have my permission to kill me.ā
āYou can call me anything you like as long as you solemnly swear to take me to Mardi Gras next year.ā
I rolled my eyes and held up my hand, palm towards him. āSimon. Please. I donāt think youāre ready for that sort of thing. But, if you start training now, we might be able to pull it off.ā
He tilted his head like an oversized puppy. āTraining for what? Drinking heavily? Iāve been training for that for years.ā
āNo. Throwing beads into the crowd. And doing the princess wave.ā I demonstrated both. āBecause if we go, you must ride on a parade float. It can be arranged. I know people.ā I frowned. āAt least, I used to know people. Anyway, what I was saying before I was so rudely interrupted was that she was my first client, and it gave me a lot of clout. For which I am eternally grateful. I moved on after three years or so with her and began working directly with clients, most of whom were too small to have a decent PR firm behind them. I did everything, created websites, set up Facebook accounts, provided instructions on how to post, when to post, what to post, yada yada. Lots of hand holding and cajoling. Word spread, and bigger names took notice, which led to PR firms hiring me to work one-on-one with their clients for a specified duration. Most of them already had websites in place, so my focus shifted entirely to social media. In early 2010, I was invited to speak for two hours at a PR conference in San Diegoā¦they wanted me to lecture on enhancing client reputation through social media. It was winter in New York, and they were willing to pay for my travel expenses so I thought, California? Fuck it, why not?ā
Simonās legs were crossed, his upper body leaning in towards me as he listened attentively. I had paused, and he motioned for me to continue.
āSo, I spoke for two hours and they handed me a check for three thousand dollars. That was more than I normally made in an entire week and it blew my tiny little mind. Ā It seemed to be vastly less stressful than dealing with super huge egos and non-tech savvy artists and damn, the money. I adjusted my entire business model, and within a month I was turning down engagements because my calendar was full. PR firms were still asking me for assistance, so I set up a consulting procedure wherein Iād outline a plan for them to implement, collected my fee and was on my way. It was all soā¦easy.ā
He laughed loudly. āAnd you decided to work for Prosper why?ā
āBecause my āeasyā job and the cash it generated had taken over my entire life. I was the job and the job was me. Much to my surprise, lecturing and consulting long term turned out to be a soul sucking boreā¦and it transformed me into a miserable drudge. I am, at heart, a creative individual and I missed doing graphic and website design, photography, and learning new things. Terribly. Working for Prosper allows me to do all that again, and then some. Thatās why.ā
He leaned back in his chair and rubbed his chin with one hand. āAnd Iām sure it has nothing to do with the exquisite creature sleeping soundly in your bed right now.ā
āNo, it doesnāt. He was actually the reason why I seriously considered declining Lukeās offer.ā Simon looked puzzled, but I didnāt elaborate. āSo. Why did you leave such a prestigious position at the Dorchester to become a PA? Just for Luke? Or is there more to the story?ā
He grinned. āDamn, turned it right around on me, didnāt you? TouchĆ©, my friend. I went to university for business management and administrative assistance, and worked in the field until 2005. Cooking had always been my passion, and I had some sort of spiritual awakening wherein I decided I absolutely needed to become a professional chef or else I would shrivel up and die. So I did. I moved from place to place, learning, working, partying my ass off, and finally landed the sous chef spot at the Dorchester in 2009. It was dandy at first, but as the years passed I felt like Iād grown stagnant, doing the same thing night after night, having little input on menu changes and so on. Like you, I was bored. I was averaging 70 hours a week in that kitchen, cut off from the world, and it hit me that all I had gotten out of it was a nicely padded bank accountā¦and that there was no one to share it with. Iād always loved being around lots of people, and there I was seeing nothing but the same damn faces day in and day out. In 2013 I happened across Lukeās ad, reworked my resume, and the rest is history. Unlike you, though, I donāt think I would have taken the job if it wasnāt for him, because the salary was abysmal. As soon as I saw him, I knew. He was it. The one. Love at first sight. I thank my lucky stars every single day that he felt the same way.ā
After wiping the tears from his eyes, he took hold of my hand. āMaude, I donāt know if heās mentioned it or not, but Tomās had a rough time of it lately, and Iām so, so happy that youāve found each other.ā
āMe too, Simon.ā I smiled, letting go of his hand. āNow, please, for the love of all things holy, shut your cake hole so I can get some work done, okay?ā
āGod, you are such a bitch.ā
āI am. And youāre still talking. Cease.ā
We worked quietly, side by side, until Luke poked his head out the doors to inquire as to when Simon planned on getting his butt in the kitchen and making some breakfast. As he got up from his chair, he peered over my shoulder at my laptop screen. I had a basic layout set and was in the process of choosing a color combination that would contrast perfectly.
āWow, thatās a right brilliant color palette you have there, Maude. Is that for Tomās site?ā Ā
I nodded. āDoes it lookā¦familiar?ā
He stared. āYesā¦maybeā¦should it?ā
I opened the tab that contained the HD photo of Tomās eye that Iād drawn all my color options from. āTada.ā
Simon poked my shoulder and called for Luke to come see. He padded out onto the lanai, looked over my shoulder, nodded, then put his hands on his hips.
āSo, when are you going to use your magic to revamp the Prosper site?ā
I closed my laptop and put my head in my hands, then pushed my chair back and went to wait in the kitchen, muttering to myself about peace and solitude and how I couldnāt find any even though I was in paradise.
Tom bounded our of our bedroom just as Simon was plating our pancakes and bacon, freshly showered, wearing a pair of faded, loose fitting jeans and a tight, light blue V-neck tee. I leaned back on my bar stool and around the counter to look at his feet. Scuffed, well-worn boots. When my eyes finally made their way up to his face I was greeted with a dazzling, toothy smile. I groaned.
Simon pinched his cheeks. āLovely of you to join us, Thomas.ā
Tom lowered himself elegantly onto the stool to my right, resting his hand on my spandex-clad thigh as he leaned in to kiss me.
āGood morning, Maude. How was yoga?ā
āSpectacular, actually. Simon and I had a lovely chat and I even managed to get some work done in spite of it.ā He laughed and began slowly sliding his hand up my leg, edging ever closer to the apex of my thighs. Simon set our plates in front of us, raising a brow as he spied what Tom was up to.
āUm, excuse me. This is a fine dining establishment, people. No foreplay is permitted.ā I glanced up from my plate and saw Luke directly behind him, hand cupping Simonās ass.
āWhatever, asshole.ā I pointed at my short stack. āDo you have syrup for these?ā
He pulled a pot off the stove and spooned some of its contents onto them. āMade with fresh pineapples. Especially for you.ā
All eyes were on me as they waited for a reaction. I broke off a hunk of pancake with my fork and shoved it in my mouth. āMmm, yummy. Thank you.ā Luke looked at Tom, who shrugged. I took another bite of breakfast. āYeah, nice try, losers. I happen to like pineapples. Just not on pizza.ā
Tom put his arm around my waist, pulled me to him and kissed the top of my head. āI had nothing to do with this. I swear it.ā
I said nothing, ripping off a piece of bacon with my teeth instead. He tapped his fork on his plate.
āSo, Maude, I was thinkingā¦maybe we could take a ride out to Talk Story today? I called to see if Alani would be in, and she is.ā I spun the stool around in his direction, dumbfounded. He smiled. āI did say Iād go back to meet her, did I not?ā
āYes. Yes you did.ā I grabbed his hand and squeezed it. āWhat an amazingly generous thing to do. Thank you.ā
āDonāt thank me just yet. Youāre going to be the one in charge of crowd control.ā He stole a strip of bacon from my plate and swallowed it down before I could even muster a protest.
āIād rather corral a group of a hundred people than have to sit next to you while Iām trying to eat a fucking meal, bacon stealer. And everything else stealer.ā
He snickered, and I wolfed down the rest of my food, rinsed my dishes, put them in the dishwasher and headed for the bedroom, finally noticing that Luke and Simon had disappeared. I wrote a giant āthanks for breakfastā on the chalkboard in the kitchen and drew a smiley face to go with it, figuring we wouldnāt be seeing them again before we left.
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After my much needed shower, I wound up standing in my underwear, staring into yet another wardrobe wondering what the hell to wear. Tom looked too damn good for me to get away with shorts and a T-shirt, and my black tank dress just didnāt scream āplease behave and listen to the nice ladyā. Tom was waiting patiently for me, sitting at the desk answering emails and returning calls. I looked at his boots, then back and my limited selection of dresses. The brown chiffon galaxy print sleeveless wasnāt an exact match, but pretty damn close. I pulled it off its hanger and laid it on the bed so I could unzip the back without it winding up on the floor, chastising myself for giving in to my everything-must-coordinate OCD once again. I slipped it over my head, put my arms through the proper holes and managed to zip it up on my own, then went into the bathroom to figure out a hair strategy.
Iād just wrestled it into a braid when I overheard Tom talking in the bedroom.
āHowās Los Angeles? Elsa? Kids? Good to hear. Oh, sheās unbelievable, Chris. Here, Iāll take you in and you can meet her.ā He came around the corner carrying his open laptop.
āChris Hemsworth, Maude Gallagher.ā He turned the screen toward me, and there he was, Thor, God of Thunder. In my bathroom. He held up a hand in greeting.
āHello, Maude. Nice to meet you. See you? Skype you?ā He face palmed. āI have no idea what the correct terminology is.ā I heard a woman yell in the background that meet was fine and for him to bring the tablet over to her so she could see me. He got up and walked into another room, and a beautiful blonde woman came into view alongside Chris. She waved madly.
āLook at you, youāre gorgeous. A natural beauty. And that dressā¦I am in love with it. You must tell me where you found it.ā Her accent was a delight. She grinned. āIām Elsa, by the way. Tom has told us so much about you I feel like I know you already.ā
I waved at them. āHi there. Lovely to meet you both. Iād like to say Tom has told me so much about you, but that would be a big fat lie, so suffice to say Iām sure he will tell me so much about you when we arenāt quite soā¦soā¦shit, whatās the word Iām looking for here?ā
Tom moved to stand next to me, shifting the laptop so we were both visible, smirking. āPreoccupied. The word youāre looking for is preoccupied.ā
They laughed, and Chris grabbed at Elsa. āRemember when we were always preoccupied?ā
She slapped his hand. āOh yes. I do. Ā And thatās why now weāre preoccupied with three little ones, my darling Christopher.ā I heard children crying in the background. Elsa said a quick goodbye and ran off, and Chris followed suit so he could assist.
Tom put the laptop on the counter and pulled me to him, hands on my ass as he pressed me up against his crotch and rammed his tongue in my mouth, then backed away quickly, leaving me panting. āWell, I guess we should get going.ā
I shot him a scathing look. āWe should. But I have to pee first.ā He walked out into the bedroom. As I sat on the toilet, I weighed my options for getting even. I mentally high fived myself as I pulled my underwear off over my feet and left them on the bathroom floor.
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We parked a block down from Talk Story, and I scouted ahead and left Tom in the Jeep. My gladiator sandals clicked on the sidewalk as I half-jogged to my destination, anxious to see if Alani was at the desk. She was, and I texted him to come on down. He ran to meet me, and I stopped him from holding the door for me and letting me go in first.
āNope, you should be the first thing she sees.ā I had my phone all ready to go in order to capture the moment, planning on sending her a copy as a keepsake. He walked through, and she looked up as the bell dinged to announce that someone had entered the store and the look on her face was one I knew Iād remember forever. He approached her, hand extended, and I was right behind him.
āHello, Alani. Iām Tom.ā She remained motionless. He turned to me. āThis is Maude. We were here on Monday, and she told me that youāre a fan of my work and would perhaps enjoy meeting me.ā She nodded, gingerly lifting her arm up but unable to make herself grab his hand. He took the initiative, holding it to his lips and kissing it demurely. She squealed, so high pitched I thought my ears might bleed. Four other girls came running out of the stacks, took one look at him, and began jumping up and down, screaming, phones in hand. I stopped filming so I could set the boundaries before any issues arose, stepping between them and Tom.
āHi, ladies. Iām Maude, Tomās social media manager. Letās go over some ground rules, okay?ā They lowered their phones and nodded. āTom wants to be able to take pictures, sign for and chat with all of you, but in order for him to be able to do so you need to make sure you donāt post anything to social media until after we leave the premises. No texting or calling, either. If a crowd turns up, weāll have to cut things short, and whereās the fun in that?ā Ā
A husky, bearded, bespectacled man came out from the stacks, wearing a white and green palm leaf print Hawaiian shirt and khaki hiking shorts. āGirls, what the heck is going on up here? Why all the screaming? You know people prefer quiet when theyā¦ā He stopped short when he saw Tom, his mouth dropping open, then quickly closing as he grew closer, hand proffered. I figured he was the owner, so I let him pass.
āAloha, Mr. Hiddleston. Iām Roger Marshal, and Talk Story is my baby. I canāt begin to tell you how much I appreciate your stopping by againā¦the girls were so bummed when they learned theyād missed you on Monday.ā
Tom shook his hand vigorously. āThank you for having me. Your establishment is outstandingā¦Iām a bit of a bibliophile, and if I had my druthers Iād be perusing the shelves here for days on end. My apologies for dashing off so quickly when I was in last, but I had a prior obligation and thought it better to come back when I had more time to spend.ā He turned to me. āThis is Maude Gallagher, my social media manager.ā
I offered my hand and he clasped it gently with one of his, then placed the other on top. āMaude, nice to meet you. Is there anything I can do to make this easier for you both?ā
āActually, would you happen to have a room available thatās a bit more private?ā
He nodded, then turned his attention to the desk. āSure thing. Alani, why donāt you show our guests to the staff lunch room?ā Her eyes lit up, and the faces of the rest of the staff fell. āGirls, you go too. Iāll cover the desk.ā They thanked him in unison between excited giggles.
I tried to hang back behind Tom, but he slowed and fell into step with me and slipped his arm around me, hand on my lower back, whispering in my ear. āThe way you jumped in and took charge didā¦thingsā¦to me, Maude.ā His let his hand glide lower and lower, halting when he reached the spot where the waistband of my underwear should be. He felt around with his fingers, over my hip, diving quickly down into the crease of my left buttock then back up to my waist, gripping me just a smidge too hard.
I met his gaze, noting his narrowed eyes and the way his tongue darted out over and over to lick his lips. I smirked and whispered back. āGosh, Iām sorry. I forgot to mention that Iām not wearing any panties. They sorta fell off back at the house and are lying on the bathroom floor, all alone and unloved.ā The hand on my waist began to shake as we reached the staff room and he began breathing deeply as he attempted to keep his shit together. And round two of Fridayās Titillation Tease goes toā¦me.
Tom spent nearly two hours taking selfies, videos, signing anything the girls could get their hands on, and answering their seemingly unlimited supply of questions. The giant cup of tea Iād had on the ride over had finally hit my bladder, and I excused myself and went off in search of the bathrooms. There was only a one, unisex, located all the way on the other side of the store, tucked into an alcove deep in the stacks. Nice and roomy, too. I envisioned Tom fucking me up against the wall, then scolded myself for my blatant lack of restraint as I texted him precisely what Iād been thinking while I walked back to the staff room.
Roger had come back to check on them, which Tom took as an indicator that it was time to wrap things up. He was hugging each of the girls goodbye in turn as they left the room, saving Alaini for last. She rested her head on his chest, facing me, and mouthed āhe smells like a FORESTā while hugging him tightly. Up until that moment, I hadnāt been sure whether she recognized me or not. She stepped back and looked at both of us.
āThis has been, like, the best day of my life. I can never thank you enough.ā Her eyes shone with tears. āWould it be okay if I took a picture of you guys together?ā
I smiled. āOf course. But I think it would be better if you were in it, too.ā We posed, and Tom held out her phone to get the shot. I was entering my Prosper email address into her phone so she could send me a copy and she was putting hers in mine so I could send her the video from earlier when she cleared her throat.
She looked up shyly. āUm, I donāt mean to be rude or get in your business or anything, but I was just, you know, wonderingā¦ā She swallowed. āAre you guys, like, a couple?ā
Tom grinned. āIs it that obvious?ā
Her brow furrowed. āWell, you know, I saw what you posted on Twitter yesterday and I was like, hmm, and I know you guys work together and now seeing you in personā¦yeah. Itās pretty obvious, I guess.ā
Tom took my hand. āYes, Alani. Maude isnāt just my social media managerā¦sheās my girlfriend as well. And can I let you in on a little secret?ā She nodded, awestruck. āWhen you saw us here on Monday, that was the very first time we met. So you played a rather important role in what turned out to be the best day of my life so far.ā
I kissed his cheek. āMine too, Alani.ā
Alani flopped onto the nearest chair, clutching her hands to her chest. āThat. Is. So. Romantic.ā She leapt back up and hugged me. āWe all want him for ourselves, but if he has to be with someone else, Iām really glad itās you.ā Ā
I patted her on the back. āThank you. Hearing you say that means so muchā¦honestly, I donāt have the words to express properly how it made me feel.ā We let go of each other, and she made her way back to the desk.
I turned to Tom. āI need to hit the bathroom again before we head out.ā He nodded and followed my lead. He didnāt mention my text, and I assumed he hadnāt read it yet. We didnāt see another soul on the way there, and the stacks outside the alcove were deserted as well. I recalled my vision of Tom fucking me against the bathroom wall and decided this was going to be my shining moment of public indecency. I opened the door, stepped in, then turned around to face him, left eyebrow raised.
āWant to join me?ā I licked my lips. He barged past me into the bathroom, fingers already working to unbuckle his belt.
āI thought youād never ask.ā I locked the door, then did a 180. He held his fully engorged cock in his right hand, stroking it, catching any drips with his left. āI do believe I need to put this somewhere immediately so I donāt make a terrible mess on the floor.ā
I bit my bottom lip as I tilted my head to the side. āI think Iāve got just the place for it.ā
He ceased his stroking in order to back me up against the wall, growling in my ear. āOh yes. You most certainly do.ā He bent his knees as he lifted the front of my dress up to my waist, and I wrapped my leg around his, grinding my dripping pussy against him while I rubbed my clit. He groaned, and I slipped my glistening finger into his mouth. He sucked on it, and I felt the head of his cock at my entrance and his hands cupping my ass, his full weight on me, pressing me firmly against the cool tile.
He was panting. āPut your other leg around me and your arms around my neck.ā I did the latter, but scoffed at the former.
āUm, there is no way in hell youāre going to be able to hold me up.ā
He leaned forward to stare into my eyes, and his expression made me whimper. āLeg. Up. Now. Please.ā As I complied he sheathed himself fully. I tried to bite back a ridiculously loud moan but was only partially successful. His mouth met mine, tongues dancing around each other. He pulled back.
āMaude, my apologies, but once I start moving I fear Iām going to last all of thirty seconds. If Iām fortunate.ā
I clamped down on him. He began thrusting wildly, and I focused all my energy on not coming before he did. I was doing well until he started whispering in my ear using his Loki voice.
āGive in, mortal. Come for me. I know youāve dreamed of this, me fucking into you for all Iām worth, you pinned against the wall, unable to sway those mesmerizing hips and have your way with me as you ride my cock to find your own selfish pleasure.ā
He pounded into me, almost savagely, and as he felt my walls begin to flutter he put his hand over my mouth.
āNot. A. Sound.ā I came, my scream trapped beneath his hand, the wet sounds of him moving in and out of me echoing eerily off the bathroom walls. āThatās it. Look at you, coming and coming all over my cock. So, so beautiful.ā
He let his hand drop, and I could feel his thrusts becoming more erratic as I stared at him, his face red, jaw clenched, the veins on his neck standing out with his exertion. His head tipped back, fingers digging into the underside of my thighs, and his entire body shuddered as he orgasmed, come spurting hot inside me. I let my legs slide down one at a time, planting my feet as firmly as I possibly could despite the fact that they felt like they were made of Jell-O. Ā
He rested his head on my shoulder, and I rubbed his back. āI guess this means you got my text after all.ā I felt him nod. āWell, if this is what not wearing underwear gets me, Iām never putting on another fucking pair ever again.ā
We both laughed, quickly cleaned ourselves up, and I peeked out the door to make sure the coast was clear. Still not a soul around, and we said a final goodbye to Alani on our way out and proceeded to walk back to the Jeep. We sat for a while, neither of us feeling quite capable of driving.
He leaned over to kiss me, hand on the back of my neck, grinning as he pulled away. āIām famished. Want to grab something to eat before we head back?ā
āYou already know the answer to that.ā I noticed the street getting a bit congested, a small pack of women heading in our direction and what appeared to be a local news crew up the road a bitā¦I pulled out my phone and checked Alaniās Twitter feed. Sheād posted the photo of all of us.
Hereās me just a little while ago with Tom Hiddleston and his girlfriend, Maude. He smells like a pine forest, and sheās super nice. #bestdayever, #thankyoutomandmaude
I showed it to him. āIām thinking maybe we should stop somewhere a little further down the road. You?ā
He started the Jeep, put it in first and stalled it as he tried to pull away from the curb, and then again on his second try. He smiled at me sheepishly. āPerhaps youād better drive.ā
āGee, ya think?ā We got out and switched places. I shook my head. āWhat a newb.ā
He crossed his arms. āI am not a newb. Iām just out of practice is all.ā
I patted his thigh as we got to the highway. āRight. Rusty stick skills. I remember.ā
He chortled. āYours remain top notch though, my love.ā
I smiled smugly. āThey do, donāt they?ā
He raised his index finger. āAlthough, technically, you didnāt actually make use of them this go round, did you?ā
āIāll make up for it next time.ā
āIām going to hold you to that.ā
āWell Iād fucking hope youād hold me to it. Thatās the whole point.ā I saw a McDonaldās sign in the distance. āDude, I want some French fries in the WORST way. And a chocolate milkshake. You game?ā
āI most certainly am.ā
āIf you behave Iāll let you have my cherry.ā
āBit late for that, isnāt it?ā
āHow rude.ā
āPerhaps. But true.ā
āNot entirely true.ā
āWhat do you mean, not entirely true?ā
I turned off the highway and into the parking lot. The drive through line was mobbed, but the lot itself was relatively empty. āI mean that the fact that itās a bit late for you to have my cherry is only partially correct.ā
He stared at me as I engaged the parking brake, puzzled, then shook his head. āIām not following.ā
The left corner of my mouth scrunched up in mock irritation. āReally? Are you sure?ā He shrugged, palms up. āThink about all weāveā¦done.ā
āMaude.ā
āGood. Now think about what we havenāt done.ā I gave him a few moments to review, watching his face closely so Iād see it dawn on him. 3ā¦2ā¦1ā¦aaaannndd there it was. His jaw slackened, hips lifting almost imperceptibly. āThatās right. Iāve played around, sure, but as far as actually having a cock in my assā¦nope. Which means, technically, my anal cherry is still intact.ā
He covered his face with his hands, groaning, but said nothing.
I went in for the kill. āSo, Thomasā¦tell me. Would you like my cherry?ā
Shaking his head, face still hidden, he spoke in a low voice. āMaude.ā He paused, remaining silent for quite some time, seemingly avoiding my question. I wondered if Iād overstepped some sort of boundary, pushing him too far.
My mind was racing, and I frowned. āWow. Ā Iām really sorry, Tom.ā
He uncovered his face to take my hand, gazing at me with eyes full of concern. āWhatever for?ā
āBecause I put you on the spot there and just assumed itās something youād want to participate in. I didnāt stop to think that itās something that might not be up everyoneās alley.ā I rolled my eyes. āThat didnāt come outā¦shitā¦DAMN. Anyway, that was incredibly presumptuous and I apologize for letting myself get so carried away. Please donāt feel like itās something you have toā¦ā
He leaned in to kiss me forcefully, covering my entire mouth with his, tongue darting over my lips, then pulled away before I could fully engage. āMay I answer your question now?ā
I shook my head. āTom, you donāt needā¦ā
āI know I donāt need to, but I WANT to. My answer is, with undeniable certainty, yes. Please accept my apology for not answering straight away. Iām afraid I was too busy thinking about how deliciously tight youāre going to feel around me and then I remembered that you arenāt wearing panties and it was all I could do to stop myself from dragging you onto my lap and fucking you right here in the McDonaldās parking lot.ā
His eyes met mine, nostrils flaring, pupils blown wide open. Never before had I been able to do this to a man, make him want me so desperately using nothing but words. He squeezed my hand.
āThat youād trust me with something so intimate, bequeathing me such a precious gift, wishing to share something that youāve not yet experienced with another, isā¦Iām honored, humbled, awestruckā¦so very many things.ā He smiled timidly. āIāve never been someoneās first anything before.ā
My brows shot up, but I managed to keep my mouth shut.
āMaude, thereās something Iād like to ask you, butā¦ā
āShoot.ā
āAll right. This may be terribly intrusive, and feel free to not answer it if you donāt feel comfortable doing so, butā¦knowing what I do about you, sexually, Iāmā¦surprisedā¦that youā¦erm, neverā¦anyway, I suppose Iām just wondering why.ā
I sighed. Good job, Maude. This is what you get for trying to be a seductress.
āLong story short, youāre only the fourth person Iāve been intimate with. The first two were before I was twenty and not even remotely interested in such a thing. By the third I was very interested, but things fell apart before it happened.ā I put my arms on the steering wheel and rested my forehead on them for a moment, then raised my head and turned to him. I couldnāt quite read the expression on his face.
āOkay, Iām not sure if that look means āI didnāt need to hear thatā or āwow, only three, what a loserā.ā
He shook his head. āItās neither. Well, maybe a bit of the first one, because the idea of you being with someone else is much more unpleasant than I would have imagined, butā¦it was mostly surprise that such an incredibly beautiful, intelligent, hilarious woman wouldnāt have men lining up to be with her.ā
āThomas. Stop being so fucking wonderful, wonāt you? Christ. There was no line, believe me. Iāve always been at least a little chubby, but after I moved to New York I put on a huge amount of weight. There are reasons for that, but thatās another story for another time. By 2003 I was tipping the scales at two hundred and forty-seven pounds. Iāve always been a confident person, and I honestly never cared what anyone else thought about the way I looked, butā¦you know what Iām getting at here, I think. In late 2008 I started feeling like shit, and Anne, whoād nearly died due to undiagnosed diabetes in 2003, pushed me to see a doctor. Sure enough, that was the problem. It was early, and resolvable with lifestyle modifications. So, I kicked myself in the ass, and over the next year I lost more than eighty pounds, and that was when Iā¦a woman in her sexual prime, in the best shape of her lifeā¦met number three. God bless himā¦I was on a mission, making up for lost time and he could barely keep up with me. One time I actually thought he was going to need an ambulanceā¦sheese, why I am telling you this? Yikes. Sorry. Lord knows I donāt want to hear anything like it from you.ā I unbuckled my seat belt. āLetās pretend this never happened and go get those milkshakes, mākay?ā
He grabbed my arm as I opened the door, and I turned to meet his gaze. āIā¦Maudeā¦I justā¦you areā¦everything about youā¦ā He shook his head. āI fall deeper in love with you with every passing moment.ā
āRight back atcha, baby.ā He laughed. āYeah. No way I was going to try and out-eloquent you there. Waste of time and energy.ā
We went inside, his arm around my shoulders, and ordered two Happy Meals when we saw the new toys were Minions. Neither of us could resist playing with them as we ate. Tom went back for a Big Mac and chicken nuggets, which I shared. He stuck his fingers in through the lid of my milkshake, deftly picking up the cherry and popping it in his mouth, a huge smile on his face.
We both used the bathroom, separately, and as we were walking back to the Jeep I heard the voice of a young boy.
āMom, Mom! That man over there! Thatās the man youāre always looking at on your computer!ā
A woman replied to him. āMason, what are you talking abā¦?ā And with that, I knew sheād seen Tom. I pulled at his shirt, and he looked down at me and nodded. We turned around and waved. The woman was about my age, maybe a little older, and she looked like she might die of embarrassment when she realized weād overheard their conversation. Tom strode over, hand extended.
āHi there. Tom Hiddleston. And you are?ā She moved as if in a trance, hand out, and he grasped it gently and shook.
āIā¦uhā¦umā¦Sarah. Iām Sarah. And this is my son, Mason.ā
Tom beamed and shook Masonās hand as well. āLovely to meet you both.ā
Sarah reached into her purse, dug around and pulled out a Coriolanus program. She cleared her throat. āI heard that youād be on the island and Iāve been carrying this with me, you know, just in case.ā
He took it from her. āWere you in attendance?ā
Mason piped up. āWe flew all the way across two oceans so she could go see your show. I saw Big Ben. It was really cool.ā
Sarah was bright red. āI saw it twice, actually, but didnāt have time to stay after.ā
Tom pulled a sharpie out of his back pocket. āMay I?ā
She grinned. āPlease do.ā He signed his name, as well as a message. āSorry to have missed you there, but better late than never. Glad to finally have met you. XOāā
As he handed it back to her he asked if sheād like a picture with him. He introduced us, and I volunteered to do the honors so Mason could squeeze in as well. I gave him my Minion to keep him occupied while I took some shots of just Sarah and Tom. He held it up to give it back to me when I handed Sarah back her phone.
āNope, buddy, thatās yours now.ā I held out my hand to Tom and he put his toy in it. āIn fact, you can have Tomās too. This way he gets to stay with his friend and wonāt be lonely.ā He thanked me so quietly I could barely hear him, eyes full of wonder at what to an adult was such a small gesture.
Tom hugged them both goodbye, and Sarah embraced me as well. She smiled at my surprise. āThank you, both of you, so much.ā
Tom put his arm around my waist as we walked the rest of the way back to the Jeep, placing a quick kiss on the top of my head.
āIt is my personal opinion that youāre a much kinder, gentler person than youād like everyone to believe.ā
I sighed. āYeah, yeah. And itās all your fucking fault, too.ā
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13. A Christian Secession ā Real Leaders Begin to Emerge
Pre-Wuhan Virus, face masks were the sign of a thief. President for Life Xi of China earned the use of the term āXi Maskā by sending to us the Wuhan Virus. Such a gift, bless his little heart (for any non-southern readers of this blog that is the Southern way of saying that he might have a heart but it is extremely small). My father was a fine, Christian, Southern Gentleman who taught me some things. My mother was born in New Jersey of New York parents. She was a fine Christian Lady but was āplain spokenā in Southern terms. Her 50% of me is obvious.
A recent photo of Biden on a Zoom panel with world leaders showed Biden as the only one to wear a mask. Many Americans criticized Biden for wearing a mask ā saying it was stupid looking for a vaccinated man, siting somewhere by himself, to wear a mask. Well, as my mother used to say āStupid is as Stupid doesā. Perhaps we should alter the saying to āDemented is as Demented doesā.
My reaction to the image was that Biden and the Demented Marxists (DM) in Congress wearing a mask is totally appropriate. They stole the election and thieves wear masks. They wear them as a source of pride (āLook at us, we stole the electionā). Have the DMs adopted a Xi Mask as a sign of their political party affiliation? I can hear the campaign slogan āTrump gave you a vaccine via Operation Warp Speed but we made the face mask a perpetual reminder that we stole the election in November 2020!ā. Truthful, but not much of a campaign slogan.
Melissa Mackenzie, publisher of The American Spectator, just recently wrote about the courage of a public-school teacher who spoke out against the Critical Race Theory during a mandatory āWhiles onlyā indoctrination session. The Orwellian response of the school administration must have been painful to endure. The educator risked their career.
In the same article, Ms. McKenzie mentioned a county school board that resigned en mass because of parents irate about requiring masks. A new school board was elected who promptly voted to terminate the mandate of masks. Perhaps these are green shoots of a trend of bravery starting. Get involved and help make this a trend.
There are increasing examples of elected and appointed officials who are becoming Drum Majors without a marching band. Do they realize just how silly they look? I believe Christians have had enough and are ignoring the DMs. Some of the most notable events: The Academy Awards held this week had the fewest viewers EVER. They joined the NBA with plummeting ratings.
I believe this marks a trend started when Trump actually solved problems rather than just talking about them being problems. It is a stark contrast to the politicians in Richmond or DC. Most of them just want to get paid for talking about a problem, scoring rhetorical points, and have a fund raiser about the problem, but they never solve the problem. The focus is all about money, theirs.
Wednesday evening, Biden spoke to Congress and apparently spouted the DM positions of (1) all whites are bad, (2) raising taxes for bigger and more inefficient government is good, (3) yada ad nauseum. I did something else that night that was a productive use of my time. On Thursday morning I read Senator Tim Scottās rebuttable speech via The Daily Signal. AWESOME.
The entire speech was Superb, Awesome, Worthy of reading even if you heard it. His focus was on āCommon sense makes common ground.ā His speech was full of common sense, a characteristic so obviously lacking in the DMs. The Christian Rebellion will lead us back to common sense problem solving by both economic decision votes and honest elections. Leaders like Senator Tim Scott and the educator Ms. Mackenzie mentioned need our support and prayers. We need to increase the reality of āGo Woke and Go Brokeā.
While Portland continues to be a war zone with police that are unarmed rangers, I read an article by someone who has just left Minneapolis permanently because of the destruction, lack of police, etc. Keep watching the activity about the fraudulent election last November.
a. The Michigan Supreme Court ruled that the Michigan Secretary of State exceeded her authority when she approved a variety of changes to the stateās election laws. Was the ācertifiedā election in Michigan a fraud? YES.
b. The Arizona legislature authorized recount of 2.1 Million votes in Maricopa County, Arizona has started despite the DMs attempt to prevent it.
c. It is fun watching the DMs oppose audits in Wisconsin and Georgia. Odd behavior if there is nothing to hide.
d. Lawsuits have been filed and counter filed by Mike Lindell, Sidney Powell, and Dominion (the voting machine company). Stay tuned, much more to come.
107 days into the DMsā coup (it is the longest 107 days EVER), here are some quick observations of recent events that will impact our economy:
1. The Fed met this week and decided their current policy is peachy keen. They do not see any threat of inflation. Apparently, Chairman Powell is blinded by the glitter of a second term. Meantime, the reported rate of inflation in March was 1%, an annual rate of 12%. Ignore the talking heads reading their teleprompters that the rate of inflation is going to calm down later this year. With DMās are using economic techniques refined in Venezuela, what could go wrong?
2. Pay attention to the fact that homebuilders are facing rapidly increasing prices for material and labor. Plus, restaurant operators are having to raise salaries and give bonuses to encourage staff to get off the unemployment rolls and work. Increased costs are rolling through the economy. Powell wants you asleep, remember āSnooze you lose?
3. Biden and his fellow DMās are so out of touch with the real world. In the face of labor shortages and rapidly increasing costs they continue to push their twin Democratic Party Payoff āinfrastructureā bills. Not much real infrastructure in those bills. Churchill once said that āBelieving you can tax and spend to create prosperity is the equivalent of standing in a bucket and trying to raise it by its handle.ā
4. In a truly capitalistic economy, the brake on this run-away train would be applied by the 10-year Treasury which continues to fluctuate between 1.50% to 1.70%. If The Fed was not distorting the financial market via Quantitative Easing (QE) interest rates would be higher. Even in the face of QE various sources estimate that by the end of 2021 the 10-year Treasury will be 2.5% to 3.0% and mortgage rates will increase to 4.0% to 4.5%.
5. There are so many signs of the residential market being a Bubble, I cannot list them in this Blog. In contrast most segments of the commercial market are cautious to slow. Our GMLC land market indices reflect most segments are stable. Higher interest rates mean lower real estate prices. When bubbles burst, shortage becomes surplus overnight.
6. Environmental regulations have gotten worse and approval times are lengthening. This increases the distortion in the marketplace.
7. I laughed at Northamās goal to double Virginiaās farm exports in 15 years. Virginiaās government is taking so much cropland and pastureland out of production with Virginiaās Nutrient Credit program, Northam must be talking in terms of inflation doubling in 15 years. Now that is a real possibility. We need to get the DMās out of government at all levels and replace them with folks that have common sense.
A great book for this current economic period is Dr. Kindlebergerās easy to read but superb book entitled āManias, Panics, and Crashesā. Unsustainable things continue until that unpredictable moment when they stop. In a financial crisis āCash is Kingā. Get prepared.
A great piece of land remains The Best investment long term unless the DMs get us to full-fledged Marxism. Capitalism builds wealth, Marxism/Socialism consumes it in self destruction. Pray for a return to honest elections in the USA. God is in control. Men make plans, but God ALWAYS wins.
āFor it is Godās will that by doing right you should silence the ignorance of the foolish.ā
(1 Peter 2:15) New Revised Standard Version, Oxford University Press)
Stay healthy,
Ned
April 29, 2021
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idk how long this is gonna be but it goes a little something like this. you ever been so afraid of failing that you just procrastinate and avoid for so long? each day you tell yourself youāll finally suck it up and push through but the fear and anxiety are almost so paralyzing you donāt even wanna go near the task.
iās just been months..like maybe even five at this rate. i tell myself to start the clock the day i graduated but i knowĀ the truth. the last year-ish was my idkwhatimdoingwithmylifeohmygod era and i just thought i passed it with a bit more advice and options. but itās like it was all almost pretty bubbles and they just popped so long ago that iām lost and confused and afraid and nervous and all of that is so ridiculous, it embarrasses me. iām not really that lazy but i say it to try and explain alot, i think. or i say that iām just relaxing or something, when i know everyday my thoughts are always on this same thing and never being good enough to get through the rut. it wasnt till i was on a walk, voice memo-ing a friend and the anxiety just peeked through a bit and i was hearing my own thoughts aloud like ....thats true? and iām told to not be afraid and to just let whatever happens happen if itās best for me and i know that but i also dont?
everyday i constantly think about deleting every single social media app iām on bc i feel this heavy weight of uselessness and incompetence. why couldnāt i have learned things like this person or been more out there like that person?whatās wrong with me? and i begin to rationalize it with my childhood and how i was raised and it never is fulfilling. itās constantly not enough, nothing about me is. iām not creative at all and what i can do, so many can do better and so why would anyone actually pick me? even the things and issues iām passionate about, what do i really know? even my knowledge seems so below average and itās confusing and stressful. i feel like if someone asked me a question about anything right now that iāve just forgotten everything important and couldnāt even articulate a proper response. and i wanted to be an activist??? since i have to interview for jobs online now bc the pandemic itās made me so nervous. i feel most in my element during in person interviews and i say that as someone thatās also awkward and nervous in the room. but iām more anxious of the constant string of rejections i know iām gonna receive now bc i can barely speak english and thereās nothing special about me at all. at least in person, i can smile and make it less weird. and i connect so much better that way, which loosens me up .000009% more. itās really babyish i guess bc everyone is adjusting and iām just not. and i thought i was with everything but i guess i really wasnt. and coming home everytime makes me fall back into this person i dont like ad i get so sluggish (my sister says its the trauma) and i dont know bc one day sheās waking up in florida and being a good semi productive human and the next sheās back in new york and its many low days and nerves. honestly the way this house sucks the life out of me, i dont even think iād be good at any remote job. itās kinda the reason half my brain is pushing the dead part bc i want to leave. be more self-sufficient and alone again.Ā but where and how, you know? obvs im gonna need a job for that. itās just this domino effect and iām scared to push the first one and itās annoying and i hate it goddaammit.Ā the moment i came home, i just have always felt unworthy and other to my family. like they don;t care, like theyāre not proud, like iāve done nothing these past years and thatās my fault for not being an open book like the rest.
iām gonna have to edit this bc i will not remember 87 months worth of pandemic thoughts into this post right now but. i tell myself i came home and decided to take a break for a bit, or focused on my health and appointments, but really..i dont know. i think i say it to justify all these hollow days of disappointment, which it never does. iām afraid to ask for help or even a nice job recommendation from my last employer bc all i can think about is that itās been months and what have i been doing this whole time? and i think theyāll ask that or think ??? now ??? and i get in my head. i know its not illogical and the worst anyone can say is no and yada yada but ugh this is why i hate my mind and just overthinking ... or not thinking?? who knows. iām constantly letting myself down but .., i dont want anyone to know that. does that make sense. maybe i have this need to be superficial and make my life seem so nice and good and right bc i never see myself as that and i worry of peopleās opinions and crave affirmations.Ā
the first appt i had coming home was my neurosurgeon one and my dad and him sort of just had this rushed timeline in their heads of how i would go into the ER one day soon and bam its done. i didnt wanna think about that so i tried to focus on my job stuff .. then got stressed so i just started scheduling the appointments i needed. then stopped and did more work stuff. then the secretary called me like ???? u havent done these exams yet and i was like yeah uhhh. bc when i do them itās one step closer to doing the surgery and i know i want the surgery iām just getting in my head again and donāt want it to be now. my sister told me to make sure i let her know when i choose a date and i was like mhm i wanna finish the job stuff and get my life sorted first and she was just ???? what ?? this is clearly more important. but hereās the kicker. i went on a walk the other day and just cried coming to terms with it all bc honestly i still dream of not making it out alive and a part of me thinks, at least if i did this one thing right and found a job and all that, that it would okay what happens next. like at least i was successful in that one thing. i think about how unworthy and unproud i am of myself and for months now, just felt like this would be a beautifully cowardice way out. and i think about the after, and cant even imagine strong devastation and sorrow. is that strange? like i expect everyone to just go on. bc iām a simple buffer with no real purpose left. i walk and think about dreams and hopes and what i would miss and just one thing that make me call this entire fantasy completely insane and i just draw blank. so i cry because, of course. this fantasy isnāt new either, since last year iāve been speaking to my therapist and writing about it. we would speak of suicide and i always respond like thatās a huge no bc of my religion but i say, i think about if something went wrong and that was it, how i want it to be like that. take the pressure, take the blame, take it all off me in a way. and some days iām scared that iāll wake up in the hospital bed after and be in pain and coddled and annoyed by the attention iām only getting bc of that pain. and i dont want you to be here just because of the pain but i feel like youāre here only because of that. that you came, that youāre seeing me, that you care only because of it. so what am i without it? just back to nothing? the headaches were lonely but i feel less lonely with this diagnosis, like i have something good about me, worthy about me. something that makes me important to someone, even if itās the neurologist that wants my money. to be real, i dont even think i care about the pain leaving as much as the fact that i canāt label myself as this person with chronic pain. like even if i was cured and oo lala all better, a part of me would still want to have this neuro condition. like ?? i was thinking: imagine beating cancer and feeling better but wanting to say .. and then realized the key difference. with that you survive, you are survivor. even if itās gone that who you are. when this leaves me, iām nothing and iāll just go back to being nothing. no one says u survived brain surgery or survived a brain condition. itās just done and forgotten. thereās nothing exciting about my life other than my mri visits i swear. i decided to do the surgery bc it would be stupid of me not to, and iām still holding back, still unsure of even a set month. i just know i didnt want to follow covid rules of 1 visitor bc i know it would be one of my parents and i would jump out the window myself. but covid isnt rlly going away so is that the best excuse i have? i havent thought past these appointments and its almost like im doing it all for the wrong reasons, like enjoying it rather than wanting it to help me. i dont know.
unrelated but a song that always makes me cry and is actually the song i was listening to when i had that panic attack on the plane: finally by james arthur around 2:30. always brings out the hollowness in me hm.
**** iām coming back to this but i got all my plaguing thoughts outish so
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oh boy do i ever have tales for you babes jfc my life has been a mess. This is the story of how a booty call from tinder i literally met last nightā as he helped me escape my sharehouse- dropped me safe at my airbnb and how my ass is going back home.
so iām peacing out of australia in two weeks, and just gonna treat the next two weeks like a vacation and have fun and then just treat this like a life lesson. aside from being super homesick since iāve been here, i literally left in the middle of the night last night from a hellish sharehouse where iāve paid what amounts to $100 a day (iām just eating the loss of one weekās rent cuz fuck it i couldnāt stay in that environment).
This angel in disguise iād been texting with from tinder (but hadnāt met til he came and got me- and our texting has been nonsexual i should mention haha heās great) picked me and all my belongings up and took me back to the airbnb iād been staying at as i sobbed in his car i was just so relieved. He let me hug him and thank him and he loaded all my shit into his car while i explained things to him and kind of cried in his car at his kindness and like wow wtf kind of meeting right? He was sweet as fuck, i was only able to get out of there last night because he offered to help me. I could cry again thinking about it iām so damn relieved. Really that guy is a lifesaver iām gonna see if heāll go for drinks with me tomorrow iām just so grateful heās the absolute best.
He got me back to my host at airbnb (a wonderful gay lawyer whoās been really like a friend since i first arrived here) and he gave me a big hug and i cried some more and he said on the phone earlier he couldnāt tell if i was crying or laughing cuz i have a natural sort of laugh to my voice, and i was like No dude i was trying not to cry xD He poured a glass of wine as i cried in just sheer relief again and tried to tell him more about what had happened aside from what he already knew, and 3 glasses of wine later i felt way better like jfc it was awful there.
I was only at the flatshare for five days, and it was so shit and not at all as advertised and when i originally gave the guy two weekās notice yesterday he tells me i still have to pay for the whole monthās rent, due on the 1st, so then i tell him iāll be out by the 30th of august instead of in 2 weeks cuz i aināt paying for shit when a) i havenāt signed anything b) its super drafty and dirty and in disrepair and he tells me not to use heaters throughout the day or the dryer more than once a week max, and c) heās letting his friends and shit eat my food and stuff. Itās like fuck fucker iām overpaying in rent here for this piece of shit and you think iām gonna pay for time iām not gonna be there when i havenāt signed shit and youāre a dickhead? WTF no.
He proceeds to:
Harass me all day about how iām fucking him over (he got 2 weekās rent out of me for 5 days yaāll; 5 days from the remainder of august which was already paid for by the previous girl who also moved out after a weekā so heās actually ahead of the game here when heās claiming heās so fucked yada yada wtf)
He says heās gonna report me to the site i used to fin his flat (jokeās on him, iāll be doing the same as all these problems are not advertised at all, and i suspect theyāre actually squatting there as thereās no mail and the address doesnāt show up on google. The lawyer also thinks theyāre probably squatting.)
He then says i have to pay him for the remaining time of august for those 12 days or be out the next day, and iām like Dude you have my one weekās bond and the week i paid you for already keep it. That more than covers it. So cue his next freak out.
He accuses me of stealing some $10 hand soap (iād been gone all day dude, wtf? iām not a thief just because youāre pissed, and you have my money. what the actual fuck?). I point out that someone drank all my apple juiceā and maybe that that someone also stole his handsoap cuz i didnāt touch that shit and why would i even?- and then he proceeds to tell me that it was his friend who drank my stuff- who crashed on the couch that night without telling any of us- but being as the āpositionā iād put him in he couldnāt care less about my juice. Ummm okaaaaay but you disrespecting my food and property predates me āscrewing you overā dickhead. If anyone is a liar and a thief itās you.
He then tells me off about not to feed his cat and how itās not my place whatsoever (i fed his cat one time and told him about it because the cat slept with me all night and wanted his breakfast, and heād told me then please not to feed it, so i was like Gotcha sorry not a problem! but then he freaks out a second time here as heās getting more petty about whatever he can. I just apologized again about feeding the cat the one time just not wanting to deal with him. That poor sweet cat from the video yaāll :/
SO after all this bullshit, two fucking xanax and shaking all day, scared to go home and what might happen if i see him, i decide iām moving the fuck out that night and not telling him cuz fuck him. Heās got my money, he has a key to my room he never gave me, i donāt feel safe, i am fucking GONE.
Tinder angel (whoās a fireman btw yaaas) picks me and my SHITTON of luggage up and i am just still so shocked by the kindness of strangers like BRO. Super thank, like you were already gonna get in these panties bro youāve been sweet but now like HOOOO ahahah xD
Really though this place was in super disrepair that one couldnāt see at night (when i originally inspected) and i should have suspected when he told me the girl who was there previously left after a week āfor a job in sydneyā. Yeah sure, she was probably escaping too.
There was an actual breeze through the cracked windows (as in cracks in the glass) and walls and the 3 inch gap above the door.
when the industrial fan of some kitchen nearby went on, it created an intense breeze through my room due to the suctionā only a couple degrees above seeing-your-breath icy at night
It was filthy- which i thought was just because of the weather- tracking in dirt from outside
There were ants in the bathroom, and the bathroom window was cracked and no curtain on the window
I donāt think the tub has ever been scrubbedā i thought someone had just recently dyed their hair but no :X still canāt believe i stayed 5 days there
Cat hair and stains all over the dirty carpet going upstairs
The sweet sweet cat actually has really bad dermatitis and open wounds
Said cat is ALWAYS on the counters when trying to cook, and he tries to get into what youāre doing; he leaves hair with flesh attached to it on the counters and the guy doesnāt remove the cat when youāre trying to cook
No microwave and the dials on the gas oven/stove are nearly falling off. Fire hazard doesnāt even cover it
Cat box is positioned in a place downstairs where, with one of the many cracked-open windows carries the smell of it right up and into my room
The girl in the room next to mine sang and played piano until 11pm at night. Her room also had a 3 inch gap so that sound carried. She didnāt block it up like i did
No lights outside at all so you need a flashlight to see. Not safe
I could hear the construction going on in a carpark across the road starting at 6am
NONE of these issues were addressed, they didnāt lodge my bond with the RTBA which is illegal as fuck so this guy needs to back the fuck off- more cred to thinking theyāre squatting. The guy- after all this harrassment and bullshit, texts me this morning to say i could have had the decency to tell him iād left. Like really? REALLY? After all the shit, like iād even wanna be anywhere near him? just fucking hell man.
Then i cried to my mom on skype today because i was still so relieved to be somewhere clean and safe and warm with a host who wants me here (like iād much rather pay to this guy for a little bit more a week than that asshole) and iām just so DONE. Iām gonna focus these next two weeks on having fun, buying presents for my family, making memories with my cool kiwi friend and my friend from japan, and just overwrite this whole horrible experience.
I guess itās a learning experience as well. Iāve never inspected a place on my own before and this has taught me a LOT, but like fuck guys. Really just thatās the word that sums it up: FUCK.
Dickhead doesnāt have my last name, no information about me, nothing but my phone number, and if he tries anything else then BRO i wonāt hesitate to let the local police know youāve got illegal substances in your place, donāt register bond, suspected squatting, etc.
Other than this, i still think australia is a lovely place but fuuuuuuck guys fucking hell.
Fic and fic and fic once iām back in the states yep. Iāve been through the ringer here. Also my ankle is still a little fucked haha ugh. SO yeah guys, thatās whats going on in my neck of the woods. AAARGH. Anywho love all of yaāll.
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Cold Hard Hugs #20_It Had To End This Way
Hey! I did manage to get it to end on twenty parts! How about that.
But yes. This is the end of Cold Hard Hugs. Or at least the first 'bit'. I have started a second 'bit' but it's not got very far yet and it's, uh, different. It is about different things. Kind of. I guess you'll see for yourself, sooner or later.
For now though, this is the end. See if it happens the way you thought it would
(The very end should be mentally accompanied by this track, because it was in my head)
I sat around a lot after they left. I sat in the lounge because I could and because that was where the films were. I watched the last one Iād watched with Tillie, but it wasnāt as good watching it on my own. I watched some others too but my jokes fell flat in an empty room. They fell flat with Tillie there, too, but at least they got some kind of reaction. The problem with telling jokes to myself is that I know the punchline. And Iām not funny.
The next day followed much the same pattern but in the daytime. There was probably something else I could have been doing, something more productive, but I couldnāt quite remember what. Films and drinking seemed just as good as anything else, at least until someone suggested something better.
While Iād been sitting around though, a disaster had crept up on me. I had run out of beer, which was bad. But I was capable of going out and getting more. Which was good.
I swapped out my oversized nighttime t-shirt for a far-too-small-probably-shrunk-in-the-wash one that was close to hand, dug around for my wallet, found my shoes and generally did all the things one does before leaving the house and then, well, left the house. The shop was not far away, at least by my standards. Some would have preferred to drive, no doubt, but those people donāt know the positives of a nice, casual stroll. I felt for them.
The walk was nothing to write home about. I have done many walks in my life at many times of the day and night and in many locations going to many other locations. Some have been more memorable than others for various reasons, most of which would make coherent sense only to myself. This walk to the shops was merely a logistical formality. If I could apparate I would have done. If i could apparate my life would be far easier, and I (probably) not quite as slim. And I was hardly slim as it is.
Thinking about teleportation of various kinds carried me in a numb haze to the shop s and before I was even aware of it was I there, confronted with beer. I honestly couldnāt even remember what route Iād taken, but there I was. The beer called out to me in myriad accents and tongues, all promises. That they were mostly brewed in places other than that which they claimed to hail from was immaterial for the purposes of my flight of fancy.
Maybe I was talking this up to myself. Making it more than I was. Best to focus on what mattered. I looked at the prices. Looking at my options, it really was the economical thing to buy a box. Anything less and - technically - I was spending more money. Technically. Bulk was always cheaper. So a box it was. Carrying it home would be fun. I could write it off as exercise.
I got IDād, I paid, I left. Hoisting the box up on one arm I found the perfect position to seat it so the pointy corners didnāt press on my poor, tender flanks. Once that was done I trudged back the way Iād come.
Or at least the way I thought Iād come. I still wasnāt entirely sure which route Iād taken in the first place so I just picked whichever route seemed most likely to get me home soon. The one I picked turned out to be one I had not taken before, and I got a little lost. Unhelpful, but not uninteresting.
I then ran into Michelle. Walked into her would be more accurate, given our respective paces. I was not jogging. She had seen me coming a mile off and homed in me like a strolling, smiling missile. Conversation was inevitable, and if I was going to be honest it was just a tiny bit welcome.
āFancy seeing you here,ā I said, trying and failing to match her smile with my own. Simply out of my league.
āWhat happened to your face? It looks a little worse than usual,ā she said, reaching out and poking my fading black eye. Nice of her.
āHah. Uh, some guy hit me, itās no big deal.ā
āWhy did he hit you?ā
āBecause he didnāt like me? It wasnāt something we really discussed. I think he mentioned Tillie. Maybe. Anyway, I didnāt know you lived around here,āI said, eager not to talk about being punched because it was pretty boring. My blatant and clumsy efforts at changing the subject were clearly amusing, judging by her reaction. She really did have the most enormous smile. Suited her, mind.
āI donāt, really. Iām just going for a walk,ā She said with a shrug, raising her arms to indicate where she was, which was also where I was, too. Obviously.
āAh, thatās cool,ā I said. As Iād previously been thinking, walks were tops.
āYeah. Going home tomorrow for reading week so I just thought Iād...have a walk first. Seems a bit silly now, I havenāt seen anything new,ā she said, casting an eye around the neighbourhood. As far as streets went the one weād met on wasnāt exactly the best. It wasnāt bad, just boring. If you didnāt know which town we were in - and I did, most of the time - and youād just woken up on this street then you could have been ANYWHERE.
āNo no, not silly, walking is good. Home for reading week, eh?ā I did not know where Michelle lived or came from. I had no need to know. This is a bit of a theme with me, isnāt it? Skaffen was onto something! Ah...she hates me.
āYouāre not?ā Michelle asked, clearly inferring this from what Iād said. Magical of her.
āNo. Figured Iād say here. I might actually try reading. Maybe.ā
My actual, initial plan - as previously alluded to in my own head - had been to stay for reading week because Tillie had been staying for reading week. The prospect of us both being around with nothing much else to do other than be around and on our own had been an attractive one at the time. That hadnāt panned out, obviously, and I hadnāt really been able to muster the motivation to change my plan.
Not that I really had any appealing options available even if Iād had the inclination to change my plans. What did I have available? Nothing. Go home and be alone there. Hardly attractive. Iād be fine here. I might, in fact, actually do some reading, which would mean I didnāt just lie to MIchelle. Thatād be a plus.
āCareful now, thatās dangerous talk,ā Michelle said, which got a laugh out of me. Then she looked at the box I was carrying.
āYou having a party or something?ā
āWhat? Oh, this. No, I just ran out is all,ā I said. She eyed the box rather more closely for a second and then gave half a shrug.
āWhatever makes you happy. Whereās Tillie anyway? I havenāt really seen either of you without the other for ages now. She back at the house?ā
āSheās on holiday.ā
āOh. With family? Does she have family? Is that okay to ask?ā Michelle asked, getting quieter as she went on, as though easily-offended people were lurking in the bushes to accuse her of being insensitive. I chuckled.
āIām sure itās okay to ask. I never have, but Iāve been told she has a father at least. Not on holiday with him anyway, on holiday with friends.ā
āI didnāt know she had friends,ā Michelle said. Then she realised what this sounded like āNot like that! I meant, like, I never saw her hanging around with anyone before she met you! I didnāt mean she has no friends!ā She said. I grinned. I knew what sheād meant.
āItās alright. Theyāre old friends, from when she was ickle,ā I said. Michelle paused for a moment and had to take two quick steps to catch up again.
āSheās on holiday with other, uh, what-were-they-called-again?ā
āLiving machines. And yes. Woman. Man. Young man and young woman would be more accurate. Nice chaps. They came up together. I wonder what that was likeā¦ā I did wonder how the childhood of a living-machine would go. Was it even considered āchildhoodā? Was it analogous? Did they go outside and play? Maybe that was something I should ask about.
Could always ask Skaffen. Ha. Ha. Ha. She hates me.
āYouāre...youāre okay with that?ā
āOkay with what?ā
āHer, like, going off with her friends and just leaving you behind.ā
āOh yeah. Why wouldnāt I be? People can do what they like. Actually, it was just Skaffen - thatās her, uh; the female friend - and Johnny going off at first but Skaffen came down, thought to invite Tillie, Tillie wanted to go yada yada. It snowballed, and here we are.ā
āAre Skaffen - Skaffen, really? - and Johnny together or something then? Seems weird to bring along a third wheel.ā
āNah theyāre just buddies pooling resources. Holidays are complicated and expensive things, you know!. But yeah. Apparently Tillie used to have something with Johnny years ago? But yeah. Kid crush or something like that. I didnāt really probe the details. Not that it matters. This is where we are.ā
Michelle was looking at me oddly. I could see it from the corner of my eye but this told me nothing and I didnāt want to get a proper look because I didnāt want to get a proper look.
āI mean, it is a little odd that Skaffen would tell me they wouldnāt want me around as a third wheel - she actually said that, too, like you! - and then invite Tillie...but friends I guess. Nah, I can understand that. Americaās too...American for me anyway. Iām fine.ā
āAre you trying to convince me?ā Michelle asked. Was I really so transparent?
āIs it working?ā
āNo.ā
Rumbled. Oh no! Oh well.
āI am not surprised. Okay, Iāll admit there is a...selfish...rat-bastard part of me that is a tiny bit upset. Especially with some of the things Skaffen said. But thatās selfish and stupid and I donāt care what that part thinks. Iām fine,ā the selfish rat-bastard part of my brain was a part I did not like. Always there, always gnawing away. I imagined other people didnāt have that problem. Or if they did they likely handled it better. Iām just not that good, really.
āYouāve really got to learn to stand up for yourself, you know? If you werenāt happy about it why didnāt you say anything?ā
āBeing unhappy - and unhappy is a strong word! Iād hardly go that far - about it wasnāt going to do anything useful - why ruin her holiday before it even started? Thatād be a dick move.ā
āGoing off on holiday and leaving your boyfriend behind is a bit of a dick moveā¦ā
āWell itās all subjective, in the end. Dicks and their moves are subjective.ā
I disagreed with this, myself. Not about the dick moves part; they truly were subjective, as were a great many things. I meant about the going off. Rat-bastard feeling aside it was perfectly acceptable to go off and leave me, I thought. Why should she be forced to stay? Didnāt make sense to me. But that was me, and each to their own.
There was also the conspicuous point of Skaffenās plan which I was not mentioning. Should I mention that? What would Michelle gain from that? Nothing, obviously. So donāt do it. Sheād have some useful advice, no doubt; something you could take to heart and utilise, but how unhappy would it make her? I donāt know, but unhappier than she is already, and that would be no good. Keep it to yourself. Much better.
By this point we had both meandered so far we had actually ended up back at my house. This surprised me greatly. I stopped, and once she noticed I had so did Michelle.
āMy place. You ever seen my house?ā I asked. She squinted at me.
āNo. Why would I?ā Michelle asked. This was a very good point given Iād never invited her and without that she would have had no reason to ever even come this direction.
āGood questionā¦ā I said, adjusting my grip on the box in my arms. The conversation suffered a lull. A tree rustled and this just made the lull that much worse. A leaf fell on my head.
āI couldnāt get a glass of water, could I?ā Michelle asked breaking the silence. Sheād asked it in something of a rush, I noticed, though why I could not say. Perhaps she hated the quiet as much as I did. The question did rather blindside me though.
āFrom inside?ā
āWell I could always drink from a hose if you got one,ā she said. Good line. Technically not a āglassā of water though. Not consistent. But Iāll let it slide.
āFunny, I like it. No, inside will work, come on,ā I said, moving to the front door and getting it open. I let Michelle in first because that was the practical thing to do and also the polite one - one of the few times in life those things converge so neatly! I then closed the door. By the time this was done she had found the kitchen, though not the glasses.
āNice place,ā she said. āNot much cutlery, though.ā
We did not have much cutlery. In fact, until I arrived, I donāt think there was any cutlery at all. No real need. So all that there was - which wasnāt much, as said - was mine, and therefore of substandard quality and questionable design. It didnāt bother me. Most of the time i was using it it was in my mouth anyway.
āNot been scouring drawers for glasses, have you?ā I asked, setting my box down onto the side and feeling relieved. I opened it up as well. Warm beer was better than no beer. Iād put the rest in the fridge later. Maybe. Possibly. If I remembered it was there.
āNo, just being nosy. Ah, here they are,ā Michelle said on finding a glass. She proceeded to fill it with water, which wasnāt difficult for her. Thatās a university education for you. That was why she - heading for a first last I heard, the way she was going - could fill up a glass but I was stuck using bottles. Says a lot. Propped up on kitchen counters we both stood and sipped, two young adults enjoying a beverage. How exciting.
āWhatever happened to those guys who hit you?ā Michelle asked once her glass was empty. My bottle was empty too, so I opened another one.
āJust one guy hit me. The other ones were mostly just there to watch, I think. To observe, take tips perhaps. Tell me their exciting opinions. Either way I donāt know. Donāt really care. Unless I meet them again, in which case I may start caring again pretty quickly. Weird that someone would hit me in the face, donāt you think?ā
āSome people have very strong feelings about living machines,ā Michelle said the word with an awkwardness that was not deliberate. Fair play to her; it was not a term that rolled easily off the tongue.
āSo I have noticed. I canāt really understand it myself, but then again I canāt really understand people in general, so Iām obviously not the best person to, uh, understand.ā
Anything at all really. Just ask my lecturers. And teachers. And parents. And friends. People you pass in the street, ask them. Theyād probably know as well. It is written all over my face, my lack of understanding prowess.
āDid you tell anyone about it? Police, campus security?ā
āNah, donāt want to make a fuss. Itāll be fine. If I see them again Iāll, uh...well I havenāt worked that part out. Maybe things will go differently. If not then maybe Iāll tell someone,ā I said, staring down the neck of my bottle.
Was the glass in this bottle green or brown? I have great difficulty telling. When it comes to recycling them they have to be separated, I understand. Tillie does it for me normally. Though I havenāt had any she needed to separate for a while now. Itās not going to look good if she comes back and has to sort through a whole box worth.
Iāll find somewhere to dump them before that happens. Problem solved. Take that, Earth.
All of a sudden Michelle was in front of me. She must have moved quickly because I hadnāt really noticed her moving at all. Then again, everything was starting to go a little fuzzy around the edges anyway, so perhaps I wasnāt simply operating at full capacity. I didnāt even bother holding on when she took the bottle out of my hand and put it down onto the side.
āYou shouldnāt really be drinking this early. Or alone,ā she said, quietly, not looking me in the face. Her head was down, which given her height should mean she was looking in my face, but somehow she wasnāt. I imagine itās a trick tall people perfect.
āWell I wonāt have much choice soon, once youāve gone,ā I said with immense joviality. I didnāt pick up the bottle though. Not yet. Would be rude after sheād just gone to the trouble of putting it down for me. For whatever reason.
āYou could always just not do it,ā she suggested. I shrugged, not having the room for much else.
āI guess,ā I said. She wasnāt wrong. Itās sort of hard to stop sometimes though. Once I woke up hungover Iād stop, so it was just a case of having that happen sooner rather than later. Probably not the best approach, but Iām not the best person.
Michelle seemed to notice how close she was and back up, which gave me just enough room to stretch as a yawned; good timing all round!
āOh my God, more? What are those? Those from the same guy?ā I heard her say. I paused mid-stretch and opened one eye.
āWhat are what?ā I asked.
āThose,ā she said, both her hands coming down onto my hip. That was unusual. I looked.
My t-shirt had obviously shrunk far more than I had initially thought, as my simple act of stretching had exposed a considerable portion of my hideous pale flank. I was suddenly struck by the potent memory of sitting by Michelle on that bench what felt like a lifetime ago, trying hard not to watch her stretch. I think she did a better job of doing it, myself. Stretching, not the not looking. She was rubbish at that as she was looking right at me.
So absorbed was I in this meandering train of thought that the actual thing she had been talking about - the bruises, far fresher than the one on my face and thus far more impressive looking (all green and blue! I think itās green) - only occurred to me distantly after everything else. She had framed them with her fingers and they stood out quite blatantly. I grinned, a mite sheepish.
āOh those. Donāt worry about those,ā I said, dropping my arms and letting the shirt fall back into place. Barely. It was a damn shame, too; I liked that t-shirt. Then again, I could probably stand to lose some weight anyway. Michelleās hands had left once fabric had fallen onto them, and now her arms were folded.
āBut what did that? Those were even more bruises, right? How did they get there? What have you been doing? Did that guy who hit you do that?ā Michelle asked, bombarding me with questions. Before I could even formulate an answer her eyes had narrowed ever so slightly and sheād added a further question:
āShe did that, didnāt she?ā
My immediate thought was of course āWhoās she, the catās mother?ā but I didnāt say that. I doubted Michelle would have got the joke. Did make me smile a bit as I replied though.
āShe? Oh, Tillie. Uh yeah she does. Not that she means to. She just doesnāt really know her strength and she has, ah, hard bitsā¦ā I said. Now that theyād been mentioned they did throb a bit. It was something Iād honestly stopped noticing that much and just sort of lived with. It wasnāt so bad, really. Pain donāt hurt.
From the look on Michelleās face I could sort of tell she wasnāt taking this as lightly as I was, but that was to be expected. She did not have the same level of familiarity I had, nor the context. To someone on the outside the bruises probably did look pretty bad. āMy girlfriend is made of metal and hugs me super hardā is a flimsy excuse, albeit a true one.
I suppose in most other circumstances it would look very questionable indeed, being so beaten up. Though ābeaten upā has connotations all its own, none of which apply. I wasnāt hit, I was merely squeezed and occasional buffeted. Tillie was merely a little rougher with me then she perhaps was aware she should be. I imagine were she going out with - for the sake of painful, self-pitying argument - Johnny this would be less of an issue. But Iād prefer not to think about that.
Michelleās arms had dropped from being folded and she was now absent-mindedly rubbing one arm, looking around the room and not at me.
āCan I ask you some...deeply personal questions?ā She asked.
āHow personal?ā I asked. She gave me a very level, completely serious look.
āDeeply personal,ā she said, looking me straight in the eye. I had to turn away before I had a hole seared out the back of my head from the intensity of her stare. Such eyes!
āSure, why not,ā I said, taking another swig and pointedly not meeting those deadly, deadly eyes. Such eyes...
āDo you and Tillie ever get intimate?ā
I felt like saying that if we did Iād probably have worse bruises and in more interesting places, but this was a serious discussion and Michelle had asked a serious question, so I needed to come up with a serious answer. No coyly asking ādefine intimateā or anything like that. Thatās no fun, but thatās life.
āWe cuddle and I give her a kiss from time to time but not what youāre probably driving at, no.ā
āYou kiss her?ā Michelle asked, evidently having some difficulty with the concept. I brought a finger up to tap my forehead.
āOn the noggin, yeah. From time to time. Thereās not many other places itās practical. At least not that I know about.ā
āI see.ā
āHey, you asked.ā
āI did, I did.ā
āWhat sort of answer were you expecting? Something more lewd?ā
āNo. I donāt know. Sorry. It was dumb to ask,ā she said. I felt I may have been coming across as somewhat more aggressive than I meant to. A habit of mine. I actually have zero idea of how I come across to anyone any of the time, but apparently itās the wrong way almost all of the time. I would try harder to fit into the idea of what they expected. Would be easier for them.
āItās alright. Not something everyone runs into everyday, can see why youād be curious. But Iām very boring, Iām afraid. Iām just very fond of her,ā I said. Michelleās expression was still obviously less than fully positive.
āNot a fan?ā I asked.
āNo. I mean, not like that. Itās just...this is going to sound really badā¦ā she said, nudging at something on the floor with her foot. Whatever it was did not move, and she stopped nudging it. A wise decision.
āHonesty is the best policy. Iām hardly going to hold anything you say against you,ā I said. A true thing. Iām too lazy to hold anything against anyone in real life. Takes too much effort by half. She gave me what was a very potent apologetic look.
āItās just that I donāt get how you can find her, you know...attractive?ā
āThatās a complicated question. Wait, no. Thatās a complicated answer. To that simple question. Uh...Iām really not the best person to explain it,ā I said. Michelle pinched the bridge of her nose. I still donāt know what thatās about.
āYouāve really got to stop doing yourself down like that, itās exhausting. Just treat it like a yes or no question and, you know, give me a yes or a no.ā
āItās not as simple as that though,ā I said, doing my best not to grit my teeth as I said it.
āTreat it like it is. Snap decision, go.ā
āItās not - ugh - if itās no I sound like a bastard and if itās yes itās robbed of context.ā
āWell give me one then give me context,ā Michelle said, and even I could tell she was getting sick of this back and forth as well. She forced my hand.
āYes then. Yes. And no itās not because Iāve got a thing for serpent tails or lenses or metal or whatever itās just because I love her and when I look at her I feel...something. Like a good thing. I donāt know, Iām bad at this. I just look at Tillie and see Tillie and I feel good and I donāt know if I can break it down any more than that.ā
Michelle did not respond immediately.
āYou love her?ā
āDo I? I said that?ā I asked, she nodded. āOh. Uh.ā
I couldnāt add much to that. I felt a bit numb. Had I said that? Had I meant that? Did things like that really just slip out? Oh dear. First person I say it to not being the actual person who it concerns. Go me. Youāre great at this.
Michelle went quiet, looking around the room, fingers tapping on her empty glass.
āSo...youāre going to be here on your own?ā She asked and I clung to her change of subject like a drowning man clinging to a piece of floating wreckage. Not the first time that bit of imagery had come to me this year. Must be a rough year.
āFor the week, yeah,ā I said.
āYou going to be okay?ā
āCourse. Why wouldnāt I be?ā I asked. Michelle was looking at me but I could not for the life of me work out if it was just because thatās people did when they talked to one another, or if she meant something by it. Not the sort of thing you could just ask, either.
āSome people might get lonely,ā she said with a shrug, finally looking away, not pinning me down with those damn eyes of hers. So big.
āOh, Iāll be lonely. But Iāll be fine. Itās only a week,ā I said. It was only a week, it really wasnāt that big of a deal. She kept tapping on the glass. Some rhythm I couldnāt quite pick out. She noticed I was noticing and so put the glass down in the sink, hands going back onto the counter behind her as she lent against it.
āIf you wanted to, you know, come up and see me sometime you could do that. If you wanted. Itās only two or three stops away,ā she said, faux-casual.
āThatās very nice of you, but I wouldnāt want to intrude.ā
āYou wouldnāt be intruding. Just friends seeing each other, right? Normal human interaction. Everyoneās doing it these days,ā she said. I chuckled, and not for the first time.
āSo I hear. But no, itās fine, really it is. Iām sure youāll have other things going on anyway and I wouldnāt want to, uh, cramp your style. Or mess it up for you. Third wheel, thatās me. My stock in trade. Itās fine,ā I said, wafting a hand in her direction.
For a moment it looked like she was going to press the issue but midway through starting to she clearly decided against it as she sunk back onto the counter with a shrug.
āAlright. But if you change your mind you have my number. You do have my number, right?ā
āI donāt think soā¦ā
āWell letās fix that,ā she said. We did, exchanging numbers. Iām not sure why I did that. Impolite to refuse at that point, and always handy to have peopleās numbers anyway. In case of emergency, you know.
āOr if you want to talk or anything. Anytime at all, okay?ā Michelle asked, by way of command. I nodded.
āRightyo,ā I said, tucking my phone away. Tillie had not sent me anything. Sheād said sheād try, which is not the same as saying she would. So that was fine. Probably too far away now anyway. Probably busy. That was fine.
The conversation lulled again. Michelle stood up straight.
āI should probably...go. Packing to finish,ā she said.
āOf course, of course. Donāt let me keep you. Iāll be seeing you again soon no doubt anyway,ā I said, guiding her through the hall and opening the front door for her. Itās a host thing, Iāve been told.
āAs soon as you like,ā she said, pointing to my pocket. I patted it.
āYes yes, have no fear. You have fun doing whatever it is you do back home. Having fun, probably.ā
āI make a point of it,ā she said. She then paused, deliberated, and hugged me.
It was forceful - as I was used to at this point - but it wasnāt as uncomfortable. Her edges did not dig into me. I wasnāt even sure she had edges. She was likely too soft to have hard edges, and too warm. Very warm, in fact. Warm and soft and holding me very tightly indeed. I wasnāt sure where to put my hands and still hadnāt made a decision by the time Michelle broke away and stood back.
āYou be okay, okay?ā She asked. An odd ask.
āIāll be fine,ā I assured her. She gave me a lingering look, said nothing and then headed down the path. We waved, I closed the door and then she was gone. I moved back to the kitchen, dragging my feet along the carpet and ending up leaning on the counter again.
Picking up the bottle Michelle had put down I looked around the kitchen and noticed just how dark everything had got. The light switch was only a few feet away but that put it out of reach and I couldnāt really find it in myself to move closer. I took a swig in the dark and grimaced.
Iāll be fine. Itās only a week after all, and in the grand scheme of things whatās happened, really? Nothing horrendous. Nothing of any note at all, if you think about it. So my girlfriend was out of the country - she was allowed holidays with friends. So what if one of the friends she was going with was the intelligent, successful, nice guy she had had a crush on when she was a kid? He couldnāt help that, and neither could she. It didnāt mean anything.
And what kind of perfect-storm of nonsense was that situation anyway? That sort of thing wasnāt supposed to happen in real life. It felt contrived. But these were the cards Iād been dealt. It still didnāt mean anything. Nothing at all.
Of course, the rat-bastard lurking in the dank hindquarters of my brain was quick to disagree, but it always did that. The rat-bastard was quite energetic and enthused as it painted a picture of Johnny and Tillie sharing experiences bringing them closer together. Once-in-a-lifetime things, the whimsical occasions being on holiday creates. What sort of shenanigans might they get up to on the other side of the world, all alone? Well, all alone barring Skaffen, who would probably be more than happy to give them all the space they needed. The rat-bastard was under no illusions as to who Skaffen would prefer Tillie with, even if I was.
But the rat-bastard is a liar, so I ignored him. The more convincing he sounded, the more I ignored him.
And so what if a pretty, friendly person had given me their contact details with explicit instructions to call if I felt the need? I wasnāt going to impose on anyone like that. Certainly I wouldnāt dream of actually going and seeing Michelle, no matter how close she was or how easy it would be. Better I just let her get on with whatever it was she was planning on doing. Iād only mess things up for her. Who would want me around? Someone who said they did? Unlikely.
The rat-bastard part was very quick to point out that - were I to visit Michelle, who was after all only two or three stop away - the possibility of further soft, warm contact was probably quite high. It might, the rat-bastard said, be quite abundant in fact. And given the likelihood of Tillie and Johnny getting close and extra-chummy across the pond (as the rat-bastard had previously mentioned) it would surely be understandable to seek some manner of comfort for the wounded feelings, even pre-emptively. It made it sound reasonable.
This idea was abhorrent. It made me unhappy. The misery Iād be inflicting on Tillie if she was just having a nice, friendly holiday. To come back and find out - as one always finds out - what Iād done when her back was turned, and why. A betrayal based on an assumption. Pathetic. Not to mention the misery Iād be heaping onto Michelle, dragging her into a sucking mire entirely for my own short-term benefit. Disgusting. Unthinkable. Pointless. Down rat-bastard, down. Back in your hole.
No. I would stay here. In the dark. Where I couldnāt hurt anyone.
āIāll be fine,ā I said. I mostly believed it. But not completely.
And that was that.
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Without Emotional Advertising, Your Landing Page Wonāt Work. Hereās How to Get It Right.
Emotions guide nearly every facet of our lives.
And itās no different when it comes to what we choose to buy.
Our purchasing decisions are largely guided by emotions rather than cold logic or stark objectivity.
Some experts even suggest that ā90 percent of all purchasing decisions are made subconsciously.ā
In other words, theyāre based on emotions.
I think that one of the biggest mistakes marketers make with their landing pages is failing to make an emotional connection.
Sure, they present some facts, sprinkle in a bit of data, yada yada yada, but they just donāt connect on an emotional level.
Maybe this is why āonly about 22 percent of businesses are satisfied with their conversion rates.ā
Itās a serious problem.
From my experience, emotional advertising is by far the most critical component of a landing page.
Itās essential for getting the conversion rate youāre looking for.
I would now like to take a closer look at the science behind emotional advertising and explain how you can use certain principles to fully optimize your landing page.
Letās dive in.
What science says
When Iām making marketing decisions, I like to use concrete data as my main guide.
One particular study that I found interesting was conducted by Martin Lindstrom who āwas selected by Time Magazine as one of the ā2009 Time 100ā for his work in the area of neuromarketing.ā
In it, Martin uses the fMRT process, which is short for functional magnetic resonance imaging to āget a glimpse into the head of consumers.ā
Hereās what he found:
āOur brains usually run on autopilot, despite making us believe we know what we are doing.ā
ā90 percent of all purchasing decisions are not made consciously.ā
āMost purchasing decisions take as little as 2.5 seconds.ā
āBrodmann Area 10 in the human brainās frontal cortex is activated if someone āthinks a product is really coolā. This area is linked to self-awareness and emotions.ā
āBrands and products that evoke our emotions, like Apple, Coca-Cola or Nivea, always win.ā
According to Peter Noel Murray Ph.D.,
fMRI neuro-imagery shows that when evaluating brands, consumers primarily use emotions (personal feelings and experiences) rather than information (brand attributes, features and facts).
The bottom line here is that weāre far from being rational creatures with our purchasing decisions.
Weāre quite the opposite, actually.
At the end of the day, weāre largely compelled to buy one product over another simply because it appeals more to our emotions.
But what drives these emotions?
Emotions are ultimately interconnected with our needs.
While each personās specific needs can vary, all humans have virtually the same basic needs, and we are continually pursuing them.
This brings me to an old school psychological concept (from 1943) that I feel still carries just as much weight today as it did back then.
Itās Maslowās Hierarchy of Needs, which looks like this:
This model shows our hierarchy of needs and breaks them down in terms of importance and priority.
Our most pressing need at the moment motivates our behavior.
Whether itās as basic as buying bottled water when weāre thirsty or buying the latest model iPhone to gain the respect and admiration of our peers, weāre always looking to have our needs fulfilled.
Your job as a marketer
When you get right down to it, your job is quite simple and breaks down into three basic steps:
Understand the needs of your audience
Understand what their psychological drive is compelling them to seek
Influence their behavior to appeal to their needs
Of course, thereās a lot involved with this. Itās a huge topic to tackle.
But here are the essentials of emotional advertising on your landing page.
Following these basic principles should point you in the right direction and can increase your overall conversion rate considerably.
Start with visuals
I think we can all agree that humans respond well to visuals.
In fact, Iāve written multiple articles on the power of images.
But thereās one particular type of image youāll want to focus on with your landing page: pictures of people.
Why?
This is one of the most effective ways to evoke an emotion in a visitor.
In fact, thereās a term in psychology known as mirroring, where āone person subconsciously imitates the gesture, speech pattern or attitude of another.ā
Itās a scientific fact, yaāll.
The trick here is to use images of people exhibiting the emotion you want your audience to feel.
Take this landing page from Lyft, for example:
Their goal was to show how easy and enjoyable it is to make money as a Lyft driver.
And hereās another little trick.
Using images as a guide to your CTA can have a powerful impact.
According to Talia Wolf of Unbounce,
60 percent of our brain is geared towards visual context, so the first thing we see is visual. Itās important to use the images on your page in order to guide user attention.
In other words, you should use your images as directional cues whenever possible.
For instance, you might have a person looking at your CTA.
Use the right color scheme
Next, thereās the issue of color.
Color is huge, and you donāt want to haphazardly construct a landing page without taking this factor into careful consideration.
How do you choose a color scheme?
Well, it starts with understanding colors as emotional triggers.
Hereās an illustration of a color wheel to show you what I mean:
The key is to match your color scheme with the emotion(s) youāre trying to draw out of your visitors.
Iāll give you an example.
Here is a screenshot of a landing page on NeilPatel.com:
Notice that I chose orange as my color scheme. This wasnāt by chance.
My goal was to connect with optimistic business owners hungry to grow their companies. I love connecting with eager, growth-driven people. Orange is the perfect color for that!
I also wanted to convey feelings of friendliness and approachability.
Now, Iām not saying that you have to follow the color wheel to a T, but you should definitely use it as a rough guide when determining which colors to use on your landing page.
That, right there, can have a tremendous impact.
Set their minds at ease
Letās be honest.
Many of the leads visiting your landing page will be skeptical.
There are a lot of charlatans and snake oil salesmen out there who over-promise and under-deliver.
You need to make it a point to calm your visitorsā anxieties and alleviate any fears they may have.
Below is an example of a landing page that does this well.
Itās from H.Bloom, a luxury flower delivery service:
Notice how they clearly explain the three-step process of ādesign, schedule and enjoy.ā
The page very simply highlights what people can expect if they choose to do business with H.Bloom.
Customers know that they wonāt get sucked into some over-complicated service thatās only going to cause them stress.
There are several other areas you may want to address to set your leadsā minds at ease, which can include:
testimonials from satisfied customers
mentioning the number of customers youāve served (e.g., over 100,000 customers have used our software)
Trust icons like the ones at the bottom of this Shopify landing page (being featured by The Wall Street Journal, USA Today, and so on immediately adds legitimacy)
Use language that reminds visitors of their pain
If you really want to grab someoneās attention, remind them of their primary pain point.
For instance, an acne removal product might remind visitors of the distress that severe pimples are causing them.
A company selling a knee brace might remind visitors of how difficult it is living with chronic knee pain.
You donāt want to go overboard, but a subtle reminder can serve as a strong motivator to buy your product/service.
I think LifeLock really nails it with this landing page:
In this case, they rouse your fear of being a victim of identity theft.
The point here is to present a specific pain point and show how your product/service will alleviate it.
Use emotionally-driven words
The last thing Iād like to discuss is the actual words you use in your copy.
Copywriting relies upon more than simply writing well.
For it to be effective and turn leads into customers, it must:
have a clearly defined purpose
target your core audience
be simple
be persuasive
lend credibility to your brand
motivate visitors to buy
I donāt have the time here to tackle copywriting in its entirety.
But I do have a simple tip that can help you effectively evoke the right emotions from your leads.
And thatās to use emotional words.
Hereās an example of words associated with pleasant feelings:
Check out this link for a more comprehensive list of emotional words. It also includes words associated with unpleasant
This list should help you decide on a few key words to include into your copy.
For a more exhaustive look at copywriting, I recommend reading The Definitive Guide to CopywritingĀ that I co-authored.
It covers virtually everything you need to know.
Conclusion
Letās recap.
Humans are emotional creatures, and most of our purchasing decisions are based primarily on emotion.
Thereās just no getting around it.
Understanding this phenomenon is the first step to creating an airtight landing page.
By utilizing the right psychology-based strategies, such as visuals, colors, and so on, you can target key emotions and increase the odds of your leads responding favorably (making a purchase).
And the payoff is obvious: an increased conversion rate for maximum ROI.
If your landing page is lacking emotional advertising, youāll want to address this issue right away.
Can you think of any other ways to target landing page visitors on an emotional level?
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Taking adderall is a beautiful fucking thing for me. Because I'm quiet ADHD and I never really remember that until I stop taking it for awhile and then I'm life getting distracted doing the easiest stuff ever lol. But when I do take it, I can really produce some quality shit, pretty quickly too. Once again with finding a grey area, I am going to have to work at balancing this. I love being goofy and tired at night, I love being warm and friendly and happy. Adderall robs me of some of the parts of me that aren't my ADHD and that are my personality. Like I'm naturally silly and quick witted, I'm warm and cuddly and affectionate. Adderall can make me a stone cold bitch I will tell you that lol. Also it can make me on edge, angry and paranoid. I feel like that's because I'm certain situations where when I'm not on adderall I might react w humor or a water under the bridge mentality, where as when I'm on adderall I'm like ight let's dissect every thing going on here get completely lost in the sauce and not talk for 3 hours :-) but really I just gotta watch myself on this junk. Even at work I don't need it often and being highly sensitive it can COMPLETELY over load me. Like wow lol. And smoking, it makes me smoke like it's keeping me alive. But adderall can really help me out sometimes. It can help me like work at things for hours which when it comes to music, it's helpful. I spent a few hours on ableton earlier playing around and ugh if I had a laptop I would be doing the same thing. I wanna like make music. There's a lot of information out there waiting for me to consume it and I think at some point I gotta like let my control over how I'm gonna consume it, I gotta let it go. And work with what I have. Like not having a laptop or computer to work on is hard lol, I wanna be making music and recording stuff and like idk. By the time I'm 22, if I don't have a decent music set up imma be disappointed in myself because it's like all in my reach I'm just gonna need to work. And truly I can be inconsistent with work and it's frustrating and like one slip up at work and can have me feeling bad about myself as a whole and it's something I need to work on. That grey area soooonnnn. Because I am so capable. Right now is like gonna be a hard time, these next few weeks I have to find out what I'm going to do. I basically have to move out at this point and like bro no car no license so I've really put myself in a bad situation that's gonna take some real dedication and like a strong stance on what is necessary and important and what is gonna pass with time. Like I don't even have a job right now and I'm waiting on an interview but like boi that ain't shit ATM. I need moooolah cold hard cash my friends. Like I made a decision to not return to Oregon even though I would have had a car, stable life at home, and yada yada yards but like I don't think it would make me happy. Honestly goals would be in like 5 years to be living in New York so might as well like stay on this side of the country ya dig. I mean living situation right now is up in the air until I get a little bank but like I'm really not gonna worry until those issues are right in front of me. Too much stress like that. Worst comes to worst I actually have a few shelters that I can stay at while I get money. And like I don't wanna say that sounding like I think that's not like a hard thing to go thru or like it's easy to live in a homeless shelter but I mean I'm basically preparing myself mentally for that concept if it does become that way. No need for like surprises in that sense. I also keep fucking forgetting I have a car in my driveway w my name on the title. Like $500 at least for that sucker and it's just money to be saved and put towards an apartment or even a hotel if the time comes. I also like have to get a fucking job. And I want something that I'm not gonna kill myself doing and not gonna be out of the way in terms of finding a ride. Like this is gonna be the ULTIMATE test of who I am as a person lol. This is all completely on me. And if I fail I fucking fail bad and if I get it together it's like completely fucking reassuring that I'm gonna be okay. Typically it's pretty easy for me to land a job to just about being confident and fuckin LOVING myself and going no matter what I feel, like it doesn't matter if I explode walking into work as long as I'm in work like then they obviously will send me home if I am an explosion they can't have that in the store come on now. Like I'm so capable and strong and I'm like right there like right before u cum like RIGHT there and either I'm gonna lose the rhythm and break focus or I'm gonna bust and bOI am I tryna fuckin BUST !!!!!!!
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MM151 - Investing in Yourself | MM Book Study Pt. 9
There are two primary forms of investment capital; time and money. What you need to ask yourself is; am I worth the investment of the money and the time? How do you spend your time and money?
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Welcome to Morning Mindset. A daily dose of practical wit and wisdom with a professional educator & trainer, Amazon best selling author, United States Marine, Television, and Radio host, Paul G. Markel. Each episode will focus on positive and productive ways to strengthen your mindset and help you improve your relationships, career goals, and overall well-being. Please welcome your host; Paul G. Markel.
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Hello and welcome back to Morning Mindset. I'm your host Paul Markel and we're continuing on as we did and has we have been doing. You're probably getting tired of hearing me say that I'm continuing with the book study, but have a little mercy because not everybody has been paying attention this whole time, and some people are new. We get new listeners every single day.
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If you are brand-new, if you're just now picking up on this, I'm going to tell you something. This is part 9 of our 30 part book study program. That's right, it's the Morning Mindset book a 30 day plan for more positive and productive life. It's available on Amazon Kindle, and if you want a signed copy go to MorningMindsetPodcast.com.
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Alright today. We're going to talk about investing in yourself. Are you worth it? Now when it comes to Investments, we have two primary tools that we will use for investment. We will use our money, and we will use our time. Now you can always get more money. Yes you can, you can always get more money.
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You cannot get more time. No, you can't ladies and gentlemen, you only have a finite amount of time, 24 hours in the day. So we obviously want to invest our time and our money wisely. When it comes to investing in yourself, Ā I'm going to ask you this, are you spending your time and your money primarily to distract and entertain yourself?
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Do you spend your time watching television or watching sports games, or do you spend your time reading or studying, or do you break it up amongst the two? I don't expect you to be a monk and do nothing but read all the time, but if you don't have time to read to take in information if you don't have time for that because the game is on, or your favorite show is on, that is an investment that you are wasting.
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Youāre wasting an investment. Often people will say āWell, you know, I was going to take this class or I wanted to take this training or friend of mine told me about it. But you know, I would have to go somewhere else. I would have to drive to this other city and stay in a hotelā and yada yada and so on so forth. That's true in you know, depending on what it is that your field of endeavor is, I don't know what your favorite field of endeavor and what you're trying to be good at or what you are interested in.
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But often unless you live in a really large Metroplex, the person or the class that you want to take person you want to see the class you want to take is not there where you are. You may have to actually travel to do that. Now I've done that a great amount of times. I've done this several times before I joined the military, before I joined the Marine Corps. I spent my own money, I took my own time and I traveled all the way across the country for training.
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Then I did a lot of training, obviously, with the United States military then I got out and I went right back to traveling and training on my own dime and I've been doing that pretty much my entire adult life. Yes, it is an investment. It is an investment in my time, it's an investment in my money. But what am I investing in?
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I'm investing in myself and you need to ask yourself that. Are you investing your time and your money in yourself in self-improvement? Are you growing as a person? Based upon your time investment and your monetary investment, or do you spend all of your time entertaining or distracting yourself?
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I mean, let's face it in our modern world, there are so many available distractions. You have your iPhone, you have your television, you have your tablet, your laptop, your whatever. There's all kinds of devices and avenues that you can use to distract yourself. Time-wasters, you know, you can you can play these silly little gem drop games or poke the whatever animal games or I don't know number on your phone.
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I see the kids doing this, and their time wasters and people will even admit that āI know, I got nothing to do. I'm just going to open this app on my phone and do this mindless stuff.ā Now sometimes, don't get me wrong. Sometimes it's good just to give your mind a break and well, you know, I like to watch television for to give my mind to break.
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Often what I'll do after a long day if I've been writing or if I've been producing material or what have you, if I've been thinking and performing and doing something very, very thoughtful and deliberate. I put a lot of mental energy into whether it's the producing the video or the audio or writing and then at the end of the day, I don't want to think anymore.
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But I want something else think for me and so I'll sit in an easy chair and I'll turn on the television or watch a show or watch a movie or what have you and that's fine. There's nothing wrong with that. But if I'm not writing, if I'm not producing, if I'm not, you know doing thoughtful endeavors because the TV or the game or the whatever, that I'm wasting my time, not investing my time properly, and when it comes to money, yes, everybody has a certain amount of disposable income, right?
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You do, I do, everyone does, even rich people. Even people that you look at and you're like āMan that guy's richā even that successful person still only has a certain amount of disposable income, and what are you going to spend that on often when I hear people say things like āOh, I just yeah, I'd like to take that training. I like to do that class or you know, go back to school or whatever but I just can't afford itā, and that may be true.
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But what are you spending your money on? What are you investing it in? Are you every day, do you go out for lunch, and you spend $9-10 eating out? You know during the day you go to the vending machine and you spend anywhere from $3-5 a day at the vending machines, you buy cigarettes, whatever people will spend and waste all kinds of money.
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You stop on the way to work and you get a $3 cup of coffee and a muffin or whatever, and people say āOh you just understand. I don't have the moneyā and I could follow him around for one day or you know a couple of days and say look, did you just waste it literally you wasted 20 30 50 dollars, and you said āWell, I don't want to buy that. I don't want to buy that book because it's $24.99 and that's way too much.ā
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But you'll waste five dollars a day going back and forth to a vending machine, or $3 cups of coffee or what have you, and you can spend your money on anything you want. I'm not here to judge. But when you say if you say things like if you make excuses, like I can't I don't have the time. I don't have the money. I to do what it's you that you're investing your time and money in.
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If you're buying books, if you're taking training, if you're traveling to a school or what have you, you're investing in yourself and my biggest question to you is, when you look in the mirror, when you do that gut check, do you believe that you are worth investing in? You know, a really simple equation or really simple example?
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Gym time, like āI just don't have time. I don't have time. I know that's cool, and I know I should but I don't have time.ā Do you really not have time or you not willing to invest the time? You know, when I do the starting strength program, started doing that and I go into the gym and I do the warm-ups and I do the exercises and I do everything that I'm supposed to do.
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It'll take me anywhere from 90 minutes to two hours appear like oh that's way too long. I some of that time I don't have the time and there are times when I feel like it's a lot of time and I need to be doing other stuff, but it is an investment. I'm taking that 90 minutes to two hours and I'm investing it in me and at the end of the day you need to ask yourself.
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You need to have a serious honest discussion with. When it comes to investing your time when it comes to investing your money, are you worth it? Yes or no. Alright, that's it for today. Thank you very much for joining me. I am your host Paul Markel and I will talk to you again, real soon.
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ONCI UPDATED 1/23/18
$ONCI UPDATED 1/23/18 ONCIāHEXAGON HOLDINGS Weāre looking at a start-up about 20 months old, run by a seasoned and experienced CEO who is using all his knowledge, talents, and connections to build a revenue-generating monster. Heās brought on great names such as Peter Einstein, Bill Jenkins, and Eric Ritter who have aided in bringing huge revenues to one piece of one arm of our company. Hereās Einsteinās linked In: https://www.linkedin.com/in/peter-einstein-a032075/ I challenge anyone to find me a pinky CEO that has accomplished as much as Steve Berman has in the last 20 months. Oh yeah, broken promises, yada yada. Well, YOU try running a new public company and tell me there are no potholes along the way slowing down its intended progress. The only thing, THE ONLY THING one can accuse SB of is being a bit too over-enthusiastic about what the future holds here and jumping the gun with some of the companyās developments. But at the end of the day, these developments will come to fruition. The revenues that are coming will prove this. ONCIāNow, letās look at what we have here: a fast-growing company with 6 arms or holdings. Steve has shared with us how back in March of 2016, he had goals of turning a dormant company into something very alluring and worthy of investment. So far, he brought the stock price from .0001 to .0192 since then. Yes, it has settled into a channel here at .005. Still not a bad increase from its humble beginnings. I can tell you that our CEO is far from satisfied with this. He is working hard to see this rise to new highs. Look at all those reported sales. HE WOULD NOT REPORT THEM IF THEY DID NOT HAPPEN. The revs are coming in from these monthly. And this is just from one piece of one of six arms. Letās look into SBās explanation of all 6 divisions: App & App Design Manufacturing Dental Care Digital Media Some form of Cannabis Related Company TBA in 2018 and will be HUGE! . App & App Design . BSafe Mobile leads the way with their roster of apps. The safe driving app is available for both iPhone and Android users. Distraction Driving is a hot topic as more deaths are being attributed to distracted drivers than people who died from cancer. Its the āPerfect Storm of Appsā claims CEO Steve Berman. The app will notify the admin of the vehicle and in which the admin can then turn off the phone. When the carās wheels starting rolling and the driver is using the mobile device, the admin will be notified and can chose to power off the device. This app and its technology is huge on a global level. Orders keep flowing (see recent press) and much more contracts and revenues are set to be announced over the coming weeks. . Other apps include: . FleetSaferā¦ like the BSafe app, the FleetSafer app will allow an admin who can monitor up to 10,000 vehicles, the ability to see the location of their vehicle, the drivers patterns and more. BFoundMobileā¦ A great example is a rent a car agency. If someone picks up a car in lets say St. Louis, Missouri, and rents it for a week, the renter has no idea where that vehicle is at any given time, nor how many miles have been put on it or anything. The only thing they know per the renterās agreement is that the car will be delivered back by such and such time. The app will allow them to know where the car is at any given time. This is perfect for agencies like Hertz, Budget, Avis, Enterprise etc. Certain apps may have the ability to do this but they works by GPS, and will not work when underground. This app works by apple beacon so even when underground the admin will still know the location of the vehicle. OK Golferā¦ an app used by golfers to ultimately speed up the round of golf by providing distance to the flag and selecting what club the golfer should use. This will help elevate a lot of unnecessary thinking, guessing and judgement time. Golf Gambleā¦ is in the beta testing phase. The app will allow the golfer to wager money in attempt to double or triple their money based on how close they can get their ball to the pin or hole. Preliminary numbers were 90% of the time golfers will lose, making it a potentially profitable app not only for the company but for the golf courses whom they partner with. Drive Soberā¦also in beta testing, will work by having a device on the visor. The device will pick up the alcohol levels on their breath and monitor the admin. The admin, usually the carās owner or parent, will then have the ability to stop the driver from driving while potentially under the influence. Another app with the intention of saving lives and wrongful deaths. Child Car Seat Appā¦ will work based on a sensor attached to the childās car seat. The sensor will notify the admin when the temperature inside the vehicle reaches an unsafe level, if and when the parent leaves the child unattended. This app is an attempt to stop wrongful deaths of children due to heat exertion. Urgent Dentistā¦will allow you to find an urgent care dentist location near you, rather than having to wait until the next day to see a dentist. This app ties along with the DENTAL CARE arm of the company mentioned below. . Manufacturing . While the company plans on using its factories to make its devices between the hours of 9am and 9pm, it will seek additional revenues by renting the factories from 9pm to 8am. This could generate $6000 a day and have the lines running 24/7. The company would like to open factory locations across the globe at locations such as Canada, China, Budapest, Brazil, Prague, and the United States. The goal is to optimize the lines so that if they are not making product to fulfill orders, then they are being leased by someone else to generate maximum revenues. . Dental Care . The company wants to start off by using an office space at around 30 Urgent Care facilities over the next 24 months. The opportunity to get immediate dental care is huge. An example was given where if you have bad tooth pain or a broken tooth at 9pm at night, there is nothing you can do at the moment other than hope someone will see you when offices open at 9am. Being located in an Urgent Care facility, it will allow a person in need the option of getting immediate help by visiting of the locations. (also ties in with the app) The company will then give the Urgent Care facility a royalty and allow them to also do the medical billing. This will save the company $5000. It will be rolled out i the NY tri-state area. He also talked about plans to make the Dental Care āmobileā, where they will bring dentistry to locations such as homes for the elderly. All the equipment including tools, chairs, machines etc. will be brought in. A dental hygienist could be rented/paid $300 for the day, and they could see on average 15 patients. If they were to bill the insurance companies $50 for the appointment, that would be $750, making it very profitable based on only having to pay $300 for the hygienist. An actual dentist may run $800 a day, but the revenues from his services would be much more than $800, thus making it a profitable venture also. This business model, multiplied by many locations in eventually many states will add up nicely. Steve wants to build many revenue streams and have the company earning money every day. HE ALSO PURCHASED A PROFITABLE DENTAL PRACTICE IN NY CURRENTLY DOING 2 MILLION A YEAR: October 11, 2017: ON4 COMMUNICATIONS ANNOUNCES IT HAS AGREED TO ACQUIRE A NEW YORK DENTAL GROUP AND PLANS TO OPEN 30 URGENT CARE DENTAL OFFICES WITHIN THE NEXT 36 MONTHS . Digital Media . The 4th division wants to focus on āretinal scanā technology that will allow ad agencies the ability to target which ads are displayed based on recognizing its viewer. In example, if the digital ad display notices a middle aged man it will show āwork bootsā, while if it recognizes 3 teen girls, it may show a T-Mobile ad for cell phone service and a young woman possibly perfume. Having the ability to target your audience brings tremendous value to advertisers allowing them to get the best bang for their buck. Ads that can be quantified at stadiums, malls, theaters and gas stations are just a few immediate opportunities for the company. . Cannabis Related . Very little info was mentioned on the 5th arm of the company. It sounds as if it will be Canadian related and that due diligence has been going on with certain companies. They are going through the books of a few companies and looking for profitable ventures that they can exploit and make even more profitable. Tweets hint at the purchase of 100 acres of grow space in PEI Canada. . TBA (To Be Announced) in 2018 . This was an eye opener. When the CEO stated the new venture will be so big and will make so much money that everyone will be able to buy new housesā¦ I was WOWed! I understand this is a forward looking statements, but he was definitely optimistic about what he has planned for next year. . After going through the 6 legs/arms or divisions of Hexagon Holdings, Mr. Berman re-emphasized the significance of a āholdingsā company and its flexibility. The beauty of having multiple holdings is that if one of the entities fails, the company doesnāt go under because there will be 5 other revenue producing holdings that keep it strong and running. The remainder of the call touched on: . Whats going on with Dubai? Recent New Hires Updates with Car Companies Upcoming News Closing Shareholder Questions . 15 Million Dubai Women To Get Their Driverās Licenses . Exciting times are upon the women in Dubai, as January 1st, new laws will allow women the ability to drive causing a massive influx of new drivers. The company has been in discussion with 2 major firms who have reviewed the product and now wish to discuss pricing and contracts. Steve and staff will be going to Dubai for a week and already have 14 meetings set up and numerous dinners. He discussed the significant opportunity their Drive Safe App offered the companies and people of the area, especially the United Emirates. In that country, if you are caught texting on your phone, it is a $1000 fine. Your second offense, you lose both your license to drive and your car! . The company has over 100 Employees , Most are commission based reps through our distribution channels. This is a win win scenario for the company in controlling payroll expenses. The more they payout will result in more sales. . Peter Einstein, he complimented and said he really is an Einstein, has experience working with MTV Europe and has played a key role in setting up sales and meetings with Dubai, the middle east, Ireland, England and Serbia. Eric Ritter, who is in Florida, has been working with Lawyers down there Bill Jenkins, ex NASCAR owner, who was highly complimented, being called, smart, bright, scientific, comprehensive and a great marketer, will generate significant future revenues for the company. Anyone familiar with a NASCAR vehicle understands the car itself is an advertisement with logoās of sponsors all over. I have a feeling his expertise will not only help on the be safe car app, but also the digital media side . Dealing with the Auto Industry . Along with 4 auto companies, Mr. Berman discussed some of their marketing efforts. . Facebookā¦ advertising is generating sales, clients and followers, SKY COMMUNICATIONS will unveil the ad campaign any day now. Enterprise Rent A Carā¦ can not comment as he is still under an NDA (Non Disclosure Agreement) BMWā¦ they have had good meetings. BMW has requested the app be in 7 languages. To date, 4 are done so far. As soon as the last 3 languages are complete there will be testing done. Steve was unsure just how long these tests will take. BMW has asked for minor adjustments and have been addressed. FORDā¦ likes the product and has increased their demands for what the app can do. They wish for the app to also act as a diagnostic tool, such as indicate why and when your engine light is on. Anti tampering was an issue they are addressing. CHRYSLERā¦ has a similar response as Ford. Middle East contracts are on the way! The Dubai car show resulted in nearly 12 companies testing BsafeMobile and BfoundMobile. One potential contract is from Careem, the Uber of the ME with over 100k drivers. . Major News Is Coming! . Its going to be an exciting next couple of months, as the CEO divulged they have 10 deals in place that will bring in between $200k to $1m each over the next 2 weeks. If that wasnāt good enough, ONCI will have a signed LOI with a large insurance company that has 2 million drivers and insure 1,000 dealerships. They are expecting an order of 500+ units a month. . Additional Shareholder Questions . How many factories do you have? At the moment they have 2 factories producing 2-3000 units a month. One is located in NY and one in Canada. . Was there a share reduction? There will be a reduction, that will be revealed with the FINRA filing, that it was reduced by 1.4 billion shares from both the Authorized shares (A/S) and the Outstanding Shares (O/S). Steve mentioned it may end up going up a tad because they will be seeking the ability to raise money for future projects. . Who is your biggest competitor? Apple is, but with their safe driving app, it is āvoluntaryā versus admin based. To hear the call for yourself, go to: https://soundcloud.com/ant-chance/confenence-call-onci-111017 . Existing App Sales: January 19, 2018 ā ON4 COMMUNICATIONS ANNOUNCES EXCLUSIVE DISTRIBUTION DEAL WITH CATACLEAN FOR BSAFEMOBILE IN GREAT BRITAIN AND IRELAND January 17, 2018 ā ON4 COMMUNICATIONS ANNOUNCES $1.65m IN NEW CONTRACTS, SIGNS GARDEN CITY NISSAN,LARGEST NISSAN DEALER IN THE WORLD December 5 2017 ā ON4 COMMUNICATIONS ANNOUNCES DISTRIBUTION DEAL WITH CAPOLI SALES November 29, 2017 ā ON4 COMMUNICATIONS ANNOUNCES $1.44M CONTRACT WITH A TEXAS DEALER GROUP AND A DISTRIBUTION DEAL WITH SCULLY LEMOINE MARKETING.. November 7, 2017 ā Contract with a major European Taxi Service with locations in Czech Republic, Hungary and Romania. They will be taking 500 units per month for 4 months beginning February 2018. $400,000 October 24, 2017 ā Executed a 3000 unit contract with a large middle eastern multinational company with a fleet of vehicles which tops 7500 cars, Suvās and trucks. $600,000 to $1,500,000 October 24, 2017 ā Contract with a large after-market group with access to 450 dealerships throughout Florida, Alabama, Louisiana, Georgia, South Carolina, North Carolina and Virginia. This group will be selling Bsafe Mobile and Bfound mobile into its dealer network. This adds approximately 450 prospective clients to the Bsafe Family. $1,000,00 annual conservatively October 18, 2017 ā Pilot program with a large Middle Eastern Taxi Fleet with over 10,000 taxis throughout 4 different countries including Saudi Arabia, Kuwait, UAE and Egypt. $100,000 Pilot Test October 18, 2017 ā Contract with Gunther Motors with brands including VW,2 dealerships, Mazda and Kia. $216,000 annual October 16, 2017 ā Contract with a 7 dealer West Texas auto group with brands including Jeep, Dodge Trucks, Ford, Toyota, Nissan, Chevy and Hyundai. $588,000 annual October 16, 2017 ā Contract with a 6 Dealer South Florida Auto group with brands including Toyota, Nissan, Acura, Kia, Jeep and Hyundai. $432,000 annual October 11, 2017 ā Contract with a 7 dealer Massachusetts based auto group, with brands including Chevy, Nissan, Toyota, Hyundai, BMW, Ford and Jeep. $420,000 annual September 29, 2017 ā Contract with a northern Florida auto group with 6 dealerships including Chevy, Kia, Hyundai, Ford, Nissan and Toyota. $288,000 annual September 29, 2017 ā Contract with a large southwestern extended warranty company; we will be selling their products which include extended warranties, tire and wheel and other after-market products in our dealer network and they will be selling our apps in their dealer network. $120,000 annual September 29, 2017 ā A central Florida dealer group with 5 dealerships in Tampa and Orlando and brands including Chevy, GMC, KIA, Hyundai and Audi. $240,000 annual September 27, 2017 ā A 4 dealer Toyota Group in the NY tri-state area: one dealer in NY, one in NJ and 2 in CT. $480,000 annual September 22, 2017 ā A 250 Dealer Extended Warranty Company in New York. $480,000 annual September 20, 2017 ā A 5 dealer group in NY with Brands including Nissan, Jeep and Volvo. $240,000 annual September 13, 2017 ā JV with Title King a division of New America Energy Corp. $600,000 annual September 13, 2017 ā Contract with Pennsylvania/New Jersey dealer Group with brands including Jeep, Kia, Chevy, Ford, Alpha Romeo, GM, Hyundai and Nissan. $1,000,000 annual September 8, 2017 ā Contract with 25 dealerships in Los Angeles and Orange county California each dealership will take 20 units per month. $1,200,000 September 8, 2017 ā Acquisition includes FLEET SAFER which generated over 1 million in sales last year. $1,000,000 September 1, 2017 ā Signed a contract with a 10 dealer group in Arizona at 150 units per month at $250 per unit. $450,000 August 29, 2017 ā Executed a contract with a 5 dealer auto group in Long Island New York with brands including Toyota, Nissan Chevy, Kia and Ford. $360,000 annual August 24, 2017 ā Ford Fleet services has asked us to put 1000 units on reserve as they have a Large Mid Western Utility Company who has expressed interest in not only our FMS Safe Driving App but also our Global Tracking Device. $200,000 trial run with HUGE potential August 21, 2017 ā Executed a contract with a large Mid Atlantic dealer group with locations in Virginia, Maryland, Delaware and Washington DC. $432,000 annual August 17, 2017 ā Signed a deal with a large luxury dealer group in Texas including such brands as Mercedes, BMW, Lexus, Audi, Lincoln, Cadillac, Porsche and Infiniti. $480,000 annual August 11 2017 ā Executed a contract with Google Brazil yesterday. $2,000,000 annual August 3, 2017 ā Partnered deal with Assurant ā purchased 500 units to start and asked us to put another 500 on hold. $200,000 and growing! August 1, 2017 ā Entered into a marketing agreement with one of the largest worldwide online shopping sites with access to over 50 million customers. Berman reported via phone call ā selling 20-40 units per day. $2,000,000 annual June 26 2017 ā Signed a deal with a leading Auto Dealer group in South America representing Nissan, Toyota, GM, Ford, Land Rover, Kia and Hyundai. $300,000 annual April 19, 2017 ā Received a $100K order for Drive Safe App from 1 of the leading Asian auto manufacturers with HQās based in Korea and Japan. $100,000 January 24, 2017 ā Secured 8 new Auto Dealer Vendors in Florida State for Drive Safe App. $672,000 annual December 23, 2016 ā Drive Safe App installed on a large Taxi fleet in the North-East USA, first 250 vehicles during the 2nd week of January 2017 increasing until full installation has been completed in the companyās 1500 vehicle Taxi fleet. $300,000 December 19, 2016 ā Launch of their proprietary Drive Safe App with a large Food & Beverage distributor. $50,000 Anyone who thinks the CEO would risk jail by lying about the above needs to invest elsewhere. At the end of the day, you either believe or not. But think long and hard about WHO you believe. Our CEO and his past and present accomplishments, or the nameless posters who laugh in all-caps with no DD to back up their outrageous claims? The single-most issue here, what has hurt our PPS, is the delay in the name change. We were promised this months ago and it has not happened. Why? Well, Iāve been through this before. FINRA requires a lot i-dotting and t-crossing, each and every event needing lawyerly eyes. Much more than our CEO ever expected. He wants this as much as we do. IT WILL COME! Every day we are closer to this happening. And when it doesā¦look out. Add in the audited fins (also a major crunch involving countless lawyer meetings), and ONCI will leave sub-penny land forever. I love watching small companies grow into big companies. Itās happening here, right before our eyes. About CEO Steve Berman Steve is a New York native with over 30 years of sales success and executive leadership experience. Steve is a successful entrepreneur, having founded several companies and serving in the CEO role. In his various roles managing and building various businesses, Steve has been instrumental in securing capital financings for several public and private companies, including start-ups and pre-revenue businesses. Most recently, Steve co-founded 3DMC, a premier digital multimedia company; and also served as CEO of Stealth Sports and Marketing, a consulting firm specializing in marketing and multimedia solutions to professional sports teams. Prior to working with 3DMC and Stealth, Steve held the positions of Senior Vice President at YES Network (www.YesNetwork.com), the number one regional sports network in the country. Throughout his career, Steve developed key relationships in the top 10 markets and was responsible for developing the advertising platform for YES, which was directly linked with significant sales increases for YES Network. Before his tenure at YES Network, Steve served as Senior Vice President of Time Warner Cable NY, where he successfully grew the companyās advertising sales from $11m to well over $100m and increased national sales by 200%. During his time at Time Warner NY, the company became the number one billing cable market in the US. http://dlvr.it/QD0gtc
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