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pebblysand · 2 years

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Keep your shitty Twitter moral outrage off of Tumblr. They are different platforms. Go & bitch there. Why am I telling you this? Because I don't know you, yet I saw your crap as a "you might like..."

FOH...

as someone whose mother was protesting in the streets in the 70s, as someone who marched and campaigned for choice in ireland herself just five years ago, i never thought we’d be back here so soon. should i fish my #repeal jumper out of my closet already? is that what this is? how is it that this keeps happening again, and again, and again? how do we perpetually have to fight for what are basic human rights?

so, for the record, no, i will not keep my outrage off tumblr, (or off twitter, for that matter). i will post, reblog, like, and march in your streets until you cannot drown out the noise. you picked the wrong person for this, mate, i have history. as we used to say in dublin in 2017, you,

thank you.

#repeal #roe v wade #i don’t know why we always tell people #women in particular #not to respond to hate on the internet #why should we tolerate this #on top of everything else?

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laniemae · 5 months

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What kind of person would make a throwaway account just to hate on me. If you want drama, just say it on your main. I’m on my road to recovery right now from reliving traumatic fandom experiences from my past and this is the exact behaviour I feared. No one should treat people like this and we should all acknowledge this behaviour and know it is not ok. Please share this message.

#milgram #I want people to unstand that behaviour in this fandom should not be tolerated so that’s why I’m maintagging this #I’ve grown as a person to not lash out at this as I would’ve done in the past but please reblog this and share the message #If you see this please pay attention to this issue #I’m not going out of my way to harass or name anyone involved in this situation yet this person made an entire throwaway for this #That’s the kind of levels of low that we should all avoid in this fandom

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throwawayaccount3482348873289 · 4 months

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Thank you to Jade/Lolthia @/edens-gemstone for replying to the previous post. I will make an exception in replying as yes, there was a part I forgot to add, which is additional evidence to prove that all your accusations in the comments below are completely false. Allow me to address them one by one.

At the end, I will include some follow-up questions to add additional context for other users.

THE ACCUSATIONS

“Also you literally stalked my tumblr after this, rb posts about Adam that I wasn’t comfy being rb and possibly sent me harassing anons (idk for sure)”

I do not have a Tumblr. This account is made by someone else, posting on my behalf. But if you really are confident that it’s me reblogging these posts and sending harassing anons, post the blog and the anons. If you don’t know for sure, why did you post this?

“You literally just… didn’t want me included because I wouldn't let you ship your OC with Ibara.”

As seen here, this claim is completely false. I explicitly mentioned that I had no problems with the pairing, but asked them to let me know prior next time to ensure the RP is consistent. I may have vaguely talked about an original story I was writing with my OC and Ibara outside of RP, but within the context of the RP, I have clearly stated that I was fine with the direction Lolthia wanted.

None of what they had mentioned was communicated to me at all before the start of the RP. They didn’t even acknowledge what I said, just responding with ‘well I figured it would be obvious’.

Lolthia’s behaviour here is consistent with their stated intention in the previous post: to RP not because they want to collaborate, but because they want other writers to expend time and effort to fulfil their self-ship fantasies, without giving as much in return. Therefore, they didn’t bother giving context, let alone asking if their RP partners were okay with it.

“You even stopped our RP after getting mad about me dating Ibara.”

Lolthia stopped the RP themselves after I confronted them for ranting on their public blog about a communication issue they were unhappy with in this server.

Someone alerted me that they were talking about their RP server on their blog. I was concerned about those in the server who were on Tumblr. As their RP partner, I requested that they delete it and talk to us first in the future. We then had the following conversation.

The conversation ended with this rude remark and Lolthia proceeded to be inactive for a long time before starting the argument in the previous post.

“I got tired of constant pings asking me for stuff”/ “I… asked to stop being pinged because I was going through enough”

I need you to understand that you are the admin of the server. We needed your help to create threads to hold our RPs in. Instead of not saying anything when we pinged you only to throw a tantrum about it, why didn’t you pass the permissions or moderator roles to someone else, or at least notify us that you’d be inactive for a certain amount of time?

In the post where we were planning an RP and pinged you - If your interpretation of ‘maybe they can come in later to keep the narrative consistent’ is us excluding you, that’s honestly a you problem, mate.

TO LOLTHIA/JADE

Only one of the claims you have made against me is correct. Yes - presently, I do not like you. But it’s not because you are whatever you identify as, or that you ship with a specific character.

I do not like you because you vagued your own server members, including myself, on your public blog. When I found out and asked you to edit out the mention of our server at minimum, you still had the gall to try to convince me it didn’t affect anyone but yourself.

I do not like you for insulting my friends and I as writers by saying we were ‘just an alternative to character.AI’ all along. And as people, by comparing us to the hate anons who had sent you death threats when we did nothing of the sort. Then, twisting the above into these accusations, without a shred of proof to go with them.

I am a ROLEPLAYER. Ibara to me is no more than a character and piece of intellectual property.

You:

Explicitly conveyed that your position was to use us to help you get validation for your alleged ‘relationships’ in a similar way to Character.AI.

Took out your jealousy towards other fandom members onto us, even getting emotional when we merely talked about and shared screenshots of characters you liked.

When we didn’t give you attention to your liking, accused us of ostracising you and wanting you dead.

Threw a tantrum at us for pinging you for basic admin duties as the server owner, because it wasn’t attention or praise.

The only irrational one here is not myself, but you, and the hard evidence in these two posts is overwhelming.

I won’t be entertaining any further responses. Please be reminded that any attempt to post my personal information publicly will be met with action by me.

TO OTHER USERS

Q: Did you make both these posts and the document?

No, these posts are follow-ups to the document containing evidence, made by a different person.

Q: Why did you feel the need to engage them rather than leave the server?

We had already talked only amongst ourselves, ignored any vents they had and began our own server long before these events.

Engaging them was at first a personal choice to defend my friends, who had done nothing wrong. At the time, I was not aware that this was common behaviour for them.

The comparison between us and the death threat anons, which could affect my friends’ reputations, was the most compelling reason for me to attempt straightening this out.

Q: Why has this post been made almost a year later?

Yes, I do agree that from the looks of it, Lolthia’s actions are old news. After I was informed, I personally did not want anything to do with them, and decided to let it go.

However, recently, my friends in the same fandom spaces have not had the luxury of curating their own online experiences because according to them, they are constantly remaking blogs. Furthermore, it was not easy for them to work up the courage to make this post, as being wrongfully accused of wanting someone’s death is not easy for anyone. So, I decided to back them up with the hard evidence they lacked.

Thank you for reading.

#ok to reblog #ok to rb #I may as well also say something in the tags (I am the one posting on someone else's behalf):#I myself hope this is the last post made on here as well. There is nothing more to add honestly.#This is honestly getting tiring. I know you will read this Jade one way or another. You will come across it.#If you have evidence for the contrary and can prove that you are in the right please do so (I already know you can't).#You will claim to be 'harrassed' but that is not our intention (anyone sending you harrassment or threats is not behavior we tolerate).#(Also no we are sending no one after you nor 'stalk your blog'. Don't act as if we don't have anything better to do... Because we do)#Let me tell you a secret Jade: You are NOT important. We only had enough of your behavior online since it does not change. At all.#It affects others - It affected us and it is affecting the communities you are in as well as a good portion of their members.#Please let it go already. But you can't. Because... As you said yourself 'Any attention is good attention'.#And some of your current mutuals will try to say 'it adds fuel to the fire'. This is not the intention in any way.#The only intention is to document Jade's online behavior and warn others. Because they have already gone too far.#This is to document and prove that they are no different no matter where they go. We only want to spread awareness.#It is not just me and the other person who are sick of it. Many others are sick of it as well. We want it to stop.#Their actions affect others nowadays as well. Only last month there was yet another incident heavily affecting another person.#Why? Because Jade thought it was necessary to make a 'callout post'. Even though the situation was long over.#This should have been long over and everyone involved is trying to move on. But you Jade make it impossible. This has gone on far enough.#Not to mention having been exposed to your drama and graphic vents (which at least sound suicide baity) have also stressed me out.#I kept out of the drama but it was affecting my mental state as well. All because you manage to land yourself into so many controversies.#I moved blogs because I had enough of your shit. Seeing it day in and out does a lot to a person.#'But no one cares about me' - We do not wish you ill (that is the truth) but this has to stop somehow. You are not the victim here.#It's always others but honestly... Given how much shit you got yourself into maybe you are to blame. This isn't normal after all.#Maybe ask yourself what you are doing wrong. But you won't. You never will. You will paint us as 'the bad ones' here.#That's the only thing you know how to do. You cannot owe up to anything and you are proving it time and time again. Even now.#Why do you get defensive now and not when the document dropped? Because there is solid evidence for your bullshit. That's why. You know it.#Deleting because you will throw a temper tantrum? No. Forget it. But again if you have proof for your claims come forward.#To me personally if you wish. But beware: This is not the first time I have dealt with this bullshit. I know this behavior all too well.#You are pulling bullshit I have already seen. My advice is to just log off already and sort your problems out.#This is not the first time I dealt with your type. You show the pattern I honestly expect and you will react as I expect.

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balkanradfem · 7 months

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I really love women but the fact that the world hates them makes me so anxious

yeah, women need healthy distance from the world to be safe and happy

#the world needs to do better #why should we tolerate and sustain a world that does this to us

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torchiiko · 3 months

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categorizing my thoughts on shipping bc i woke up recently & i feel like it

positive:

ships that have basis in/are canon & i think the characters work well together, bonus points if canon handles it nicely

ships that could be cute, but i dont have particularly strong feelings on unless canon gives more to work with

self inserts & ocs x canon forever be cringe be free

negative:

canon x canon involving an f/o of mine. overall tolerable depending on context & characterization but not preferred bc popular ships usually come with a lack of x readers </3

ships that feel ooc, forced, or unlikely compared to canon. tolerable depending on how popular it is & characterization but annoying

ships that have basis in/are canon but feel rushed, forced, ooc, or lack real chemistry. very annoying since its technically canon even if it shouldnt be

#sometimes i am a little hater & sometimes its out of jealousy bc he should be kissing Me & sometimes i think ppl have bad opinions #i do not think certain characters would work together & the more popular the ship is ie the more i see it; the more i dislike it #i do feel mostly neutral abt canon x canon with my f/os unless it happens to fit one of the other categories like feeling too ooc #if i can at least sorta see why a ship might exist ill be more tolerable abt it than if i think it doesnt make Any sense #ALSO I LOVE SHARING F/OS. ppl who self insert Get it we are on the Same Team. lets talk abt our own versions of the same guy #torch chatter

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drippingviolets3 · 11 months

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Okay I need to tell you guys about THE MOST BULLSHIT I EVER HAD TO FACE IN MY LIFE

So for my mutual who don’t know and the random viewers there may be, my (incredibly fat) cat, Chonkers, passed away about a week or two ago. It was incredibly hard on me, and it had the worst timing because he died two days before my family and I went on a two week vacation.

We left my two aunts (who live nearby) and my cousin to watch the house and the pets, because we have four dogs and three other cats that need to be looked after.

My cousin is a chill dude, and so he was watching over the house and got a tiny bit high off of some gummy’s. All was calm.

Until one of my dogs wanted to find out where her kitty friend went.

Now, my dad did a bad job of burying Chonkers if you ask me. He left a loose pile of dirt over him and while it had him covered, it was obvious that something was buried there. Basically baiting one of the dogs to uncover it.

The dog in question is a sweetheart, she isn’t malicious in nature and never means to hurt anyone or anything. But unfortunately she traumatized my cousin because she tRIED TO PUSH CHONKERS THROUGH THE DOGGY DOOR AND INTO THE HOUSE-

But the best part was that Chonkers was too big to get through the doggy door. He had lost a lot of weight by that point but I guess she tried to push him in at a weird angle that didn’t work.

Chonkers had been dead for a week at that point, so he was looking like a zombie cat. And my now-high cousin starts freaking out. He calls my aunts, but they couldn’t get off work to help him. He calls his mom (keep in mind his family lives about an hour away) and she then calls his stepdad, who begins to head over.

So they get the cat’s body out of the doggy door, AND THEN THE DAD TAKES THE BODY AWAY TO BE CREMATED AT A DIFFERENT VET THEN THE ONE WE GO TO-

No one wanted to tell me because they knew I’d be upset, and honestly I get that, BUT THIS IS SOME SHIT I WOULD BE SEEING IN A REDDIT POST NOT BEFORE MY VERY EYES-

#violetta’s rambles #Chonkers #rest in peace Chonkers #I loved that cat to death #why did he have to be violated in this way-#poor pupper just wanted to find her kitty friend #he was the only cat that tolerated her #but we should have paid my cousin extra for that trauma #even if it’s funny as hell

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