NEGATIVE ENNEAGRAM TEST
Enneagram Tests are often criticized for focusing too much on the positive aspects of a person’s character. Are you ready to face your Enneagram dark side?
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((Like I said I did this for both of them. And while this Peter managed to only score into one type(thank the gods) he did come REALLY CLOSE to two other. Like I'm pretty sure there was almost another 3-way tie. Since they were so high, and completely different from the other, I'll at least share what they were type 6: The Loyalist and type 8: The Challenger. Both of them managed to score in this type so...
MCU, aka Part Two
Type 2
The Enneagram Type 2, often referred to as "The Helper" or "The Giver," is characterized by a deep-seated desire to connect with others by offering assistance and support. While this personality type is known for their kindness, generosity, and empathy, the negative aspects of their nature can create challenges in both their personal lives and relationships. Their negative aspects tend to take the following forms:
Overly Self-Sacrificing: Strong inclination to prioritize others' needs over their own, often to the detriment of their own well-being.
Validation Seeking: Seeking approval and validation from others by constantly helping and being indispensable.
Manipulative Behavior: Tendency to manipulate situations and emotions to feel needed and valued.
Hidden Agenda: Helping others with the underlying expectation of receiving appreciation or reciprocation.
Boundary Issues: Difficulty setting healthy boundaries, leading to emotional exhaustion and burnout.
Resentment: Developing resentment when their efforts aren't acknowledged or reciprocated as expected.
Ignoring Personal Needs: Neglecting their own needs and desires while focusing excessively on fulfilling others'.
Fear of Rejection: Constantly fearing rejection or abandonment if they don't meet others' needs.
Dependence on Others' Approval: Relying on external validation for their sense of self-worth and identity.
Loss of Authenticity: Suppressing their own feelings and opinions to cater to others' preferences.
Emotional Manipulation: Using emotions to control situations, often making others feel guilty for not complying.
Avoiding Conflict: Going to great lengths to avoid conflict and disagreements, even at their own expense.
Loss of Identity: Struggling to distinguish their own desires and identity from those they help.
Exaggerated Selflessness: Displaying excessive selflessness to the point of denying their own needs altogether.
Emotional Volatility: Swinging between feelings of selflessness and moments of frustration or anger.
Martyr Complex: Adopting the role of the martyr, using their sacrifices to garner sympathy and attention.
Conditional Giving: Giving with strings attached, expecting something in return for their help.
Neglecting Self-Reflection: Focusing so much on others that they fail to reflect on their own feelings and motivations.
Unhealthy Attachments: Forming co-dependent relationships based on their role as the caregiver.
Burnout: Constantly overextending themselves without proper self-care, leading to burnout.
Loss of Autonomy: Feeling trapped by their need to be needed, which can hinder their personal growth.
Fear of Abandonment: Worrying that if they stop helping, they'll be abandoned or unloved.
Validation Addiction: Becoming addicted to the emotional highs they get from being needed and appreciated.
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Tagged by: @f1rstresponder
Tagging: @ghstspidey, @eideticspider, @the-mjolnir-owner, @what-the-stark, and anyone else who wants to steal this(you can blame me for it)
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monday tag game
thank you to my sweet @emmalovesdilemmas for the tag 💕💕💕
Relationship status - desperately wishing I could teleport 1358 miles for kisses
Favorite color - all soft greens and pinks!
Favorite food - at the moment it’s gotta be bread. I cannot stop baking bread. Cinnamon rolls are coming a close second, but that’s bc I’m making four batches of them for a bridal shower and my house is gonna smell SO GOOD
Song stuck in your head - like real people do by hozier (getting into my autumnal feelings rn) (it’s 70F/21C at my house right now, which has been a nice break, and I’m foaming at the mouth for fall)
Last thing you’ve googled - ....Fahrenheit to Celsius conversion (I’m American leave me alone)
Time - 10:31 am
Dream Trip - World tour??? Wales and Italy and Japan and to see all my friends spread far and wide 💕
Last book you read - I’m midway through Written in the Stars by Alexandria Bellefleur (it’s alright but not my favorite)
Last book you enjoyed - I read Satisfaction Guaranteed by Karelia Stetz-Waters in one sitting. Could not put it down.
Last book you hated reading - I’m back and forth with Written in the Stars, but I think that’s because it claims to be inspired by Pride & Predjudice (the main characters are Elle and Darcy, for god’s sake) but imo it doesn’t lean hard enough one way or another to do any justice to P&P. I don’t hate it, but it’s taking me a while to get through.
Favorite thing to cook/bake - I just love cooking 💕😂 I like making bolognese, and coq au vin, and really anything that requires a bunch of time spent in the kitchen listening to music and dancing around (and wine). For baking I’ve been doing the NYT No Knead Peasant Loaf at least once a week, and it’s so easy and fun 💕💕💕 though I’m also deeply into pies and crisps and things, especially with the summer and fall fruit.
Favorite craft to do in your free time - Drawing (obviously), but also knitting and crocheting!! I need to get my ass in gear for holiday knitting 😂
Most niche dislikes - mouth noises 😂 and slow walkers (I’m short but I’m gay so I walk fast)
Opinion on circuses - I grew up watching Cirque du Soleil recordings with my dad, so I love that particular group. Otherwise, I don’t think I’d go to one.
Do you have a sense of direction and if not what’s the worst way you’ve gotten lost? - I have an okay sense of direction, but I definitely rely on Google Maps 😂 I don’t remember the last time I got lost tbh (thank u google maps)
I’ll tag @softlystarstruck @skeptiquex @lqtraintracks @fluxweeed @nv-md @shealwaysreads if y’all feel like it!! 💕💕💕💕
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