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antimony-medusa · 1 year

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One of the things that I think sometimes gets lost when we talk about what's appropriate in fandom spaces is the notion that things can be appropriate in one space, but not for another. And that doesn't mean that the thing that's inappropriate in that setting is wrong, it just means that it's rude in that space. I think people want a single set of rules that's appropriate everywhere, but the thing is, you have to be able to assess the situation, and adjust your behaviour accordingly.

So an example. I have a fairly popular text post that was me asking about c!phil and religion in all innocence, and someone said "the only thing I have to say about c!phil is that he worships on his knees, thank you and goodnight". And I reblogged it like "I can't believe I forgot about how this fandom does phil analysis", cause it was at the height of the dilfza memes.

Anyways that's obviously a phil-is-happily-married/oral sex joke, in an oblique innuendo way, and on this site, where Phil is not here, and his friends are not here, with it being clear I was talking about the block man character, and we make jokes about sex and profanity (a very popular url scheme for a long time was "[name]shugecock" (or smalldick, depending on the joke)— that's a fine joke to make. I'm an adult, I can make sex jokes about fictional characters on the sex joke fictional character social media site.

If I was to make that joke in Philza's twitch chat, a) in his face, b) with his wife modding, c) in an enviroment where people aren't prepped for sex jokes, d) with it being not clear if I was talking about the cubito or about the real guy, that would be wildly inappopriate. I would be banned in every chat Philza mods in and I would deserve it.

That doesn't mean that it's inappropriate to make the joke in the first place though, just because I wouldn't do it at a Phil meet and greet. It means you gotta learn to read the room. (And like, sometimes it's hard to learn to read the room, but you can do it by pure brute-force memorization. I did.)

This is the same theory that underlies the fact that you can call your friends a bitch in a friendly way, because you are friends and you know each other's boundaries, but if you call your boss a bitch, you will be fired. There are rules about workplace appropriateness, and there are rules about what's appropriate in front of kids (I teach teens, I do not swear in front of them, I swear a LOT in front of my roommate), and there are rules about what's appropriate in different fandom spaces. Participating in an exchange about pregnancy and babies with your favourite blorbo of the moment? Great. Showing the actor gift art you got of him pregnant? No. Bad. Go directly to jail, do not pass go, do not collect two hundred dollars.

The thing that concerns me is that I think there are slight signs that as we get more comfortable with sexy jokes and offcolour remarks as a MCYT fandom (QSMP is the big banner example but it happens with other smps), we're taking what's appropriate in one space (tumblr, home of the brain worms, where I have seen the blog "philzaswetpussy" on my dash), and we're bringing it into places that it's not appropriate (sure, slimeariana is clearly canon, but maybe don't put the actual dicks-out fan art in the art tag on twitter that slime checks). Cause we can obviously tell that the rules twitter is going with are silly for here, so it's full speed ahead for roier/spreen etc, but the trick here is that it's full speed ahead HERE, or in fandom servers, and not necessarily in the streamer's faces.

We have a bunch of situations where creators have said that it's not their place to weigh in on shipping or nsfw etc, and people have taken that as a go ahead and that's fine, but thats still something where I'd like, caution people that just because they said "not gonna look at it not my deal", that doesn't mean that like, you should make it difficult for them to avoid looking at it. Talking about scitties is an honourable tradition, but telling scar that he makes you question your sexuality in his TTS— I made a horrified noise in real life and the cats came to look at me.

And I'm talking about the shipping, but this is also a thing with like— sometimes I see a streamer and I go "my friend you just vividly described neurodivergent symptoms" but it is ABSOLUTELY not my place to say that in their chat. It might not even be appropriate to make comments about it on my blog, with the amount of followers I have. I have to keep the "streamer just described the ADHD experience again :pensive:" comments for the group chat. And we all nod and go "yeah sounds like streamer", and we do not put it in his face, cause that's inappropriate.

We get to have fun with the fictional characters, including off-colour fun, but we still have to remember that there are real people who don't know us who are steering those fictional characters around, and it can be profoundly weird to see some of the (stuff that is appropriate in fandom spaces!) just up in your face in the regular fan art tag.

Just think about the space you're in, and who you're in front of, and if a CC notice is actually likely, and if a CC notice would be Very Bad actually with what you're doing, and keep the "world's sluttiest absent father" bracket (with associated slutty fan art) for here, not with the streamer tagged on twitter.

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safetycar-restart · 1 year

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Smalldick!Charles discovering with you that he has a size kink?

Of course at the beginning it's a bit hard for Charles, because despite the fact that he trust you with his life, he is a bit nervous everytime before the scene. His self-esteem is low, so it's nothing surprising. But further into your relationship he is more and more confident.

One day you are just sitting on the bed. Your back rest against the headboard and his back is pressed against your chest. You're slowly massaging his cock, giving him handjob of his life. And Charles feels so good! He is literally melting in your arms. His head drops to your shoulder in pleasure and he moans and cries because it feels so good! And he can't believe he is so lucky that he has you. You're so loving and caring and you you whisper praise in his ear, reassuring that he is good and you love his cock. He just feels so loved and valued. He wants to cry from all these feelings.

And it's the moment when he looks down at your hand on his cock. He just shudders and cums from the sight alone. Because your hand covers his member completely. Your fingers are wrapped around him and only the tip of his cock is poking out. And if Charles was losing his mind before, he's gone now, completely evaporated. Any single thought in his head, just the picture of you holding his member. And probably for the first time in his life he loves the fact that he is so small.

Maybe he didn't like watching you have sex before. Of course it felt so good and he loved seeing you on top of him but he never looked down on his cock. Because it was so small and he was ashamed of it (thanks to his previous partners). But now? He loves seeing you wrapping his fingers around him, taking him in his mouth and generally playing with him. And it looks so good. Your hand looks so big compared to his cock that he's just losing his mind.

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Oh my god. A Small dick Charles that isn’t heartbreaking!???? What??!? But yeah no I adore this so so much.

I definitely agree that there’s a moment at the start of every sexual encounter, scene or not, where he thinks you’ll make fun of him or refuse to go further because of how small his cock is. Even years later, he still gets scared.

But it gets better. He gets more confident, the moment of fear gets smaller and smaller.

And so when he’s in bed with you, your hand around his cock, he’s genuinely having a great time. He isn’t feeling insecure at all.

He’s in your arms, his head against your shoulder, his leg stretched over your thighs. He’s completely exposed to you, not even trying to hide himself. A few months ago a position like this would have terrified him, but now? Now he feels so safe and loved, so so happy.

You wrap your hand around his cock, lightly stroking him and Charles closes his eyes, letting out little whines and cries.

He’s so soft in your arms, not an ounce of tension in his body. And he looks so good? His little cock rock hard in your hand, blushing all the way down to his chest, his legs shaking a little as you move your hand.

At first he has his eyes closed, just enjoying this, but then he looks down for a moment. He’s always avoided looking at his cock, because that always make him insecure.

But for some reason his eyes drift downwards and what he sees wrecks him. Your hand completely covers his cock, the top barely peaking out at the top of your fist when your hand is all the down.

Somehow it just ruins him?

He’s so small. So small in your hand. He’s just your sweet subby baby, with a cock so small you can hold the entire thing in one hand. He feels so safe?? He feels so good and so safe, with his Dom holding him close and making him feel good.

For the first time he likes how small he is. He likes how your hand completely covers him, how he’s so small you barely even have to move your hand.

He cums so quickly and completely without warning, crying and shaking in your arms. You have no idea what set him off like that, but you’re always happy to have him spill all over your hand.

You let him lick it up of course, and he’s truly so happy, just feeling like the happiest sub in existence.

That realisation seeps into other scenes too.

He no longer looks away when you blow him, because he wants to see how easily you can fit him in your mouth, how you can smile around his cock when you catch him staring.

God he loves it so fucking much.

He’s just…. He’s your small good boy? Your subby baby? He’s small and needy and you’re his Dom. He’s allowed to be small here, that’s his job.

#sub!charles #cl #nsfw.#f!reader #SD!charles #🪸

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