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Anon wrote: Hi, I want to ask for perspective on my working method as I've been getting complaints about my "behaviors". I'm an XXTJ. A doctor, confident in his expertise with great experience. I'm respected for my competency. I work in a big hospital where I'm well paid by the patients that want my service. This job is suitable for me because I can be professional without bringing up personal life. Being a senior doctor, I see myself as someone who has well-established working method and ethics.
But when I told my nurse so, she refuted, which took me by surprise & ruffled my feathers. She said that I was good as a health worker but bad as a doctor! Going further she explained that my way of never explaining anything to the patients whenever I give patients prescription is condescending, evoking insecurity & worries to them.
She went further by saying that some patients who had to visit my room said I was their last choice as they were afraid of me, & even reminded me of those who stopped using my service half-way to shift to another doctor who was better at “soothing them”. She dared to compare me with other potentially more incompetent doctors that could be only a “better” doctor due to her subjective, personal feelings ‘fueled’ judgments. “Some explanations should be fine, but you didn’t even bother” - she said.
Why would I have to explain about medicine to people who have zero knowledge on that? Wouldn’t their further questions be stupid irrational insecurities that they would project onto the ask? Why do I have to deal with that? They can’t heal themselves, so they find me. What you don’t know, you listen to authorities. I know what I’m doing, so listen to me. Don’t want to, don’t use my services. This has worked since I’ve been a doctor. I feel personally attacked because a nurse who doesn’t have expertise on medicine dares to comment on my ethics, her status doesn’t grant her authority to say that freely.
[addendum] I feel personally attacked because a nurse who doesn’t have expertise on medicine dares to comment on my ethics, her status doesn’t grant her authority to say that freely. But then, as she dared to comment on my pride, I went further by asking colleagues I respect about my method to prove her wrong. Disappointingly, some gave similar comments with the nurse. What would explaining things patients don't understand contribute to my working life, be It either productivity or moral obligations? Thank you.
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I get more questions than I have time to answer, so I have to be selective, and I usually reject ones like yours. Among the many factors I examine to determine whether it is worth my time to respond, one of the most important is the person has to display a genuine motivation to realize more of their positive potential.
You not only don't display such motivation, you seem to be actively searching for excuses to avoid change. You even brag about doing the same thing for years, without realizing that it actually indicates an unhealthy resistance to improvement and progress.
Against my better judgment, I chose to respond, not because I believe it will benefit you, but because I feel for the people around you. If there is even a small chance that something I say can lead you to reduce the suffering/harm done to the people who experience your "behavior", my ethics requires me to take the chance.
One of the best ways to get the "perspective" you are after is to actively make the effort to see yourself through the eyes of others, by being open to their feedback and criticism. The nurse has helpfully provided some perspective for you without getting very nasty about it, but you have chosen to discredit her in a childish act of shooting the messenger, just because your feelings got hurt. If I end up agreeing with her, will you shoot me as well?
It seems the main issue underlying your predicament is you suffer from extremely low self-awareness. An important aspect of self-awareness is being able to perceive and evaluate yourself accurately and objectively. The feedback you have received, now from multiple people in agreement about the facts, indicates that there is a huge discrepancy between how you see yourself and how others see you. This is almost always a sign of a deeper psychological issue.
The degree to which you lack self-awareness is troubling because it is akin to blindness. You live in your own little bubble of distorted reality and your self-concept is built upon false/problematic beliefs. In this aspect, I do feel for you, because I know it is painful to be blindsided and experience a break in the protective bubble you have carefully curated for yourself. I think the evidence speaks for itself, if you can manage to be objective about it:
You believe you do no wrong despite the fact that you have to rationalize away a pattern of patients literally fleeing from you.
You believe you are competent despite the fact that you have no understanding of the mental health of your patients and the major impact it has on the maintenance of their physical health.
You believe you are ethical despite the fact that you celebrate a cold and detached attitude that discourages patients from fully entrusting themselves to your "care".
You believe you "keep the personal to yourself" without fail despite the fact that your personality flaws are obvious to many people and produce negative social consequences.
You believe the nurse is being "subjective" despite the fact that, in a classic case of projection, you are the one who has repeatedly exhibited a refusal to acknowledge any perspective but your own.
You believe the nurse is only speaking from "feelings" despite the fact that she is relaying actual details of what has transpired among your patients.
You believe the nurse is unqualified to speak despite the fact that her job places her in an excellent position to objectively observe and understand your relationship with your patients.
You believe the nurse doesn't know anything despite the fact that the manner in which you reacted to being criticized only proved that every word of her critique is true - a testament to her people-reading skills.
You believe you have integrity despite the fact that you harbor biases and prejudices against people based on outdated notions of social superiority. The condescending manner in which you speak about your patients and especially about the nurse, who is your colleague and your equal as a fellow human being, should evoke moral revulsion in anyone with a proper moral conscience.
If you don't know your exact type, the first thing you ought to do is figure it out before contacting me, otherwise, you might have trouble understanding what I say about function development. You exhibit many of the common manifestations of unhealthy Te-Fi including:
insensitivity
egotism
small-mindedness
arrogance
pridefulness
condescension
pompousness
willful ignorance about the experiences of others (that deters anyone from speaking the truth and bursting one's bubble)
The remedy to Te-Fi misuse requires self-development. Restore proper balance between the functions through learning how to use them more appropriately. In your case, there should be a particular focus on learning and nurturing genuine humility, objectivity, empathy, and compassion. Consult previous posts about these development issues in TJs.
Ideally, medicine is supposed to be a noble helping profession, but reality tends to fall short of the ideal. Unfortunately, because of its imperfect reward system, the field sometimes attracts the wrong kinds of people, i.e., people who don't actually possess a strong motivation to be of help and service to others. I don't believe you are a terrible or evil person. I believe that you believe you have done your best to be a good doctor. However, you seem to be lacking the one fundamental quality that all members of a helping profession should possess: empathy. It is unclear as to why you lack empathy. This is something you need to reflect on and figure out for the sake of your own personal growth.
Reeducate yourself about what it means to be a good doctor. Your idea of what makes a good doctor is remarkably narrow and self-serving in only including your own perceived strengths yet conveniently excluding everything related to the personality weaknesses you don't want to acknowledge, especially with regard to Fi. You glorify the idea of core competency when it is really just the basic/minimal requirement of the profession. A truly "good" doctor must meet many more criteria than that.
Like many people with ego development issues, you conflate the two separate and distinct concepts of "smart" (i.e. knowledge) versus "good" (i.e. values), which means you don't really understand what it means to be moral or ethical. To be a moral person is, first and foremost, to CARE. Care arises from a willingness to feel and an openness to understanding how people feel. But you treat feelings as a burden and something to be avoided, even derided, because you really only care about benefiting yourself. In the absence of care, your own desires will always conflict with others', which renders you incapable of fully understanding what another person needs for health and well-being. Until you can remedy this, perhaps you are better suited to positions in the medical field that don't require you to interact with vulnerable people on a regular basis, i.e., positions that make good use of your intellectual skills but do not require good people skills as well.
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I don’t know I don’t wanna believe that that would be true of princess Diana but I’m sure that we all make mistakes that is very bothersome line however do the royal people just feel like it’s OK to torture Black people for sport I assume so if Prince Charles would be so addicted to abusing his wife he would find a girl like that for fresh just so he could put her down and talk about her behind her back to Camila
#Small my dentist#Small mindedness#Allergies#Prince Charles#Camila#Poor tastes#There’s a cloud on my tongue
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“We curate our own experience here”
I love you fandoms I don’t participate in I love you activists for problems I don’t have I love you people with different lived experiences from me I love you spicy hot takes I love you rambling analysis I love you other people’s Blorbos I love you thoughts I never would have had on my own i love and adore all of you especially the ones who surprise me keep it up I love you all
#troglodyte thoughts#free range sustainable shitpost#anti doomscroll patrol#diversity is the spice of life#travel is the cure for small mindedness#I’ll build my own algorithm#with blackjack and hookers
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So, I stumbled upon a video about Adi Shankar today (that's the netflix anime exec and showrunner), and I...now feel much, much more positive about the whole thing!
What I've learned, is that Adi is basically El Donte with Vergil-drank-a-whole-Monster levels of hype&energy&perfectionism in tv series industry. The guy is clinically unhinged and deranged, which I think could fit the DMC anime tone nicely.
He has been making gaming adaptations for a long time now, and his works all come from a genuine love and care for the source material, enhanced with a special Adi TM take on the whole thing. Sadly, I've just learned of his other works, so not exactly best source for this kind of thing, but I got the feeling the guy likes to gore and darken up the source, spice it up with self-irony, and sew everything to skeleton made out of pure-geek love and obsession over the original.
He had a sort of El Donte arc in the industry, as the guy liked to come in shattering doors and expectations of 'normal' executives and investors, but he seems to have matured a little to start combining the best of fan-love and big investor money into amazing and unique works of art. He is most known for working on Castlevania series, but personally the show I learned about (and was sold on to give a watch) is Captain Laserhawk.
Captain Laserhawk is Ubisoft doing a RARE INDEED creative take on their stuff, basically they gave Adi creative freedom over every franchise Ubisoft has ever owed, and a result of that was a.... an adult show which roasts the ever-living hell out of Ubisoft, their practices and everything, with Rayman doing news-anchoring, drugs and then having an existential crisis? Oh, and also for animation he specifically commissioned a studio known for the...furry carnal desire series they uploaded to their own page.
The most bizarre thing is that Adi said he had a Ubi-lawyer follow him to every meeting to confirm that, yes, Ubisoft gave a green light to all of this.
So, uh, yeah gotta give Captain Laserhawk a watch, I wanna see Ubisoft roasted.
Mind you, Captain Laserhawk was Adi given a free-out-of-jail card on going unhinged, so he did not disappoint. His Castlevania show seems to have been loved by all fans, and seems to be much more tone-according to the series, as far as I can tell. At least, I've heard nothing but praise for that series. Also, knowing japanese studios, I think Capcom was keeping a close watch over everything, still, if Adi's previous work is to go by, then this anime is sure going to be
C R R R A Z Y
Adi claimed to have played all the DMC titles, so he knows his source, and I now believe that those manga in the latest anime preview weren't for show either. We also know the father of the series, Hideaki Itsuno, oversaw the anime production to some extent, so I'm sure it's going to tonally fit DMC. I also wouldn't mind a darker take on this series at all. The anime would be the perfect form to do that, too, as DMC is a world where demon incursions are a frequent occurrence, this HAS to affect the people of this setting somehow. The games can't really tap too much into that either, cause the gameplay of this series is 'bully your opponent back into hell' basically, these games are f u n, and you can't really have fun gameplay and a depressing story, the tone clash wouldn't really work.
DMC5 tried, but it is still mostly a very fun experience, the tragedy of the Qlipoth attack is highlighted only in the beginning, and the game even ends with Nero brightly lit and looking around the ruins, which works for him as a character, but the human tragedy that happened has already been forgotten by that point.
This is not a critique, I wouldn't have DMC any other way, but I DO want additional material that brings the setting down when we exit the 'sparda idiots' radius, and I feel like with Adi at the helm that's exactly what we might get with the anime. Oh, he also claimed to have been working on the anime all this time since 2018, and with his drive and obsession over every project I feel like Adi is not exaggerating, the production of that size and obsession could have very well taken over five years in the oven.
So yeah, I am now feeling much more excited for the whole thing. That's a very nice feeling)
#i also have a small suspicion aroace dante gang should keep their shields up... might be exaggerating though#adi shankar#what a KING this guy is im very impressed#gotta watch something of his#also hoping that he includes lady#you can't do her dirtier than capcom basically any direction they take her will be better than the nothing we currently have#free reminder for everyone to take a chill pill before release and meditate on open mindedness me very much included#sadly the video I saw is in ru and I haven't found much on adi in eng but this guy is easy to get a feel of basically watch any#brief interview with him or smth and you'll get where this post is coming from#dmc anime#dmc#devil may cry netflix#devil may cry#pls feel free to point out any typos I wrote this in one go
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Zionist here, I 1000% support the creation of a Romani state. How can I help?
anti-zionist and anti-colonialist here 💖🥰💖🥰 i 1000% support israel's right to decolonize palestine and get erased from the maps like the colonial genocidal nightmare ethnostate it was designed to be by y'all ethnic supremacists 💖🇵🇸💖🇵🇸 where do i sign??? ✨💖✨🇵🇸✨🇵🇸✨
#you're embarrassing btw. i hope you get well soon. so pathetic to be you right now#also you zionists are the reason im considering making a dni#you're literally so rotten and small#i wouldn't want your pettiness and narrow-mindedness to rub on me#from the river to the sea palestine will be free 🇵🇸✨ and you can die mad about it i guess 🥱🙏🏻#ask#anon#anonymous#palestine
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For every annoying vegan there’s an equally as aggressive and annoying carnivore.
#I grew up in a vegetarian/pescatarian household#my dad and I eat fish and my siblings and mum don’t eat any meat at all#and the amount of people who are so rude to you just cos you don’t eat meat#it’s so weird#and every time a chain restaurant introduces a vegetarian item all the grown adults obsessed with meat are so rude in the comments and have#like actual meltdowns it’s so weird#but vegans are the only ones with the reputation#but I assure you grown (mostly men) who can’t handle people who don’t chomp on flesh regularly are just as bad in the small mindedness
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being highly agreeable fucking sucks
like good for you guys who can just ignore the people around you, but I enjoy being around people and that means knowing how to be agreeable and it's not a fucking tragedy to be a completely different person from one setting to the next
#this is just me venting#the core of this sentiment is my frustration with#the small mindedness of people who take up the banner of subversion#dissent does not recquire separation or isolation
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#maybe its cause im in 10 yr long friendships and relationships that i cant understand small stuff being like a big deal#ive done worse my friend and partners know about me in and out#? deal breakers arent real#what is real is communication and love and open mindedness with the people you care about#they will not be perfect they will not grow up immediately#if you are going into a relationship wanting to make every inch of it work#you will discuss everything you will try to help everything#but if youre not ready for it then dont expect perfection#cause nobody is perfect my friends#yes i saw a post abt people being weird about something#lol nobody knows what actual weird shit is#or maybe its just the effort they dont want to put up with with 'the person theyre deeply in love with'#if youre in love. youll figure out how to deal with it. its not perfect. its ugly and workable#and maybe a little strange but thats okay because you love them right?#dont talk to me unless youve put the hard work into loving someone... some folk just dont get it#i dont care but i do care
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Sick and tired of living in a family filled with selfish, misogynistic people who will always take, take, take from me, but never do anything in return not even the smallest act of kindness because it will inconvenience them.
#the most selfish people#sick of men#who live off the backs of women#and will never know our hardships#because theyre male#fucking hate their small mindedness
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#obsessed with the winning time clickbait picture#it aint even about who i LIKE#the emmys are so predictable its not even interesting#there are plenty of contenders and frontrunners i like that are still indicative of the small mindedness of the television academy#but what in the absolute fuck is euphoria doing everywhere#three nominees for best supporting actress in a drama and its the low talent nobodies? um bye lol
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INFP here. Is it normal to feel like I have a bottomless hole in my heart? Like no matter how much evidence there is of people liking me or appreciating me, especially my significant other, I don’t believe it to be true. Like I need constant proof that suits my ideal to be assured that I am genuinely loved or cared for. And any sign that my twisted mind indicates as proof of the opposite sends me into a downward spiral of feeling so unloved and alone. It’s unfair towards others and I know it’s not rational when I’m in a better state, but during the heat of it I can only accept my own conclusions.
The answer lies in the auxiliary function, consult the Type Development Guide. "During the heat of it, you only accept your own conclusions", which means that you're unwilling to entertain other, just as viable possibilities. When you keep repeating the same pattern over and over again, the only way to change it is to disrupt it.
Ne is the function of disruption. Exercising Ne forces you to zoom out and see more (prospects, likelihoods, and possibilities), think bigger (than the immediate and short-term), and choose a new and different path that's more likely to lead you to where you want to go. Fi-Si loop is making your vision so small that you don't see real consequences or even care enough to stop inflicting harm on people. You're fixating on one very negative possibility instead of seeing the whole wide range of possibilities. The remedy to small-mindedness is big picture thinking.
The other thing you need to do is improve your emotional intelligence (search past posts and the book recs on the resources page). Learn how to be more mindful of your feelings and emotions, how to calm down when you're stressed, and how to create some distance for reflecting before acting. Also examine your attachment style to understand why you're so prone to catastrophizing and work to resolve those past traumas, with the help of a therapist if necessary.
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if u dont kno what art is u can just ask
i promise i wont even b mean
#i am meowing#saw someone unironically clain that photography isnt art to them#its taking everything in my power to notlet this derail my whole day#this post is my comprimise#OK BUT u get ur making ur world smaller and duller by refusing the love that goes into all the ways we make art for eachother#pulling others to the bottom of th le bucket with that small mindedness
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We Are the Daughters of the Women Who Publicly Accused Their Non-normative Neighbours of Being Witches out of Small Mindedness and Personal Spite
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Quackity: But before I start, I want to talk about a very serious topic, and a reminder to everyone who's watching this stream, because I know a lot of you know about my project QSMP, and I want to give a very important reminder to everyone who consumes the QSMP, and everyone who consumes my content and the content of everyone in the QSMP:
I want to start off by saying that QSMP is an international global server which has the objective of uniting creators and cultures globally. We are the very first project to create a global international content-creation space by breaking language barriers. That's literally why I started QSMP, that's why it exists. And I want to make one thing very clear: the negativity that has surrounded certain parts of the community since the very beginning of this project is an aspect that I completely disagree with. Constantly, time and time again, I've called it out and I've made myself very very clear on that. Anyone who watches and consumes my content knows that. Constantly I've even been very, very outspoken over the difficulties I faced with racism and xenophobia in my personal life, growing up, and to this day.
Before starting QSMP, and even to this very single day, I get private, racist and perverse messages daily where I am berated for my culture and for who I am. And for many years, I've taken the stance to give zero importance to the people who do that, because these are people that only want to do harm. Recently, now more than ever, it's clear to me why I do what I do, and it's clear to me why the QSMP exists in the first place. And even if there's one person across the world who this project is helping, then that to me is worth it enough to continue doing what I do.
So I want to make it very clear: What the QSMP project does is it embraces the cultural differences in order to unite people from all across the world in a positive manner. That's its objective and that's why I created it. So if anyone intends to consume QSMP with any scope of negativity, whether it be towards the events, the administration team, the creators, any communities, or any of the cultures, then QSMP is simply not for you. I've met some of my best friends, thanks to the server, so it's very clear to me that this concept works and it's going to continue to work. So anyone who watches QSMP and is not ready to accept any inherent cultural differences that will arise from this project, nor is willing to consume this project in the positive way that it was created in, then this project is not meant for you. And I want to make that incredibly, incredibly clear.
Lastly, I want to remind people of something very important: We are not a small community. We're a massive community. We're a huge international community. It's not small at all. So please remember, and please keep in mind that there are external people outside of this project who don't even consume QSMP, whose only goal is to destabilize and divide the QSMP community. There's people who are maliciously as well, and purposefully, provoking others in the community with harmful remarks. Do not- do not give these people what they want, and do not forget what the project and what the community as a whole stands for, which is respect, tolerance, community, open mindedness and unity. That's why I created the QSMP and that's why it exists. And I have to make that very clear for everyone who follows the project. So, yeah, I wanted to say that before we got the stream started, I wanted to clarify that and remind everyone of that fact. But yeah!
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