Conservative activist Alexandra Schweitzer, the president of the No Left Turn in Education chapter in the state, attended Merton School District's board meeting, where she defended a man who was punished in part for protesting the sex education policy in Waukesha County schools.

Schweitzer can be seen in the video waving around items that appear to be sexual in nature and complaining about what children have access to.

"So let's look at the toys that the eighth grade has to look at," Schweitzer said during the meeting. "This is exactly what you guys are censuring Troy for, for this."

Schweitzer pulled out two items she called "sex toys" to use as props in her defense of board member Troy Anderson.

The items Schweitzer was referencing were not really "sex toys," but models used within that district, according to WISN 12 News. The Merton School District put up a heavily redacted version of the meeting, according to the outlet, which obtained a different video.

Florida school members clash over 'definition of a woman'

And what about all the kids who have parents who tell them nothing?

Can I also say that I think Phil talking about the possibility of getting pregnant from anal sex is a reference to his mpreg fantasies? “In some scenarios...” my ass.

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— iAndroid.eu (@iandroideu1) February 28, 2020

What many men do when they don’t understand something - THEY DEMONIZE IT.  Women & our reproductive systems are something many men know nothing about nor do they want to know anything about it.  This is why SEX EDUCATION in the schools is so damn important.  Women & their bodies are not ALIENS nor are we something other than humans, yet anti-abortionists continue to consider women as something altogether different from the “real humans” - who are men.

What is the Asperger-Syndrome?

Friends of the sun shine…

This is gonna be my very first tumblr post in English about a very personal and important topic I’d like to write about. You see the title and think ‘I heard of that, I know what it is’? Then f*ck you because you don’t.

 First of all: My name is Helli, I am 25 years old and I’ve got the Asperger-Syndrome, now a days also known as Autism-Spectrum-Disorder. I’ve been suffering of bullying, misunderstanding, being let down and being unheard, being treated differently and badly just because I’ve behaved specifically during the spectrum and its issues. I was an introvert, a daydreamer, a comic- and video game geek... especially the last point might be an information where you go like ‘huh, that is actually cool’ but well... years ago it wasn’t. I was a nerd for others and nerds were meant to be uncool and unpopulare for a quite long time. Unfair? Yes, it is. But do you think anyone did care those days? No.

 Anyways, before I start to tell you something about this syndrome – and before I do the same mistake as I did 5 years ago making a video for my German YouTube channel to talk about it – I’d like to mention that all I tell you in this post is only ABOUT ME. Every autistic person is DIFFERENT and not everyone got the same issues or strengths as me. So please before you drop every autistic person in one box which I accidently did in the video I mentioned before, please remember: THIS IS JUST ABOUT ME. Yet I will drop some general informations about that syndrome as well. And maybe you recognize yourselves or other people and friends, maybe you’re autistic yourself then let me know in every possible way you want.

 What is the Asperger-Syndrom (medical)?

It is a profound developmental disorder with issues in social communicating, correct interpretation of facial expressions and gesturing. People with the Asperger-Syndrome are most of the time hardly interested in any topic but create a special huge interest in certain topics. Most of them are, like with me, video games and comics, computer and technology in general, sometimes even different kinds of science or arts. In some individual cases people with this syndrome are incredibly good at mathematics or speaking (linguistically gifted) but at the same time these people are not able to do other simple things. Me as an example: Never mind how much I practised, how good the teacher was, I always wrote bad exams in mathematics even tho I understood what I did in the homeworks before and even in some very simple exercises I do the one or other mistake. BUT even tho I’ve hardly read a book in my life because – I am not gonna lie – books (novels) are uninteresting for me I am very good at speaking, writing, formulating, describing things (...) I am pretty good at articulating myself. So I eventually belong to these people who are linguistically gifted. I can only tell that my dad – a former German teacher – is even kinda impressed about my way of speaking because I – as I have already told – hardly hold a book in my hands. I only remember three novels I’ve read in my whole life and those books where lucky to be interesting enough for me.

 Anyways... those are the main signs and behaviors of people with this syndrome. Of course the Asperger-Syndrome is not the only disorder. The spectrum is pretty huge and includes many other Autism-Disorders. Not only other names but also syndromes with the same name but with some little deviations in behavior and ‘gifts’. So while I have not such a huge problem with maybe speaking with people and explaining them how I feel and see the world (as long as they give me the chance to do so) other people with the same syndrome might have big issues in formulating and ordering their feelings, describing them etc. While I really want to become an educater and work with children and teenagers to help them on the right way – I even want to work in special institutions for people with depressions and other conditions – other people with the Asperger-Syndrome completely avoid people and social contact or at least prefer jobs where they can be for their own.

 These are only some examples for the issues or strengths people with this syndrome have to deal with. Other examples – where I can relate – are these...

Being not interested in other     children as a child and prefering to play on their own.

Misunderstanding things and     informations which are said because these people sometimes have an own way     to say and describe these things.

Being unable to use the correct     facial expressions to a certain feeling as well as misunderstanding them     on other people. – almost the same issue which they have with told things.

Unable to be flexible and     spontanious, prefering to know appointments and meetings at least one day     earlier, even tho it is spending time on the beach with friends.

Mostly having a strict day     structure and plan and having issues to change them.

Sometimes not interested in     other people but in objects. I for example am more imperessed of a note     book having a nice cover than of a handsome man.

Most of the time for their own     and focused on their own life, problems etc. Which you can mix up very     easily with ‘just being day dreaming’ Which seems egoistic to other     people.

Sometimes not even able to show     emotions or at least they have a limited number of emotions on stock.

They often do things everytime     on the one and same way – Much alike this day structure thing – and while     other people get bored very quickly by that people with this syndrom     actually love it to know what’s coming next and that it is everyday the     same. (This is because these people really want to have the ultimate     control on everything they do.)

 Now we come to the points which some autistic people can relate but indeed not everyone of them:

 Having a bad ‘inter navigation’     which means that they’re pretty bad at reading maps, finding a simple way     even tho there are signs and shields telling them where to go and even tho     someone once walked the way together with them. (I am one of them. Other     Autists are pretty good at navigation and geography.)

Reminding information or images     by first sight (photographic mind, like the boy who flew over a city with     a helicopter and drew the whole city down only by viewing it once.)

Being able to solve a mathematic     exercise in their head within 30 seconds or less.

Having a higher IQ from 113 up     to 200, also known as ‘extremly gifted’ (unfortunately not everyone... I’ve     met some people...)

Being very tidy, ordered and     hygenic. (also not everyone. For example me: I am captain Chaos.)

Being very sensitive if it’s     about smell, flavor, feeling, light, noises etc. (I’ve got only some     noises which freak me out and sometimes I can’t deal with the sun light     because it is just way to bright for me. That’s why some autistic people     always use noise-cancelling headphones or sunglasses.)

Having issues with being in a     relationship including love and sex life. (Not me: I have got a boyfriend     without Autism and we come along pretty well actually. We do also fight     like ‘normal’ people. There is hardly a difference. Yet there are some     other kinds of people.)

 There are also autistic people who behave much more extreme than the examples I’ve written down. Some of them still ‘belong’ to the Asperger-Spectrum, others already drift into the ‘Kanner-Spectrum’ which is known as the ‘Autism’ which comes up to our minds when we hear about it. It’s the ultimate image most of the people still have when they hear about ‘Autism’: Swinging around on the chair or floor and not noticing anyone speaking to them: caught in their ‘own world’. Behaving uneasy, having no respect or not accepting distance. Some of them even’d like to touch your ‘private zone’ because they think it is interesting but don’t understand that it is not okay – or even sexual harassment – to do so. Hurting themselves by hitting their head against the wall – for example – if they’re told to do what they don’t want to. In general known as easily provocating people, aggressive and having no control over their own actions.

 This is a completely other topic tho. So if you’d like to have a list with examples and definitions of different Autism-Spectrums, just let me know!

 Now: What is the Asperger-Syndrome for me?

Even tho some ‘

social justice warriors

’ or other autistic people will hate me for that I tell you what it is for me: A disorder and a disability and also an other view of life.

Are disorders and disabilities bad for me? Is it bad and wrong to call Autism like that? No. Why? Because people are used to use these words as offenses or general in a negative point? Sry, that’s not my problem. If these people seriously yell at me calling my own Autism as disorder and disability, because they find it bad and discrimanting - because their definition of it is negative - then those people are discriminating – not me - because they think disabled people with a disorder are negative in some way and that’s why it’s wrong to call them like that. This is discriminating and hurting by these people and they do anything with this attitude except something good.

Autism is a disorder. Autism is a disability. This is a fact and this doesn’t make us to worse or less valuable people than others. If you really automatically think my disability makes myself less valuable to others it means to me that you think it is something negative too and this is discriminating! Never mind how you try to turn it.

 So why is it a disability and disorder besides the medical fact that it is? 1st I am disabled in social communication. Never mind how good I probably am in articulating myself and formulating things, I still don’t now how to start a conversation, how to get to know someone, not even how to meet people. In fact I am even nervous about meeting new people, being in a room with strange new people with whom I am supposed to work closer in future is a bit hard for me. I am incredibly insecure, especially because of my bullying experience.

I hate having small-talk or being unnecessary ‘polite’ ... like not saying the total truth about something and lie a little bit instead to make people not feel uncomfortable which is wrong in my opinion. But that’s how society works. And while people without Autism know how ‘the cookie crumbles’ and they have no issues with behaving like this I feel uneasy about it and as honest I am with my words and thoughts, so am I with my feelings which means that I can’t hide it when I’m feeling uneasy. Society feels uneasy about me feeling uneasy because these ‘simple’ society actions. You see where this goes.

 2nd I have issues with reading faces and recognizing voices. That means I can’t always tell if a person is angry, annoyed, okay or happy and I can’t tell by the person’s voice if he or she is angry, stressed, annoyed, sad, anything like this which is usually also a special key to some kind of social communication. All I can do is ask if he or she is okay or what’s the matter but I have met many people in my life and some of them think that it should be so obvious how they feel that I must be a silly cunt to not notice it. Or maybe worse: they think I don’t care and I pretend to care to make people think that I am a good person but in fact I am ignorant. Yes, that’s what some people once thought of me.

 3rd I am disabled to have a normal everyday life in – for example - summer time when it is hot outside. It’s not like just being done because it’s so warm and I am sweating, no. People who know me well have seen me during hot summer times and I am absolutely useless. I am like totally done, almost dead if you really want to know. In case that I go outside because the temperatures are not too hot and I am able to move in the sun (and because I need food, you know, don’t wanna starve) there is an other problem: the sun light. I go out, the sun and its light burns down on me and suddenly I hardly see a thing, everything I watch shines in a horrible bright light and literally blends me. I need to wear sunglasses for that, sometimes even in the late afternoon when the sun light isn’t that bright anymore. Even then, because my Autism is also a kind of ‘high sensibility’ if it’s about sun light or certain kind of noises and sounds. In addition I am not always able to handle stress and busy situations. Stress knocks me out sometimes and it’s not like just being stressed, no. Sometimes I start crying. I’m having an overload, a so-called meltdown (which is also something I’d like to write about in an other post) which means I am crying for hours and having a mental and emotional break down. All the emotions I actually felt for a quite long time and which I’ve held back because I know that in these situations these emotions would make them worse... all these emotions, sometimes including emotions I think I didn’t even know that they exist, are coming out. It’s like me being a huge frozen mointain, completely made of ice, the emotions which come out because of the stress are getting hot and making my frozen shell melt and break down... I am literally a frozen vulcano who explodes with all its emotions. Now tell me: do you think I could work in a stressy job for eight or more hours a day without having these break downs?

 To the question why it is a disorder: No person has got the right to decide what’s normal and what’s not. But comparing my issues and my behavior in certain situations because of my condition to the behavior of other people without this condition, it is definitely a disorder. When it comes to the situations I am disable to handle ... it is like me being a television which loses its signal right within a good television show. I have literally no signal in these moments. I am having a disruption. Do you say your television is not having a disruption then? ‘It is not having a disruption, it is just special.’ God damn, that sounds kinda discrimanting, doesn’t it?

 I am disabled. I’m having a disorder. But that doesn’t make me to a bad person and less valuable than anyone else. You know, I can learn, how to communicate. I can learn, what to do in stressy situations. I can learn to read expressions, learn and study different expressions or the sound of voices in different emotions. I can learn this all.

Disability is a medical fact for me. It describes or is a ‘name’ for the issues we have. I will always be disabled like – even tho this is an extreme example, don’t blame me for that, please – a person who’s sitting in the wheel chair because he or she lost his or her leg in an accident, in a war, anything like that. BUT as this person can learn to walk with a prothesis so they won’t be stopped at all, so I can and will learn to communicate and manage my life and find my place in this world. I will always be disabled but I’ll never be impaired. I don’t wanna be changed or even pitied, I want to be accepted and luckily there are people who accept and also love me the exact way I am.

 I really want to mention again: please, don’t blame or hate me for comparing me with a person who lost a leg and has to sit in the wheel chair... I know this life is worse and it is horrible and not really comparable with my disorder. But I just want to make a point.

Autism is an other way of to be and even tho there are so many different autistic people everyone of ‘us’ is different and when you know one autistic person then you know exactly one. Only one. Meet more of us and you’ll know who we really are.

 I hope you took the time to read it all and that I could explain at least a little to you what the Asperger-Syndrome is. There are some informations in the internet and in some books, medical facts and experiences as well as personal ones, blogs like this or even youtube channels. Feel free to check them all out but please educate yourself correctly and stop putting us all in a box.

 Thanks for reading. Good bye!

[Fic] Second Declension

“Er... I don’t think the Prime Minister’s got as far as the second declension...” - Bernard, in “The National Education Service”

Jim tries to prove he's not a philistine, for the noble purpose of getting in Humphrey's pants. [1704 words]

(With apologies to anyone who actually speaks Latin, because I do not!)

It was late on a Wednesday, and Jim Hacker had just made the dreadful mistake of misusing a Latin idiom. At least, he thought it was an idiom.

Bernard's eyes lit up, as they always did when an opportunity to talk about linguistics presented itself, and indeed, often when it didn't.

"Ah, actually Prime Minister, I believe you meant to say a posteriori evidence, not a priori. You see, a priori evidence relies on axiomatic truths - it is of course a latin phrase, meaning 'from the earlier', while a posteriori, which in Latin means "from the later", describes evidence derived from empirical evidence. Now, in Latin, this..." the young man barely seemed to take a breath, and Jim decided he ought to cut in to stop him from suffocating.

"Alright! Alright. Yes, thank you Bernard, very informative. Now, moving on, the matter of the-" he stopped himself. "Actually, Bernard..."

"Yes, Prime Minister?

"You know, I've been thinking. I really ought to- Well, I would like to- ...could you teach me some Latin?"

"Ah. Why, certainly, Prime Minister!" A slightly cheeky expression crossed Bernard's face. "Never too late to begin one's educat- Er. Sorry... What did you have in mind?"

"Have in mind?"

"Well, er, what did you plan to use it for?"

"Use it for! Right, of course."

A series of concerned expressions played across Jim's face as he considered the question. In truth, he was planning to use it to seduce Bernard's boss, but he couldn't very well say that. Really, this was Humphrey's fault for being so bloody difficult.

For the last few weeks, he and the Cabinet Secretary had been involved in some sort of romantic entanglement. Probably. At least, Jim was fairly confident. They had kissed (briefly) and had sex (somewhat less briefly) and done all manner of things which would imply the presence of a romantic relationship, but apparently not confirm it. Perhaps it was really only sex, just a relief of tension, but that thought didn't sit right with Jim. There was something so delicate and vulnerable about the way Humphrey laid his head on Jim's shoulder, pressing their bodies together in that perfect moment between climax and his almost immediate pivot into a lecture about commercial zoning laws.

Since then, Jim had been trying to charm him into opening up. His usual tactics (dreadful pickup lines and a winning smile) had failed, but perhaps Humphrey needed something a little more intellectual. Thus, Jim had formulated a plan to take him out to dinner and dazzle him with wit... or at least, something smutty that also proved he could, in fact, speak Latin at a third grade level.

"Er... Prime Minister?"

"I'm sorry, what was the question? Ah- right, yes, well. I was just curious. That's all. And the leader of the country ought to know these things."

"Well then, I would be glad to indulge your curiosity! Shall we start with basic grammar?"

"Right, yes, grammar. That shouldn't be so bad."

"Now, as I'm sure you recall, Latin is a highly inflected language. This allows for a more flexible sentence structure, but also requires that words be modified according to various factors, such as their case - that is, their function in a sentence. Now, there are six cases in Latin, which are: the Nominative - the subject, the Genitive - possessive, or to express an object that is "of" something, the Dative - the indirect object, the Accusative - the direct object, the Ablative-"  "Prime Minister? Is everything alright?"

Jim narrowed his eyes.

"Bernard... do you think you could give me a sort of... executive summary of all that, perhaps?"

"Ah, well, I think it all boils down to Latin being a highly inflected language, which allows for a more flexible sentence structure, but also requires that words be modified according to various factors, such as..."

"Yes, I see." Jim said, in his most scholarly tone of voice. "Right."

"Erm, Prime Minister, if I may be so bold as to ask. This wouldn't have anything to do with Sir Humphrey, would it?"

"Humphrey?!" Jim's eyes went wide in panic. Was Bernard wise to his scheme? How could he have figured out- "Oh, because of our little tiff over Latin in schools! No, no, no. Well, Bernard, if you must know, it's my wife's anniversary - er, our anniversary - next weekend, and, well, I thought she might find it charming if I were to... In another language, that is."

"Oh... Oh! In that case, you have nothing to worry about. Your anniversary isn't for another eight months."

"It is? Wait, how do you know that?"

"Well, I marked it in your diary. You do remember a few years back, when we had you double booked - or triple booked, in fact, and, well, I thought it was better we didn't repeat that disaster."

"Yes, yes, alright. I can see what you mean."

"But if you did want to learn how to say something, erm, romantic."

"Yes?"

Jim took out a little notebook and started scratching at it in shorthand.

"And, erm, Bernard, how would you say..." Jim wasn't quite sure he could say it out loud, so he made an obscene gesture with his hands, which on mature reflection was certainly far worse.

"Oh! Oh, my. I think Sir H-Mrs. Hacker"

"Mrs. Hacker." Jim corrected sternly.

"Yes, well, she would be. Um. Well, it's rather a complicated question - you see, in Latin, and indeed Greek, when proposing sexual acts, one's choice of word often depends on the gender of the parties involved and on whether the speaker is in the, erm, active or passive role. Even this component is not entirely cut and dry, as these acts are, on a grammatical level, handled quite differently to their english-language counterparts. Irrumare, which is a passive verb in English - that is to receive fellatio, is in fact an active verb in Latin - something which one actively does. Of course, one would typically use some degree of innuendo while discussing such topics, and Latin has a wide array of interesting options, which, as in most languages, evolved over time such that ordinarily innocent words acquired sexual connotations. As a rather amusing anecdote, officium, which can be loosely translated as "duty" or "service", though it also refers to "office" - that is, a political office - gained the connotation of pathic behavior - which means that the latin term for permanent undersecretary - princeps officii - sounds rather like-"

"Yes, thank you Bernard! That will be all!" Jim said, still reeling from the apparent depth and breadth of Bernard's sexual vocabulary. "Erm... Do you have a dictionary I can borrow? I think I shall figure the rest of it out on my own."

"Oh, of course." he said, pulling out a gigantic tome that looked old enough to have been penned by a native speaker.

Jim sighed, and got to work.

***

It was easy enough to get the Cabinet Secretary to dinner. He loved a good meal at an expensive restaurant, especially when someone else was paying. Plus, they had plenty of work matters to discuss, and that was before they even began to address their impossible-to-define pseudo-romance nonsense. Humphrey's true intentions were hard to read even without bringing something as perplexing as romance into the mixture, so it was little wonder that Jim never knew whether he was coming or going. He rather hoped tonight it would be the former.

This evening, Humphrey was dressed in a very sharp three-piece ensemble with a purple tie and matching pocket square and his hair coiffed just so. He looked terribly handsome, and Jim briefly entertained the thought that perhaps Humphrey had dressed up for his sake. He smiled at the idea, even though it probably wasn't true.

Owing to the possibility of official secrets being discussed, and simply to their stature, they were seated in a closed off area of the restaurant, out of sight and earshot of the other patrons. Discretion was still of the utmost importance, but even if it weren't, Humphrey would still have gone on about the most mundane of topics for the first hour or so. It was always an heroic effort to get him onto casual conversation.

By the time they polished off the main course, Humphrey's posture had relaxed ever so slightly, and Jim - who was by this point a couple of drinkies in - seized his chance.

Humphrey's eyes went wide, and for a moment, he was speechless.

"I... Good Lord... Latin?" he stammered out, a sweet little flush colouring his cheeks. A curl of his hair seemed to jump out of place of its own volition. Mission accomplished!

"Yes it is!" he giggled. "Bet you didn't expect that!"

"No, I certainly did not... And neither would the Romans. his voice dropped almost to a whisper, "Make would go...." his voice dropped almost to a whisper "insert?" Is that supposed to be something vulgar?"

"O... oh, dear. I must have gotten my declensions mixed up. I thought I had it down. Where are my notes?"

"Notes?!"

"Well, you see, it was my first time learning a language, and the... In English, it was supposed to be- ah, I'll tell you later. Here comes dessert."

Humphrey found a sudden fascination with his pastry, while Jim was left to stew in silence.

Finally, Humphrey looked up.

"Right, well. We'll not be having any more of that nonsense, Prime Minister."

"No, no... Of course not. I apologize."

"As you should. A most dreadful butchery of the language. Besides. I think a more appropriate phrase would be..."

Humphrey said something in Latin, and Jim nodded sagely in the hopes that it would look like he understood it.

"And, of course, in English, that would be..."

Humphrey glanced furtively to his left and right, then leaned in, close enough that his lips were almost touching Jim's neck. Then, he whispered something quite unexpected.

"Oh, my, Humphrey!" Jim said, far louder than he intended, then quickly silenced himself. "With... with me?" he mouthed, "Tonight?"

Humphrey seemed to drink in the sight of Jim floundering, a predatory light gleaming in his dark brown eyes. He smiled, in an infuriatingly self-satisfied manner, which was unfortunately also very attractive.

"Ita vero, Prime Minister." 

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Notes:

Clearly I don’t speak Latin, so any jokes at Jim’s expense are also at my own. That said, I did a lot of googling for this, and so, some fun facts: it turns out there isn’t a word for “yes” (or no) in Latin, though “Ita vero” (closer to “indeed” or “certainly”) is commonly used. Humphrey’s classic “yes and no” answer would probably be translated as “Sic et non” ([it is] thus and [it is] not). At least... I think so. If anyone reads this, please do send me corrections!

Regarding Bernard’s speech about smutty Latin: ever since his fabulous “Oh, could we! [subsidize sex]” line, I’ve headcanoned him as a bit of a quiet achiever in that department. He knows exactly what his bosses are up to, and could probably save them months of romantic angst and mutual pining with a couple of off the cuff remarks. The officium/officii/officiosi thing relies on my incredibly shaky understanding of grammar, and from this passage I found in a book from the 80s about smutty latin slang:

(Pathic/patientia is an old-fashioned way of saying “bottom/bottoming”.)

Rereading Coryanne's story again, it makes me feel that Gyldane included it so he can use her as a metaphorical dirty that polishes the statue of Jaehaerys. Like "look at how great Jaehaerys is, how he stayed faithful to his wife, even around such a lascivious, tainted woman like Coryanne Wilde". It's like her story sells how "great" he was even before he was king.

I don’t know if that’s the case, only because Gyldayn’s favorite version of the story (which, perhaps, also represents GRRM’s favorite version), the one which “has a certain sweetness to it”, involves Coryanne “lur[ing] King Jaehaerys into her bed, only to find him fumbling, uncertain, and over-hasty”, whereupon Coryanne “took it upon herself to ... educat[e] His Grace in the art of giving and receiving carnal pleasure”. Note also that in every version of the story (from the various versions of A Caution for Young Girls, which is all that Gyldayn presents as primary source evidence), Coryanne does have sex with Jaehaerys, the versions only differing in how many people joined Jaehaerys in having sex with her. Also worth mentioning is that while Gyldayn introduces the idea that the  Coryanne Wylde plot was made up (by citing Archmaester Crey’s account considering it a “clumsy calumny” and Maester Ryben’s account dismissing the whole story), he himself appears insistent on proving its veracity, noting that there was unquestionably a daughter of Lord Morgan Wylde who bore a bastard child and that Coryanne Wylde was indeed one of the ladies selected to join Alysanne’s household on Dragonstone. To me, it seems like Gyldayn - and, by extension, GRRM - wants the reader to believe that Jaehaerys really did have sex with Coryanne, albeit in a way that maintained a “certain sweetness”. 

If there is a point to the Coryanne Wylde story, by some internal logic - and note that I have gone on record believing that the inclusion of this story is completely pointless as well as awful and disturbing - I think it is twofold: to show that Rogar Baratheon wanted to break up Jaehaerys and Alysanne’s marriage, and to introduce some more erotica (and don’t believe what the author says on that latter point). Again, I cannot stress enough that I don’t feel that the Coryanne Wylde story, as depicted, adds anything of merit to Fire and Blood Volume 1 and that even if we were to accept the reasons above, the inclusion of the story fails on a larger narrative level. There is never a point in the story where Coryanne Wylde being ordered to seduce Jaehaerys, and Jaehaerys possibly/probably having sex with her, had any impact on the plot or the character of Jaehaerys (I can hardly describe Coryanne as having a character such that she could have been impacted, since she only exists in the story to have sex be sexually assaulted and raped). Jaehaerys’ sexual interest is not a topic of discussion for Gyldayn, and the closest the story comes to having Jaehaerys’ sex drive be a plot point is the conception of Gael (where Jaehaerys’ internal motivation to continue having sex with Alysanne despite the health risks to her is, again, not elaborated upon by Gyldayn - did he just want to continue sex with Alysanne, did he want more children, a little of both, something else?). Coryanne never reenters the story, such that Alysanne, perhaps, would have felt a sense of rivalry or competition for her place in Jaehaerys’ sexual attentions; indeed, in the “certain sweetness” version of the Coryanne Wylde tale, it’s not even clear that Alysanne ever knew that Jaehaerys had had sex with Coryanne. The entire story is the acme of unnecessary, an exercise in eroticizing a rape and sexual assault victim solely for the purposes of eroticizing her. 

LA VIOLÈNCIA OBSTÈTRICA

La violència obstètrica consisteix en diversos abusos que arriba a patir una dona embarassada durant tot aquest procés. Alguns exemples d'aquest maltractament el trobem en la presa de decisions sobre el seu cos sense el seu consentiment, que se subestimin els seus símptomes i dolors, faltar-li el respecte i humiliar-la i, evidentment, abusar d'ella tant físicament com psicològicament violant la seva privacitat.

Aquest tracte inhuma que reben moltes dones el trobem en l'episiotomia (una incisió quirúrgica en la vulva per facilitar el naixement del fetus). També existeix el cas de la maniobra de Hamilton (tacte vaginal amb moviment circular del dit que produeix un gran dolor i provocar grans sagrats). O per exemple, la maniobra de Kristeller (es pressionava amb els punys sobre el fons uterí perquè el cap del nadó baixi).

A les dones ens han educat així, ens han dit que l'embaràs és suportar totes aquestes tècniques inhumanes, el nostre cos és secundari, normalment es considera que si patim seqüeles tant psicològiques com físiques no és tan important, ja que no hem de gaudir del sexe com ho fa l'home.

Durant aquestes maniobres que es duen a terme durant l'embaràs, Elena Gil (portaveu de l'associació El Parto es Nuestro: https://www.elpartoesnuestro.es) diu que una dona quan queda embarassada és més vulnerable, és fàcil que pugui arribar a ser més submisa, davant un probable risc per al seu fill, la seva voluntat és salvar-lo per sobre de qualsevol cosa, per això és fàcil provocar-li més por.

La violència obstètrica també és el part induït, és a dir, quan es dóna a lloc el part molt abans que de forma natural comencin les contraccions uterines. Aquestes contraccions es provoquen amb l'aplicació d'oxitocina que provoca una dilatació cervical.

Un informe publicat a The Lancet diu que en el nostre país es dóna lloc un part induït a 1 de cada 4 dones, en concret, en el 26,6%.

Les seqüeles d'un epistoma poden ser físiques, però sobretot psicològiques. Les dones en general tenen problemes majoritàriament en el postpart, ja que, arriben a patir dolors intensos en el coit i incontinència urinària.

Un 42% de les dones a escala mundial ha declarat haver patit aquest tipus de violència. L'OMS el 2014 va declarar que les dones més exposades a aquests abusos són les adolescents i les mares solteres, les que travessen dificultats econòmiques, els membres de minories ètniques i les dones VIH positives o migrants.

Tant de bo el creixement, difusió i visibilització d'aquesta violència i el compromís institucional faci camí a la defensa de les dones en aquests moments tan importants en les nostres vides i que per fi l'empatia guanyi per sobre a qualsevol altres interessos.

Aida Valle i Herrán.

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Cel mai bun site-uri in care te poti intalni singur doamne

Va avea nevoie de ajutor in descoperirea cel mai bun locuri a satisface prostituate? Aici sunt top optiuni pentru gasirea femeia a ta obiectivele.

„Unde sa se implineasca femei” fie etern dilema. In fiecare zi, in comunitate transport si in automobile, in locuri de munca si resedinte, in sali de sport si pub-uri, Barbati intrebare de la sine exact la fel problema: unde ai putea merge a satisface femei? Este mult mai bine pentru a testa pentru a captura o femeie ochiul in real viata? Sau in caz ca cautati pe internet? Am analizat un numar de cele mai frecvente Conferinta locuri si oferit unor avantaje mari ale Aproape fiecare preferinta.

A fost o perioada in care singuratic persoane nu aveau alegerea a intalni barbati si femei online si, adevarul este, aveau sa iasa si sa faca articole a gasi cineva. Dar articole s-au imbunatatit dat fiind ca special anunturi si tehnologii a construit Conferinta un asociat mai putin complicat ca oricand. Si, cand tu stii care intalnire site-uri web cel mai bun meci si asteptarile, sunt sanse sa fiti terminati descoperirea aprecieza de viata de zi cu zi dupa o cateva clicuri De aceea noi compilat aceasta lista dintre cele mai mari zone a indeplini dame de companie pe internet, daca sau nu suntem discutand singura dame de lux, escorte, escorte de lux sau nimfomane.

Curte site-uri web

Cand oameni astazi luati in considerare online intalnire site-uri web, ele de obicei rapid ganditi-va flirt, dar o relatie site este diferit. In conformitate cu ultim detalii , curte site internet este un loc exact unde unul barbati dame de companie si infiintat cu adevarat grav relatii si poate relatie, care este

remarcabil. Este deoarece acestor relatie site-uri web au fost deja facut special pentru oameni privirea casatorie sau lung - expresie asociatii.

Probabil cel mai mare probleme cateva curte site-web este ca platforma face in esenta toate din iti ofera rezultatele dorite. Initial, face sa suferi compatibilitate verificari. O data facut, nu vei trebuie sa experienta Nenumarate profiluri a descoperi compatibil dame de companie. Site-ul web va rapid cauta cei persoane considera incheiat inregistrarea si set sexual preferintele, esti trimis catre ta functii pagina web locul puteti incepe sa incepeti sa vedeti profilurile cu dame de companie.

Avantajele alegerea unei luxoasa escorta

Luxos escorte sunt incredibil sunt cu adevarat elegant si politicos femei, nu doar nu furnizeaza servicii sexuale servicii de specialitate, De asemenea, sunt escorte, vor participa orice eveniment impreuna cu tine, fara afara orice persoana observand ca sunt prostituate. Pentru Toate acestea, trebuie incorpora aceste Recompense:

Profesionalism: funcția de asemenea escorte de lux este incredibil solicitant în ceea ce privește încredere și confidențialitate, pentru că ei sunt păstrarea statistică a lor consumatori, respectându-și confidențialitatea, recunoașterea că orice încorporează o limit.

Acestea sunt o placuta intreprindere: Aceasta este probabil ca explicatie de ce alta persoana ii angajeaza, in principal pentru ca sunt un remarcabil companie cand calatorie, nu simti asa pe cont propriu, pentru Multi altii a obtine afara in regim sau pentru Specific evenimente, de exemplu burlac petreceri.

Minunat tarife: Aceste escorte de lux opereaza in companii locul potrivit taxe sunt set, ceea ce este incredibil valoros pentru dvs. consumator, din motivul ca Puteti gasi probabilitatea a avea posibilitatea de a le adapta la preferintele dvs., alegand escorta vrei unul dintre cele mai.

Fara compromisuri: Cand exista un lucru pe care unii barbati si doamne spaima, este dedicare. Selectarea doar unul dintre acestea femei va continua sa fii singur In acest respect, lipsit de angajamente. Veti sa va bucurati de cateva ore sau zi ai pregatit cu ea si in cele din urma tu s-ar putea trebuie doar sa continuati dvs. tipic viata de zi cu zi

Sanatate Beneficii: Pana in prezent, Avem acum doar gasit ceea ce aduce la viata, dar ceea ce este Multi oameni habar este faptul ca s-ar putea pozitiv influenta bunastare.

Ofera un prim experienta: Majoritatea Baieti vis de avea capacitatea de a seduce un tip de magnific

prostituate, cum ar fi persoane care suprafata in Jurnale sau la tv, pastreaza-o in interiorul lor si o mangaie. Acest lucru se poate face ca urmare a.

Creste stima de sine: Faptul ca acest tip de senzual si frumos doamna te insoteste si va face te simti ingrijit, iti iti imbunatateste stima de sine intr-o al doilea, De asemenea, raport sexual cu un singur dintre acestea escorte va ofera placut senzatii generand - veti merge cu adevarat platit l Excelent.

Experienta superior: Aceasta este insotit de imbunatatit stima de sine, in principal pentru ca iti relaxeaza intelectul, ar face te simti complet vesel si un fericit fiinta umana are relief.

Imbunatateste sanatate: Destul de multe studii stiintifice au confirmat ca sex este intr-adevar un medicament, ar trebui sa fie practicat cel putin 3 ori saptamanal, acest lucru probabil asistenta minimizare riscul potential de boli cardiovasculare. De asemenea, un om care ejaculeaza cel putin cinci instante in fiecare saptamana contine o mai mic pericol de prostata cancer.

Minimizeaza agonie: actul sexual elibereaza endorfine impreuna cu alte hormoni care sunt raspunzator pentru reducere orice durere. Acesta este altul foarte bun scuza a obtine sex de fiecare data te doare capul.

Previne imbatranire: Un orgasm este capabil de pompeze oxigen catre dvs. in creier si tesuturi peste tot sistemul, provocand pori si piele intinerire de la miscare de substante nutritive.

Imbunatateste dispozitie: Oxitocina este probabil ca hormoni lansat cand Am un orgasm, este taxabil pentru calm si pace, din acest motiv, imbunatateste temperament. Fara indoiala, folosirea serviciilor de o dama de companie insotitoare se va sanatos extrem de bine, Folosind aceste nimfomane femei pe care poti sa ai experiente de neimaginat.

La birou

Pentru mai multi unul Barbati si guru intrebandu-va in care a implini prostituate, Locul de munca ar putea par a fi un bun zona. Toate lucrurile luate in considerare, eu consacr ore cu colegii fiecare prostituate 7 zile, ceea ce implica Imi dau seama ca acestea foarte bine. Nu este cu adevarat dificil sa-ti imaginezi ca o prietenie la opereaza foarte usor va deveni orice mult mai mult.

Evident, Chiar si atunci cand functioneaza unde de birou intalnire este permis, poate fi provocator pentru stiu daca o doamna expunerea indicatii de placere pentru tine sau daca ea este de fapt bine educat deoarece tu indeplineste impreuna. Urmatorul, trebuie evaluati foarte lung - Accesați acest site expresie rezultat.

Prin intermediul prieteni sau cei dragi

In conformitate cu un sondaj, aproximativ saptesprezece% dintre casatoriti parteneri realizat lor sot prin prieteni buni sau familie - o urmatoarea procent doar pentru 19% care multumit lor insotitor pe web. Se simte ca un ciudat concept - dar cu siguranta are loc!

Cu toate acestea, este de fapt cu adevarat merita mentionat ca prietenii si familia vor au doar o restrictionata echipa din care sa alegeti. Cand tu spun se intampla sa fii un mai in varsta persoana in cautarea singur Doamne peste patruzeci ani invechit sau esti un unul tata meditand ​​Adunare doar unul mama, poate fi provocator pentru tine sa sa satisfaci specificul. De asemenea, te ocupi cu exact la fel problema care se intampla cu birou conferinte - este prea interconectat.

Hobby-uri si pasiuni

Este este printre strategii oferite pentru Barbati adulti cine sunt intrebari locul a indeplini dame de lux si la prostituate care sunt intrebari locul a se intalni Barbati adulti: daca vrei fii nu mai de unul singur, are un hobby! In principiu, acest lucru este un minunat gandit . Fa orice pe care il te bucuri, cu cei cu exact la fel pasiuni, ceea ce face dialog simplu. Si cine nu ar doresc o relatie romantica cu cineva care imparte pasiuni?

Natural, acest roz vedere presupune ca numai singuratic oamenii au hobby-uri, cand adevarul este cupluri de obicei utilizati-le a atasa.

Imaginati-va: luand o gatit clasa sperand sa satisfacem un Exclusiv doamna - si Este intr-adevar doar tu si patru cupluri. Cosmar! Acest lucru nu indica ca vei nu implini un frumos femeie prin intermediul unui pasiune, mult mai mult ca ar trebui sa faceti beneficii in interes o prioritate: orice relatie este de fapt un frumos recompensa.

Genetic Rome --->🙋🏻‍♀️🙋🏼‍♀️🙋🏽‍♀️

Women fuck Everything up ... and your sexist if you admit that in fact your a sexist person you talk About the Endless fuck up’s of women. if you talk about the Fail’s of women your sexist. your a bad person .... and i really don’t give a shit. 

Every women, i Ever gave data too has ruined it ... for them self . the Brain of the women Take the Knowledge and grind’s it up, the fact’s and mix it up and the Intelligence, fuck’s it up. 

The Gray’s Alwasy told me thay fucked up the Women .... by Accident. 

 Women are Often very angry about thsi that, never matter’s thay rage over the pointless. thay Call you stupid a 1000 time’s on shit that is not stupid, thay mix up fact’s with reality. and there Prone to raging. all. of. the . god. dam . mother . fucking . time !!! 

Women are Confused, un-educatable, Ragey little Psycho’s. thay can’t be Taught. thay can’t be Cooperated with there alwasy pissed ????  as if thay had a Rogue gene driving them Crazy. Alwasy hateful and alwasy feel as if there being treated wrongly ??? 

Alwasy thing you “ Never Get’s them ” alwasy Annoying and pissing off men. and alwasy feeling like shit, thinking the world hate’s them. 

And all thay Care about it’s baby’s and bla bla. thay Love there small talk and hate Hard talk, deep talk’s or real talk. and every female no matter who it is. Say’s there “Different” when thay all act the same ... a little different a varies way’s but most the Same. and the Erratic and odd behavior make them Act up More n more odd .... More Dangerously Strange. 

Women are Hyper Sensitive, Ultra toxic and already ready to fight even if there is no need to fight. Women blow up on you out of random. feel that your a idiot for not understanding them, oh ! and ..... Yah ! your a Book .. and the world is full of people. 

Just more n More Proof to What the Gray’s Said ... thay ruined the women .... and thay are women. 

Not, Saying Women are Worthless ... only that the Gray’s .... Fucked up one of the Gender’s badly and thay can’t do what Men do becuz there feeling’s are alwasy fucking them up and there DNA is Alwasy braking down and fucking them up even further. 

also Woman CAN’T Put in As Much Work effort as a Man. it’s not Sexist it’s just Real world Experience that many many men down threw of all of Human history has to suffer. 

and if you think i’m being sexist, then fuck. And it’s just like i said. you can’t say a woman or women have any flaw’s with out being seen as a Sexist devil. 

and if by Chance there is a rare female out there that can do = if not Grater then a man. then your A Rare gem Among billion’s of female’s. as for the rest .... 

thay Fail to meet Expectation in every field, Degree and or Grade. of Quality of a Entity. 

i Only Hope the Gray’s can fix there fuck up and Get around there hatred and Jealousy of other women. but then again i bet thay can’t. ..... thay rage war over sex too hard and There Selfish desired will end up costing them the entire race. 

. . . . of Insectoid’s aka fae. : ( 

🤦🏻‍♂️ Fucking idiot’s -----> 👽

These Facts of Having Sex Will Want you do it More Often (ලිංගිකව එකතු වීමේදී ඔබට ලැබෙන වාසි)

ලිංගිකව එකතු වීමේදී ඔබට ලැබෙන වාසි ලිංගිකව හැසිරීම හොඳයි. ලිංගිකව හැසිරීමට හේතුව කුමක්ද? සතුට, ළදරුවන්, අවබෝධය හෝ සියල්ල. අපි මෙහි ලිංගිකත්වය නිර්වචනය නොකරමු. ඇත්තෙන්ම එය ඉතා සංකීර්ණයි. නමුත් ඔබ ලිංගිකව හැසිරීමට ගත කළ කාලය පුරාම ඔබ පහත සඳහන් කිසිවක් ගැන නොසිතන්නට ඇත. ඇත්ත වශයෙන්ම ඔබ එසේ කර නැත, ඒ නිසා ඔබ නොදන්නා කරුණු කිහිපයක් අපි මෙහි ඔබ වෙත ගෙන ආවෙමු. 1.0 දිගු කල් ජීවත් වීමට හැකියාව

පර්යේෂණයන්ට අනුව සතියකට 2 වතාවකට වඩා ලිංගිකව හැසිරෙන පුද්ගලයින්ට මසකට එක් වතාවකට වඩා අඩුවෙන් ලිංගිකව හැසිරෙන අයට වඩා හෘද රෝග ඇතිවීමේ අවදානම අඩුය. ජෝසප් ජේ. පින්සෝන් (අමයි වෙල්නස් හි ප්‍රධාන විධායක නිලධාරී / එම්ඩී) පවසන පරිදි, ලිංගිකව හැසිරීම ඔබේ කාර්යබහුල කාලය තුළ හැර ඔබේ සිස්ටලික් රුධිර පීඩනය අඩු කරයි. සවස් වරුවේ වයින් වීදුරුවක් සමග ඔබේ සහකරු සහකාරිය සමග ලිංගිකව එකතු වීම ඇත්තෙන්ම ඔබේ මානසික සුවතාව සහ ශාරීරික යෝග්‍යතාව,සුවතාව ඉහල මට්ටමකින් තබා ගැනීමට උපකාරී වෙයි. සවස් වරුවේ ඔබ රස බලන වයින් වීදුරුවේ සැබෑ ප්‍රයෝජනය ගැනීම ඔබට බාරයි.

2.0 ඔබේ ප්‍රතිශක්තිය වැඩි කරයි  

ඔබ වැඩි වැඩියෙන් ලිංගිකව එකතු වන්නේනම් ඔබ නිවසේදී අසනීප වීම ගැන ඔබට එතරම් බය වෙන්නට අවශ්‍ය නොවනු ඇත.ඔබ ලිංගිකව එකතු වීම ඔබට කිසිදු රෝගාබාදයක් සාදන්නේ නැති බව මෙයින් අදහස් නොවේ.එහෙත් සැලකිය යුතු මට්ටමේ ප්‍රතිශක්තියක් ඔබේ  නැගෙනු ඇත, ඔබට හොද ශාරීරික සහ මානසික සුවතාවයක් පවත්වා ගැනීමට උපකාරී වෙමින් ඔබගේ රාජකාරී අසනීප දින අඩු කර ගැනීමට ඉවහල් වනු ඇත. ඉවෝන් කේ. ෆුල්බ්‍රයිට් (Yvonne K. Fulbright (PhD)) ට අනුව, ලිංගිකව හැසිරෙන පුද්ගලය��න්ට බොහෝ විට ප්‍රතිශක්තිකරණ මට්ටම් වැඩි වී ඇත්තේ ඉමියුනොග්ලොබින් නම් වෛරස් හා විෂබීජ වලින් ඔබව ආරක්ෂා කරන ප්‍රතිෂක්තීකරණයන් ඔබගේ ශරීරය තුල උත්පාදනය වෙන නිසාවෙනි .  ලිංගිකව හැසිරීමෙන් ඔබේ ප්‍රතිශක්තිය වැඩි නොවනු ඇත. ඔබේ වෙනත් ක්‍රියාකාරකම් එකවර පවත්වා ගත යුතුය.

හොඳ නින්දක් ලබා ගැනීම 

ක්‍රමවත් අහාර රටාවක් පවත්වා ගැනීම 

කලට වෙලාවට නියමිත ප්‍රත්ෂක්තීකරන එන්නත් ලබා ගැනීම ,වැනි දේවල්.

3.0 ඔබගේ ලස්සන වැඩි කරයි.ඔබගේ ඕරාව (Aura) වැඩි කරයි.

ලිංගිකව හැසිරීමෙන් ඔබේ ශරීරයේ වඩා හොඳ රුධිර සංසරණයක් ලබා ගත හැකි අතර එයින් අදහස් කරන්නේ ඔබේ සමට වැඩි ඔක්සිජන් හා අත්‍යවශ්‍ය පෝෂ්‍ය පදාර්ථ පොම්ප කරන අතර හානිකර විෂ ද්‍රව්‍ය පිටතට ගෙන ඔබේ සම වඩාත් දීප්තිමත් වන බවයි. ලිංගිකව හැසිරෙන කාන්තාවන්ගේ එස්ටජන් මට්ටම දෙගුණ වන අතර එමඟින් පෝෂ්‍ය පදාර්ථ පිළිවෙලට ලබා ගැනීමට හා පරිවෘත්තීය කිරීමට හැකි වීමෙන් සම මෘදු හා හිසකෙස් දිලිසෙනවා.ඔබ ජනප්‍රිය හොලිවුඩ් නිලියන් වන කැතරින්  සීටා-ජෝන්ස් සහ ඇන්ජලීනා ජොලී ගේ නිරෝගී සිනිඳු හිසකෙස් දෙස මදකට විමසිලිමත්ව බැලුවොත් නිරෝගී ලිංගික ජීවිතයක් ගත කරන බවට එය සාක්ෂියකි. කෙසේ වෙතත් දීර්ඝ  sex ලිංගික ඇසුරක් ඔබට මෙම ප්‍රතිලාභ ලබා දෙනු ඇත.

4. ලිංගිකව හැසිරීමෙන් බොහෝ වාසි ඇත

නින්ද ප්රවර්ධනය කරයි

කාන්තාවන් වඩාත් ආකර්ෂණීය කරනු ඇත

ආත්ම අභිමානය ඉහළ නංවනු ඇත

සමාජ සම්බන්දතා ඉහල තලයක තබා ගැනීමට උපකාරී වනු ඇත.

These Facts of Having Sex Will Want you do it More Often

Having sex is good. What is behind having sex? Pleasure, Babies, Understanding or everything. Let’s not be defining sex here. Actually it’s damn complicated. But all the time you’ve spent having sex you may have not been thinking any of following in purpose. Of course you have not, that’s why we have brought you here some facts you probably didn’t know about.

1. Live Longer  

Research shows that for people who have sex more than 2 times per week have the less chance of having heart diseases than people having sex less than once a month. As per Joseph J. Pinzone (CEO/MD at Amai Wellness) having sex will lower your systolic blood pressure except during the time you're busy for it. And having sex will reduce your mental stress as much as an evening glass of wine does. Why shouldn’t we exploit the pleasure of evening wine with little bit of glamour added in the end eh? 

2. Boosts Your Immunity 

Having sex will cause you less sick days, unless you make your excuses over being sick at home. According to Yvonne K. Fulbright (PhD) People who have sex often have increased levels of antibodies called immunoglobin which defend you against viruses and germs. 

 And having sex will not increase your immunity by itself you have to maintain your other activities simultaneously, Such as:

Having good sleeps

Eat Properly

Keeping up with vaccinations etc.

3. Increase Your Beauty

Having sex will give you a better blood circulation in your body which means it will pump more oxygen and essential nutrients to your skin flushing out the harmful toxins and making your skin much brighter. As women having sex their estrogen levels doubles which makes skin softer and hair shinier by being able to receive and metabolize nutrients orderly. For it is proof that Catherina Zeta-Jones & Angelina have healthy sex lives by having healthy lush hair. However prolonged sex will cause you these benefits.

4. There are many benefits of having sex

Promotes sleep

Will make women more attractive

Will boost self esteem

Keep a good relationship

 For more details visit www.fitnessmagazine.com

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Am crescut o astfel de femeie dintr-o cât pe-aci majoră drăcoaică. Fata aia încingea locul pe care ședea. Nu era încă frumoasă, a devenit după. Tot mai frumoasă. Când i-am dat drumul să plece, s-a smuls din mine. Am crescut o astfel de femeie… Mă dor toți bărbații pe care știu că i-a avut și i-a zăpăcit de cap pe viață. N-aș vrea s-o revăd. N-am căutat-o. Nu m-a căutat. Ca ea n-am mai întâlnit… Nici alta n-am mai crescut. Sunt bătrân. (Nu era, așa se simțea…) Mie mi-a luat ceva timp să le înțeleg, să le respect și să nu le mai judec pe aceste femei. Pentru că așa am fost educat: dacă cedează repede, e curvă; dacă îi place, e curvă; dacă nu-i ajunge, e curvă. Nu, e o femeie sănătoasă, sigură pe ea, care știe ce vrea și obține ce vrea. Când mă voi însura, nu mă voi împiedica în alegere de apetitul sexual și nici nu voi pune acea întrebare absolut imbecilă “cu câți bărbați te-ai mai culcat până la mine?”. De ce le iubim pe femeile care se culcă cu noi din și cu plăcere? Pentru toate motivele din lume! Numai că nu sunt destule astfel de femei! Știu unde se ascund, dar nu înțeleg de ce. Spune-le tu celor pentru care presupun că scrii să lase dracului prejudecățile la o parte și să aibă mai multă încredere în noi. Ți-o spune un bărbat care mai are puțin și își va scrie pe tricou, cămașă, sacou această disperare “nu vreau doar să te f*t, vreau să-ți placă și ție și să vedem dacă e loc de mai mult! sunt un om de încredere!” Lasă-te, vorbește, dă-ți voie, oferă, primește, înlocuiește câteva ore de sală pe săptămână cu câteva ore de sex, da, exact, n-o să mai mergem o săptămână la sală. Și? Poate totuși iese ceva. Ai 33-35-37 de ani și mori să faci dragoste. I-aș opri și pe bărbații tineri care aleargă la fel ca tine și le-aș spune că cel mai bun cardio se face cu o iubită în brațe! Eu sunt mai tradițional, așa… Și mă topesc când aud acel “mulțumesc” de la cineva ca tine. :)

07/04/22

oamenii au o viață în afara mea merg în atât de multe locuri își fac timp pentru evenimente își petrec timpul în situații calitative ce mă face să cred că dacă mi-am inventat un trecut nou-nouț nu aș putea să îmi creez și activități în afara facultății sunt așa pasivă și comodă m-aș zgâria de pe orice suprafață pentru a face ceva mă ucid pe minut ce trece nu fac aprope nimic singură este incredibil 21 de ani 21 bărbați și tot în casă în pat sub o pătură grea stau cu zilele obosită stoarsă de viață unde activitate ce activitate cum activitate orice în afară de sex de ce sex și nu teatru de ce sex și nu muzeu fă orice altceva în afară de sex e mai comod să fugi înspre un bărbat decât înspre un monument prieteni nu ai prieteni cunoști doar bărbați care în afară de sex și diferite perspective nu îți prea oferă nimic de ce e așa ușor să te fuți cu oricine mai mare decât tine tot ce faci e să te îmbraci frumos pentru ca apoi să fii dezbrăcată brutal cum e asta ușor te folosești de ei pentru suport emoțional iar ei îți mușcă din corp mănâncă din tine cu nesaț iar tu accepți fără să clipești doar gemând din când în când îți e bine goală în cât mai multe paturi pe așternuturi diferite pe perne sub cearceafuri colorate sau albe cum îți e bine de ce îți e bine se uită la tine îți văd părul pubian și își trec degetele prin el pentru ca încet să coboare în jos și te prefaci că îți face plăcere te prefaci sau chiar îți place ai învățat să îți placă nu e și ăsta prefăcut îți place să stai goală să îți acoperi ușor sânii cu palmele și să te joci cu sfârcurile și să te lași privită îți place de ei sau doar te simți importantă pentru un moment ești cu ei pentru că te simți protejată nu te mai simți singură te simți apropiată cum te simți ești femeie și îi mai cerți mai arunci comentarii răutăcioase și îndrepți gulere de cămașă faci ordine mai speli oglinda din baie și cureți fructe apoi te faci mică și te bucuri când ești ținută în brațe și când ești pupată pe obraz tot ce vrei e să fii bine futută și apoi să fii îmbrățisată ești atât de simplă știu că tatăl tău nu te-a prea iubit și că mama ta a fost ignorantă se vede că te-ai educat singură și că ești singuratică de ce a trebuit să fii singuratică care este opinia ta despre mine asta este părerea mea despre tine și după un paharul meu de vin roșu două beri la imperial și alte trei ale tale m-ai sărutat în frig și pe întuneric și când ai crezut că există în sfârșit cineva căruia îi pasă de tine iar ai dat de un bărbat care te voia goală la el în pat de ce ești atât de bună cu mine nimeni nu a mai făcut nimic pentru mine sunt foarte egoist și nu am grijă de ceilalți când îți spune crede-l mâță pisicuță alintată ce vrei să îți fac spune-mi ce vrei să îți fac te implor vreau să îți simt limba peste tot linge-mă sărută-mă regreți ceva toată dimineața m-am gândit dacă ai sau nu chiloți pe tine de ce a trebuit să te joci de ce ești tu de fiecare dată de ce nu ai prietene de ce îți place să fii singuratică și să te întâlnești cu ei doar pentru sex cu el nici măcar nu poți să ieși public ești așa o durere de cap fetițo a zis că ești smart aia mică cu ochi faini și ochelari am făcut un atac de panică pentru că nu puteam respira și apoi a trebuit să mă uit pe geam ca să mă calmez și m-am uitat cu superioritate la oamenii mici de jos viitori ingineri mici inculți băieței care vor deveni instalatori cu grad superior te-aș strânge de gât atât de tare ce ar putea însemna normal la tine dacă nu sexul de ce îl incluzi în absolut tot ce este în neregulă cu tine ești mereu fata nouă prospătura te vei putea opri când va fi nevoie va fi vreodată nevoie îți vei dori să te oprești you poor soul să te despart în trei să te leg și să te arunc într-un lac lăsată la scufundat îneacă-te încet și nu opune rezistență lasă-l în urmă pe răzvan care nu știe ce este un one night stand și care nu este sigur de sexualitatea lui nu îl strica nu alcool nu droguri nu sex este curat este cuminte fragil și timid ai milă de el și stai departe nu strica doar din răutate din egoism din plictiseală sau mai știi tu ce nu fi o fetiță rea și lasă-l și pe radu este doar un copil un băiețel care știe să se apropie de tine prin replici tăioase vipero glumește și el este cuminte nu îl strica ei doi merită mai bine și nu cred că s-ar putea face loc și pentru tine au inimioare mari și roz cu roșu aprins și sunt timizi și sinceri doi copii virgini iar tu ești tu doar ești dar nu ești pentru ei tu le aparții bărbaților mai mari decât tine care poartă cămăși și costum care merg la întâlniri de afaceri iau prânzul în oraș vorbesc despre războaie și critică generația tânără bărbaților care conștientizau și care aveau amintiri lucide în 2000 când tu de abia învățai să respiri lasă băieții și nu le faci rău oricât de mult ți-ar face plăcere să te joci iar până la urmă de ce să stai liniștită de ce să nu creezi haos de ce să nu te implici și să le arăți cum arată clipe fericite și distracția pentru ca după ce te plictisești să le înlocuiești bucăți din inimile frumoase cu bucăți din inima ta putredă iar dacă nu e ea cea putredă atunci sigur mucegaiul e pe undeva prin creier răspândit pe tot meningele mâncându-l încet fii rezonabilă și nu te juca cu băieții nu vei găsi în ei replica lui stelian și nici sentimentele pentru el replicate nici cu jumătate de intensitate

It has been argued that America is “oversexed” but at the same time under-educat

It has been argued that America is “oversexed” but at the same time under-educat

It has been argued that America is “oversexed” but at the same time under-educated about it. Discuss in what ways this may or may not be true. Let’s think critically about this topic because it is debatable… in addition to the chapter, please feel free to do some of your research and share your findings.Contemplate and share your perceptions regarding the following questions: Is sex everywhere in…

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