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vvalengogh · 8 months

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Hey do 1 and A for all of your Fallout blorbos >:3c ❤️❤️❤️❤️🥰🥰🥰🥰

oh, you know the way to a man’s heart, sweetheart 🥰💕💕 thank you for these questions @valentineenjoyer !! more under the cut.

1. what’s the maximum amount of time your character can sit still with nothing to do?

lecter d. longfellow ( far harbor hunter )

surprisingly, lecter can sit still for hours at a time but for what he’ll have to be really enthralled in a book or activity to be able to do so. otherwise if there’s no stimulation whatsoever, the longest he can go sitting still is about thirty minutes at best, a few minutes at worst. sometimes he just needs to relax and be by himself with only his thoughts, but sometimes anxiety gets the best of him and he needs to pace and wander. it’s 50/50.

graham hoolahan ( pilot and railroad agent )

graham is surprisingly able to sit still with nothing to do for a significant amount of time! almost a full hour. it usually leads to him falling asleep wherever he’s sitting though.

abigail chambers ( bioscience scientist )

abigail has no time to sit down with nothing to do. she’s got things to do, people to see, and work that needs to get done! who needs rest? definitely not her (it’s definitely her).

quinn higuchi verger ( courier six )

like, five minutes, tops. he can sit down for a quick second and be fine but if nothing is stimulating his brain, he will be a menace. when the first minute kicks in, he’ll start fidgeting and bouncing his leg, by the second minute my man has to do something or he’ll explode. his brain got so fucked up by benny that his untreated adhd basically makes it impossible for him to just do nothing for any period of time. he has to do something; whether it’s collecting mugs for muggy, petting rattle, or cleaning every spec of dust off his weapons.

agnes higuchi verger ( mercenary )

unlike her twin brother, agnes actually loves to sit down with nothing to do. being a mercenary means you’re on your feet most of the time, and making your own clothes means you’re sitting and still working. so, really, she’ll take not doing something for once and just sit for an hour simply relaxing and daydreaming about whatever (bonus points if she gets to cuddle her girlfriend while at it.)

sycamore higuchi ( vault 76 wastelander )

honestly, they’re prone to sit for hours on end and do nothing but stare out into the open. they’re prone to sudden bursts of the inability to still and won’t be able to sit for more than a few minutes without doing something. it’s also 50/50 for them.

rory lavender ( former vault-tec scientist )

sitting down tinkering with weapons is his job, physically cannot just sit around and not do something. he’ll do nothing when they’re dead or asleep.

rattle ( quinn’s pet nightstalker )

rattle is just a little creature who shares the same inability sit still as her owner. she’ll sleep for an hour and jump right back up to bother anyone or anything she can.

egan ( hybrid deathclaw )

egan can sit for hours without nothing to do. being part aquatic, his favorite past time is to rest underwater and just watch the fog and the angler lights move across the surface of lakes.

rowan ( sycamore’s ( deceased ) deathclaw )

rowan was trained to hold still, stalk, and watch for potential dangers; so truly, similar to egan; he also had no qualms over sitting still and was able to hold position for just as long, though far more eerily still like a gargoyle statue.

a. why are you excited about this character?

BOY HOWDY DO I HAVE SO MUCH TO SAY ABOUT THIS. i adore all my ocs equally and they all make me just as excited when i talk about every each one of them, but for this, i’ll set the stage lights on quinn and lecter.

for one, lecter was the first fallout oc i ever made. he was originally a sole survivor, but as time went on and i played thru far harbor, i noticed that the main story for sole survivor didn’t click with me and i didn’t enjoy this pre-made story set on my character, so i turned him into a synth sole, and eventually, into his own oc, who was raised by longfellow and was later replaced by a synth (unbeknownst to synth lecter). his story is one of not feeling as though he belongs. that he’s a burden, unwanted, and a mistake; something that’s symbolized through his hastily put together framework. and his story progression and development just make me proud of him, even more so when some of his mental health and sentiments about himself are part of my own, i’m proud to see my little dude heal. i’m proud to make him his own oc to the fallout universe.

i played fallout 4 thru my formative years, and i also played fallout new vegas thru my formative years, and out of the two i think new vegas has left an even bigger impact on me because i can’t even think of that game without getting emotional. and that’s why, my courier quinn, is so beloved and special to me. he’s unhinged, he’s insane, he’s a menace and i love him for it. despite playing this franchise for so long i didn’t fully develop quinn’s behavior and personality until now and i wouldn’t have it any other way with how he turned out as a character. he’s an immature lil mf with a sassy tongue and i love it. i’ve developed even a whole ancestry line for him and I’m so invested in his family tree as a whole. there is so, so much to him as a character as there is as a creation of mine that i hold extremely close to me. like, i can’t even fathom playing new vegas without just making quinn over and over again lol.

not to mention that you gifted me fallout new vegas when we met, @valentineenjoyer, so that also makes both the game and quinn a super, super cherished memory. ;)

#asks #asks meme #oc lore #fallout 4 #fallout new vegas #fallout 76 #fallout games #fallout ocs #:3 #i would’ve added mads black but i have not a single clue what his personality even is yet 😭😭

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hanazuma-inactive · 3 years

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Hello, can i request with 2 characters? It's Semi and Ushijima with top male reader. Reader and Ushijima are couple. Their relationship is mostly Ushi being sub and will do anything reader told him to. Also reader a bit manipulative? Well it's easy for him to make someone do his bidding.

Reader told Ushi to touch himself inside an empty room while reader watching him and he order him not to cum without his instructions. Earlier that day, Reader told Semi to come to the room after school end and when he did appeared, he saw Ushi playing with his own body. The sight made him hard and reader whispering things that stimulate him more and usher him to mess up Ushi.

Reader enjoying the scene because he knew that Semi has feelings for Ushi and he's happy because he get a new toy to play with. After Semi cum inside Ushi, Reader pull him toward himself and pounding him hard till he collapse from the overstimulation. Also reader didn't neglect his boyfriend that's been begging him to fuck him and let him cum.

wrapped around your fingers, (nsfw) ushijima x top!reader x semi

pronouns: he/him (FEMALE ORIENTED DNI!)

warnings: degradation, 3 some, hella manipulation, adultery kinda (?), daddy kink a little, there's also some dumbification and some random usual top reader kinks i slapped in there and publuc sex kinda me thinks

a/n: i love these types of request, dark but definitely fun to write, i lean bottom but this was still really 🛐

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"c'mon semi, look at your crush over there~ all riled up, touching himself, and begging to cum. won't you help him out a little?" you said pointing at ushijima, still with a vibrator inside his ass.

"y/n, p-please stop… this isn't right and you know it."

"oh i know very well it isn't, but who the fuck is gonna come and stop me? certainly not you with that hard-on in your pants."

you wanted to ruin ushijima more and more everyday, that's why you came up with the plan of completely breaking his mind with a particular someone else in mind. semi eita, one of the setters for the volleyball team. you knew he had a crush on ushijima ever since second year but ushi chose you over him. his feelings didn't die away and in fact it probably grew stronger than before. you wanted to take this chance to also mess with him a little, and see what kind of interesting scene will happen in front of your eyes.

bored, once again. it wasn't because you weren't satisfied with the relationship you had, you just simply wanted more risk and fun in it. ushijima is a very nice boyfriend even if he can be dense sometimes. he's obedient, especially to you. whatever you ask of him he'll almost always do it without fail. whether it was in the streets or in the sheets. the two of you were just out eating ramen till the filthy idea came rushing into your head.

after going home, you told your boyfriend to wait for you in the storage room afterschool tomorrow and answer a video chat with only his video on. you whispered some questionable instructions into his ears and handed over him a small box for him to put in his backpack later. you told him not to open the box until tomorrow and he listened like a good boy. the rest of the night went on as usual but you were excited to see what will happen tomorrow.

during class the next day you continued to remind ushijima about last night and told him to make sure not to forget about what's suppose to happen later today. while you were enjoying lunch with your boyfriend you nearly forgot to inform the other person about this. you strolled in the semi's classroom casually and walked over to his desk finding him writing the homework that hasn't even been assigned yet.

"heyyy semi, how's it going?" you said with a sly look on your face.

"oh hey y/n, i'm doing fine, do you need something?" semi said putting his pen down.

"i was wondering if you had time afterschool today?"

"i'm afraid not, i have something to attend to after school today, sorry about that."

"are you sure you can't come? i would really appreciate it if you do, it's something quite important."

"i really wish i could but i wouldn't want to push this off either-"

"wakatoshi is going to be there."

the air stiffened around the classroom as you saw semi tighten his fist. you knew he couldn't resist ushijima, and you didn't want to have to pull out this card either but he left you no choice. you can and will do anything to get what you want. semi turned his head but gave you a light nod in return. that was his signal of submission.

"i'll see you 15min after school on the balcony~" you said with a smug look and your hands inside your pocket.

the rest of your classes were so boring you nearly fell asleep. you wanted to get outta there and just carry out the rest of your plan. you were horny and you couldn't do anything about it, the thought of just fucking ushijima on his desk came into your mind a few times but was quickly brushed away after a while.

you quickly left your seat after class after giving your boyfriend a kiss on the forehead and a small wink. you headed over to the balcony of the school while ushijima headed over to the storage room waiting for your video call. ushijima found out what you gave him in the little box and understood exactly what you meant. he loosened himself up and put in the vibrator at a low setting just like you asked. he then dialed your phone with nothing on but his shirt.

"y-y/n, i did what you asked, is this good enough?" ushijima said with little moans coming out of his mouth.

"that's it good boy, such a little slut for me aren't you?"

ushi nodded his head while attempting to push the vibrator deeper inside him.

"remember now, no cumming until i say so, alright darling?"

"yes sir h-hah~"

you let out a low giggle and put your phone inside your pocket on mute to greet the grey hair male in front of you.

"hey semi, you're here."

"yes, where is ushijima? i need to go soon."

"woah woah what's the rush? follow me, i'll lead you to him."

semi was confused by what you meant but followed anyways. you led him to the storage room and told him to open the door himself. semi's heart began to race, afraid of what might be behind that door. his hands shook at the handle but eventually gained the courage to open it. he closed his eyes and pushed the door to see a heavenly sight he wouldn't even have seen in his dreams.

ushijima was on the floor wearing nothing but a t-shirt, his eyes closed, moaning your name and playing with his nipples. you ordered him to not cum without your permission so there he is. left on the floor alone, edging himself, desperate to be a good boy for you. ushijima opened his eyes after hearing the door of the storage room creak. out of panic he covered his hard cock and sat up straight, only to find one of his best friends and his boyfriend standing in front of him.

"y-y/n? semi? what are you guys doing here?!"

"aww look at you, following my instructions, good boy."

"y-y/n! what is this?!"

"hey darling, i never said you could stop, did i? now go on, keep pleasuring yourself, and if you do a good job i might just let you cum~"

"y-yes daddy…" ushijima said as he returned to the position he was in before.

"y/n! what are you doing! w-why did you even bring me here!" semi shouted out of rage.

"c'mon semi, look at your crush over there~ all riled up, touching himself, and begging to cum. won't you help him out a little?" you said pointing at ushijima.

"p-please stop… this isn't right and you know it."

"oh i know very well it isn't, but who the fuck is gonna come and stop me? certainly not you with that hard-on in your pants."

you were right, semi cock couldn't have been harder in his life. seeing his crush fucking himself with a vibrator and begging like a slut. he just couldn't control himself anymore. semi took off his pants and his cock bounced out of his underwear. he didn't even bother lubing himself up, he wanted to make ushi hurt, make him suffer for choosing you over him. while all of this was happening you were simply just an audience, enjoying the show put in front of you.

"yah fuck you, fucking slut… such a pretty little whore for y/n over there huh? fucking take my cock bitch!" semi grunted. you could hear the rage coming from his voice and that only excited you more.

ushijima was already out of breath, busy being fucked by semi. eyes rolled back, his tongue sticking out and his soft, overstimulated dick bouncing each time semi shoved further into him.

you walked over to semi and whispered into his ear.

"how good does it feel? to finally get what you wanted after so long."

"shut the fuck up, a-ah you fucking bastard!" semi said as he came into your boyfriend, grunting and moaning out of anger.

at this point ushijima was pretty much passed out but you haven't had your fun yet. while semi was trying to catch his breath, you quietly unbuckled your belt behind him and revealed your hard cock. you grabbed semi's hands behind him quickly and shoved your dick right into his ass, with no lube whatsoever.

"a-ah! what the fuck y/n fucking- let me go! what are you h-hah~"

"wow…look at you semi, just like your little crush over there you are also now getting fucked like a slut huh?" you said in a teasing manner.

"fuck off a-ah… why are you doing this!"

"oho? tired of playing nice are we? this is simply just payback, for fucking my boyfriend dumb. in return, i'm going to do the same for you~"

if semi actually had the strength to fight back he would. however with the giant cock head hitting his prostate over and over again it makes it hard for him to even talk. you kept whispering sweet words into semi's ears telling him how good of a slut he is, fucking someone's brains out and immediately getting the same treatment. sooner or later you fucked the male onto the floor, ass filled with cum and so broken that he can't even stand up anymore.

and there they were, both of your playthings, wrapped around your finger.

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bigskydreaming · 4 years

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I have a question. In one of your recent posts, you said that trigger warnings come from a place of obligation and not true caring. I agree with you that a lot of the time, that’s true. Which can be concerning. But my question is that at the end of the day, does the person’s reasoning matter? Maybe they’re an awful rude person but if they’ve tagged their stuff, made it easy to see what’s gonna be in the fic, doesn’t that still help? Even if coming from a rude place. The end result is good

Well sure, any time a trigger warning is a benefit to someone, it doesn’t really matter what the reasoning for making it was. Absolutely.

My point there was the problem is one of priorities, and approach. And bottom line, a person who is only tacking on expected trigger warnings out of a sense of covering their own ass, like......they’re not ever likely to be examining their own work with an eye towards the kinds of negative effects it could potentially have on people, because they’re too busy denying that there’s any possible negative impact it could have at all. Despite the fact that this is just willful obliviousness - if fic can have a positive effect on people and inspire or reinforce positive ideas, it has just as much power and likelihood to have a negative effect on people and inspire or reinforce negative ideas. Its not about a one to one correlation, like, its not like anything someone reads in fic they’re going to do, but as pieces of a larger fandom culture? That absolutely adds up and contributes to the normalization and perpetuation and spread of negative ideas and ideologies.

And this is the kind of self-scrutiny an over-reliance on trigger warnings gets in the way of....because its just accepted or taken as fact that trigger warnings ARE the solution....despite all the times and ways people speak up to say well there’s a problem here because this alleged solution is not working here and here and here and over here too.

But someone who’s convinced they ALREADY did their due diligence by tacking on a couple trigger warnings is never going to be as receptive to being told they missed some, as someone who approaches things from a perspective of understanding that trigger warnings are not infallible, they’re only effective when an author has an HONEST view of their own work.

(And if fandom was truly engaging in a lot of this content honestly, as I’ve said, tags like dub-con and pseudo-incest and consensual underaged sex would not be as widely used as they are in the ways that they’re most often used.....ways that are categorically NOT what those things mean and advertise).

And most importantly, trigger warnings as they’re used by fandom now, like....have kinda become an excuse for authors to try and abdicate any responsibility for what they write. “Oh, I used trigger warnings, so any impact my fic has on someone has nothing to do with me past that point.....unless of course its a positive impact, in which case I’m still more than happy to soak up the praise.”

And that’s just not how it works. You know that thing I said in an earlier post about how all writing is just another form of communicating things - to ourselves in journals, to others in stories or emails or messages.....bottom line, writing has one purpose: to convey ideas, meanings, etc between the person writing and the person or people they’re writing TO or sharing that writing WITH.

In essence, a fic that you’ve written and then decided to POST, to publish, to put out in the world in some form and share with others.....at that point, it stops being a conversation with just yourself and becomes a conversation that’s being had with anyone and everyone who then reads that fic....even if it is a one-sided conversation for the most part, with others just listening to what ideas and thoughts and images and impressions you’re conveying via your writing.

And think of it in terms of like, literally ANY conversation you might have out loud.

If you say something offensive, is it anyone’s fault or responsibility other than yours, that you said something that was offensive?

If you say something you don’t actually believe, but don’t follow it up with anything that actually indicates out loud that this isn’t something you genuinely believe, is it realistic to pretend that people have no basis for listening to what you actually SAID and from that drawing conclusions about what you believe or support?

If you say something that’s in direct opposition to something you said earlier, is it any wonder if people question which you ACTUALLY meant or believe MORE, or just flat out don’t believe what you said earlier now?

If you say something insensitive or even cruel, do you have any right or reasonable expectation why anybody who hears you shouldn’t be within their rights to call you out for what you said and why it was fucked up?

If you choose NOT to say something, out of respect for someone you’re around, or because you know its insensitive or offensive or anything of the sort....are you being censored, or are you just choosing not to be a douchebag?

And so on and so on.

Writers have a tendency to kinda hide behind the logic “not everything we write has to be something we personally believe, we can write characters who have very different values than us” - and that’s absolutely true....but only up to a certain point.

Because you can absolutely write a CHARACTER who believes the opposite of stuff you actually believe or value.....but your NARRATIVE still has to refute that somewhere at some point in some way.....otherwise.....there is literally no reason why anyone reading that, ‘hearing’ what you spoke into the world, would think you DON’T actually believe that. You’ve communicated something toxic or ugly or even harmful or predatory....without accompanying it with ANY communicated idea as to why a reader SHOULDN’T just absorb those ideas as is.

Like.....if you write a rape fic that’s INTENDED to be received as sexy or hot, even if you’re not actually condoning rape within the fic, and even if you would never condone it in real life.....

If your fic still garners comments like “that’s so hot” or something like that, and this isn’t a problem for you because this is a reaction you expected or even a response you intended or were seeking?

You didn’t say or express that you would ever rape someone or say it was okay to rape someone.

But you still communicated, without any kind of self-contradiction:

“Hey, here is a scenario in which rape is hot.”

And whether you’re talking about fiction or reality, why WOULDN’T that communicated idea be anything other than wildly insensitive and yes, even offensive and yes even DAMAGING to many rape survivors....even if you’re one yourself?

Like.....another example, okay so I’ve literally been gaybashed, nobody’s likely to ever accuse me of being homophobic, its a pretty safe bet, right? But if I write a fic FOR WHATEVER REASON, in which a character is homophobic even though I’m not myself, but where a character expresses toxic, prejudicial, HARMFUL ideas about being gay....and then my fic nowhere at any point says or does anything to REFUTE or contest those harmful ideas......why would the fact that I don’t actually believe those things make ANY difference whatsoever in terms of whether those things were absorbed by readers in the exact way I communicated them....but without the benefit of any of the reasons I KNOW - but did not communicate in the fic - that they’re harmful and shouldn’t be paid attention to?

So yes, fiction absolutely can do harm, if its not treated with the appropriate responsibility. It can make people who’ve never met someone who’s Muslim decide all Muslim people are terrorists. It can convince people that destructive, harmful instances of incest are actually the outliers and most incest is harmless and between equals. It can normalize the idea that all bisexual people are slutty and promiscuous. It can do tons more beside all that.

And yes, fic absolutely can and often DOES, in fandom, communicate the idea that many of the exact same people who swear they support survivors and have nothing but sympathy for what they went through and all that....can in the right scenarios and circumstances still find the very IDEA of rape hot and exciting, can find the IMAGERY of a hot or sexy character being raped to be sexually stimulating and gratifying and DESIRED, and so on and so forth.

And why wouldn’t that communicated idea make someone question if you’re someone they can ever be comfortable being around, because one way or another, you still found and advertised, broadcast, invited others to join in enjoying.....a scenario in which something an awful lot like that someone’s trauma was hot or sexy to you just as long as it was projected on someone else - a distance which may not matter to them or make them feel any better about the fact that you’re still talking about one of the worst things to ever happen to them, but skewing it in a way where every thing actually being said isn’t about how its bad or wrong or nothing you’d ever condone....but hot and titillating and sexy?

Why wouldn’t it bother someone or weird them out that you see no conflict of interest between having sympathy for them but then flipping a switch and happily consuming content that’s entirely and unilaterally just about characters going through the exact same kind of thing.....and the viewpoint you’re siding with in this particular instance is that of like....the actual attacker, the one going yes, this is good?

ALL OF THESE are the kinds of questions - and the kind of impact - that not only do trigger warnings just flat out not cover....but that the over-reliance on trigger warnings makes less and less likely to even pop up in a writer’s brain as something worth considering or weighing at all.

So again, like I said at the top - I mean yeah, if a trigger warning is actually helpful to someone, it doesn’t matter WHY it was added or put in place.

But if it wasn’t put in place out of a genuine self-examination of your work and a genuine desire to look out for readers’ comfort and take responsibility for the kind of heavy content you’re choosing to write and share.....

Chances are, the fact that one trigger warning did work for one person or however many, was just a stroke of luck and there’s likely to be a dozen other ways in which that writer failed to consider or even ask themselves....is there anything else I should recognize and acknowledge as potentially having a negative impact on people?

And please, if you read or write dark fic for any reason, you don’t owe me an explanation but you owe it to yourself to at least take a second and honestly ask yourself if you’ve EVER stopped to ask or examine any of the above questions or angles. And if not, why? Ask yourself if you’ve ever been encouraged or had it suggested by others in fandom to even just ask or wonder about these things. And if not, why?

Please examine - who benefits MOST in all of this, from encouraging more and more readers and writers to just NOT think about ANY of this stuff at all, and to instead just shut down any and all conversation about it or attempts to START conversations like this......

Other than people who like and enjoy this type of content and genuinely just do not care about the impact it might have on others....and so similarly, want as few other people as possible to care or even THINK about the impact it might have on others....and thus, maximize the number of people who absent those considerations, have no problem contributing to or enjoying that type of content?

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denimini · 6 years

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You do realise at how Jm was looking at some of the better physique interviewers and talking abt Mendes happily when Jk was right there!?!?! I really think Jk deserves someone better. not someone who sees him as a "loyal subordinate" or likes him for his "mind". Jm has been so upsetting drg these interviews. Stay strong, JK! This trip will be a hard one for you.

I debated with myself whether or not I should answer this ask and to what extent as I’ve seen it going around and a lot of good bloggers have already shared their thoughts on it. But I decided that one more doesn’t hurt and repeated questions like this actually give an opportunity for the matter to be discussed from all sides. So even though I doubt you will read this, Anon, I still wanted to address it more for myself and my followers than for you. So here we go

I’ll start with a question that is bugging me quite a lot and that I find problematic:

Why is Jimin never enough for some people, in general and regarding Jungkook?

When Jimin smiles a lot, you say he’s “flirting all the time” or in extreme cases that he is “a slut”. When he doesn’t smile, then “he hates America” or “hates white people”. When he shows his affection to Jungkook, posting pictures of him with special hashtags, talking about him or hugging him, you say “he is the only one who initiates things”, that JK “only tolerates him”, how “Jimin should move on”. When he is more passive and lets Jungkook be the instigator or give attention to someone else, people go “Jungkook is not special to him”, “Jimin does this to everyone”, “He is only playing with him”. Part of this fandom is never satisfied with Jimin. Either he’s giving too much or too less. Even if he just sits still and breathes people still find things to be upset about and blame him for. He just can never win.

How can anyone even have doubts about how special Kookie is to Jimin, how adored, loved and spoiled with attention, care and affection he is by him, I will never understand. There is never an interview or a vlive nowadays where JM is not praising him; he is always the first to compliment and hype him, to push him when Kook needs it, to support him. Jungkook himself said Jimin is his biggest stimulant on and off stage. He himself specifically chose “There for you” to describe their relationship: a song about always supporting someone and them always having your back. Are we talking about the same Jimin who didn’t leave Jungkook’s side when he almost fainted? The same person who goes most frequently to JK’s room and spends the most money on him (Jungkook’s words)? The exact same man who was ready to sleep on the floor for Kookie, who gambled his own money so that Kook doesn’t stay hungry? Do we have the same Park Jimin in mind or did some of you get confused?

Don’t even get me started on how much compliments Jimin has said about Kookie, how much he has hugged him or touched him (on his neck, his waist, his ass, his thighs, his face etc). So much so that there are whole compilations just of him playing with Jungkook’s butt on stage at the end of DNA. JUST on stage. He is so touchy and loving with him that more often than not it looks like he can’t keep his hands to himself. I don’t know about you but it looks to me Jimin quite likes what he sees in Jungkook.

The two particular examples you give all have an explanation behind them:

“The loyal subordinate”: a teasing comment made in the same day when coincidentally Jimin couldn’t keep his eyes off JK’s face (he scanned his features with his eyes, stopping at his lips).

If you look for a deeper explanation other than that JM was simply joking, then here’s one for you: For YEARS Jimin was said to be chasing Jungkook around while Kook supposedly “hated him”. Of course, we know that was never the case, they were close even before debut but people even to this day like to repeat the same old story. Jimin, being the social media king he is, is of course aware of this. Do you imagine how hard it must be to give affection to someone (who you know loves you as well) and see a thousand comments about how he hates you? Do you realize how painful it could’ve been for him to see this all over the Internet even when he knows that it’s not true?

So from time to time he likes to remind us how special he is to the Bunny, how appreciated he is and how none of the bullsh*t is true by saying things like “Jungkookie always comes to my room”, “Jungkookie only gave a present to me”, “Jungkookie bought the tickets (for the Tokyo trip)”, “He is my loyal subordinate”. He does it to show people that JK does in fact care a lot for him and that no, their affection is not one-sided. Maybe he does it because he is aware how Jungkook struggles (or struggled) with expressing feelings with words or simply because he is happy with their close relationship and wants to boast about it. But I assure you, in no way is he treating Kook like a servant. Yeah, maybe he likes being spoiled by him but I think as much as he likes receiving, Jungkook likes giving. Example:

JM: Jungkook will pay (for his parents’ celebration)

JK /confidently/: I CAN do it !!!

So, I don’t think there’s any taking advantage of anyone in this relationship. Jimin babies Jungkookie a lot and in the same time he gives him a lot of privileges. So much so that JK feels they’re the same mental age and often speaks to him informally and casually. (a big thing in SK as you all know)

“The mind” comment: First to clear things up - Jimin didn’t say “he likes Jungkook for his mind” only. He was asked to name a physical feature of Kook but he chose his mind instead.

To me this is such a precious moment actually. Jimin’s said numerous times how attractive and sexy Jungkook is and has admired his physique. A comment about his lips or smile would be nothing new to me and wouldn’t get me so excited. Instead of just giving a generic answer about a part of his body (which we know he appreciates, given the above examples of how much and often he touches said body), Jimin complimented Jungkook’s brain, his way of thinking, (something JK himself said he loves about his own self). Kookie, just like Jimin, is someone who is sexualised and objectified A LOT in the fandom, even in his most vulnerable times, for example when he almost fainted. He is not really known or usually praised for his mind, rather for his body and athleticism. He is often degraded to just his looks or a shipping tool. Which makes Jimin’s comment a lot more meaningful and impactful. There’s a saying that goes well with his answer: “If you want to give a good compliment, call a person who is often regarded as beautiful smart and a person who is always praised as smart beautiful”. Or another one, that I really like and find especially fitting: “I’m in love with your universe”.

There’s no doubt in me whatsoever that Jimin loves Jungkook’s universe. Not just his body, or his handsome face but also his talent, his goofiness, his whole self.

Finally about JM and men in America. He complimented an admittedly gorgeous singer, he found an interviewer attractive, he smiled and giggled and was amazingly charming. All behavior that is not foreign to him. Sure, you may say he is more open and expressive but assume he truly is attracted to men. He’s a celebrity and his every action is scrutinized. Idols dating always brings scandal but being a gay/bi one is a sure way to risk your career if you get exposed. If he truly is not straight, that is a big part of himself that he must protect. He might “hide” behind fan service and skin ship but he can’t really be open about his attractions considering his status and that Korea is still homophobic. Which is why his ideal type is always a girl and why Jungkook is often referred as “his brother”. The U.S.A might not be paradise but it’s a lot more accepting and open which gives him the chance to act more like he maybe wishes he could in other countries but can’t. Hence why he may seem “wilder”, “more flirty” and etc. But why are people acting like this is the first time he found someone good looking or as if he’s offering himself to sleep with these men, is beyond me. He is just being his charming and attractive self, it’s who he is but maybe in America we see him a little bit less guarded.

What he’s done so far is not a crime or something to be concerned about even if he is romantically involved with Jungkook. In fact anyone who has ever been in a serious relationship will tell you that you don’t just stop finding people beautiful. You still have eyes, you can still admire someone and think they are hot, you can even have innocent crushes. You’d just never do anything about those things because you’re happy with what you have. You’re only admiring. I’ve had a serious boyfriend for years and I gush about Jimin to him, sometimes I even say to him “wow, what a sexy man” or “what a pretty girl” and he to me. It doesn’t faze us that the other can appreciate beauty in another person from a distance. Beauty is beauty and that’s that. Of course these are personal examples and I can’t speak for Jimin and Jungkook but I think many people who are seriously committed will agree with me on this.

As a conclusion what I’m trying to say is that Jimin has shown plenty of times his admiration, affection and attraction to Jungkook. In fact I’ve written a whole post about this HERE. So there is no need to exaggerate and over dramatize. And also, please stop treating PJM like he is only looking for someone to sleep with. He might be but we don’t have a way to know. From what I see he’s just being his gorgeous self and people are bound to find him attractive and fall for him. I mean, he exudes sex appeal (and many more things) naturally so that’s a given.

To all the Jikook shippers out there reading this (very long, sorry) answer I’ll say to consider this: Jimin may smile and giggle and raise his perfect eyebrows at anyone but there’s only one Jeon Jungkook who can turn him into a shy, flustered, blushing mess with just a simple sentence and the change of his voice’s tone.

Exhibit A: “Jimin-ssi”, “Jimin-ssi”, “Jimin-ssi”

Exhibit B: “Where do you think you’re going?”

Exhibit C: “Jiminie-hyung was acting”

Exhibit D: “Who’s the cake for.. I want to eat it, it looks delicious”

Exhibit E: “I can tease Jiminie hyung to no end”

Exhibit F: “Do you hear my heart beating?”

I can give you an example for every letter in the alphabet, both in English and in my native language. Peace

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Wouldn't it be great if each and every single individual that clicked one of your posts review it from beginning to end, incapable of drawing their eyes away from the display?

I think we both recognize the solution to that concern.

To attain this goal, however, you should understand the art of article writing exciting intros.

Wait for a second; you're thinking and writing introductions? Isn't that sort of a small detail of a 2,000-word article?

Your article introduction is not tiny information.

The introduction to your article is typically the distinction between interesting readers and having a bounce price high enough to make a click-baiter cringe.

Consider it. You'll shed them if you don't grab your visitors right away.

You experienced all that work of content writing an excellent article, right? You worked hard at it. You spent a great deal of time on it. You did a heap of research.

If your introduction draws, your initiatives will certainly be all for nothing.

You shed prior to you even began!

If you intend to compose great content, improve the success of your advertising campaigns, and boost the loyalty of your followers, you need to master writing intros.

Allow me to show you exactly how.

1. Master the opening line

To have a solid introduction, you require to open with a strong initial sentence.

The millisecond your visitor strikes the web page, they have a very high possibility of leaving the page.

Data claims so.

The initial sentence has one single objective: to entice the reader to read the following sentence. In doing so, it sets the tone for the remainder of the article, hooking the viewers in, one action at once.

If you fall short at this, your readers won't scroll.

This is a histogram revealing how far people scroll via Slate article pages. Each bar represents the share of individuals that quit scrolling at a specific place in the article. (An article is assumed to be around 2000 pixels long; if the top of your internet browser home window gets to the 2000-pixel mark, you're counted as scrolling 100% with the article. The X-axis most likely to 120% since on many pages, there's normally things listed below the 2000-pixel mark, like the remarks area.)

This graph consists of people that spent any time involved with the page whatsoever (users that "jumped" from the page right away after touchdown on it are not stood for.) The graph reveals that many Slate visitors do not scroll in any way. That's the spike at the 0% mark, standing for regarding 5% of readers. Most site visitors scroll concerning midway via a regular Slate tale. The spike near completion is an abnormality brought on by pages, including photos as well as video clips - on those web pages; individuals scroll with the entire page.

As well as if they don't scroll, they won't engage.

Take a look at this article by Dilbert author Scott Adams to see just how the initial sentence is done.

He composes this:

I went from being a negative writer to a good writer after taking a one-day training course in "service writing."

That's a fantastic opening line.

Why? Because it makes me would like to know more!

- How did he come to be an excellent writer?

- What did he discover?

- Could I take advantage of it too?

Adams accomplished. He attracted us in by making us ask questions.

The remaining 980 words of your article will be a complete waste if you do not understand just how to craft an intriguing initial sentence.

Save your writing introduction suggestions in one place across all the paper applications you make use of.

With a couple of easy methods, the good news is for you, writing an incredible initial sentence can be rather simple.

The very first point to bear in mind is that you want to maintain the first sentence brief. This makes it very easy for the visitor to digest the first littles details and stops them from wearying swiftly.

But there is even more to it than that.

It would be best if you made certain that the very first sentence orders the visitor's attention as well as holds it for the remainder of the article.

Below are a number of reliable techniques that produce incredibly compelling, very first lines.

Ask the reader an inquiry.

This is a simple method to get the viewers' focus and get them engaged without a great deal of effort.

For instance, if you are writing an article on stopping your job as well as starting your own business, you could open with the inquiry: "Did you recognize that practically 70% of Americans report being proactively disengaged from their jobs?"

Why does this work?

It concerns the brain's "limbic incentive system."

When this system is triggered, dopamine is released. And also, dopamine gives us a sense of benefit and pleasure.

When we are fascinated by an inquiry, i.e., experience a sense of curiosity, the limbic benefit system brightens. Which's why we intend to keep reading - it's rewarding to please curiosity.

Writer Olga Khazan asks an inquiry that's on everybody's mind, causing the visitor to be instantaneously interested.

We desire to recognize the response to that inquiry, so we maintain reading.

That's why a question is an excellent opening line. You can also make use of the inquiry as to the article title.

Inform a story

The mind likewise illuminates when it comes across a tale.

According to the theory of neural coupling, particular portions of the brain are triggered when a reader believes regarding the very same psychological as well as exercise that a character in a tale is doing.

James Clear normally begins his blog posts with a story, typically a true tale.

The story makes his viewers curious about the article and keeps them reading to the actual end.

Make use of a surprising quote.

An additional excellent method to begin your article is to make use of an attention-grabbing quote.

Allow's say you are writing an article on world traveling. A fantastic method to present the article would undoubtedly be with the quote from Helen Keller:

" Life is a daring experience, or absolutely nothing at all."

Tell the viewers to visualize

Stimulating the imagination is a quick way to attract the visitor right into the experience of the article.

Notification just how this article from Wired For Story begins:

The viewers attempt to comply with the essential by visualizing. This initiative urges the visitor to review further, attracting them into the article.

Writers for The Atlantic are skills at their craft. This writer does the very same thing - asking the visitor to think of it.

Share a fascinating reality.

When the Internet is so rife with crappy details and deceitful "masters," individuals are hesitant in a day and age. They have every factor to be.

Opening your article with a pertinent truth or fact is a wonderful method to develop depend on as well as authority from the first sentence and also let viewers understand you've done your research.

1. Have something one-of-a-kind to state

Okay, so you've crafted an excellent, very first sentence, as well, as you have your reader's interest.

Currently what?

Now, you need to hold that interest by having something unusual and fascinating to claim.

Very few individuals take time and energy regularly to generate new, thought-provoking content. You'll set on your own apart from the herd in a huge method if you do.

Neglect re-purposing of old articles or rewriting things from various other individuals' internet sites. You have to state something they've never listened to prior to if you want to have the visitor's regard and interest.

Unfortunately, a great deal of right stuff you read today has actually been spewed 28 times previously.

Let's imagine you run a traveling blog. Based on my suggestions, you write a number of 3,000-word comprehensive "How-To Guides."

Whenever a reader opens your guide on funding their first-round the globe trip, they'll expect to read all concerning airline company benefits programs, frugality, and bank card points.

Which information is terrific, yet it is likewise really common.

A better intro would certainly be something like this:

Exactly how would you such as to save up enough money in the following 6 months to spend every one of 2017 taking a trip the globe?

That would certainly be pretty epic?

Well, this is entirely feasible, and in today's article, I am most likely to show you just how you can do this.

It's not by avoiding your morning cappuccino or investing hundreds of dollars with your credit score cards on a few hundred miles, either.

I will show you how you can develop a life of flexibility and freedom by leveraging the abilities you already have, tactically picking your locations, and using an unfamiliar tax obligation secret that will conserve you countless dollars!

Sound good? Allow's reach it.

It's tough to be different. I recognize that.

In some cases, to create distinct stuff, we merely have to function harder, assume much longer, and research study greater than our competitors.

Right here are some means you can develop that unique voice in your article introduction:

- Share an individual tale or fact. You're the only you there is. You can share a tale or experience no person else can. One means to tell such a tale is to compose, "If you recognize me ...".

- Get your feelings in it. People have a psychological reaction to feelings. Individuals often tend to respond when we communicate our feelings in our writing. Emotion is additionally a one-of-a-kind as well as an individual thing. How do you connect this in an intro? Easy: "Want to know how I really feel about it? I feel ...".

- Share your objectives or vision. If you have a directing goal or vision permanently, you can communicate this in your intro. "That's one of the factors I composed this article. My goal in life is to ...".

- Make a guarantee. A guarantee is an eye-catching and individual point. Provide your viewers with a contract, and also, it will protect their loyalty and also their interest. "I assure you that I'll do my dead-level ideal to ...".

Distinct isn't easy. It's worth it.

2. Keep it easy.

We live in a globe where most individuals have a focus span of just a few seconds.

Apparently, our focus period is obtaining much shorter!

After a few secs, we get tired and also go on to the following glossy object.

Make sure your existing points as just as possible if you desire your viewers to make time in their days to read what you have to claim.

Longer posts, obviously, deserve longer intros. However, it's important to respect individuals' time and attention. You can not transform what is (people's attention deficit disorder) by writing a lengthy introduction based on what needs to be (longer interest spans).

Stay clear of babbling regarding how terrific your information is, and also share it currently!

3. Talk directly to the viewers.

Whenever you are writing academic products for other individuals, you wish to utilize the words "you" as much (and also as normally) as feasible.

In this article, I've made use of some variation of words you more than 100 times. Why? Because I'm speaking to you! I want you to know this info. I desire you to benefit from it.

By highlighting the word "you" in your article, you show the reader you are straight resolving them and also their situation and not just writing a generic article to the general people.

Yet there's another side to this. I must describe myself as well. My objective is to convey an individual feel to this article. It's me chatting with you? So it's just natural that I would refer to myself as well.

4. Describe what the article is about.

The factor of an intro is exactly that: to introduce the material that will exist in an article.

I can not tell you the variety of times online posts left me also puzzled me after reviewing a few of their paragraphs.

I could not inform whether the writers were educating me on how to run effective Facebook advertisements or telling me an unusual tale concerning their childhood.

Take a few sentences, and plainly explain what the article is most likely to cover without handing out also much information.

This will build suspense around the subject issue while still allowing your target market to understand what they might be in for.

A terrific example of this originates from the Buffer blog. Notification of how the intro positions an inquiry and also after that suggests responding to that concern.

Your curiosity stays high, but the intro sets the phase.

5. Explain the relevance of the article.

It's currently time to clarify why people should care when you've clarified what the article is.

Every person on the net approaches every new item of info with a simple inquiry: "What's in it for me?".

If you desire to create introductions that hook the viewers and aid your web content go viral, you need to master the art of describing what the reader stands to gain from the info you are sharing - the advantages.

How will it profit your visitors' lives? How will it resolve the trouble they are encountering? Just how will it treat a discomfort they are feeling?

You'll maintain your readers glued to your article till the last word if you understand how to quickly and efficiently answer these concerns.

Verdict.

A couple of things can make or damage your article as quickly as an introduction.

Suppose you can grasp the art of an initial couple of paragraphs. In that case, you'll have the ability to enhance reader involvement, improve sales, and also gain a track record as an incredible writer.

It's not an easy ability to master, yet like many Internet marketing points, it's relatively simple.

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Overall I really enjoyed my experience. The array of disease processes was interesting. Although there were many personalities (Rye, Wilmot), they all seem like friendly people I could see as colleagues I can get along with. I don’t know if I could necessarily be best friends with them, but they would be pleasant. As a medical student, being part of a team with many different levels in the hierarchy was novel and thus exciting mainly because you got to learn from an assortment of people, but I don’t know how that perspective can change as you move up the structure and have more teaching to do (and whether you start to feel that your team is holding your efficiency back).

Lupus patients are so young. The young comatose lupus patient with encephalopathy was riveting because she looked so young and frail, which was in contrast to the general patient population which is older. The 25 year old with a family history of SCA3 (mom and grandma) who then did genetic testing on himself after getting some imbalance problems was also meaningful. He had a really nice smile and kind eyes. He was also exactly my age and facing death in the next 10 years, and I would have liked to be there for him as everything progressed. Dr. Wilmot was telling me that one of his favorite patients was this woman who had died from SCA3, and he got emotional when he was telling me what a zest for life she had, even at the very end when she was paralyzed. They had known each other for around 10 years. That’s something I would like to see and a patient relationship I would like to have.

A Grady patient had suffered an MI with anoxic brain injury and was comatose, and we were consulted to evaluate his prognosis. We did a quick CN exam and looked at his CT and saw infarctions in his occipital/temporal lobe, thus making him likely to be blind/unable to form new memories. This was for the purpose of informing his family later on when they made a decision about whether to keep him on life support. It was really cool to read the CT and predict the kinds of deficits he would have, and before medical school I would’ve thought this was sorcery. But now that I’m more used to this, the excitement of being able to do this feels like it can wear off in the future.

A frustration that neurologists have about their careers is the relative lack of understanding towards many disease processes they treat. In the movement clinic, the majority of treatment is symptomatic only; I didn’t realize that adjusting Sinemet doses in Parkinson’s was so complicated, maybe more so than diabetes; none of this, however, changes the progression of the disease at all. With Dr. Wilmot’s patients, many of them had no treatment options whatsoever and only came in to report the progression of their conditions like spinocerebellar ataxia/alcohol-induced ataxia, etc. However, as a student, I always looked forward to working with him because of the more diverse age range and just how it represented a break from Parkinson’s. I don’t get the impression that many of those diseases will have better treatment options in the near future though. In the afternoon I was with Dr. Aia, 2 of her patients asked her why there was no cure for their disease, and there was nothing she could really say.

I don’t think I would find a career like Dr. Martin’s very stimulating -- her entire day consisted of following up with Parkinson’s patients on their medications, and it gave me the impression of being a glorified pharmacist. At first I was convinced she found her job dull, which I think was a projection. She was a really great person and teacher but I think what I’m realizing is that doling out medications is actually a huge part of being a physician, and it’s one that I find unsavory if it comprises the majority of my practice. I did really like the way she approached these encounters though. I knew she was on a really tight schedule the second time I was with her and expected to see signs of frustration from her when she was seeing patients and running way behind, but she still treated the last patient of the day as equally as the first and made sure they had all their questions answered. Just a reminder that a patient with a condition they would rather not have has likely waited 4 months for an opportunity to meet you (and has probably waited at least 40 min in the waiting room), so whose time is really more important here?

I also don’t know how specialized I want to be -- it would be cool to be the point person for a disease, like Dr. Martin could be for Parkinson’s, but even after a few days in the movement clinic I felt I had already seen a ton of Parkinson’s and that I wanted to see more. Is it better to know a little bit of everything and thus see a little bit of everything but have to refer all the time, or is it better to be that specialist but see a narrower base? Dr. Aia switched from IM to neurology precisely because in today’s malpractice environment, IM doctors basically refer patients left and right to different specialists even if they’re reasonably sure how to proceed, on the off chance that they’re wrong. Not being able to be definitive about something probably wears you down as well.

In general, the younger the patient was the more fascinating it was for me, maybe because it had more implications on what a meaningful life would entail.

I did not feel emotionally worn down by seeing stroke patients or people with neurodegenerative disorders and thought it was something I could manage to see on a daily basis. I didn’t realize that the post-ictal state could look so severe clinically. Although these things didn’t faze me, seeing ICU patients who were mostly not conscious can probably get tiring since the physical exam is short, the treatment plan is limited, and there’s no real opportunity for a connection to be made.

One of the patients I saw was this elderly woman originally from NY. I don’t remember what she had (something disabling I think), but she was telling me about how the reason why she moved to Atlanta was because her son was becoming an adolescent and their entire apartment building was filled with drug dealers who would recruit kids because they were less likely to be caught. She didn’t want him to become like that, so they moved here (single mom). However, her son got diagnosed with MS <5 years later and is now unable to find a job that will hire him, so he lives at home with her. His MS also seems pretty debilitating, and because she was so focused on him she ignored her own neurological symptoms. It was another reminder of the gulf that exists between me and some of these patients, and the only thing I could do was to lend her a listening ear. I don’t even know if she thought it was helpful or if she was just answering my questions because I was asking them. I just thought it was so tragic that she had moved here thinking a better life awaited them, only for both of them to now be on disability with no other caretaker/friend around except for each other. What could I do for them?

It’s also interesting to see how people’s definition of an acceptable baseline of health changes with disease. One patient with MSA (multiple systems atrophy) had severe Parkinsonism (confined to wheelchair, extremely rigid and basically couldn’t move) along with severe orthostatic hypotension (would faint literally whenever he lifted his head up/sat up from lying down). His family was ecstatic that they were able to even treat his orthostatic hypotension and were extremely thankful, saying Emory doctors knew what they were doing -- even though he was still wheelchair-bound and barely able to do anything. He asked if he could increase his Sinemet dose to improve his rigidity, but Dr. Aia explained that increasing it would bring the orthostatic hypotension back, and he was satisfied with that answer.

At Grady, we saw a young black male in his 20’s with neurosyphilis and a Marcus Gunn pupil. Our resident was the one to tell him that he had syphilis, and watching him react to the news was heartbreaking. He was this sweet guy who was alone in a room overcrowded with our entire team in our white coats and yet he took it with quiet dignity. The only sign that he was upset was when tears started rolling down his cheeks a few moments later, but he made no move to wipe them off and made no sounds whatsoever. Later on I found out that he also had HIV. I can only imagine how devastated he felt to be getting this diagnosis at such a young age (on top of the HIV he already had), and what I wished more than anything at that moment was to stay behind and hold his hand. He was so polite the whole time too, nodding at what we were saying and thanking us.

Same deal with the 25 year old guy with SCA3 -- I thought I heard his voice break when he asked if he would end up just like his mom, even though he was smiling the whole time. Dr. Wilmot didn’t really respond to that but I also wished I could have slowed down and taken the time to have a more fleshed out conversation with him about that.

A reminder not to take rude patients personally: One of my patients had a cerebellar stroke 2 weeks ago with subsequently debilitating vertigo/nausea/vomiting and was unable to sleep or hold down food for the past few days. When I went to his room in the ED, I had to wake him up to do the physical exam and he was extremely irritated at me. He didn’t make any move to be friendly, even though he told my male resident to have a blessed day/was way more animated with him, and I thought there was an undercurrent of sexism. So I didn’t really like being in the same room with him that much. However, the next day I went to check up on him, and he recognized me immediately and asked me why I hadn’t come back to see him sooner. He had actually remembered the 3 words I asked him to remember the day before, and had spent time making sure he still remembered so he could tell them to me the next time he saw me. I was really touched by that. He also had done a 180 mood-wise, cracking jokes with me about how he was my favorite patient -- and at that time, his humor and consideration did actually make me unwilling to leave his side. This was all because of the medication he got which controlled his vertigo/nausea so that he could get a solid night’s sleep and eat food for the first time. I need to remember that patients are more than what I see in their room.

I hope the medicine I practice is dynamic (not just constantly adjusting Sinemet regimens or telling patients nothing will likely change w disease treatment in the coming years), meaningful (has to do with patients facing their mortality, or patients with life stories that make you stop and reflect), and effective (not in that the cure is simple, but that there is the hope for that or at least there’s the hope that I can improve someone’s prognosis). I am also increasingly seeing the benefit in being a physician-researcher, even though that is definitely not my strength or necessarily my interest. Seeing hypersomnia patients travel far to see Dr. Rye because he pioneered the study showing that Flumazenil could be effective in hypersomnia (currently used off-label for that) was cool in that he was at the forefront of making new therapies for patients who desperately needed them. Don’t know if that can be me though.

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