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#microaggresions
karokawwo · 7 days
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this is petty but when people say "i understand the nuance behind toshiro but i still don't like him because he was mean to my baby boy laios 🥺" all i hear is "some people yelled at me for being ignorant so i pretend to care about toshiro's nuance but i'm white so i still think he's an awful, ableist piece of shit"
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gritsandbrits · 2 years
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I'm not playing when i say loonatics unleashed was a black cartoon.
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uglygirlstatus · 2 years
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tbh if u aren't part of the bridal party she has no right to tell u what to wear so why not just butch it up 🤷
ik ik ik 🥲 sadly I am still not yet immune to societal pressures
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ciceroballtorture · 1 year
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‘The worst-tempered bit of a sickly slip that ever struggled into its teens. Happily, as Mr. Heathcliff conjectured, he’ll not win twenty. I doubt whether he’ll see spring, indeed. And small loss to his family whenever he drops off.
And lucky it is for us that his father took him: the kinder he was treated, the more tedious and selfish he’d be. I’m glad you have no chance of having him for a husband, Miss Catherine.’
nelly really said i want that homosexual [linton] DEAD. truly a case of a person somewhat unrelated saying KILL YOURSELF
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bigbazoxngas · 2 years
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I dont think we as a fandom talk about Kirins micro-aggression at the campfire enough😶
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egyptroyal · 2 years
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sorry i gotta say
i promise im not a rose anti because rose antis get mad at her simply existing and i get specifically mad at the choices rose made during turn left after Buckingham Place that physically and psychologically fucked around with Donna like Ten did to Mickey and then later to Martha and her family simply to be summed up at 'i was trying to come back... to you' and he respond at the end 'does it need saying?'
because girl what did you expect from doctordonna!donna saying 'i got the best bit of the doctor: his mind' and KNOWING THAT TEN CAN NOW SENSE DONNA TELEPATHICALLY (nine even said: i would feel it [taps temple] in here) you thought he wouldnt see all that from turn left????
rose: 'i dont know, it just sounded like something he would say. [giggling]
donna: [rightfully furious, knowing that rose just lured her the whole time into a suicide mission the second rose was told by donna that the doctor died under the thames via racnoss; roars] YOU LIAR!
rose: [smile wiped, slight flinch because its remincent of both 9's anger towards the daleks (and cassandra) as well as Ten's anger towards Mr Connolly, now being directed towards herself.]
later rose states very clearly to donna: 'i thought it was just the doctor we needed but, its the both of you. The Doctor And Donna Noble, together
like thats gotta be a right smack to rose because she is SO USED TO HEARING, SO USED TO BEING TOLD, SO USED TO BEING REMINDED OF 'the doctor and rose tyler in the tardis as it should be' and THE WHOLE UNIVERSES THAT SHE HAS TRAVELED TO WHERE THE STARS - GALAXIES - UNIVERSES UPON UNIVERSES INCLUDING turn left OUTRIGHT TELL HER NOPE ITS THE DOCTORDONNA - THE DOCTOR AND DONNA NOBLE IN THE TARDIS AS IT IS FORETOLD, AS IT SHOULD BE like baby im sorry but as soon as he called her his friend just like how he refers the master as an old friend - you aint stood a chance in staying with him as soon as he refered to tentoo as his ninth self before he met rose.
AND YOU EXPECTED HIM TO STILL SAY I L-- GIRL GIRL GIRL NOOO
like even in both scenes (deleted and televised) like doctordonna herself via the 'let me break this down for you' nine/ten's speech pattern of - just just
Tenth Doctor: [to Rose and DoctorDonna!Ten/Handy/Tentoo Tyler] The Doctor in the Tardis, with Rose Tyler as it should be
Rose: but what about you?
Tenth Doctor: [lying to make it easier, nods to Donna] Oh, I'm fine, I got madam! (possibly 'madame' after he love his french phrases)
DoctorDonna!Donna: [nine ref where in the comic he shared a mind briefly with rose, hence her still forlorn expression during the convo] A human with a time lord brain: perfect combination! [ten ref to rose and ten forever convo] We can travel the universe forever. Best friends! [ten and donna exclaiming] And equals. [ten's 'well' shrug saying this] Just what skinny boy needs: an equal. [donna breaking it down herself, literally backing up to what he just said]
if you look at his expression while she speaks, you can tell that this is all ten saying this through donna - him chuckling when she calls him skinny boy because thats when she steps in - before actually keeping that same expression at the word 'equal' being repeated and him nodding along while doing so.
HE TOLD HER THAT HIMSELF, its just that donna gives it a compassionate tone that the doctor would lack
and then they continue what we see later on tv and I FIND THAT WILD THAT THEY HAD THIS CONVO AND THEN SHE ASKED THE 'what were you going to say? On that beach' scene like girl girl girl omg godddd.
like you don't deserve him because he told you via his own friend telling you that you dont deserve him but he didnt deserve you either girl, get that tentoo babes like wooooo
And then the very thing after waters of mars is go full time lord victorious IE HIS FULL GENOCIDAL RUN FOR DONNA, BURNING THE UNIVERSE, KILLING DEATH, FULL BADWOLF!DOCTOR TO WHERE HIS NINTH AND EIGHTH SELFHAD TO STOP HIM LIKE ALL THAT FOR DONNA BUT crickets. crumbs. sand particles. constant abandonment on his end. questioning where u at instead of straight up running until you find her and have her by your side. rose girl you wasnt just disrespected in not getting an answer that you tore through universe to get but also that the choices and attitude you made and expressed that is nos part of donna's mind, memories - that whole episode of turn left - ended up being the final nail in the coffin for him just leaving you behind with the memory of the love you and him will never have and never will own without you becoming the weapon he would discard and him becoming yet another man you just settled for.
oof love the doctorrose ship but also god what a shish kabob of crumbs if this is what yall still want to settle for 'hetero romance'
no wonder billie doing so many of her own and other projeespecially if its the one ship that was only around for the respect of the memory of a dead regeneration like oof like damn shit this hurtscts so she doesn't go to the 60th anniversary except in archival footage
especially if its the one ship that was only around for the respect of the memory of a dead regeneration like oof like damn shit this hurts
no wonder the tenth doctor adventures with rose is bland as hell - its like listening to a divorced couple trying and failing to get that spark but its just embarrassing for both parties because the last two (4 technically) other yt men she was with died via invasion scenarios or hubris at the wrong time and place and a poc significant other left her because of HER NEGLIGENCE AND TREATING HIM LESSER (i see where ten got that quirk from while using 'mourning rose absence' as a crutch but yeah not all of rose's quirks were good and lovey dovey because he also picked up her casanova quirk (rose with jack and adam and ten with poisson and cleo, funny how ppl hate those episodes but isnt really admitting the REAL reason why and giving excuses or blaming the writers for not catering to their self yt insert fantasies. THE JOAN REDFERN ARC IS VERY CLEARLY BANGING YOU ON THE HEAD ABOUT THIS BETWEEN FOBWATCHED TEN AND JOAN MIRRORING AN 1800S VERSION OF TEN AND ROSE TREATMENT TOWARDS MICKEY AND MARTHA AND THE FACT YALL PRETEND NOT TO SEE IT IS THE VERY REASON THAT LIKE JOAN AND ROSE, YOU WILL BE LEFT IMMEDIATELY BEHIND LIKE ROSE AND JOAN REGARDLESS OR NOT IF YOU HAVE A HAPPY LIFE OR NOT. THAT IS THE MERCY OF THE DOCTOR TO CATER TO YOUR mainly yt...EGO) bland. af.
meanwhile [blasts the donna theme] DOCTOR SAID I ONLY LOVE 'platonical romantically' DONNA AND THATS WHO I AM IMPRESSING LOOK AT MY NEW HANNIBAL LECTER PLAID SUIT MY 8TH DOCTOR AUDIO BLUE COAT PRE-TIME WAR BUT FRESH OFF TLV. YOU GOT A KID NAME ROSE? NEAT LETS DO A WHOLE FAMILY REUNION LETS GO EVERYBODY INCLUDING YOU SYLVIA LETS GO why is wilf my new dad in a wheelchair? how long have i been gone? EVERYONE LETS GO. healthy hetero relationship using gallifrey's version of friendship is a balanced romance while romance is considered less or not equal (see what they and i did there) to friendship. fuck yeah!
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thebadtimewolf · 2 years
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all yall thinking of all these bad names for 14th doctor david tennant when we all know the supreme name for 14th doctor david tennant is the donnadoctor.
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lovphobic · 1 month
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btw. first match we play together. it uhhhhhhhhh
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loz-tearsofahomo · 6 months
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Why are Jubilee's videos always like
Systemically Oppressed Group just wanting human rights and Opposing Group wishing for their eradication & genocide sit together in a room. Can they see eye to eye and find a compromise for both sides?
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be warned it has a little kick! the only kick in that tasteless chicken will be me, kicking it into the sun.
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gritsandbrits · 2 years
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Definitely reworking cars 2 into a fun spy romp that touches on how corporatism/capitalism uses diversity as tools to shill a product than actually allowing true inclusion
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ezbakedchaos · 2 years
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i know i get hung up on the littlest, stupidest shit. just let me be fuckin angry for a few minutes, get it out of my system, and i'll be fine
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olderthannetfic · 5 months
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Sorry, but no. Really not. If someone says 'this act of kindness means they're attracted, no other explanation allowed' is interpretation at best and a bit obnoxious at worst, but still valid to have as a way to see a couple. Because we're talking about, you know, fandom ships. Cartoons. Characters who are fictional, represented by actors. Not real people.
If someone supposes that about real people, yeah, it's shitty to do and full stop please. It's undoubtable a microaggresion towards aro and/or ace people, which I'm. I despise when people suppose that about me. I got pretty mad the other day with a sexologist because they said that people 'cannot live without sex and that's unhealthy, to not received the addecute sexual energy we all need'. But me, I'm a real person. And the sexologist was talking also about real people, talked and thought about people who do not have sex for whatever reasons and for her shitty ideology, that's not good. Not fiction.
If someone says that an act of whatever, kindness be the most common, about a goddamned ship, like our typical buddycop show, it's not a microaggresion. Because the person saying it is not thinking about you. It's not even thinking about aroace people, like that dumb sexologist, it's thinking about how good those fictional little people would kiss and/or fuck. And that's all. And you assuming that people who interpret a couple in a sexual/romantic way have ill thoughts about the aroace community is fucking stupid, and how do you know that the person saying that is not also aro and/or ace themselves?
Like sure, it can feel pretty bad to have a different interpretation about a couple of characters, but for that you search for people who share it and you talk about without throwing anyone under a bus.
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softbeebee · 1 year
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If I see one more person calling Dina a one-note character or whatever, I am willing to fight someone. It's almost like you didn't pay attention to the scenes where she talked about her sister, family, and her religion/her families religion amongst lots of dialogue/character arc which shows us and tells us a lot about her.
Dina could have had more development, but we see a lot of Dina + begin to know her a lot more in the game throughout and comparing her to Mel and Owen of all people is insulting. She is such a great character, and you always love to compare the queer/non-white/etc characters to the white/cis/straight/etc ones all the time.
The fandom can do better, and I respect people's opinions until it comes to clear microaggresions being held against certain characters. Anyways, Dina, all the way!
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misstressviole · 1 year
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Call me delusional but i believe Nyra's love language is endurance and words of affirmation in the sense that she was pushing herself to deal with Alicents microaggresions in the first episode after the 10 year skip for the sake of getting on Alicent's good graces.
"She won't be satisfied with that" when she was called to present Joffrey cause she knew Alicent wanted to torture her like that and she still put up with it while she could have refused. But she wanted to appease Alicent.
Where I am getting with this is that I should write a fanfic where Alicent is mad at Nyra and Rhaenyra the himbo that she is falls to her knees and leaves a trail of kisses from Alicent's legs and make her way up to her mouth. Yk as a way to ask forgiveness.
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averyhollow · 1 year
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Some people jump at the chance to reveal they think characters that are BIPOC lose their humanity if they behave in acceptable ways. The tiniest bit of deviation from the narrow path of righteousness, and POC become unfeeling brutes.
Any hint of violence and anger that isn’t in response to direct and immediate threat? Any reaction to something that might be perceived as a disproportionate? If a BIPOC does it, they’re a brute and a savage unfeeling animal that needs to be leashed and muzzled. Therefore, if the BIPOC on the show engage in the kind of violence and displays of anger that white pirates can revel in without remark because they’re seen as human by default, it must be explained away or mitigated because BIPOC can’t be both traditional pirates and people you root for or want happy endings for.
In that light, it makes sense the people in question don’t accuse Izzy of wanting Ed to be more like Calico Jack. They don’t say he wants Ed to be a typical pirate, or some archetypical party bro, or whatever. Nah. In wanting Ed to be the Ed he knew when they started, in wanting Ed to be Blackbeard, in wanting Ed to be the guy who sailed and had dalliances with Calico Jack, he must want Ed to be a beast, a savage, an unfeeling mindless killing machine. Calico Jack gets to be a jackass, a douchebro, fratbro Jack Sparrow, etc.
Ed? Ed must be a victim/survivor whose past violence is justifiable and/or exaggerated, and who wants nothing more than softness and serenity in the future. There’s an assumption made by some that to think of Ed otherwise, is to think of him as an animalistic stereotype.
And the people who think this and proudly say that it’s what they think, do so while claiming to be pushing back against racism. They’re trying to confine Ed’s humanity and the ways in which he can be viewed by the people who cheer for his happiness - on a show where Ed isn’t a token nonwhite character but part of an ensemble cast filled with BIPOC and therefore there’s no reason to project onto his portrayal the requirement of adhering to standards of respectability - and they’re doing it under the guise of antiracism in fandom. What’s scary is that I think they really believe it too.
Note: I’m not talking about when people express their interpretations and leave it at that. I’m talking about when people claim that disagreeing Izzy wants Ed to be a “savage” stereotype or claim thinking Ed is mercurial or violent - not especially so, but at all - is to ignore racism or to commit a microaggresion.
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