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archangeldyke-all · 4 months

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hi!! this is my first time requesting anything on tumblr ever so bear with me. i know you write for sevika (which i love btw because your writing is magical) but could you possibly write something for ran? i haven’t been able to locate a single good fic about them in so long and it makes my heart hurt. they deserve so much more love than they get ☹️

it doesn’t have to be anything steamy (but i would love for it to be). you can have full creative liberty with this because i know for a fact that you’ll come up with something amazing.

if you’re not comfortable writing for ran or just don’t want to then just ignore this! :)

yessss ran needs more love!

a few things before i start: check out @abitohoney 's submit series! ran is a pretty prominent character (and in the latest part, ran and sev and reader are having a threesome EEEK!! so fucking hot.)

also, because ran has no speaking lines, and isn't even named in the show, these hc's are completely pulled out of my ass. it's just what i think they'd be like, with no contextual justification lmaooo. hopefully in season 2 we'll get to know them better!

ok here we go!

men and minors dni

first of all, i've never met someone who looks that emo/goth who isn't a total goofball. i'm convinced the most sunshiney, silly people also have the darkest, moodiest fashion taste.

so i think ran's a goofball.

always making jokes, teasing, laughing. total class clown vibes.

when they're crushing, though, they go completely silent. like, not a word.

you have no idea they're such a goofball for the longest time. you think they're all stoic and cool, but the truth is, they're just shitting themselves anytime you're around.

ran cuts their own hair. that choppy ass haircut? that's their own doing. no stylist ever gets it right.

ran's always playing pool in the show. so when you start crushing back on them, you ask them to teach you.

inside, ran is freaking out, but outside, they're cool, calm and collected.

they definitely do that thing where they stand behind you and move your arms with theirs. both of you are freaking the fuck out the entire time.

ran starts warming up to you then, though, because they realize that you're just as flustered by your closeness as they are.

it starts with little jokes and quips.

and when they get a good reaction out of you, a pretty smile and little giggle, they turn it up to a hundred.

they make a fool of themselves trying to get you to smile.

tripping over their feet in an effort to get your attention, always mumbling jokes under their breath for only you to hear, anxiously awaiting the muffled giggle that it pulls from you.

you start to suspect that they have a crush on you then. they're always trying to make you smile or laugh, and each time they do, their eyes are locked on your curved lips.

so you start flirting.

they blush profusely each and every time.

doesn't matter if you're gently touching their arm, or giving them a compliment, or looking at them for a few seconds too long, they've got the most obvious blush you've ever seen. they're obsessed with you.

you comment on it once.

"you look really fuckin' hot in that crop top y'know." you say one night, tipsy off a few drinks at the bar.

ran blushes bright red and takes a big gulp of their drink.

"and you're so cute when you blush." you add on.

ran sputters on their sip or alcohol.

from then on, they take their flirting up another notch.

always crowding against you at the pool table, helping you even though you know how to play by now.

constantly touching you, especially when they make you laugh. they'll pretend they're just leaning against you to laugh, but they don't take their hand off your shoulders afterwards.

the more time passes, and the more obvious your shared attraction gets, the bolder ran gets.

like when they make you smile, they'll reach up and gently trace their finger over the lines your smile causes to crease up in your face.

they'll press impossibly closer against you while your leaning over to play pool, practically grinding against your ass, no indication that they're flustered beside the bright red blush on their face.

and when you guys finally kiss, it goes something like this.

ran's teasing you relentlessly for a slip up you'd made, fumbling over your words at an important meeting. they're such a shit, and they're so cute as they poke at you and joke and tease, that you just have to shut them up.

so you dart forward and press your lips against theirs.

for the first time since ran's opened up to you, they're completely silent. their one visible eye is wide, and they're red as a tomato.

you giggle.

"where'd all those jokes go, tough guy?" you ask. ran blinks and gulps.

"holy shit." they whisper. you laugh and reach up to tuck their bangs behind their ear, admiring their exposed face, waiting patiently for them to get their words back. they blink at you with stars in their eyes.

and then suddenly, they're giddy and giggling, pulling you against their chest and wrapping their arms around you.

"you get that you're mine now, right?" they ask. you grin, and press another kiss to their lips.

"that's kinda what i was going for." you admit.

"nice." they say with a smirk as they swoop in to press their lips against yours again.

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#ran arcane #??#idk what to tag haha

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Eurovision 2023: #12 & #11

12. ARMENIA Brunette - "Future lover" 14th place

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Decade ranking: 37/116 [Above Stefan, below Systur]

Very tempted to just post this meme as justification for putting Brunette here.

Like, what is Brunette if not A Neat Lady? ? She working on herself, deciding to be good, do good, look good #TeamPretty for her future lover whom she wants to kiss her face, read books with and drink smoothies with at neat cafés - it's no "Why don't you make me dizzy with all your kisses *sad synth*", but it's cute and relatable for a libretto strung together from Pinterest posts lol <3. A Presence That Was Liked (--Gretchen Jones) if ever there was.

What really pushed "Future lover" higher up my ranking though was the live, and specifically the middle section. "Future lover" is not an easy song to get into, but Brunette made it work, specifically by knocking the rap break-

AND the following dance break-

Right out of the park! Princess was eating and her song was the buffet.

And honestly that's enough for a 12th place on my list. You know me, whenever we reach a new zone, we rank the competent people first since they're the ones I have the least opinion on. Brunette is good, i submit the live in Liverpool as evidence, I 'm sure we agree on that? "Future lover" was never more than a fun filler entry for me and I don't mean that disparagingly - every contest needs their also-rans and if the entries that pad out the numbers are good themselves, the contest usually becomes more enjoyable as a whole. Brunette was part of a strong streak that ran from Alika to Pasha, and she earned her spot, by delivering a strong and inspired live that was solidly good with no drawbacks. It's not something I'm passionate about, but "Future Lover" was top shelf Fun Finale Filler, and I wish the entries near the top of the scoreboard I put below Armenia had demonstrated the same level of quality.

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11. ICELAND Diljá - "Power" 27th place

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Decade ranking: 34/116 [Above Lesley Roy, below TBA]

For the purposes of ranking ESC, I like to clump together entries I have similar feelings for to pretend the chaotic wreck that is this blog as a minimum of consistency. In this case I've completely given up lol <3 Diljá and Brunette couldn't be less alike if they tried. Where Brunette was competent, dignified and professional, Diljá gave negative fucks about how she came across and how it affected her point total. <3

That isn't to say, I didn't enjoy "Power" for what it was because I did, a lot. Basic catchy Electropop by weird indie girls is my safe zone, and where I can fully unwind, calm down and be myself (I suppose that's the introvert equivalent to zoning out to a girlbop? You couldn't pay me to move to a Loco Loco or Slomo in public, although I like both of them). You can defo be sure that I loved "Power" for all its shortcomings and man was it flawed.

As noted pre-show the biggest threat to Diljá was Diljá herself. Now don't get me wrong - I LOVE her. I love her annoying foghorn-like personality that blasted through her rehearsal tiktoks. I love how she, when asked what the best Eurovision song of all times was, served cunt by naming herself. I love how she gave zero shits about something as trivial as qualifying, and just went all out enjoying herself via the medium of her untreated neurodivergence. And of course, most of all, I love that she completely engineered her own demise in the semi, for no reason other than that she felt like it:

YOU HAVE NO PPPPOWER OVER MEEE ::is so overpowered by her own ADHD/autism she peppers her song with needless karatechops and backflips::

Like, I'm pretty sure there's a decent chance "Power" could have qualified in that second semifinal. The target after all was Alika, who was an obvious traditional jury carry. But Diljá threw all that away when she magikarped herself to death on that turntable. 😍

she could have chosen ANY aesthetic and she chose Lucie Jones in Arthur Fleck cosplay. 😍

She could have chosen any camera angles, and went for several ones where her back was turned to the audience.

In a sense, that was the most beautiful ending one could have imagined for Diljá's journey - a villain origin story turned flesh. Diljá would always be eliminated in the semis in any contest held acrpss the multiverses and it would always be through needless self-sabotage. 😍 AND SHE ALMOST QUALIFIED IN SPITE OF IT. REST IN P-P-P-POWER, my sweet anxiety princess.

CONGRATULATIONS TO THE TEN BEST ACTS OF ESC 2023

THE RANKING

#ESC 2023 #Eurovision 2023 #Liverpool 2023 #Iceland #Diljá #Power #Armenia #Brunette #Future Lover #BorisBubbles #Eurovision #Eurovision Song Contest #ESC

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The Differences Between Compromise & Sacrifice In A Relationship

Every healthy relationship requires compromise...but how do you know when you're sacrificing too much?

Shellie R. Warren

Oct. 02, 2020 02:05PM EST

OK, so here's my confession for the day. While I don't get to check either of these out on a consistent basis (probably because my mind is trying to retain brain cells), two guilty pleasures of mine are 90 Day Fiancé (the one that comes on Sundays; they've got too many now to keep up with which is which) and Love After Lockup. There really is no justification or excuse; I just think that, as someone who works in the field of relationships so much, sometimes the dynamics on there fascinate me.

Take Angela (the older white woman from Georgia) and Michael (the younger African from Nigeria) on 90 Day, for example. First, I really need there to be more deep dives done on the topic of fetishizing; yes, it is very possible for a person to be with someone of another ethnicity and still be disrespectful AF to that person's culture, if not flat-out racist. Second point—there are a lot of women out here who claim to be Bible followers, will push back on submitting to their husband (umm, even though it's in the Bible—Ephesians 5 and Colossians 2) yet will turn around and emasculate their husband to the point where they basically want him to submit to them (check out "Are You His Partner Or His Second Mama?"). That's Angela in a nutshell. SMDH.

Over on WE tv, there's a particular couple on this season of Love After Lockup that, in many ways, inspired this piece. Their names are Quaylon and Shavel. If you know anything about the show, it's about people who fall for folks who've been in prison who then try and make the relationship work, once their partner gets out. My first love was in and out of the system for years so, I get how it can happen. Anyway, when I watched an episode when Shavel spent $5,000 of her hard-earned money to get Quaylon a truck as her play-brother looked at her like "WTF?!", and I then reflected on the times when I spent a lot of my own money in relationships, along with the clients I've counseled who've done the same, I figured that now was as good a time as any to address the difference between compromising in a relationship (necessary) and sacrificing (oftentimes unhealthy). Because, unfortunately, not getting that there is a difference between the two is an epidemic that's transpiring, both on and off of the tube. (Again, SMDH.)

All Successful Relationships Require Compromise

An author by the name of Donna Martini once said something about the art of compromise (in a relationship) that I really like. She said:

"Compromise is not about losing. It's about deciding that the other person has just as much right to be happy with the end result as you do."

Shoot, this alone is one of the reasons why some people aren't mature enough to be in a relationship; they are so consumed with what they want to get and who needs to make them happy, that they don't factor in if their partner is feeling fulfilled in the process. Hell, sometimes I wonder if they even care.

So, what are some clear indications that you're good at compromising in a relationship?

Compromisers are good listeners. It's not about them always needing to get the last word in or speaking over their partner. They genuinely want to know where their partner is coming from so that communication is effective.

Compromisers are compassionate. A compassionate individual is someone who notices the suffering (or even just distress) of another individual and strives to do what they can to alleviate it. They aren't apathetic; they are sympathetic and even try to be empathetic to their partner's needs where possible.

Compromisers are humble. Humility in a relationship is a true superpower because it means that you're not interested in being right all of the time, you can admit when you're wrong, you will be quick to apologize when you've offended your partner or you made a mistake, and you're open to seeing another perspective, even if it couldn't be further from your own.

Compromisers are flexible. I was recently talking to my nine-year-old goddaughter about how she wants her future husband, wedding and marriage to be. I must say that, for her age, she was extremely eloquent. However as she was going down the list, when I asked her, "What about your husband's opinions?", she said what a lot of grown single women have said to me as well—"His opinion doesn't matter." Lord. Compromisers aren't so bossy, so rigid, and/or so determined for everything to go their way all of the time, that they aren't able to bend if it results in both people being happy and both parties coming to a peaceful resolution.

Compromisers are solutions-oriented. At the end of the day, a compromiser is all about finding solutions and cultivating peace. It's not about conceding all of the time, but it is about not being so bull-headed and opinionated that mountains come out of molehills and then those mountains are the very ones that they are willing to die on…even if that means dying alone.

Bottom line, compromisers live by the motto that they would rather that they and their partner be happy together than be right (at least in their own mind) all by themselves. Compromisers are the kind of people who tend to have lasting relationships because they know that healthy dynamics require give and take on both sides.

Sometimes BOTH PEOPLE Need to Make Sacrifices

OK, so now that we've broken down a little bit of what it means to be a relational compromiser, let's spend a little bit of time exploring what it means to go to, what some would consider to be, the extreme side of compromising—making sacrifices in a relationship. To be honest with you, sacrifice is not a dirty word. In the context of what we're talking about today, it simply means that you are willing to give up something good for something even better.

A good example of a relational sacrifice is perhaps turning down a job in one city because your partner just proposed, you accepted, and you both have really good jobs where you currently are. However, peep that I said that the man proposed marriage (and you accepted). I know that, because I've made big sacrifices for boyfriendsor even situationships, and also, because I'm now a marriage life coach, I don't really jump up and down about those types of situations. Why? Because if you're willing to give up something awesome, it doesn't need to be for the hope that something better might happen. There needs to be some sort of guarantee (at least, as much as there can be a guarantee). Sacrificing for a man who pledged to marry you is different than sacrificing for a guy you've been kicking it with for a while.

That's why Shavel (from Love After Lockup) stands out to me. After dating a man in prison (which really isn't dating and, believe you me, there is nothing like getting a "jail letter" because when folks are incarcerated, they don't have much to do other than think…a lot) for a few years, the first thing she does is buy him a vehicle and prepare a place for him to stay? Meanwhile, what has he done? Hell, what is he even capable of doing? It's not about him having a prison record (we know how a lot of our Black men end up with those); it's about him needing time to readjust to society and figure out how to take care of himself before even entertaining getting married or helping Shavel raise her daughter.

See, what Shavel is doing? It's not so much sacrificing as it is taking a gamble on her relationship. She's not merely giving up something wonderful for something that can top it; it's more like she's giving all that she has, in hopes that it will pay off. And when we get to this kind of point and place in our relationship with someone, especially when they are not reciprocating with these same types of gamble/sacrifices, that's when we know that we're entering into some very risky and, to be honest, unhealthy behaviors.

Too Much One-Sided Sacrificing Is Unhealthy

When I look back on, more than half of my relationships/situationships, if there's a main thing that I regret, it's that I acted like a wife in most of them—at least to some degree—while many of them weren't even really boyfriends. What I mean by that is, that when I give of myself, I typically give my all. Whatever a man needs, I am going to figure out how to make it happen and/or support him in ways that can oftentimes cause me to neglect my own needs or wants. Then, when things don't work out, many times, I don't have much to show for it. Hmph. That's why, I actually have a shirt that says, "I don't need closure. I just need my ex to give me my money back." That's not a cute graphic tee. That's for real, for real.

And when your own needs end up going by the wayside, continually so? That's how you can know when you're sacrificing, far more than you ever should. It's when the good thing that you're giving up is actually huge chunks of yourself. It can be chunks of your checking account, chunks of your self-worth, chunks of your heart—anything that, if the relationship ended right now, not only would you be devastated, you'd also be severely in lack.

Not hurt or inconvenienced; I mean that, on some level, you would be close to destitute. When you've entered into this portion of the program, you are not merely "bending" in order to meet your partner halfway. No, what you are doing is giving up so much of yourself that it can actually break you…or break you into pieces.

So, if you're currently in a relationship and you think that what you're doing is compromising, but there is something in the back of your mind that's saying something along the lines of, "Bay-bay, you are giving up the best parts of you and nothing better is gonna take their place"—please take some steps back. You're not compromising, sis. What you are doing is sacrificing to the ultimate extreme. And again, the thing about a "good sacrifice" is it's worth it. You don't have to gamble or guess…you already know. Your partner has made sure that you do. How can you know? Because he's out here making sacrifices too.

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branded-perceptions · 1 month

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Almost all interpersonal and inter-group conflicts circulate around the solvable discrepancy between

mental sense-making constructs' emotionally charged ("being bitchy") / via infatuative social identity-making grouped (📚George Orwell notes on Nationalism) self-justifications

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which we can collectively incentivise to discuss and reflect about more habitually (social imagination) via such linguistic explanatory constructs as shared here

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You got me thinking today, from one of your answers...... I'm back again.

ChayLynn's demise, why is this squarely Brook Lynn's fault? I see it as a two way street. Chase's excuse for doing the singing was mainly to pay the bills. He didn't like it but he did it for her sake (blind love I guess?), his justification for being mad at her for not writing the letter to help get his badge back seemed over the top. He witnesses Linc harassing Blaze and does nothing (delicate genius 🙄). He submits to Brook Lynn's demands and keeps quiet and keeps on singing.. She devises a plan only to get herself played in the end. Chase should take take some culpability here too, he saw an attitude shift in Brook Lynn, they werent on the same page anymore and nada, just went on trusting the process, right? Taking away his agency and playing God, sir not today. No use in putting those two back together if that doesn't happen.. The real stakes of this story gets burried under the fantasy fame singing fluff GH shoved at us for six months! Only notables were a ChayLynn "romance" and a "break up". Quotations because was it even real? Their pretend business deal overshadowed their real relationship. The very thing they both were concerned about, now look. So going after Linc and getting Brook Lynn's songs back should now serve as the "real story" to invest in. I'm like, there better be a huge payoff for subjecting Brook Lynn to self sabotage and Chase singing like a David Hasselhoff reject lol. Endgame is eminent, but ugh... I don't expect them to get the Sprina treatment . Lol Do you?

All this progress that was made for Brook Lynn only to undue it quickly after. Like let her bask in her newfound glow up geez. We can't count on Willow, she's busy doing something boring lol. Despite Brook Lynn's downfall, i still believe she can come out of this upcoming arc victorious. Linc should be the only villain ready to sport an orange jumpsuit soon. Focus more on her continuing to overcome taking back her pride and dignity, her inability to sing (her true passion) and channel it into a new passion something she can be proud of.. acknowledge that Chase was her stand-in, he was living her broken dreams and her emotional stuggles that came with it. Songwriting is still viable too cause her boo thang said so.. Isn't Blaze a direct reflection of herself when she endured Linc's harassment? Get her unstuck from herself and make her an advocate for the silent victim(s) of sexual harassment, this tweenage behavior is so unbecoming. Is this how they plan to "continue their love story"? The writing is so lackluster but okay. Well add she needs to be her own badass hero first, courageous BLQ needs to re-emerge. No more of Chase's butt hurt brooding. We want to take him seriously when he's reinstated this time for good; maybe solve one or two cases in five years time. lol But i digress.

I didn't want Maxie having the talk with Brook Lynn. If not her mother, Olivia or Ned would have been better suited. Again Chase had already chosen her (his actions/his words), but it's his struggle with forgiveness and broken trust that he needs to overcome. Lets start with seeing Brook Lynn shedding her selfish/childish habits. She's in love, but she won't have reason to share that with him now.. let's her actions speak for itself. The lack of supporting characters and platonic friendships for Brook Lynn is tragic. Comparatively her and Spencer are loosely paralleled but who gets the better writing thus far should say something about the writing team wrt attention to details.

sidenote: I want OG!ChayLynn back w/ the slow sizzling romance. Linc coming back? 👎 But maybe it's a coming full-circle kinda thing idk?

Frank Valentini, I'm warning you. Don't drag this on another year ffs! *meditating* woo saaah!

The writers seem to have a "fun" habit of making pairs where one is thrown under the bus and stripped of agency while the other is domineering and/or controlling. ChaLynn is the newest victim, and unlike other pairs, they did NOT start that way. Since they got together, and since this Linc story has gone on, Chase is a doormat, while Brook takes a disproportionate amount of control over them and their romance. It reminds me of prime CaOss. I also hope there is a big and substantial payoff in this nonsense because otherwise, they went out of their way to sabotage what was a pretty good pair. And honestly, no, I don't see them getting the Sprina treatment.

I have no doubt Brook will be the winner in this story, because how on Earth would a random dayplayer get this much victory and presence??? No shot. And absolutely - her purpose should've being a songwriter and focusing on that while somehow getting her songs back. And plus, when she realized there was a more worthwhile fight in suing Linc for widespread sexual harassment, that would've been a FAR better direction to go. But nope! Brook agreed to an NDA for her songs back - awful writing. ChaLynn should be the Songwriter & the PI.

Yeah Maxie was kinda the last person giving love advice and diagnosis, considering who she supports as love interests and has even been with (minus Spinelli & Nathan). Chase needs to learn to trust again and Brook needs to tap into her faux-mother behavior. And YES she needs friends. Maxie is fine, Michael is...blegh, have her mingle with more people her age like the Davis girls!

I, too, want ChaLynn back, not whatever the writers made of them. And know Frank, Chris, and Dan, we'll be waiting another two years 😒

#general hospital #asks - gh

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best way to start youtube channel (Just 10 tips)

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When you want to start a successful YouTube channel, you should think of a solid plan to start the channel that is not a single video plan or only a week’s plan, but a complete, comprehensive plan in all aspects such as the channel’s title, video title, description, keywords, etc. of these important things as well as you should choose the channel’s topic about what It consists and the channel content must definitely be proportional to the channel image, channel videos, channel topics and video titles, so my friend, there is no successful channel on the YouTube platform that did not lie in its beginning on a plan for its success so my friend If you want to start a successful YouTube channel, go grab a paper and pen and start plans for your channel Successful from A to Z and with all the details you never miss a thing.

(Tip 2) Arm yourself with the right equipment

Suitable equipment like what do you think? Certainly the camera, lighting and sound, you should when you start your YouTube channel and you want success, your ally, to have these three main equipment. If one of these equipment is absent, I will not tell you that your channel will fail or so, but you will see results other than the results you expected when you were planning your channel, as we said in The first advice is, therefore, it is important to have suitable equipment with appropriate quality, but there is nothing wrong in the beginning with a simple mike, a simple camera, or a simple light, but with starting to make a little income from your channel, you should definitely start developing the channel, so this was the second advice Do not forget this basic equipment In your beginning.

(Tip 3) Look for inspiration

When we talk about searching for inspiration, we mean to pursue new ideas, not to start imitating this and that, because surely a successful person does not walk after anyone, but rather creates his own path. Likewise, you, my friend, must search for your inspiration, your personality and your thoughts, and share them with your followers. In YouTube, such a successful YouTuber, you can search for inspiration, such as standing on the edge of a lake, meditating and thinking, and with this thing you will have a lot of mythical ideas that will come to your brain. Trust me, my friend. When you want to start a successful YouTube channel, you must be the one who creates his own way, not to go and copy an idea From another YouTuber, and you hope to succeed, you can succeed, not be in one condition, and let's copy the idea and develop it, but I personally do not prefer this method, so it is for us to the next advice. Do not forget the previous advice.

(Tip 4) Make every second count

Maybe you will ask me how? Ok, my friend, do not get confused when you want to make every second important, this means that you do not go too long in the introduction of the video and speak nonsense, and without without without. Make the introduction of your videos average 3 minutes because any follower is not ready to hear a story outside the subject of the video for 5 or 6 minutes, and it is all nonsense And without without blas, so if you do not make every second important in your videos, you will see a lot of dislikes and criticisms because you do not enter the topic quickly, so I advise you if you are a fan of lengthening videos, you should even provide information for your follow-up, not knowing what the information is, but anything but Nonsense, I personally, if you enter a video and see someone who talks a lot and does not enter into the topic, I submit the video for a minute or two as a minimum, so this means making every second important.

(Tip 5) Start with a simple editing program

Yes, when you want to start on YouTube, you certainly know that 99.9 percent of YouTube videos have been edited even with an intro, or anything that is almost impossible to see someone publishing a clip without even modifying a point on it, so when we talk about producing videos, Certainly, after the video production stage, we need to edit or modify it, even if it is simple, so it's okay to start with a simple editing program on your computer, but I know for sure that you may not know any skill in editing videos so don't worry so I told you that I have a full course for you if this is The tips did not work, and I am not going to teach you of course everything. Just some advice. You can go and watch the course. He will teach you everything only from here. So let's go to the next advice. Do not forget what we said in the previous advice.

(Tip 6) Improve your videos

When you want to improve your videos, this means a few things we mean in each video that you should take into account (the title, description and thumbnail). The title must be attractive. It should not be a static title that does not give any incentive for the viewer to click on the video and watch it, but rather it must be a title. It contains attractive words, for example, look at these two titles: Watch how I jumped from a 100-story tower, or you can't believe I jumped from a 100-story tower, see what happened to me. The description helps your videos reach more people and more viewers, so your videos do not have to contain a description or description with only two words, but rather they must contain many words by lines and put the link of other videos for you and the links of your pages on social media, etc. I mean, it should be Description is a place full of important and important links and keywords, so do not be underestimated. Likewise, the thumbnail here is more than 50 percent of the viewer's desire to click on your videos, so you must put an attractive and stimulating thumbnail for the viewer to Click on the video, and let's move on to the next advice, of course, without forgetting the previous advice.

(Tip 7) Build your network

When you become famous and start life by walking with you, you will start on the path to fame, so for sure you need social media accounts such as Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, etc., about which you will publish your life and your diary. This is not a choice for you. When you reach that stage of fame and believe me, you will arrive and if you feel that you will not You arrive, I guarantee you that you will reach, trust yourself that you are able and raise your spirits, so when you arrive, you will feel the taste of victory, then they will start following you by asking you to publish your diary on social networking sites and your fan base will start to grow more and more and you will link your Facebook, Instagram, Twitter and YouTube account to each other and each account will do its turn for more Growth and you will see an increase in your followers on Instagram and on this, you will build your base and your own network, no one will be able to ask you for anything that will be happy in your life and you will also start to make money from Instagram and your other accounts. Just imagine with me, my friend, the amount of happiness that you will have at that time for that I advise you not to be underestimated at the beginning, because everything applies to the beginning, correct, method, correct, end, true, this is what you want. Therefore, from the first time you create your channel, you must create a large fan base and your own network that One day, you will grow in front of your eyes, and you will start to reap a lot of profits and a lot of returns, whether material or moral, and let's go to the following advice. Do not forget the previous advice.

(Tip 8) Connect with your viewers

Communicate with your viewers, and by that I mean you should stay in touch with your viewers on YouTube, interact with them, write to them, put hearts to their comments, continue to respond to their comments, and do not leave them for a long time, especially if you do not tell them such as missing a month or a week without any justification, you will see a decrease in views They will not be satisfied with you very much, and you will see when you return they tell you why you disappeared for a month or a week or anything until you want to be absent in a correct way. You must before that tell them how long and why and why you love them and want to stay with them, but this circumstance forced you to be absent for this period in this way they will love you more and they will get attached You will say this is a person who respects us very much and is very honest and provides very good meanings. In this way, you will gain their satisfaction, and the views will not decrease or you see negative effects on your channel and when you come back they will welcome you and say to you welcome back, my friend, I missed you and from these things I think you understood me so these things are important to stay in touch With your followers, in this way, your channel is very successful and earns the respect of your followers and enjoys the views and the world is wonderful. Let's go to the following advice, do not forget the previous advice.

(Tip 9) Ignore all negative comments

With your trip on YouTube, how do you see people who love you and wonderful and motivational comments, as well as you will see a lot of people who are negative, breakers of dreams, and destroy aspirations, who all care about focusing on your mistakes. You feel for a moment that they want a person without even making a mistake even with a point that came out of the line so I tell you from now, do not be surprised and must You should ignore all these comments, but on the contrary, these instructions are for you as an incentive to continue, as someone I heard behind every successful person says, people attack and destroy him, so my friend, the essence of everything has continued patience and continuity and do not turn back

(Tip 10) Download videos regularly

Since you want a successful YouTube channel, you should regularly upload videos because the YouTube platform's algorithms require a person who is worthy and continuous to download videos, especially daily, so I advise you, since you want your success in this field, to continue to upload videos regularly because this will help you spread more and more and the issue of success It is just a matter of when success is coming, but there is a difference between succeeding in a year and succeeding in the same success in 5 years. The difference is someone regularly uploading videos and another uploading a video every month or every few weeks. So I tell you, do not rush the results, success is coming, but you have to continue and regular In uploading videos to succeed as quickly as possible.

Here we have finished 10 tips. I hope you liked my pen alghawy7blog. Thank you for reading here. If you feel that you want more information to succeed on YouTube or want more tips or practical steps and videos, I advise you to go to this course here. This course is comprehensive. It will exclude you from all other courses, and after you watch this course, you will succeed 100% on YouTube, so I advise you to see it.

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