hey can you do me a favor and sink really deep inside me and tell me to try and stay still while you watch my pussy pulse around your cock and give me small, shallow thrusts that you know won’t be enough for me? yeah no it’s no big deal i just think you might enjoy seeing me incapable of forming words and willing to do anything if you’ll just give me a little more. yeah you could slap my ass and tell me to beg while i’m sucking on your fingers. like, if you wanted to. as a friend.
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when a girl is under you looking up at you with glistening pleading eyes while you're rubbing the strap just barely up and down over her pussy and she's whimpering, leaning down to kiss and bite at her jaw and neck and whispering "𝘶𝘴𝘦 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘸𝘰𝘳𝘥𝘴 𝘣𝘢𝘣𝘺" to make her whine and plead even more
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I'm sorry to ruin the fantasy, but sexting sometimes is less "I'm touching myself as I read this" and more "I'm going through house chores/eating/out grocery shopping/eating a whole bag of snacks laying on the couch"
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Whenever a player safewords, this is an occasion for mutual support. We understand that nobody safewords from a happy place, and that all of our egos feel frail and kind of runty when we need to back out of a scene. It is completely unethical to respond with scorn or ridicule to a person who has safeworded: S/M is not a competition, we are not playing against each other.
As tops, we have noticed that if we are having a good time and our bottom safewords, our initial feelings may not be happy. Whaddaya mean you don't like that? I do all this work and you don't appreciate it? I'm hot for being in control and you want me to stop? We have felt real anger and felt challenged in our top role... and, on a deeper level, we have felt put down, hurt and rejected. It is okay to have these feelings. It is not okay to act on them. Take three deep breaths and everybody start taking care of each other.
Sometimes bottoms get so deeply engaged in a scene that they fail to safeword, or forget, or so profoundly believe in the fantasy that it doesn't occur to them: many of the techniques we play with, like interrogation, function in the real world to undermine volition. Dossie remembers a scene in which a top offered her a choice of something or other: "I felt very confused. Some distant part of me vaguely remembered having made choices, but the response from my state of consciousness at that time was, Choose? I am not a thing that chooses." So then what is the top's responsibility?
If a bottom does not safeword and you don't pick up on what's going on, and this will happen if you play long enough and well enough, there is no blame. However, it is still your responsibility to monitor for physical safety as best you can. As ethical tops we make a commitment to never knowingly harm our bottoms. To this end we check in regularly to make sure that things are going the way we think they are, and we constantly monitor the physical and emotional safety of our bottoms. If a bottom is beyond safewording, and you as the top feel unsure about how far you should go, it is your responsibility to slow down or stop the scene and get into communication with the bottom to make sure you have informed consent. If you have to bring the bottom back into reality to do this, please remember that you helped get them into that altered state in the first place, so presumably you can help get them back there again as soon as you are sure of what's going on.
And just because someone safeworded doesn't mean that the scene has to be over. There may be times when the problem that brought either of you to safeword is so overwhelming that carrying on doesn't feel like the right thing right now - but most often we find that after we've dealt with whatever the difficulty is, we're still terrifically turned on, with the added bonus of a shared intimacy.
from The New Topping Book (2003) by Dossie Easton & Janet W. Hardy
(note: the authors use ‘top’ & ‘bottom’ in the historical S/M sense, meaning ‘person performing the act’ & ‘person receiving the act’; the act in question is not necessarily penetration.)
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when someone finds something that really works on you and they go OH. and you can see their brain go ✨ and they do it again and again for the pleasure of watching your desire for them make you short-circuit
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okay thinking about someone promising they’ll make me come but only on their strap. and then them teasing me. making me grind on their knee until i’m soaked through my boxers, hearing me whimper trying to get closer to them. they’d peel off the last of my clothes, put their tongue on my nipple. their hands pushing my knees apart. i feel my wetness already.
finally they touch me. they moan at my wetness and i moan at their touch. they hear me and smile and give me more pressure. let me grind on their fingers. they work their way down my body, kissing my sternum, my side, my hips. i’m begging - please. please. their lips wrap around my clit, their tongue working me. i tilt my hips to give them more. soon i can feel myself building up. i try to breathe to steady myself, to release the tension. to be good. so i continue begging. they ask: please what? what would you like? and i answer: please fuck me. please fuck me. i need your strap. hovering over my clit, they taunt me. is that right? you need my cock? you need me to fuck you? and now all i can say is yes. yes. yes.
slowly, so slowly, they withdraw their touch from me and leave me sensitive and shaking. i watch while they pull on the harness. they push their cock into my mouth. i know they love watching it push between my lips. i moan around it.
finally they flip me around, again keeping my legs open. lining up their cock on me. they watch me pulse as they tease my clit with the head of it. i want to wrap myself around them but they stop me: they say, can you be patient for me? let me take my time? a shiver runs through my body. yes. i can give them anything they want. i’m shaking, and they’re pushing in, slowly, watching the length of the strap sink in. watching the small jerks of my hips as i contain myself to not just pull them deeper. the sound i make when they bottom out is wanting, hungry, obscene. finally i hook my legs behind them and pull them closer, finally my hands move to their back and scratch them. i can’t help but say i love you. forehead to forehead, feeling the depth of them inside me. they pull their face away from mine just enough to meet my gaze. i tell them how good they feel, i’m whining and can barely finish a sentence. they look at me and they say, i know baby. i know. i got you.
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I don’t know how people can manage to write horny posts when they’re in fully horny headspace I’m literally struggling so much right now.
Just, fuck me fuck me fuck me fuck me breed me make me your pet train me call me a good boy fuck me fuck me fuck me-
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