Amatonormativity has destroyed so many people's understanding and acceptance of themselves, and it's heartbreaking.

Yes, it is normal to be in your 20s, 30s, or older and not have lost your virginity, had a first kiss, or a partner. It is normal to say that you aren't ready for those things, too! It is normal if your life doesn't follow the "college graduate -> engagement -> buying a home -> 2.5 kids and a dog" trajectory that so many people have idealized.

So many people associate maturity with losing your virginity, or having a first kiss, or a serious relationship, and I think that's a dangerous association. Maturity isn't gained through those things, and you don't have to have those experiences to be considered "mature" or "grown." It is not a bad thing to go at your pace. Nobody else can live your life but you. If you end up having those experiences, that's great! But it should be done because you want to experience them, not because you feel "broken" and "immature" without them.

i absolutely love kristen x saria and could give a whole analysis about it because its such a beautiful relationship that was doomed to fall. kristen was already planning to die, and alone, since the start. they both cared deeply for each other, but it couldn't work.

i know a lot of people probably wish kristen would come back at some point, but im placing my hot take care: i dont think she should. like id say "if she did she would/should", but no, i dont think she should ever come back at all at any point. she dedicated her life to it, and she joined the stars. she's gone now. and saria needs to move on, to stop clinging to the past and grieve something that was already lost. she was left with a huge scar, but this scar needs to heal. if kristen came back, it would only make the damages on saria worse and will never let her heal.

i love silence x saria even more because it's the union of the future and the past. silence will help her to move on, to heal. she will show her a beautiful world. the broken rock and the plants growing on it making it beautiful etc. and at the same time, saria would be able to give silence the kind of support and comfort she deeply needs at the moment from her overwhelming duty. i wouldn't want to say it's THE relationship ever, but god fucking damnit its close to it. its beautiful. look at them mutually helping each other out. hits fist on desk

IF i didn't just woke up i'd write so so much more and give so much analysis and symbolism and all that stuff but im sleepy. ALSO i need to draw kristen and saria content one day but im so bad at drawing kristen and im clogged artwise i have so much to work on help

lmao sorry to keep this going but. tim absolutely had it the easiest of the bat kids, not even a discussion. he had a cushy, priviledged life with parents that actually cared about him, and fanon going uwu poor sad little rich boy so so so neglected and abused... GIRL?!?! cass got the shit kicked out of her till she became the best fighter in the world, and she was homeless for nearly a decade after that and yet often feels like shes the one comforting tim ("""little brother uwu""")

I get you I think it is just frustrating when people try so hard to give Tim the back story Cass already has and then processeds to either not include cass completely or just make her a bland cardboard cutout of a character that's only job in any story is to support which ever male white lead is currently crying

nothing more morally reprehensible than a cleric (checks notes) using the key features of their class…? surely that can’t be where we are regarding analysis of character actions in cr at this point.

sometimes i think about when copia got his plastic surgery and his face was all covered in bandages for a while (i don't know how long it takes plastic surgery to heal) and how i still wanted to be affectionate with him but since i can't kiss his face i just end up kissing him everywhere else,,,

Stelle x trashan WIP

Thinking of sevika with a happy trail……

guys what if isaac was emo

ophelia forced them to get along (bo had to bribe isaac with a good supply of edibles for future use)

earlier today i was thinkin like what kind of music would isaac even listen to. and originally i thought like. none. he doesnt listen to music hes just that hardcore. and then i thought more and more. and like. its a good toss up between heavy metal and emo rock (pierce the viel type shit, not panic at the disco)

the fact that his and bos music taste would overlap even in the slightest hurts

but its ok cuz i get to draw shit like this

isaacs wearing platforms to make him seem taller than bo

is it bad that i like this

the more i look at it the better it looks wtf.

no matter how much i love there will always be someone who does it ✨ better ✨

Better late than never :)

Happy belated birthday to the Lord of Geo my beloved <3 working on this piece was... an experience //hit first time ever drawing abs HAH I was a mess  anyway I’m proud tho I love it -w- <3

@ the alarm clock rb

Crunch by Crunch / Feb 2023

hhhhghggh I thought too hard about Atem Comes Back AU while I was out walking and now that's all I want to do and think about and be rn lolllll

i'd rather be bad now and really good in the future than be kinda average now and really bad in the future idk

happy waggy wednesday here's a meme i spent too much time on (worth it tho)

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