#boredom is not bad
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I'm going to need people to realize that throwing a hissy fit over somebody gently or casually rejecting your offer to help them is going to make them SO MUCH LESS inclined to accept it in the future. And making it a point that they should have anyways, often through guilt trips, is going to motivate them even more to avoid you.
Especially if it's over something so fucking small like carrying something for somebody even though you know they can do it themselves and they're clearly not struggling.
"I'm just trying to be nice. 😤" If you're going to be like that then I have some bad news for you, you're not a nice person. You're larping one. "Being nice" to get some sort of mental or spiritual high out of it and throwing a fit when you're denied that isn't what it actually means to "be nice."
I'm not sorry but since fucking when were you entitled to using someone else to regulate yourself? Even through "nice" gestures like helping them with something? Especially if the only reason you're doing it is because you're bored?
"I don't handle it well." You can die of it for all I care once you've taken it to that point.
#honestly what the FUCK is it with people being so comfortable in sneakily using others to regulate themselves this way?#i know this sounds like a trauma response but it isn't#this is a 'i'm SO TIRED of seeing and dealing with this behavior from other people'#a while ago a girl at work came over to talk to me and said she was doing it because she was bored#my first thought was 'holy shit then fuck off'#she soon left the conversation because i wasn't reciprocating at all after she told me that#it won't kill you to just be bored#boredom is not bad#don't come to me under the guise of being friendly to alleviate yourself of it. fuck. right. off.#'buh-buh-buh it could lead to a meaningful connection. 🥺'#no relationship that starts off through exploitation is ever good or lasts#especially when either one or all parties involved don't make it known that they're just using others
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MACHINE. We NEED to COOK.
#aka guess who started playing ultrakill#my art#artists on tumblr#ultrakill#gabriel ultrakill#v1 ultrakill#my explanation for this is boredom on a slow work day#breaking bad#? i guess
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#watched one video out of boredom and now i'm posting about luca and joan this is very bad for me#luca marini#joan mir
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shiguang comic bc they r my stress balls
read left -> right. dialouge under cut.
Cheng Xiaoshi: Qiao Ling, would you love me were I a worm?
Qiao Ling: ehhh...
Cheng Xiaoshi: WHATS WITH THAT REACTION !!!
Qiao Ling: You'd be pretty slimy, no?
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Cheng Xiaoshi: hhmmmrrr... Guang-guang, would YOU love me if I were a worm?
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Lu Guang: I like you as you are. Idiot.
Cheng Xiaoshi: WHTA
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Cheng Xiaoshi: YOU LIKE ME??
Lu Guang: Obviously.
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Cheng Xiaoshi: ...!!
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Cheng Xiaoshi: Ahhh, maybe I am blessed...
Lu Guang: Don't go and get an ego now.
Cheng Xiaoshi: Sure.
#inspired by boredom and all the wonderful comcis i keep reading bc if that shiguang fluff week thing from TWT appearently#gotta log on a go thru the tag....#my art#cheng xiaoshi#lu guang#link click#sgdlr#i dont wanna tag QL bc she inly shows up once but#my organizatuon.......#wwwwwhatever ill draw her kater ti make it up to her#qiao ling#apologies if it doesnt make sense i draw without planning dialouge . bc im bad at it.#so it sounds rough after 😭
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This TS2 CAS background is sooo good omg
#this is what boredom does to one - trying out new cas bgs#also yes lmaooo this is my walter white sim#I have the biggest breaking bad hyperfixation currently#and I didn't know what other sim to try this background out with fkjdsffsdkj#ts4#cas#breaking bad#walter white#random
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What have i done?
#insanetvgirl#total drama#tdi#total drama bridgette#danganronpa#aoi asahina#danganronpa aoi#danganronpa v1#total drama island#total drama action#total drama world tour#ibis paint x#boredom#that's so bad#idk why#why have i done this
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Unhinged Graham for someone on Twitter
(He hates Zak; AU stuff, as per usual)
#Graham is constantly on the verge of losing his mind in our AU#He tries his hardest to keep himself under control#but it doesn't really work too well and he ends up having psychotic breakdowns#he's not that bad of a guy once tou get to know him and he can actually be quite sweet and a charm#he's got something going on mentally he knows and he struggles with it so badly sometimes but he's so greatful Flint loves him nonetheless#Graham HATES Zak he wants him to explode#but it's probably because; although he doesn't realize it; he just hates how Zak is only 25 and has already signed his life away#now he needs to watch someone who reminds him of himself go down the same path of monotonous boredom and insanity that he has#life is a circle#ttcc#imagionary rambles#toontown corporate clash#toontown: corporate clash#toontown#graham ness payser#pacesetter#alpha pup#zak blazer#ttcc au#ttcc oc#sorry for writing so much in here#I love Graham and he's trying his best
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bad and crazy + text posts
#couldn't leave my boyfailure ryu suyeol out of my boredom induced shenanigans#bad and crazy#ryu su yeol#K#lee hui gyeom#lee dongwook#wi ha joon#han jieun#my post
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visiting laventon
#volo#pokemon legends arceus#hoorah angst!#professor laventon i guess?#laventon mentions that volo stopped by to wish him luck on his research after the postgame#and i had been wanting to draw him all day so i made this#deflated his arceus hairdo bc hes disheveled and sad#pla spoilers#i played around with colors a lot! gradient maps are fun#the sunrise was fun to draw#i color picked it from a screenshot from the game#there are like 30+ layers on this bad boy#hes so fun to draw#i miss him a lot i dont like that you cant find him BUT#it also leaves room for interpretation of what happened to him and what he did#i like the hiker theory#also the one where he just. dug out the grand underground out of boredom.#either way i want him to keep the white tips on his hair#i still have a lot of thoughts but i’ll just say them in the tags of my next volo drawing#cuz you know its gonna be soon#pokemon volo
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wanted to thank y'all and ask you to get some help why on earth are you here
#creating the silly comic i never intended it for anyone to see#it's fully made from bad humor and local jokes#and me going insane in ms paint out of pure boredom#so i'm honestly surprised
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they gotta stop making new video games man these things consume your life (he is playing a game that came out in 2011)
#skye's ramblings#been soo low energy lately im honestly kinda glad i remembered this game. i will not be consumed by the burnout boredom. we are farming#i also get to be like haha. little skye was fucking bad at this game. also this game is janky as fuck theres so many like. strange glitches#its kind of charming in a weird way. theyre never a hindrance to gameplay theyre always just like ?????????? how does this happen#if you give a certain character her favorite food on her birthday her dialogue turns literally all th text in the game red for a short time#one girl has a special interface to craft potions for you and if you open it all items in your personal inventory are just. cut in half#the effect is purely visual but its so fucking fascinating to me. how do we even get to this point#also i love the characters ithink i wanna draw them once my brain lets me. reina harvestmoon my buaetiful wife who talks to plants
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guy with the most unpleasant voice you’ve ever heard: I need to start a podcast
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i think in the last five years ive managed to do great advances on having a decent living but ive completely forgotten how to have fun. its honestly a little scary.
#with the haze of hyperfixation out of my brain i have nothing much going#the dread and boredom are strong#ive also just had. a bunch of bad bad adhd days together#feeling like im in the pits right now team#mati barks#christ i never finished reading sbr
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sometimes it physically hurts the way a show treats its female characters
#not going to specify what this is about specifically#it is a bad show which I am not particularly enjoying#and is morally repugnant in multiple ways even aside from the way it treats women#BUT there are 15 seasons of it on netflix and it passes the time#between-hyperfixations boredom is killing me#screams into the void
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I wanna go back to this era of honkai
#I'm missing the part 1 cast real fucking bad rn#Apho3 please apho3 they've gotta release apho3 soon or I'll die of boredom#Honkai impact#Hi3
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im so sorry
#curiousity and boredom are a bad combination#i spent way too much time putting this together#david byrne was right#i do say to myself#“my god what have i done”#death's stuff#my edit#scene#2000s#2000s scene#ren hoek#ren and stimpy#shitpost#scenecore#scemo#00s nostalgia#00s#nostalgia#cursed
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