i'm so fucking tired of heteros ffs GIVE ME PEGGYNAT

also natasha in this entire episode is just *gay yearning* for a certain Brit

Melina just goes slipping shit like "ah go for her left knee she fucked it up in third grade" LIKE MA'AM.

WANDA?! WANDA WANDA WANDA WANDA WANDA WANDA WANDA WANDA WANDA WANDA WANDA WANDA WANDA WANDA WANDA WANDA WANDA WANDA WANDA WANDA WANDA WANDA WANDA WANDA WANDA WANDA WANDA WANDA WANDA WANDA WANDA WANDA WANDA WANDA WANDA WANDA WANDA WANDA WANDA WANDA WANDA WANDA WANDA WANDA WANDA WANDA WANDA

Seriously, being a Stucky and Bucky fan is the most painful thing ever. Nothing good ever happens here. Marvel constantly erases and minimizes Bucky and Steve's relationship. Bucky and Steve are either written out of character or made the butt of a joke. They always talk bad about Bucky and act like he's scum. The constant victim blaming ,constantly showing him in a bad light. And they treat Bucky, Stucky, and their fans like trash, something unwanted and delusional, but at the same time they plagiarize Stucky's story for Peggy's "What if?" episode. And when it is Steggy, those scenes are shown as romantic. Nothing is changing, and it keeps getting worse. It's tiring

I completely understand your frustration and the fact that you're disheartened, lovely. It does suck, a lot. But can I offer a different perspective, maybe? I don't know if it's helpful for you, but just in case it might be.

How about saying, being a Stucky and Bucky fan is the most painful thing ever if you continue to let Marvel determine your fandom experience? Because it's true that nothing good ever happens in the MCU when it comes to Bucky or Stucky anymore, and it's true that it keeps getting worse in the MCU (for people who feel the way you and I do, that is), but it's not true that nothing good every happens in the Stucky fandom anymore. It would be a disservice to the fandom, and to all the beautiful stories and art created every single day, to say that it just keeps getting worse. In my opinion, the trick is to just go like this as much as possible whenever Marvel tries to say anything new and awful about our boys:

And to continue cheerfully ignoring them, and enjoying/creating beautiful fan works created by people who actually understand these characters and relationships and are creating out of love instead of greed.

I know you might be thinking 'okay, but you've just been talking about the new rumours and how much you hate them yourself,' which is true, but if I hadn't received asks about it, I wouldn't have addressed it (and I still prefer to keep discussion of these topics to a minimum). Turning my back on Marvel and deciding to not watch new content, and that said content (pretty much anything after IW) was no longer canon for me anyway definitely eased the pain a lot, and made it easier to shrug off the new, bad things Marvel keeps piling on. It's not 100% effective (I still get mad sometimes), but definitely helps a good 75% I'd say. Overall, I'm just like 'let these Marvel weirdos misinterpret these characters, I'm never going to accept their headcanons anyway (bc that's all they are, in the end), so I might as well just ignore them for the most part'.

Give it a try honey, it might work for you too! ❤️