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12 and 13? (With Jose)
I suppose it's time for me take over Xelle's blog again. It's not that I'm complaining, though.
12. What is your preferred method of flirting? Are you physical, do you use cheesy but harmless pick-up lines, or are you heavy-handed in your approach? How do they react to being flirted with? If you don’t flirt with them, how else do you (or did you) show them you were interested in them?
For some reason, Xelle hasn't gotten used to my ways of flirting. Even after being married for over a year now, their face would still heat up to the point they look like an actual tomato. I always find it adorable whenever they cover their cheeks or mouth.
Anyway, before we got together, I tended to throw extremely straightforward questions at them. For example, that time when I asked them if they will ever decide to get a lover or spouse. They stuttered a lot. They weren't even certain of their answer.
They got even more flustered when I told them the person they'll marry is already right in front of them. I was partially joking, but I think they took it too seriously and denied it. Well, look at where they've gotten now.
In the present, well, just like I've mentioned before, I'm much better at showing affection through the use of actions. It also applies to my flirting. Though I do like whispering sweet nothings to their ear and randomly complimenting something they didn't even notice, it amuses me when I suddenly touch their body in public. Not in a lewd way, of course. But they get very passive aggressive, and would even pinch my hand to make me stop.
Hm. Don't even dare to ask me what would happen if we were in a private area.
13. What’s a typical conversation like between you and your s/o? Do you both joke around with each other and have inside jokes? Do you swap memes at ungodly hours of the night? Do you get philosophical with each other? Or are you both more likely to quietly communicate with each other, such as with looks and touches?
Usually, we talk about our everyday routine. Just like what we will be having for dinner tomorrow, what kind of new toy we will be buying for Louis, if we need a new toothpaste to use. You know, the typical domestic conversations.
Sometimes, we like to state random facts about our jobs that we're not even familiar of. For your reference, I'm a sailor, Xelle is a baker. I would say something about the stars and how it would help me determining the directions, and Xelle would say how many teaspoons of sugar you should be adding to a cake. Neither of us understands a single thing we're saying, but we both know we're enjoying the time we spend together.
Oh, and of course. We like to talk about deep topics, it just gradually comes by and we wouldn't even notice that we're crying in each other's arms. Xelle looks out for me a lot (even though I should be the one who is doing so, I mean, I do, but I need to let them actually feel it) and they would always ask me if I'm doing okay or not. They also tend to take a look at my scars whenever I come back from sailing. It just shows how much they care for me, and I'm eternally grateful for it. I think this might be because I spent ten years in a manor playing such a deadly game.
What I mean by deep topics, is how we both feel lucky to have each other. They love me, and I love them. It's as simple as that, but it often gets emotional and Xelle would repeatedly thank me for choosing someone like them, someone who was just a passerby. I reassure them that it's not about the status, but because of the attitude they help up instead.
I got carried away, apologies. Thank you for the questions.
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