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dewitty1 · 3 months
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Saturday Six (Stuff)
Haven't done one of these in a while. Just been blah lately. Life is just trucking along. No work really. I've been finishing up tax/accounting stuff. (。-ω-)ノ
Had a huge fight with Dad (the parents, but mom was mostly trying to mediate, ha) about money and jobs. Boomers obviously have no clue about the job market, especially here. You can't just "network" and get a job. And a lot of employers don't want to hire someone who's had/has their own business. Sigh... I'm sofa king tired of life sometimes. (;*´Д`)ノ
Leeloo continues to be a nut, but she's also adorable.o(^・x・^)o
Trying to stay positive in this environment is so hard, especially after this week. And when you're not really a positive person anyway, ugh. Yeah...(⑅ ‘﹃’ )
I really hate that the supportive TV families that I watched growing up messed me up. Because I don't have that.(’-’*)
It's been really rainy here lately. I like it because at least it matches the mood/vibe I've got going on. (︶︹︺)
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dewitty1 · 6 months
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We had a pretty decent Thanksgiving on Thursday, with only minimal racism from my uncle and my dad. Things are slightly improving.Σ(-᷅_-᷄๑)
Leeloo the kitten is getting spayed next month and let me tell you, it can't come soon enough, because that gal is getting a little too horny, and it's a good thing my older boys are neutered already, lol. (=^-ω-^=)
I'm not ready for x-mas. They were playing x-mas music at the grocery store yesterday and I was like, nope.(*`へ´*)
I'm still peeved about events from last week, but I'm trying to get over them. Idk that it will do anything good to mention my feelings.(’-’*)
I really need work to pick up just a little bit.(´~`)
The not having any money sure helps with the not wanting to go anywhere and do anything. Not that there's much to do here anyway. Also, wheeee, depression. (◍•﹏•)
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dewitty1 · 6 months
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I went to the coast for my Bff's mom's funeral service & memorial. It was not good times.
My Bff's brother seems like a good guy, to everyone else, but a long while back, my brother said some bs to him, and I've been persona non grata, for no good reason, ever since.
I went through so many damned old photos. So many shitty photos lol.
Please, I beg you, have your parents and grandparents LABLE YOUR FAMILY PHOTOS. I went through so many photos of people that my friend had NO IDEA who they were. Just some ancestors.
Also, have your parents and grandparents make wills that clearly designate their final wishes about everything. All their burial wishes, money, and THINGS. Fighting over stuff is so stupid after a death.
Being made to feel like you're not valuable is really shitty. Please don't make your friends and family feel that way. Also, transactional relationships are bullshit.
And seven because - As you can probably tell I had a shite time this week. Please tell those you love, whether they're real or chosen family, that you love them, and mean it.
Thank you for coming to my TED talk.
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dewitty1 · 1 year
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Bunglr seems like it's clearing out the bots because my follower count has dipped again...(。-ω-)ノ
I'm ready for warmer weather, but not ready to go to the Farmer's Market and do all the people-ing.Σ(-᷅_-᷄๑)
What I really want is more rain. \(^▽^@)ノ
I've got baby tomato plants that I started from seeds, and I've got flower seeds & micro-clover to plant!(ノ◕ヮ◕)ノ*:・゚✧*✲゚*。⋆♡
We finally got Socks' ashes. Nobody called to tell us he was ready in March.(*`へ´*)
Going for a drive to look at another customer project on Monday, and I'm putting up flyers along the way back up. I've gotten a bit of work from flyers before, so hopefully it'll work again. (•̀ᴗ•́)و ̑̑
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dewitty1 · 2 years
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Oopsie, forgot to post last week, because I was busy with work. But I'm taking every other weekend off for self care, even though I've got so much to do still. Here's what I'm working on. (•̀⌄•́)
My therapist says I'm making improvements. Meh, idk about that. I think it's more I'm just tired of reacting to my dad all the time. Though I'm still bloody angry as hell that it's up to me to do all the work to change.( •̀ω•́ )σ
It's only been two weeks and I'm sick of this snow and freezing cold. Mother Nature didn't even ease us into it, like usual. It just came out of nowhere.(*`へ´*)
Even though I'm still hurting, I'm grateful to have a great physical therapist who really is trying to help me.(❁´▽`❁)*✲゚*
I'm really grateful to have returning customers who are willing to give me another opportunity to work with them, even if I might have made a mistake (it's been a few years since I made a lady's item, and she's just now coming back to me, to have me fix it, oopsie! She's a sweetheart!)(*´▽`*)
My adopted orange boy, Boots, is really becoming the lover kitteh. He loves the pets and rubs, though he still has some feral issues to work out. (=^-ω-^=)
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dewitty1 · 1 year
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Oopsie, I almost forgot to post my fic recs wrap up today. Good thing I got up early enough to bang them out really quickly. Derp.(•̀⌄•́)
The Dude, @super-ultra-mega-kami-guru-blog, and I are supposed to put up our patio today. Much excite.“ψ(`∇´)ψ
I can't wait until I have money for flowers! My patio will look a little bare until the plants are in.♡(•ི̛ᴗ•̛)ྀ
Boots was a bad kitty and slipped outside when I let Reggie out yesterday morning. It was almost a crisis. He decided to come back in quickly on his own, but he was having none of me trying to call him or pick him up. Ughhhh. Silly guy. I had to give him a stern talking to, which he ignored in favor of getting pets. (^・ω・^ )
We took a drive down south, and got started putting up flyers around the surrounding towns. Hopefully it works to bring in some business. (。-ω-)ノ
I'm not really ready for these hot, summertime temperatures we're supposed to get this week. But we got the air conditioner up and running. (’-’*)
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dewitty1 · 1 year
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Honestly, moving is THE WORST. 0/10 do not recommend. The past few weeks have consisted of the Dude and I helping my parents move. Thank goodness it's mostly done, but for some tools my dad still has in the garage.Σ(-᷅_-᷄๑)
All I have to do with the move thing now is finish setting up my workspace in a cold, windowless garage. But, I'll be alone when I work! No dad hovering all day!(•̀⌄•́)
We have to get Socks back to the vet, because his kitteh cold/sneezey/snotty thing is back again. Ugh. Poor old man. He's been super grumpy lately too, probably because of that. (^・ω・^ )
I got a big restaurant booth recover job, thanks to a referral from the last one like that that I did a few years ago.٩(•̤̀ᵕ•̤́๑)ᵒᵏᵎᵎᵎᵎ
Cannot wait for Spring to spring and wash all the ugly brown snow and dead crap away.(❁´▽`❁)*✲゚*
I'll be going to the coast to see my BFF in the first few days of March! ヽ(*⌒∇⌒*)ノ
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dewitty1 · 1 year
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Getting woken up after only 2 hours of sleep, and not being able to really go back to sleep, is not cool. Guess I'm living on caffeine today.(¬д¬。)
That moment when someone you know gets a personal pleasure item stuck up their butt. Nope, not me, and has to have it pulled out by a surgeon. Good times.(⑅ ‘﹃’ )
I ordered orthopedic shoes and now I feel about 75 years old. At least two pairs look cute.ヾ(*´ー`)ノ
My therapist keeps asking me if I'm going to get another cat. I keep thinking two is enough, for now. (=^-ω-^=)
We had a lovely day of rain yesterday, even though my plant hook that was out in the grass fell over, due to the wet. I can't wait to be able to get some plants outside!(❁´▽`❁)*✲゚*
My birthday this past Tuesday was a very chill day. We had a nice lunch. Even if my dad did leave the door open when he used the restaurant's bathroom. (ὀ⌓ὀ⑅)
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dewitty1 · 2 years
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Happy Spoopy weekend, y'all! I'll be with you in spirit, if not actually partaking. I'm not a fan of spoopy movies or anything like that. I may watch The Wizard of Oz, or something like that though, which I remember watching every year growing up.(˼●̙̂ ̟ ̟̎ ̟ ̘●̂˻)
We took our patio and plants down today. Always a bummer to do, because that means it's almost winter. Boooo・゜・(ノД`)
The garage at the new house (my parent's) could be really nice for me to work in, if it's done right. Problem is, I don't think I'll get my way.(¬д¬。)
When you've been conditioned to be negative for your whole life, change is really hard. Idk how to just turn on positivity like a switch.(。-ω-)ノ
My back is very very upset still. The pain is now in my hips. Ugh. This is so not cool.(*`へ´*)
Gonna fill out my ballot this weekend, whoot whoot! (•̀ᴗ•́)و ̑̑
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dewitty1 · 1 year
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My oldest cat, KittyMeow, passed away on Tuesday. She was 19. (=^-ω-^=)
My parents really upset me over it, when they said they'd do something to help, and then decided they wouldnt do the things they said, and didn't even discuss it with my son and I. Thankfully my ex is helping us get some closure.(*`へ´*)
I think the boy cats have noticed that KittyMeow is gone. Reggie has taken up residence on her old bed. And Boots seems to want to fight him over it. It's really cute actually. I think Socks misses his sleepin buddy, and also her leftover food lol. (^・ω・^ )
I've been hit or miss doing these a few times because I've been working on this big project still. But I am really, really close to being done.٩(•̤̀ᵕ•̤́๑)ᵒᵏᵎᵎᵎᵎ
We got snow and cold so early here, that it feels like it's been winter forever already.ヾ(*´ー`)ノ
Even though I hate accounting, I might start a part time job doing accounting for other people. Idk, we'll see what my accountant comes up with. (ෆ ͒•∘̬• ͒)◞
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dewitty1 · 1 year
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The trip to the coast last week was not the best, but it was good to see my friend, and a bit of the ocean, if nothing else. And at least, in the end, my sewing machine got fixed. And the passes were pretty clear for driving. A few positives anyway.♡(•ི̛ᴗ•̛)ྀ
My cat Socks is really sick. I can't handle losing another pet so soon after losing KittyMeow in November.(ノ´д`)
The garage I'll be working in is basically all set up and organized. It needs a little fine tuning, but we're ready to go. Good thing, since Monday we start working on booths for another restaurant here in town.೭੧(❛〜❛✿)੭೨
I haven't really worked on my therapy homework like I should have. At least, not consciously. Challenging negative thoughts really doesn't come easy to me.(~_~;)
I can't believe we've had snow now for 5 months in a row. Wtffffff. If y'all don't believe climate change is real then I've got some bridges to sell you. (.﹒︣︿﹒︣.)
Meanwhile, Boots the Kitteh is getting more comfortable, and talkative. I got two whole meows this morning! That's amazing for my shy, ex-feral boy!₍˄ุ.͡˳̫.˄ุ₎ฅ˒˒
BONUS - I'm sorry I've I haven't been as active. Just real life, being on mini-vacays, depression, not feeling the vibe, tiredness, my sick kitteh, whatever, ya know. But I still love y'all! Thanks for sticking around! (◍•ᴗ•◍)❤
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dewitty1 · 1 year
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I'll be visiting the coast (of Washington State) this week through next weekend to visit with my BFF. We're supposed to go through some of her mom's stuff. Idk if that will happen, but it will be good to hang with her anyway. o((*^▽^*))o
The trauma of having alcoholic (now sober) parents. If you know, you know. "Lord" have mercy.(*`へ´*)
The Dude and I have been having some really major conversations about life, the universe and everything.(•̀ᴗ•́)و ̑̑
Got my tax return back already! Yay for filing as early as possible!ヾ(@°▽°@)ノ
Socks went to the vet for his kitteh cold/sneezy/snotty thing again. He was not happy about a shot in the buttocks and almost bit the vet, and did bite me.o(^・x・^)o
The end of February has come with cold AF temperatures and I say good riddance! Usually, March isn't my best month, but it's starting off good with a little vacay-ish, so here hoping! (*´▽`*)
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dewitty1 · 1 year
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Snow, snow and more snowwwwww, and it's still snowing. It's supposed to snow all day. So another 8-10 inches on top of the 17+ inches we had already. Blargh.・゜・(ノД`)
My therapist is setting all kinds of challenges for me. How do you turn a pessimist in to an optimist? IEDK.Σ(-᷅_-᷄๑)
I finally finished my big project for work. It feels anticlimactic, actually. Maybe I'll feel better once it's been delivered to the customer.(⑅ ‘﹃’ )
Reggie (Regulus Arcturus Black Kitteh) isn't really happy about being stuck inside because of the snow. But he's found out that he doesn't love snow either. (^・ω・^ )
Socks (the fat old man cat) has a cold, and needs to go to the vet. He will not be happy about this.(*`へ´*)
I'm trying to keep up with the Erised fest this year, but my Kindle died, and reading on my phone is a bit of a pain. I'm doing the best I can. I'm also reading Kitchen Confidential by Anthony Bourdain, and that just makes me sad. ヾ(*´ー`)ノ
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dewitty1 · 1 year
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Finished the project for the parental units new house. It looks good.٩(•̤̀ᵕ•̤́๑)ᵒᵏᵎᵎᵎᵎ
I finally got the pictures I had Shutterfly print of KittyMeow. It took forever. And yeah I need good (really easy) photo editing software, because they are kind of a mess. No I can't do anything like photoshop because I don't get it. I need really easy, like Insta easy lol. Oh well, I still like them. And I'll probably frame them anyway.✩⃛( ͒ ु•·̫• ू ͒)
A tad bit late in the year, but we finally took the Winter (aka Xmas) decorations down. Our excuse has been the huge mass of snow in the way of our shed.(๑>ᴗ<๑)
It's been raining here steadily for about 4ish days now, and it's so much better than snow, but the slush is horrible, and the back roads are all squidgy. My little Impreza doesn't like it. But I loooove the rain!(❁´▽`❁)*✲゚*
My business picked up last year. Quite a bit better than the past 3 years. I'm still under the poverty level though. How ridiculous is that?s(・`ヘ´・;)ゞ
I had little boy Reggie (Regulus Arcturus Black Kitteh) making biscuits on my bed last night. I only mention it because he's been hanging out in the living room more often since I got my new chair. Here's a gif of him...₍˄ุ.͡˳̫.˄ุ₎ฅ˒˒
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dewitty1 · 2 years
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It's been one of those weeks where I'm so stressed, I don't even realize it, and I make myself physically ill.(¬д¬。)
Therapy homework is really hard.Σ(-᷅_-᷄๑)
I think I need to find a part time job, but I really don't want to do anything that I can't do from home, and on my own time. I like being my own boss.(。-ω-)ノ
Work is work. I'm working on stripey fabric slipcovers now. Wheee.ヾ(´A`)ノ゚
It's barely going to be Halloween, but Xmas decorations are already out. Ughhhh. (’-’*)
It's finally decided to be Fall/Autumn here. We had RAIN yesterday! (*´▽`*)
Bonus - I'm making SOUP this weekend! (Pueblo style Green Chile!) Yum! (っ˘ڡ˘ς)
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dewitty1 · 1 year
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Had to take the old man kitteh (Socks) to the vet because he's got a cold that he caught from KittyMeow before she passed. He should be okay after taking antibiotics. (=^-ω-^=)
It's snowing here again. And we're supposed to get some again tomorrow. As well as having a "White Christmas." Ugh. I'm really freaking tired of cold and snow.̣̥☆·͙̥‧❄‧̩̥·‧•̥̩̥͙‧·‧̩̥˟͙☃˟͙‧̩̥·‧•̥̩̥͙‧·‧̩̥❄‧·͙̥̣☆̣̥
Work has slowed down a bit, which is good from a self care standpoint, but not from a financial standpoint.ヾ(*´ー`)ノ
I really dislike being at an age where you have 101 things going wrong with your body all at the same time.(.`・﹏・´.)
I really hate when you put a request in to your primary care provider, and they don't get back to you asap. Umm, like yes, my request is urgent, but like, I don't want to go to the emergency room with this OK? Geez.(っ- ‸ – ς)
I feel like Crimbo is going to be a little lame this year. Idk.。゚✲☆(๑òᆺó๑)。゚✲☆
Oopsie, sorry for not being more positive, as my therapist advies. It isn't always the easiest thing for me. I am working towards that goal though! (✿´ ꒳ ` )
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