Someone not sexualizing and objectifying people while describing them is being asexual now? Some of y'all don't go out and it shows unfortunately
Hiiiiiii!! Soooo your super uneducated but thatโs okay! Youโve come to the right place because you seeโฆ I AM ASEXUAL so like let me explain it to you ^__^
First off, the basics, what does asexual mean? -โWell asexual means โsomeone who lacks sexual attraction towards all genders or personsโ and thatโs it! It doesnโt tell you anything about wether or not someone likes sex. It simply means they have never felt sexual attraction!
And if your thinking, โwelll no one feels sexual attraction from looking at someone- it doesnโt actually work that wayโ wellllll Iโve got good news! You are probably asexual mate! Congratulations ๐๐๐พ
Now letโs talk about Neil Josten!
The great thing about these books are that they are from Neilโs point of view which means we donโt have to guess what he was thinking! We know it! So the best proof that Neil is asexual is the fact that he never is sexually attracted to someone! Sexual attraction is not something you can hide in your own thoughts- this is proven by jeans point of view- he knows heโs not supposed to be attracted to men but that doesnโt stop him- no matter how hard he shoves it down we see it. He feels it. This is not โsexualizing or objectifyingโ anyone this is a very normal human reaction. ( And if itโs one you donโt relate to at all then again mate, you really might be asexual, which is great! Cuz guess what? Asexuality is ALSO a normal human reaction! Yippie!)
There is also the argument that Neilโs mom โbeat him for being attracted to people so heโs not anymoreโ this is flawed simply because we know that DOESNT work, if beating the gay (or over all attraction) out off someone worked then Nicky wouldnโt be gay, Andrew wouldnโt be gay, Jean wouldnโt be bi- you see? It doesnโt work and never will. Believe me homophobes have been trying for decades, and I would hope you donโt join them-
Now with all this information, I would also like the say that the wonderful author Nora has said that she is asexual and Neil definitely was written with her experiences with attraction! (I believe she specifically stated she is Demi- which falls under the asexual umbrella! Please do more research if you would like to learn more about asexuality and itโs many forms!)
Thank you !
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i imagine people would write those โomg my mom sold me to delusion or windblume!โ fanfics ๐ญ
โY/n! Get down here!โ
You groaned and threw your hair into a messy bun and made your way downstairs. You were wearing an old Delusion merch shirt and some shorts, you were never one for skirts. Unlike most girls.
โYes, mom?โ you asked, always walking on eggshells around her. Ever since dad left sheโs turned to drugs to cope.
โWeโre broke. I sold you to have more money for hard drugs. Pack your things.โ
โUgh! This is just like you!โ You scream, stomping your foot as your emerald orbs stare into hers. Yours were full of life while hers had dulled out.
โJust go, I never wanna see you again.โ
โHmph,โ you carried your petite 4โ2 20lbs body up the stairs and packed a small bag. When you came back downstairs and left there was an expensive car waiting outside.
โHere, let us help with your bags,โ a voice said. You turn to see the hit boy band Delusion step out of the car!! Wow they were sexier in person. Suddenly you felt on display in front of your idols.
โCute,โ Scaramouche smirks as he eyes you up and down hungrily.
โI call dibs,โ Childe smiles, taking your bag.
โI want her first,โ Kazuha says, stepping out from behind them.
โYou wish,โ Aether snickers, winking at you.
โYou bought me from my mom?โ You ask, shaking in their presence.
โYeah, we need someone to FUCK whenever we want,โ Childe says, โSo hope in the back of the car, weโre going to our sold out concert.โ
a/n ๐๐ like and comment for chapter 2 sorry for the late post i got hit by a bus and ran over and a dog bit my arm and also i almost drowned and went to jail
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WIP Not Wednesday/Google Search
Hi hi playing catch up! This week was NUTS (RIP MY CHILDHOOD DOG ๐ญ๐ญ) and am busy prepping for a crazy fun June so wanted to share some before more shit hits the fan!
Thank you for the tags @cha-melodius @firenati0n and @alasse9 for the Google game! I use incognito mode for literally everything BUT here are my latest rabbit holes, some sillier than others
The Game: share your last fic/writing related Google search, with as much or as little context as you want to give.
Insta stalking Casey to figure out where they have done author readings/ Q&As
Barbie swan lake constellation video
Swan princess butler name
Austin author events
Brooklyn author events
And thanks to @xthelastknownsurvivorx @heysweetheart-writes @cha-melodius @myheartalivewrites @littlemisskittentoes and @suseagull04 for today's and Sunday's tags!! Here is more infidelity fic bc I have zero self control w this one and hit 12.5k this week!
My best friend surprises me an hour later, holding more wine and a box brimming with goods from home.
โAngel from above, where is your luggage?โ I hastily make room on the nearest surface for the box.
โThis was an emergency. I have spare pants and my favorite shoes. Your wardrobe will suffice for the rest,โ he answers before crushing me in a tight hug.
Percy "Pez, like the sweets" Okonjo has been a fabulous, beloved thorn in my side since we were precocious posh misfits at Eton. We were seated next to each other in maths so that I, the reserved sensitive boy who happened to be atrocious with numbers, could temper his loud mouth while learning a thing or two from him about algebra. This was a scheme that backfired tremendously, and we've raised hell together ever since.
Open tag bc my brain is a mess!!! And also tagging the friends above that haven't done the Google search game to do it!!! :D
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LIZZZZ LOOK AT HIM
LILS IM DYING STOP TJIS ๐๐๐ he wants me guys i swear ๐๐๐ฅ
anyway look at jay ๐คญ
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