If you like someone, wait. Give lots of compliments, even if you’re shy. Everyone else is too. Change. Get a haircut, try new perfume, get new sheets. Become better than you were before. Eat healthier. Learn to cook something fancy. Get up earlier and watch the sun come up. Wear soft clothes, take a bath, drink something warm. Meet someone new, even just a friend. Become closer with your friends and your family. Call your mother. Cry with your best friend. Tell everyone how much you appreciate them. Keep your room clean. Buy some candles. Let the natural light in. Make a list of reasons why you’ll be better off without them. Believe they are true, because they are. Listen to new music. Write everything you’re thinking and feeling. Write letters. Write happy letters, sad letters, and angry letters, even if you’re never going to send them. It’s okay to be sad, but not forever. Sadness is not as beautiful as music makes it seem. Lack of sleep makes your eyes droopy, not deep. Wake up every morning and tell yourself you’re going to have a good day. Go to the library. Don’t forget to look in the music section. Remove them from your life. Get rid of the things they gave you if they make you sad. They’re not worth it. You will never be happy if you continue to hold on to the things that make you sad. Make new memories. Try to find something to appreciate in everything you do or experience. Being alone is okay, you don’t have to surround yourself with people. Become your own best friend. Buy yourself coffee and drink it alone in a cafe. Take your time. Learn to love every bit of yourself.

How to feel better and become better by me (via intractably)

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21st birthday celebrations! I kind of love this man - he is always there for me, makes me laugh even when I thought I couldn't possibly and never fails to make me feel beautiful ❤

i hope u find someone that mindlessly plays with your hands and lightly strokes your legs and massages your back and plays with your hair and i hope that u feel like you’re home when u look at them

I want to go on a roadtrip someday. Alone or with someone I love. I want to get away. Explore places. Sleep in the car. Stop a lot, just to admire the view. Visit museums and try out coffee shops. Listen to my favourite albums while driving. Have a polaroid camera. Take pretty pictures of the sunrise. Take pictures of myself. Run through a forest. Chase fog. Chase the sun. Spend hours on a field, making flower crowns. Feel the wind in my hair. Buy souvenirs. Meet people. Take time to observe. I want to make memories. I want to feel alive.

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When do we leave?!

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Already did this with my babe.

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Thought I'd share post since its been a while!! But I'm ridiculously happy with my life at the moment!! :D This guy is a big part of it... He comes on adventures with me, drives me to appointments when I need the company, keeps me on track with my comp prep but most importantly puts a smile on my face!! I swear I like him a little bit more every time I see him (if that's even possible) and am so glad he is a part of my life <3 (Photo was taken at a waterfall adventure a couple weeks ago)

You can go through your entire life hating yourself and telling yourself that you’re not good enough for whatever reasons you can come up with. Or you can say “Fuck it” and you can decide that you want to love yourself. You can decide that you are good enough and that you are worthy enough to live a beautiful life without constantly being at war with who you are. It’s your choice.

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I just discovered this really awesome site. Emotionalbaggagecheck.com

It’s a site that lets you leave the things that are bothering you anonymously. When someone chooses to “carry your baggage" they’ll get your submission, and send a song and a personal note to your email address through the site (it’s never shown publicly) that may help you with what you’re going through. I think this is an amazing idea! Don’t keep scrolling past this cause it’s actually worth checking out! :) 

What doesn’t kill you, really fucks you up for a while, but then, yes, it makes you stronger. And one day you’re going to wake up and the things that used to hurt you so much it felt like the very breath was being pulled from your lungs, those things aren’t going to hurt anymore. And the wounds you thought couldn’t and wouldn’t ever heal, will have done just that. One day you’re going to wake up and you’re going to be OK. You have to hold out for that day. If there were ever something I wish I could tell you it’s that what you’re feeling is legitimate, it’s important. It’s real. But it’s going to end. You’re going to pick yourself back up, and you’re going to be fine. Give yourself time. Give yourself time. One day you’re going to look back, and realize the worst is over. You’re going to write poetry about it. You’re going to draw strength from it. Your dark is going to save you. It’s going to save other people.

At Twenty, I Whisper To My Younger Self: ‘Be Patient’ (via redeemingthelostcause)

Daughter tells her Dad he’s going to be a Grandpa [x]

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But I don’t want small talk. Text me, and without saying hello, tell me why you got so angry at your sister this morning. Tell me why you have a scar shaped like Europe on the left side of your neck. Send me paragraphs about the time you spent at your grandmother’s house that one summer. Call me when I’m half asleep and tell me why you believe in God. Tell me about the first time you saw your dad cry. Go on for hours about things that may not seem important because I promise that I’ll be hanging on to every word you say. Tell me everything. I don’t want someone who just talks about the weather.

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2014 was an incredible year for me! I went so far out of my comfort zone and really saw the rewards of it 😄 I spent time with amazing friends, am now working a job that I LOVE, had people enter and leave my life - all of which taught me important lessons... But most importantly I learnt to love myself and my life!! Now I'm ready for 2015! I have goals and plans for the year and it started in an incredible way... I had a proper New Years Eve party! With a midnight kiss from someone who I hope turns out to be a big part of my life 👌 Then the first day of 2015 has included sleeping and lying by the pool with the above person, a good training session with friends and laughing with my sister... They say how you spend New Years is how you spend the rest of the year - if that's true I won't be disappointed at all!! ❤

Coaching the adult squad I got asked how school was going.... I'm 20...

RAISE UR HAND IF PEOPLE EVER MISTAKEN U FOR BEING TOO YOUNG OR TOO OLD