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shinyphantomsalad · 2 years
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I'm sorry your post is being reblogged by gross terf blogs. I recommend blocking them if you haven't already. Stay safe!!
I don't care at this point. I hate seeing that post get likes and reblogs everyday. I'm not trans anymore nor am I heterosexual. I'm a lesbian and I hate seeing people reblog that post, terf or not.
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shinyphantomsalad · 2 years
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Kys homophobe
I'm literally a lesbian
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shinyphantomsalad · 2 years
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Can you please please share my post?
Ofc!
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shinyphantomsalad · 2 years
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Hello. I have been trying to pass through time without asking anyone for help. When I was 16 I had a tonic clonic seizure and was diagnosed with epilepsy. My MRI also showed signs of multiple sclerosis, but I didn't have any symptoms yet. On February 2020, while all this situation with Covid started spreading here, I started feeling like I was given an electric shock down my spine. Then it went to my hand, and my leg, covering my left side. It was my first symptom of MS. I have been prescribed Copaxone. I have been suffering from daily nausea for over a year now and have some trouble using my left hand lately. I am trying to go back to classes, but I also suffer from severe panic attacks when I am around others, that end up in seizures. Since July, I have had really bad gastrointestinal pain, that I haven't been able to do the necessary tests for. I need an endoscopy and an MRI, let alone the MRIs I need for MS, that I haven't been able to do either. Anything I eat gives me severe pain that ends up making me scream. Since July, I have only had a few days that I didn't end up screaming. I went to the ER twice, but they sent me back home because the ultrasound they did to me seemed OK and didn't bother furthermore. I was also diagnosed with diabetes lately, but have been unable to get a meter or have a proper diet, which also has prevented me from managing a diet for the bad stomach aches. Most of the time, there's no food at home.
The state in here has been awful, too. My father has been verbally and financially abusing my mother, threatening and insulting her for wanting to get groceries, even when she used her own money. They have been threatening each other with death and it got physical a few times. I haven't been able to work, when the symptoms of MS started, I lost my job at a daycare that I had really struggled to get, and my parent has been verbally abusive for even doing the smallest things, eating, taking a shower, washing my hair. My father has threatened of leaving us and has been getting the paperwork ready to go work at his birth place and leave home, and sadly, he is the only one with a stable job, mom has been going from job to job and without him, we won't be able to afford even the apartment. A couple of months ago, he left me alone while I was having a seizure and didn't notify anyone I needed help.
I don't know what to do, home feels like a battlefield. I just really need to do those tests, they are the most important ones and I'd need about 200€ for the MRIs, the intestinal one and the brain/neck ones. I know that's too much, but really, anything would help me, please? I can't stand all this anymore. I just want to have a chance at getting better. Thank you for taking the time to read. Please share if you can.
paypal.me/floataround
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shinyphantomsalad · 2 years
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♡ black lesbian needs help with rooms, food, and transportation for her and her family
i’m a 24 year old and depressed black lesbian living in henderson, nevada and me, my brother, and my sister in law have been having to survive outside of our home for the last month after our apartment complex said they had to investigate our place-leaving us to pretty much live out of our car and sleeping in it just as much. 
with little communication on their end and constantly delaying plans to provide us some sort of financial compensation, we’ve been paying out of our own pockets for food, gas, and places to stay which has been a huge strain on us emotionally and financially.
getting showers and being able to change our clothes is in itself a luxury since going back inside the apartment for even a minute is a long, weighty process  and honestly has just made things much more difficult and unsanitary.
if you have the time or resources, please boost or support us incase we still need to weather through this just a bit longer.
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paypal: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/primapuella
kofi: https://ko-fi.com/cakeradio
cashapp: $primap
PLS REBLOG IF YOU SEE THIS
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shinyphantomsalad · 2 years
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I'm back from my hiatus plus it's my birthday today! 🎂 I'm turning 17!
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shinyphantomsalad · 3 years
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hey I stumbled into you being dogpiled and went to your blog to find that you changed your identity. I just want you to know that whether you end up IDing as a lesbian or a straight trans man it’s ok, both are good identities and you have NOTHING to be ashamed of. I hope you find comfort in who you are. I’m a trans man myself but I’ve heard some of the butch lesbians in my life say that butchness can be fully divorced from feminine identity and a butch can simply define their gender as “lesbian”, and even use he/him or they/them pronouns if they want. all I’m saying is don’t let these radfems make you think the only options are Trans Traitor or She/Her Girl Lesbian. you can tailor language somewhat, even if you are fully cis; butches have been doing that for generations. anyway I hate seeing young lgbt people get dogpiled, please know that you’re enough and you can take all the time you want figuring out what makes you comfortable.
Hi anon thanks for sending this ask! Apologies for waiting I've been on a hiatus to improve my mental health and deal with some issues. My hiatus still isn't over so I'm scheduling this post for later hope that's okay!
I appreciate your concerns about me and my struggles with gender and sexual identity that's really thoughtful of you, however please don't tell me it's okay to call myself a straight trans man. I experienced harsh homophobia in real life that made me not want to call myself a lesbian so I started to call myself a straight trans man to. I was dealing with internilized homophobia and guilt for loving women so I thought if I saw myself as a man then it would be okay. All I did was just add more damage to my pain by viewing my attraction to women as straight. I know you're trying to comfort me but please don't tell me it's okay for me to go back identifying as a straight man because I don't want to harm myself again.
Your claim on radfems is very false actually. Radfems don't care if a lesbian uses she/he or they pronouns because they know pronouns don't equal your gender and it can't magically alter your gender. In fact I've met few radfems who are women but they go by he/him or they/them pronouns and I've even talked to few lesbians who are dysphoric. They were the ones who told me it's okay to use he/him pronouns and be a lesbian. To think that all radfems want lesbians to be these she/her feminine lesbians is very untrue and a false claim to make. Sure they will be some radfems who won't use preferred pronouns of a dysphoric lesbians (or any dysphoric woman/man of any sexuality in general) but most of the time they are nice and very much respectful. It just depends on which type of radfems/terfs you ask tho.
For me personally I currently identify as a lesbian who uses she/he pronouns (you could also say I'm a hesbian aswell) but english isn't my first language so I don't have any attachment for these words and I don't mind which pronoun you use for me because I don't really care or mind.
To classify this is no hate to any trans person. This post isn't meant to attack any trans person out there either it's just ne talking about my experiences identifying as a transhet and how it has harmed me mentally. If I did offend any trans person then I'm deeply sorry and I didn't mean it.
Anyways that's all I don't have anything else to say other than take care guys I'll be back with more posting <3
Update: I was originally planning on coming back on October 1st but after some thinking I'll extend the hiatus a little more.
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shinyphantomsalad · 3 years
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Every day I wake up and log into this account only to find out people are still rebloging my "we must protect transhets" post.
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This is all from that post and it hit 400+ notes
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shinyphantomsalad · 3 years
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Sexuality is easy to define, because people forget sociologists and anthropologists were as instrumental as biologists and psychologists to understanding orientation regardless of gender. Heterosexuals like the opposite sex, homosexuals like the same sex, and bisexuals like both but what's confusing is they're the sexuality spectrum and don't like both in equal proportions or the same way and this can also vary over time.
Please just leave me alone about that stupid post I made about transhets. I hate that it's getting popular and I don't want to practice in any kind of discourse I'm to emotionally exhausted to even care about it
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shinyphantomsalad · 3 years
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To be honest I don't know how to define gender and sexuality myself because I'm so confused about so many things right now and I don't know who to trust. As of right now I currently identify as a lesbian and seeing this post I my notes just makes me uncomfortable because I no longer identify as a transhet guy anymore and I just wish people would stop giving this post attention
We must protect straight trans guys and trans girls from terfs. If you're a straight trans guy don't listen to what terfs tell you you are a handsome looking man who will have a beautiful wife. If you're a straight trans girl don't listen to what terfs tell you you are an amazing and wonderful girl who will have the best husband in the whole world.
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shinyphantomsalad · 3 years
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My thoughts be like "you're not a real lesbian! You're just faking it for attention. Remember that guy you just talked to? Well guess what, you secretly like him! You also secretly like your dad, your uncle, yoi grandpa and every male relative you know. You're just a little whore who will marry a man someone or be a disgusting hooker"
and they also be like "You're a disgusting ugly bull d*ke how fucking dare you like women? Only men can like them. You will forever be alone and die alone because you're so disgusting and ugly and no women will ever love you".
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shinyphantomsalad · 3 years
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Taking a break for a while
Im going to take a second break from this account for a while. I might turn this blog into making comic about my experiences as a lesbian where I live and how hard it has been for me. However I don't necessarily promise that, that's just a possibility considering that I have school and probably won't be able to make it but I'll try my best
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shinyphantomsalad · 3 years
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I just watched q-force and
IT'S PRETTY GOOD!!
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Let's talk now
This's the true MVP of the whole fucking show
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This's the true TRUE leader of the group
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He's gay but he's also a white man ( i mean he could be frustrating sometimes)
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It could be the end of the WORLD and u know the only thing on his mind is " should i get a new concealer ? :3 "
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They put him to babysit thim but instead they babysit him....
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The true tragic story
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shinyphantomsalad · 3 years
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stat/jacqueline // run away
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shinyphantomsalad · 3 years
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People watching the Q-force trailer: I'd rather be called a slur
Me, an intellectual: Agent Steve "Mary" Maryweather would never, actually
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