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well that’s that!
never using this account again, was fun while it lasted!!
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fuck you wilbur soot!!!
i’ll see your ass in hell!!
go support shubble and ask your friends how they’re doing
also! visit ceasefiretoday.com to learn how you can help gaza
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Anyway, while people are discoursing about men and not sharing Shubble points, here’s the actual advice I got from watching the stream bc I think that probably needs to be spread more. Shubble elaborates it much better but if you can’t watch it’s better than nothing.
Physical abuse is not just hitting or kicking, anyone causing physical pain intentionally to you without consent is physically abusive, regardless of how that manifests or if it seems silly.
Pressuring someone into using a safeword on something that’s not, like, a mutually agreed thing and is just something one partner wants is controlling and creepy.
Partners who push at the edge of your boundaries and avoid safewords are abusive.
A partner insisting you’re remembering things wrong and making you seem crazy is abusive (specifically, it’s gaslighting)
Grand romantic gestures from the beginning can very easily be a sign of abuse, as abusers use it to endear themselves to their victims.
Controlling behaviour and refusing to break up while also refusing to make changes is possessive and unhealthy at best.
Abusers will manipulate things to make it seem normal to those outside of their victims- by being kind and helpful even as they neglect their victim, by pressuring their victim to treat their abusive behaviour as a joke, ect. It’s often very hard for an outside observer to know if something is abusive, and making assumptions off of what you know in front of closed doors isn’t helpful.
It’s very hard to tell that you’re being abused, and you'll often still retain affection for your abuser for a long time- this is normal, and this isn’t your fault if you wanted to stay friends.
Even if an abuser is struggling with their own problems, taking it out on you is not acceptable. People can be bottling up their emotions and struggle with depression and past trauma and that gives them no excuse to hurt you.
If your partner relies entirely on you to take care of them, and support them financially, that’s financial abuse one way or another.
Abusers tend to hurt more than one person, and their actions escalate without outside influence (be it intervention if possible or something that keeps them away from victims if not.)
Listen to your gut, if you think a relationship is bad. Even if you’ve been through this before, sometimes you can’t realise in it, but you’ll feel it subconciously.
Also, Shubble is being supported by friends who helped her cope and went through different but similar things. She's specifically mentioned right now keeping the stories anonymised, but she might change her mind, if I interpreted the last bit correctly. She's doing alright, she's healing, and it sounds like she's being believed by her friends, at least most of them. I wish nothing but growth and healing for them, and wish them the best moving forward.
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regarding my last post, i would like to say it now seems INCREDIBLY likely that it’s about who i think it’s about.
especially given this tweet from lovejoys former photographer (who also posted today about their experience with the band) (it’s not good by the way)
AND their former (touring?) trumpeter
+ SHELBY HERSELF
they could’ve cleared his name with this tweet but didn’t.
it’s becoming very clear to me that the “evidence” i talked about possibly not being true, is looking very real. obviously there’s still a chance it’s not him but it seems more likely that it is than isn’t.
with all of that being said, there’s no way in HELL i’m gonna keep posting on this account
once again please reach out to your loved ones and ask if they’re ok
while i have you here visit ceasefiretoday.com to learn how you can demand a ceasefire on gaza
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the whole shubble situation is so fucking gross imo
women will come online to share their stories and spread awareness just for the masses to make it about someone else!! it’s so !! gross!!!
stop playing detective and trying to figure out who shelby was talking about. she didn’t say who for a reason!! trying to figure out who can be incredibly distressing and possibly dangerous for everyone and dilutes shelby’s purpose for sharing her story.
im not gonna sit here and be a stupid meat rider and act like its impossible for wilbur soot to have done anything wrong because the “evidence” could be somewhat factual and for those reasons im probably not gonna post anything on here for the time being. (especially bc i’ve been mad at lovejoy/wilbur for other reasons, this is not a difficult decision for me (i’ve been off this train for awhile))
i do think this opens up a greater conversation about online communities surrounding content creators but i don’t know how to articulate my thoughts on that because it would be a LOT.
anyways, support victims and check on the people close to you.
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don’t think i’ll be posting on here for awhile uhhhhh 😭
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Lovejoy will be playing in Japan this August!
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THE SILLIES!!!!
sorry if jim jam is kind of ugly he gave me a lot of trouble 😭💔
kind of sad we had to use acrylic paint instead of glaze but oh well
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in MY world lovejoy would release wake up & it’s over on vinyl 💔
and if they HAD to remaster something it would be its all futile it’s all pointless 😭
anyways if it was up to me the ones they put out for rsd would be
portrait of a blank slate / call me what you like
or
normal people things / call me what you like
or really anything that’s actually new 😭
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lovejoy u piss me off 😭
my other takes aside,,,!,!,
WHY ARE YOU REMASTERING SONGS THAT CAME OUT LESS THAN 3 YEARS AGO 💀💀💀
AND (ARGUABLY) THE BEST ONES?? THAT DONT NEED TO BE REMASTERED????
i know you’re broke as shit but come onnnn 😭
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tbh last time i’m gonna express my frustration with wilbur (+lovejoy but mark and ash are another can of worms) and the constant silence
cause like … wilbur soot is chronically OFFLINE 💀 he’s not gonna see the tweets, he apparently only uses reddit and hasn’t been active in five months + mods are censoring people talking about it 😭😭
(and i highly doubt he’d anything i post on here LMFAO)
like dawg how are we supposed to hold you accountable?? a letter pigeon??
(i imagine if they say ANYTHING at all, it’ll be within the coming weeks before the single drops)
rest assured, i’ll still talk my shit but just on my more popular platforms 🤞🏼
#this is meant to be lighthearted btw#i just would like it to be known that i’m still annoyed at them but there’s no use in talking about it on here since no one follows me 💀#and you damn anons keep spamming me lol#i just wanna do bingo and post my art and slightly cooler hot takes#mary post#wilbur soot
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seeing a bunch of ppl b like “omg gnf and wilbur meetup??@“ gnf pisses me OFFF i pray to god this doesn’t happen
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i think twitter users just kinda talk sometimes
#what pipeline he’s one guy 😭#wilbur soot#mary post#still annoyed at him in case you’re wondering BUTNCOME ON
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upon finding out wilbur now lives in new york, i made this.
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HE’S IN NEW YORK????
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i'm really glad you're not wilbur soot. it was a cheeseburger. he deleted the post. please find something more productive to do.
i was making a joke please spare me
if i was in a really good point in my career id throw people under the bus so people would forgive something i said 5 years ago for SUREEE lmao 💀
also breaking boycotts is objectively bad and deserves to be addressed but i really do not want my page to be filled with me arguing w people
i imagine a statement will happen within the next 2 weeks or so when they’re done filming the mv
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since when is stating a geography fact insensitive and in poor taste? he said years ago that palestine is next to israel and he has to apologize for that? there's holding people accountable and then there's being mad to try and get attention
i think it’s more about his silence on the situation while being aware of what’s happening
yk??
i have a better articulated post i made recently
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what other things has he said? the thing from the wine stream wasn't about Palestine and he doesn't owe you an apology for not wanting to be on twitter....
sure, maybe it wasn’t about palestine and it was about the gore thing, but MAYBE… just maybe, ..
saying “sift through the dead bodies on twitter” during an ongoing genocide, that’s being documented through social media, was not the best thing to say 💀
perchance.
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