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report-rqs · 19 days

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Popping in to say:

Please do the poll thing Tumblr's pushing!

This is a prime place to talk about issues with the site in general, but especially if you've ever been made uncomfortable because of Tumblr's moderation. If you've ever reported a bigot and had Tumblr tell you that they saw no issue with it, or experienced some other kind of issue, please tell Tumblr about it in as much detail as you can!

The more people that comment on the moderation issues, the more likely it is that Tumblr will actually do something.

#anti prat #anti radqueer #text post tag

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report-rqs · 26 days

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I've all but given up, so here is my last attempt to get people to listen, to hear me. To care. EDIT: Important update

Haha. They made good on the threat from the first ask here. My requests are simple: Stop using arisso- as a prefix, and stop talking about it. Entirely. This is all the proof I have gathered of what I've been going through First, the ask that started it all.

That has our full legal name and address. I asked in the GC for these terms that arisso stop being used shortly after... At first it seemed my friends would respect my wishes, which I was happy for and about.

That.... quickly changed to basically a "it's too late now" attitude.

And made us feel truly like our wishes didn't matter, and that people's feelings were more important than my wishes as the literal creator of the word.

And now, into the physical IRL stuff. CWs under the cut for visible wounds(bruises)

These. These are bruises. From people that have broken into my home and physically attacked me over this shit. Please, just leave me be. Stop talking about Arisso. Stop coining new terms with the "usual" spelling. If you want to help, help me move. You can do so here.

#holy shit... arissomei #< - for my tagging #i am so so sorry OP you don't deserve this #rape cw

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report-rqs · 1 month

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I intend to be gone from this blog for a quite long time, so if you see any radqueefs advocating for offline abuse, please web archive it and send me that link so I can see when I come back.

#text post tag

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report-rqs · 1 month

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To put it very bluntly.

You will always make a better impact helping people who need it than trying to hurt people you think deserve it.

#misc

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report-rqs · 1 month

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Hey, do you know how to report sites condoning animal cruelty?

I'm not as familiar with reporting this, so here's what I found after looking into it:

I believe you can report this to the FBI tips website

The Humane Society has a contact form:

If you witness suspected cruelty to animals, call your local animal control agency as soon as possible or dial 9-1-1 if you’re unfamiliar with local organizations. If you make a report of alleged animal cruelty, the responding agency is required to investigate. If your area lacks the proper animal welfare agency and your local authorities are not equipped to deal with animal cruelty cases, you can also contact us. Be sure to document the case as well as you can with dates, times, specific details and, if possible, footage and photographs from a cell phone. All of these things can help appropriate agencies during any investigation they may do of the suspected cruelty.

It seems to me that if you don't know any details about the location this occurred in, reporting it to the Humane Society and the FBI tips line is your best bet.

#nyaurotic #animal cruelty #resources #reporting

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report-rqs · 2 months

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there is something to be said about the fetishization of schizospec disorders and the desire to BE schizospec when you are not. it's really fucking disrespectful. you want an excuse to schizopost without the mental disorder. you want the funny spontaneity and to come off as a paranoid wreck without the fear of ever having the cops called on you for existing in a public space.

#ableism cw #transschizophrenic #transabled

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report-rqs · 2 months

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PSA to aplatonics from an aplatonic former radqueer: Just because the radqueer community accepts you in ways that a lot of queer spaces and even aspec spaces often don’t doesn’t excuse everything wrong with their community. It doesn’t excuse condoning child rape by providing a space for pro-contact pedophilies. It doesn’t excuse people “identifying” as nazis and abusers and racists and saying that it’s okay because you’re not “actually” those things, you’re “trans” those things (but also trans men and women are totally real men and women). It doesn’t excuse the inherent ableism in being “transdepressed” or “transADHD”. I know it’s hard being called sociopaths and armchair diagnosed with every disorder under the sun. It’s hard being considered the “dirty little secret” of the aspec community, and being called amatonormative simply for living without friendship. But you don’t need to cling to radqueers to be accepted. There are other spaces that want you. You are wanted.

#aplatonic #psa

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report-rqs · 2 months

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you know i don’t think we often talk about how difficult it actually is to suddenly realize that a belief you thought was good and moral and correct was actually really fucking toxic. how you have to look at something and go ‘oh shit, oh i fucked up. oh this is going to take probably years at minimum to deprogram from my brain because of all the little ways this shit pervaded the rest of my beliefs’

so. to all the people picking up all the pieces of a recently shattered world-view and trying to figure out what is safe to keep and what has to be thrown away and started over

to all the people having to relearn how to even listen to other people

to all the people putting in the work to do better while struggling with the guilt that comes from finding out you were the asshole

i’m proud of y’all.

it’s hard to admit being wrong and even harder to change in the aftermath. just keep doing the best you can and just know that the effort is appreciated. everyone can change. everyone can do better. keep fighting.

#positivity

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report-rqs · 2 months

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Step-by-step: Let's report a radqueer for racism

This is a tutorial on reporting. Don't find this user, don't contact them, don't harass them, etc - I am showing how you should report these posts instead. Content warnings: Radqueers, antiblackness, "reverse racism" type talk

Navigate to the racist post in question.

Click the meatball menu (the three dots in the corner).

Click "Report."

4. You'll be redirected to a new tab which will contain Tumblr's report menu. Select "Report something else".

5. You'll be shown a list of many options. Scroll down and select "Hate speech violation".

6. It will add the permalink of the post you're reporting. I typically also add other posts that are bigoted - I want Tumblr to understand that it's not a per-post issue and the entire blog should be terminated. Unfortunately, Tumblr limits report text to under 350 characters so this will limit what you can write. You can use Google Docs or this website to count the characters

Here's what I ended up sending for the post I reported while making this tutorial:

This user is racist and is arguing with other users about how White people are oppressed and also claims to be "transracial" (as in transitioning to another race). This blog is almost entirely about racist content - In another post they claim that people of color are actually a majority: sheyoves/737288677972131840 and in this post they say they're "transpanasian", as in they're a White person who is "transasian": sheyoves/737264717704347648/my-transids This is racist misinformation/propaganda.

6.5. Tumblr frequently glitches on the report page. Once you're finished filling out both text boxes I would really suggest copying and pasting what you wrote somewhere else. You could put it in a Google Doc, text document, a Discord DM to yourself, etc. If Tumblr glitches and just gives you a "We're sorry" message when reporting, reload the report page tab and paste what you wrote back in so you can try again to submit it.

Once your reply has been submitted, you'll see this message:

7. Block the OP of the post you're reporting, and every radqueer in the notes. Again, do not engage. Radqueers will use criticism as "proof" that "antis" are mean and harassing, no matter what place you come from when you message them. I can't say this enough: Do. Not. Engage. Report them.

8. To all people of color who may be reading, please make sure to step away from the computer and go do something that you enjoy now that you've reported a racist. Please prioritize self care and take care of yourself.

Related links:

Reporting a radqueer for inciting violence tutorial

Radqueers being racist tag

Why you shouldn't interact with radqueers and focus on reporting them instead

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report-rqs · 2 months

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Para-Health

[PT: Para-Health]

This stance is to represent or show the stance of being pro para but being against Pro Contact for harmful paraphillias that can cause harm to themselves, those around them, and those who can’t consent. A flag to show that you are pro recovery for those who have these harmful paras that they get the treatment and help they deserve to live healthy lives. (Technically not a blankqueer stance but tagged that for reach)

Emoji Combos: Overall Para-Health 🔆💛, Paraphille Para-Health 🔆💚

[ID: none yet]

Don’t plan to Tag, also wanna note! I am not a paraphille, please know that, certain tags are used for the reach!

DNI is listed within my pinned post. Please go read it before interacting with any part of my content. Ask to tag.

Edit under this cut here. Adding a tag for some anti-RQ blogs lol.

@antiradqueer @report-rqs

#Nice!#paraphilias

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report-rqs · 2 months

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I'm begging other trans people to read an ounce of Black Feminist or Decolonialist Feminist writing. I'm on my hands and knees and begging you. I promise you, I promise you, there is so much more to Feminist theory than anything you have picked up from White/Radical/Pop/Liberal Feminism I promise you. Read There Is No Hierarchy Of Oppressions By Audre Lorde. I have a link to the PDF right here you can read it for free. Take my hand I can't do this alone (thanks glass beach). Peace And Love On Planet Earth.

#resources

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report-rqs · 2 months

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Blocking me would only stop me from sending anons. I would still be constantly keeping an eye on this blog.

I wouldnt have this ocd if a blog like this didn't exist. And most of the people on this list do not support any of that. I see my friends on this list, friends who are none of those things. Most of the people on this list do not support any of that. I've seen at most two or so people who are actually okay with any of that on this blocklist.

You don't have a whole neurodevelopmental disorder if you got it from a tumblr blog lol. You're just being ableist at this point with using OCD to mean something that is very clearly not OCD and may be something else. Go fuck yourself, this blog is not going to be taken down because of you making your symptoms everyone else's responsibility. That's not how having a condition works and you need to get out of your community that supports disinformation like this if you genuinely believe that is how a neurodevelopmental condition works.

If you send another ask, I'm not even going to bother pointing and laughing at you. I'm just blocking you and you better not interact with another account either.

Edit: immediately sent another ask. Blocked. Take responsibility for your own symptoms.

#radqueers being ableist #tbt

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report-rqs · 2 months

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The thing about transX is that like. As a transgender person. Generally speaking 'I want to be this thing but I am not' is...frankly, maybe a bit of an internalized transphobic idea of what being trans is.

I'm trans. I'm nonbinary. Physical transition is a process but even if I do not physically transition I still *am* the gender that I am.

For shit like transplural, I get that someone might have an attachment to the label. But if you're willogenic it might just be hindering you. If you're willogenic you're plural, there's no transition. You just are. You can just say you're plural. If you say you're transplural I feel like you're just validating feelings of inadequacy with your plural identity.

Ftr, I also hate 'transtherian'. I *am* nonbinary, i don't *want* to be nonbinary. Therianthropy is a purely internal identity. I *am* a wolf therian, I didn't *become* one. You cannot 'transition' to that, you can maybe realize your therianthropy later in life as most of us did, but there is no physical transition. You are or you are not.

#transid #anti radqueer

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report-rqs · 2 months

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I'm very confused on what radqueers think recovery for a paraphile might look like. I've seen enough of them outright state they are anti-recovery for paraphilias that it seems like it's a widespread thing now.

Actually, now that I say this I did once genuinely archive someone who said recovery for paraphilias was conversion therapy and forced celibacy. I might have answered my own question: They're so focused on "pride" for things that hurt people and animals they coin "stances" opposing the suggestion of "This is maybe something you shouldn't act out and professionals can help you through doing something else".

bungouqueer - updated definition

‘bungou’ taken from ‘文豪’ part of the title from the series bungou stray dogs.

bungouqueer are those who love fiction such as novels, poetry, films, etc. they adore creativity, as it is a beautiful phenomenon to perceive. they appreciate the many forms of art. even the promiscuous, surreal or non-normative forms of it. they are accepting and supportive of other’s experiences. they dislike gatekeeping and much prefer things being shared and accessible for anybeing.

this stance is pro:

all transidentities, queer labels and paraphilias

body autonomy, including abortion

freedom of freedom

all consensual relationships, including those that are consanguinamorous

all types of plurality, self diagnosis, MUDs and medpunk

all types of alterhumanity

all disorders and disabilities

all religions and practices

all types of spirituality

youth liberation

sex work

consensual cannibalism

anarchy, ACAB and prison abolition

"curate your own online experience", "block (don't report) and move on" and minding ones own business

asking people what their pronouns and boundaries are

asking for permission before doing something you aren't sure someone would like

destigmatization of sexuality and nudity

sexual education to beings of any age

kink at pride

this stance is anti:

rape or any kind of non consensual activity

"recovery" for paraphiles

ageism, speciesism, paramisia, ableism, racism, etc

bullying, harassment, abuse, doxxing, etc.

capitalism

TERFs, SWERFs, radfems, trans/sysmeds, truscum, etc.

bigotry of any kind

misandry, transandrophobia, misogyny, transmisogyny, etc.

cops at pride

censorship

puritans, ati-ship/anti-fic, etc.

this term does not have contact stance attached to it.

archive - emoji code is 🎞️🎧🎨

#radqueers being anti recovery #radqueer terms #radqueer flags #emoji codes #bungouqueer #paraphilia

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report-rqs · 2 months

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Is this still supposed to be a fake cult...?

Cuz this sounds too much like my dad who used to use cult tactics on me and others before i cut contact.

Youre not strong you're just someone on the internet, people are not scared or overwhelmed by you just,, trying to create a cult and failing. People do not feel overpowered because your account got closed due to you breaking rules of the app(or web).

Like. You are not going to ascend and seek wrath upon people you do not know because your account got termed while you were promoting,, cults and pro-contact stuff etcetera...

Lmao, and they say "oh this is fake!!! :(" my ass

#faux cults #fults #cults cw #user: nagisa-ism

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report-rqs · 2 months

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nagisa-ism

pro-c cult leader and has sexualized kids on her page, among other things

nagisa-ism

Reason: Pro contact harmful paraphilias, "cult" leader

Also for anyone wondering, it is not normal for kids at 14 to have sex in most cases. That is COCSA. Generally when kids do already know about sex-in depth and seek out sexual touch before puberty that can be a sign of CSA. However, both parties being minors and unable to consent does not automatically mean it was informed consent and safe sex.

#fults #faux cults #receipts #nagisa-ism #pedophilia cw