cis people think that the final step of transition is getting surgery when in reality the final step is becoming goth

HI @ YOU FUCKS WHO THINK BPD AND AUTISM CONTRIBUTE TO GENDER IDENTITY AND SEXUALITY:

MY DISABILITY IS NOT YOUR IDENTITY

#TwoSpirit / #NativePRIDE

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Feel free to tag your selfies, art, poems, promote your stores/websites, and just take a moment to feel celebrated.

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INTERSEX IS NOT LGBT. IT’S A MEDICAL CONDITION. DON’T INCLUDE US IN YOUR COMMUNITY UNLESS WE ARE LGBT.

I AM LGBT AND INTERSEX. I AM NOT LGBT”QI…” THERE IS NO I. I AM SIMPLY LGBT. DON’T INCLUDE MY MEDICAL CONDITION INTO YOUR IDENTITY. YOU CANNOT BE DIAGNOSED WITH GAY. YOU CAN BE DIAGNOSED WITH INTERSEXISM. THERE’S A DIFFERENCE. WE HAVE OUR OWN COMMUNITY. STOP BEING SO INCLUSIVE. YOU’RE GONNA END UP INCLUDING FURRIES IF YOU INCLUDE US.

not so friendly reminder that we dont want them to.

-Darastrix

When someone misgenders me:

When someone misgenders my friend:

Fun Fact:

Pronouns are gendered, and its detrimental to say they aren’t.

By saying pronouns aren’t gendered gives room for transphobes to misgender trans people. It also erases the struggle trans people go through just to be called by their pronouns, as well as the discomfort or awkwardness that comes with being referred to with opposite pronouns.

Words have meaning. They have meanings because thats how communication works. Thats. How words work.

it’s tiring when you’re part of a minority and everything you do makes you a representative of your group. like no, im not doing arson because im transgender, im doing arson and i also happen to be transgender. im definitely not speaking from personal experience or anything, this is just a normal example. please do not look at my pristine criminal record mr. police i’ve been framed

the argument made by mainly mogai/tucutes is “times change and definitions change” but they not realize definitions only change when the majority deems necessary. the fact pronouns = gender cannot be changed. if you call someone a he, a regular person (who is not on tumblr) will think “oh! they’re not calling for me. because that is MALE pronouns and i am a FEMALE!” and the statement pronouns =\= gender thing makes 0 sense to anyone outside of your tumblr mogai group. definitions change when the majority deems necessary that is a fact. not when a small group of tumblr that are he/him lesbians and they/them lesbians who say pronouns =\= gender.

trans ppl be like “i feel very pretty on tdov so im gonna post selfies” and they are absolutely fucking right all trans ppl are beautiful

newsflash - trans men don’t suddenly become society’s elite for saying “i’m a guy, please respect that.” you know how many trans men are beaten, raped, abused, otherwise assaulted, harassed, and forced to suicide because they’re trans? i know this may be shocking to you as someone who lives and breathes for tumblr.com, but the entire world isn’t some liberal utopia where trans men are so universally loved and praised and revered and they sure as fuck aren’t respected on principle the way so many of you think they are, going so far as to pretend that certain marginalized groups, by virtue of existence, are living a separated life of luxury is beyond insulting.

I stg

If I see any body defending Cardi B, I’m gonna go off. What she did was not at all okay.

After consulting pictures of frogs I’ve found the most goblin colors

If you don’t experience dysphoria you’re cisgender

exclusionists: ace/aro identities are 100% valid, just not inherently lgbt !

y’all crackheads: wow can’t fucking believe op wants all aces/aros dead ://

Reblog if you believe they/them ARE valid pronouns

Like if you believe they/them are NOT valid pronouns

This is an experiment

Why has everyone irl suddenly become obsessed with learning what my birth name is like why is that relevant?? And they’ll ask me in public?? Where complete strangers can hear?? idk i just don’t get why it matters to people and I’m always scared to say not only for fear of others hearing but also because I’m scared that if they know they’ll get mad at me one day and deadname me to get under my skin and it’ll sting