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In 1970, my mother's family adopted an intellectually disabled man named Horace. Horace was 56, and had been in an institution since 1921.
My uncle, who was 19, was working as an orderly at the institution where Horace lived. He only stayed a few months as the abuse he witnessed was too much for him. He had become friends with Horace and told him "I'll come back for you."
Horace replied "They all say that."
By that Christmas, Horace lived with my uncle and his family. My grandparents did the official adoption. Horace had never seen a Christmas tree, and that was his first real Christmas.
Horace died in 2010, at the age of 96. He laid down for a nap and just slipped away.
At least two generations of children grew up with him. He felt immortal to us. He loved Hot Wheels, pizza, cartoons and to talk to the portrait of my grandparents as he sat in his rocking chair.
He knew everyone's birthday. He loved unconditionally.
He had scars on his back from the institutions. If you asked him about that place, his face would screw up and he'd say "oh, it was a bad place. Bad place."
And for 40 years, he was safe, loved, and happy. He loved us in return.
No point to sharing this. But I still miss his laugh as he held a conversation with a portrait, whispering about his day to the people who had helped rescue him.
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Quick reminder you have to only accept people who conform to others ideas to be punk!! accepting minorities is NOT punk! (Very sarcastic)
(username censored because we do NOT CONDONE harassment. Never stoop down to their level.)
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I genuinely fucking despise how the anti endo community and psych community sees not rejecting your systemhood as anti-recovery. Yes I had aspen in mind while saying this. If you don't actively want to be a singlet, you're suddenly preforming DID wrong. Fuck you, my bandmates can exist as loud as I do I don't care if it makes singlets and anti-endos uncomfortable. If silencing them and forcing fusion on them is recovery, then I'll die disordered. We'll Never Fade Away - Ardyn
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disabled people are allowed to have hobbies that clash with our disabilities by the way
I'm allowed to like journaling even if my hand tremors make it so I can't do something as "pretty" as an abled bodied person
I'm allowed to like crocheting even if it's bad for my joints and it takes me double the time it would take someone else to finish a project
and yes I'm trying to switch to knitting which is lighter on the hands, but even that - even fucking using my phone - makes my finger hurts
I'm allowed to complain about it, just like you - specially if you're abled - are not allowed to tell me off about it
it's so hard for us to find joy, you're not allowed to police the small things that help
#putting this on my vent so i can yap without being embarrased about what im abt to say#i really really think dancing is fun but also like its so bad for me which is why i just pace and stim#i want to be able to do fancy pretty dances but its just too hard on my body#sighs#chronically ill#pots#hypermobile eds#fibromyalgia
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I have so so much love and it makes me so so sad why are some people so close but so far. I love you. stop being distant. stop being scared please, I love you
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oh! friendly reminder!
narcissistic personality disorder is a disorder formed from trauma and/or genetics. people with this disorder CANNOT do anything about it. the concept of "dealing with" a narcissist is abusing THEM.
if you believe in narcissistic abuse, YOU are the abuser.
I developed NPD after being severely neglected by my father. To this day he still neglects me and refuses to believe me when I talk about my problems.
This is hurtful to anyone, but especially those with NPD. Causing a narcissist to crash makes you abusive and manipulative; a crash makes us want to kill ourselves. Do you really want to make someone suicidal for your "recovery"?
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If you are anti-NPD I hope you are also anti-every-single-mental-health-disorder and stop pretending to be a mental health advocate, because you are not one.
Support all mental health disorders or support none of them.
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dear endos!!! I love you!!!
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Excuses I've heard for people who think needing a respite from negativity, activism and world horrors is a "bad take":
Reeks of white privilege or privilege in general.
Not being an activist in every single space you exist within 24/7 is actively contributing to the continuance of the problem(s).
Some people never ever for a single second of any day get to have respite so neither should you.
All art is inherently political. All of it. Also art is therapy so you have to see it or you're a cunt.
You're a cunt anyway.
Did I miss anything out?
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THE PLURAL TAGS ARE INCLUSIVE TO ALL SYSTEMS AND ORIGINS.
IT. IS. NOT. INCLUSIVE. TO. HATE.
JUST BECAUSE YOU ARE INCLUDED DOES NOT GIVE YOU A RIGHT TO PUBLICLY HATE ON ANY OF THE SYSTEMS WHO SHARE THE SPACE WITH YOU.
ANTIS. FUCK. OFF.
YOU WILL BE CALLED OUT ON YOUR PUBLIC HARASSMENT.
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Pro endo traumagenic culture is loving endogenic systems as much as you can!
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hey, by the way anti-endos. get out of the pluralgang tag. that's their tag. keep your hatred away from endos.
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Your existence is not inherently syscourse, nor should it be treated as such. You should be able to talk about yourself without having to expect people wanting you to convince them that your experiences are real.
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god i hate how normalized diet culture and shit like bmi and calories are. bmi is based on eugenics. calories are a measurement of how much energy something gives u and not at all of how much weight or fat ull gain. diets have been proven to be harmful and ultimately unhelpful in actually losing weight. fatness has been largely proven to not be inherently unhealthy and doesnt inherently cause health issues.
if anyone has more good links to add on then please do and if anyone knows more on this stuff than me then dont hesitate to correct me!
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"the future is plural"
we care about trauma survivors.
No child should have to go through so much stress and trauma that they end up putting up amnesia barriers and splitting parts of self. This is not a wish for more trauma but to help those who have been hurt be accepted.
We do not want to make trauma the future. All these hateful anti-endos are completely missing the point. We want a future that is more accepting for every plural, no matter how they formed.
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