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based on this x’D
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Vegebul FLF?
here you go~
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tw: sickness, negative
My stepmom vented to my brother how her life is over, that no one is gonna want her once my dad is “gone” and that she’s gonna stay single forever, like he’s already dead and cold.
She’s emotionally detached and bitter about having to care for him despite being the one who manipulated him into not seeing a doctor or taking medication to at least slow down the symptoms, when there was still a chance to treat it. She had him drink chlorine and do meditation sessions instead, because she doesn’t believe in allopathy.
I worry about him a lot, he told me that everyone at home (her brother lives with them and her sister + husband visit a lot) pretty much ignores him. Isolating a person with Alzheimer’s and leaving them alone all day is the worst thing you can do to a person that’s supposed to train their mind, memory and conversational skills.
He’s in an assisted living facility 3 times per week during the day so at least he’s getting some stimulation but I feel so bad for him. Being unwanted and despised by everyone in your household, especially your wife, after years of loving her, cooking for her, writing her poetry - bending your entire being for her - is so cruel and sad.
When she was diagnosed with breast cancer he was there for her, during the good and bad times, the least she could do is give him a few dignified last years, because despite him being a lot younger than the usual person with dementia, Alzheimer’s does have an expiration date, when their bodies simply give up due to weakened immune system. 10 years of which he already passed 6.
He’s not the person we all knew, I’m his daughter, I’m painfully aware of that - but he’s alive and healthy and still there but now she hates him because he’s clingy and dependent and confused and it’s just not fair.
#plumtext#personal#he also got so thin and I don’t know if he gets enough to eat#I don’t have it in me to take him in and care for him myself#she would not let me#besides I need to work full time#he does need a lot of attention and has no sense of time anymore#I could never forgive myself if he stayed here#wandered off somewhere and something happened to him#because I didn’t pay attention#this is so hard#I miss him#how do you mourn the loss of a person that’s still alive?#distracting myself with silly little computer games and hikes whenever I can#but he has always been such a powerful presence in my life#that it’s so hard not to be reminded of him constantly#I need to visit him more#but sometimes these visits hurt so much#gonna go to bed and read my silly little dinosaur ghost horror novel#until I’m so exhausted that I fall asleep#no overthinking tonight
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there are 2 kinds of mangaka when drawing: the ones that hate woman and the ones that love woman
And, guys...
i think ryoko kui really loves woman.
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this is so sad. in the united states of america teenagers dont even have enough money for drugs. one like one prayer.
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it’s a tragedy that dinotopia was adapted as a weird gritty looking tv movie with bad cgi when it’s, without exaggeration, the most ghibli any book has ever been
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I can’t believe I sprained my ankle trying to do ringfit 😭
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