Real Actual People(TM) cannot be stereotypes. If you're an alt neurodivergent evilgender 14 yo who uses nounself pronouns you're not a stereotype of xenogender people, you're just you. If you're a loveless aro/ace, flirty polya bi, etc etc. you're not a stereotype, you're just you. The opposite is true, too- if your experiences don't match with most other people's, or anyone else's, you're still you. You're still valid.
imagine you make microwave popcorn and by wild chance every single kernel has the same exact popping point and after like a minute in the microwave the bag instantly fills up with a single earsplitting gunshot noise would that be fucked up or what
getting denied for top surgery after my cat sends a concise and compelling email to the doctor explaining that if she cant step on my tits 24/7 she might get bored or maybe even have to stand somewhere else