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Still thinking about this one situation in university where I had a study colleague, with whom I got along very well. I think I also had a tiny crush on him (but thatā€™s just a side note)
So one day I asked him if he wants to watch the newest marvel movie with me. And he instantly said: ā€žno sorry, I canā€™t. I have a girlfriendā€œ
And I am still thinking about this a lot. Because after that I really got careful asking boys to hang out. Because I realized we live in a society where it is nearly impossible for a girl to hang out with a boy, without people smelling some hidden motives
Which is sadā€¦ I loved to hang out with boys, and everytime i now know one where I go: ā€žwow, he is cool, I want him as my friend!ā€œ
I have not a single clue how to ask: ā€žwanna grab a coffee after work?ā€œ without the man saying: ā€žsorry, I have a girlfriend.ā€œ
Maybe thatā€™s dumbā€¦. But this thought is in my head a lot
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Saw one of the last 30 (!) remaining stuffed Quagga today and went full Elementary mode! Look at him šŸ„¹
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uni is going great guys.
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a star going supernova or whatever. i donā€™t care it doesnā€™t even bother me i donā€™t think about it at all
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Updated thanks to @made-in-rivendell (huge thank you!). I know added the show deep Night, which just aired and add new informations about Siren.
Canon poly relationships
Todays media gets more diverse every day but we still have a huge lack of poly relationships. So i decided to collect all the poly relationships I am aware of and that are confirmed CANON in this post. Sadly they are often limited to three people and not really diverse, mostly containing white, abled bodied, cis people.
Be aware this posts contains slight SPOILERS. I will mention if they are still together and alive. Feel free to add further confirmed poly relationships. I will update that post from time to time.
Updated: 16.02.2024
Polo/Cayetana/Valerio - ELITE
This triad first appears in season 3. Polo and Valerio areĀ  in the show confirmed as bisexual. Polo is already shown in an another poly relationship in season 1 but it is not necessarily healthy and not 100% build on consent so I am not featuring them here. The triad below is really happy, healthy and cute. Sadly they split up by the end of season 3 and one of them dies.
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Eliot/Parker/Hardison - Leverage
They are confirmed canon poly outside the show by the writer. The ending of the first arc can be easily read as a wedding vow. The woman , Parker, gets kissing scenes with both dudes. And they are all really affectionated toward eachother with a lot of hugs. There is a second arc: ā€žLeverage Redemptionā€œ. I havenā€™t watched it yet, so I can not say how they treat the OT3 there but as far as I am aware they are still together, happy and alive. And Parker is confirmed to be on the spectrum.
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Leverage Redemption:
I only have watched season 1 so far. In Leverage Redemption the team comes back together to steal stuff. The OT3 still works perfectly together, Sadly the actor of Hardison was so busy with other projects that he was only able to stare in the first two epsiodes and in the finale. And they gave Eliot a girlfriend, so the Ot3 is sadly split up a tiny bitā€¦ which is a shame. But in the end they are together again, and as far as i Know Hardison is more in season 2, has a lot of emotional scenes with Eliot, who appearnetly is hevaily bi-coded in season 2?!
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Wolfgang/Kala/Rajan - Sense8
The show was originally planned for five seasons. If you know the poly relationship is coming you see bits of the build up throughout the first two seasons but because the show was cancelled after the second season the relationship was kinda rushed in the two hours finale. Anyway, it is still wholesome to watch. The triad contains two people of color. They are happy, alive and together.
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Lito/Hernando/Dani - Sense8
Nobody knows to be honest. Lito is confirmed to be gay (so shouldnā€™t actually be romantically or sexual attracted to Dani), Hernando is probably bisexual. But sexuality is really fluid in this show. Anyways, they are confirmed to be a family with multiple sex scenes, kisses and dances. They are also happy, alive and together
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Lantis/Hikaru/Eagle - Magic Knight Rayearth
As far as I am aware they are only confirmed and explicit canon the manga. And the manga is from the 90s so the poly relationship has some flaws but they are happy, together and alive in the end. Hikaru confesses in the manga she wants to marry both Eagle and Lantis.
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Miranda/Thomas/Flint - Black sails
Again a case of: nobody knows. Miranda and Thomas are married. They are having, as confirmed in the show, an open relationship. And Miranda loves Thomas. And Thomas and Flint are in love, while Flint also sleeps with Miranda. Sadly they are only in season 2. One of them dies, but the other two come back together in the end and are really happy and really in love.
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Jack/Izzy/Emma - You me herĀ 
I have watched the first three seasons. This show is about the married couple - Jack and Emma - who want to spice up their marriage life again and both hook up, seperatly, with the call girl Izzy. Of course they all fall in love with eachother. It is the straightest queer show I have ever watched, with A LOT of drama. But the characters call themselved bi and poly which is really refreshing to watch. And this show has one of the healthiest potray of sex I have ever seen on TV. In the end they are alive, happy and together. The show is closed in five seasons.
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Neo/Miw/Shin - 3 will be free
This is a Thai crime drama, closed in one season. You can find it on YouTube for free with englisch subtitles. The story focuses on Shin, the son of a mafia boss, Neo, a male prostitute and Miw, the manager of a Go Go bar. After they commit a murder in an act of self defense, they are forced to run away together and fight back against the mafia trying to hunt them down. The show is super well written. It has no Hollywood clichĆ©s and thats really refreshing to watch. It has a trans mtf main character, bisexual coming outs, gay coming out, sex work is work, donā€™t touch women, metoo and many more important messages. I can highly recommend to watch it. Beware many people die in this show. Not the trans character and also not the poly main characters. In the end they are alive, happy and together
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Ben/Ryn/Maddie - Siren
Its a fanatsy show about mermaids, which aired on Freeform. It is closed in three seasons and can be watched on Disney+. After a few fishermen accidently catch a mermaid, her sister, Ryn, transforms into a human and comes into town to find her. Maddie and Ben, an already established couple, find her, discover her secret and hide her. Both Ben and Maddie show romantic and sexual attraction towards Ryn in season 1, but if this was already supposed to set up the polycule or just to show how alluring Ryn is, considering she is a sirenā€¦ is unclear. The romantic relationship is established in season 2. The triad has sex, shared kiss and even has love confessions. Sadly the triad breaks up in season 3 and one of them dies (as far as I know) and then the show got cancelled. So better stop after season 2.
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Honorable mentions
Here I am mentioning shows I have not watched (yet) but that contain poly relationships in the main cast. So there can be some errors, feel free to correct me
Gossip girl - the reboot
I am really not aware how well gossip girl is writing poly relationships (no offense) but by the end of season 1 they are together and happy.
Edit: at the end of season 2 they are not together anymore because they split up for drama reasons and then the show got cancelled. The writers nevertheless confirmed they were always ment to be endgame and will always end up together.
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Professor marston and the wonder women
The movie is about the writer who invinted Wonder Woman. He was in a poly relatinship with two women back then which is also shown in the movie. One of them dies in the end (which you can not change, considering it is based on a real life person) but they are getting their happy end nevertheless.
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Castlevania
Appearntly it is heavily implied that they are loving eachother, two of them are also in a relationship but it is never a 100% confirmed in the show itself. Not long ago Netflix made the tweet below so they are still kinda confirmed to be poly? I have no knowledge what the writers are saying about the topic.
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Ā The Expanse
I stopped watching the Expanse after episode 1 so I can not really say anything about the poly-ship in this show, but it is definitly worth mentioning that here we have a poly ship that contains of more then three people. They are called PolyBelterFam and are all married together. If i am not wrong they are also a minor ship?
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The bastard son & the devil himself
This show is on Netflix. As far I know the two boys are a couple and most of the fandom focuses on that. But there are multiple polyamorous scenes between the three characters: sharing one bed, hugging, cuddeling, hand holding. While the poly relationship is not a 100% explicit confirmed in the show itself, all of the actors confirmed it in different interviews. They are alive at the end and together
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Las Chicas del Cable
The spanish show is about four female telephone operators in the 1920s. There is a lot of drama, social as well as romantic. According to @ dylan-is-deryn (thank you for your help) Carlota is dating Miguel, but then meets Sara and theyā€™re very attracted to each other, and Sara and Miguel also have chemistry. It seems that Carlota will cheat on Miguel, or that Sara and Miguel will get together, but instead they all get together.
They are not together anymore and the show has a really bad ending for all main chatracters, so beware
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Riverdale
I honestly have no idea how we ended here, and considering it only happened in the finale i wouldnā€™t argue it is good poly representation but its endgame. Like always, watch Riverdale on your own risk.
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Trigonometry
Its a british TV show by the BBC and is realstic. Its about a happy married couple who meet a third person and start a poly relationship. As far as I am aware it has a happy end but has some dark topic, such as alcolism and cancer.
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Deep Night (Ken x Seiji x Japan)
Thank you @made-in-rivendellā€‹ for brining this show to my attention. Like ā€œ3 will be freeā€ this is a Thai BL series. It is closed in one season, with 8 episodes. The story takes place in a host club. I have not watched the show (yet) but accoring to made-in-rivendell the polycule is canon, happy and everyone is alive.
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Minor Poly Ships and poly characters
Newly added here - to make the post even longer - I decided to add poly ships that are formed by side characters but still there for a long period of time.
The Wheel of time
Alanna has formed a poly relationship with her two male warders. It is explicit shown that the two male warders - Maksim and Ihovn - are also in love with eachother and we see them cuddeling together before they get up with Alanna to have sex with eachotherā€¦ which is not shown btw. The relationship of the three is openly discussed by the other characters. It is also mentioned that Alanna would be more then happy to greet even more people in her polycule. While we see them together on screen multiple times over the course of multiple episodes, we sadly do not have good shot or promo pic of all of them together, so I am taking the BTS pic of the actors. Remeber: They are backgrund characters. By the end of season 1 they are alive and still together.
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Ted Lasso
The character Dano Rojas is confirmed poly in the finale. But it is already implied a few seasons earlier. Him being poly is not part of the plot. I think apart from two scenes we never see him with his girlfriends.
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Avenue 5
This sci-fi show has Hugh Laurie in the main role. His character is poly. I think apart from this pic you never see his spouses.
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Our Flag Means Death
The character of Spanish Jackie is poly in the pirate comedy Our Flag Means Death. She appearntly has 20 husbands. So far we saw one of them. But the sequel is confirmed so I will provide further informations soon
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Our flag means death (2)
OFMD also features a poly triad in season 2. Containing the characters Jim (who is played by Vico, an actor who is poly irl as well), Archie and Olu. The relationship is not a 100% explicit poly but heavily implied. At the end Olu falls for another woman. It is not clear if she will join the triad but it is suggested by the other three.
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Books with poly couples
On multiple requests we now have a new categorie. Poly couples in popular, in english avaiable, book stories
Mark/Cristina/Kieran - The Dark Artifices
This is a triology written by Cassandra Clare, who also wrote the Mortal Instruments aka Shadowhunters. The book is set in the shadow-world and mostly revolves around Emma Carstairs and her best-friend and parabatai, Julian Blackthorn. The story focuses mostly on the forbidden love between two Parabatais and the general political struggles in the shadow-world. You need some knowledge about the previous books to understand this one. Emmas friend Cristina falls in love with the faerie Kieran and the half-Faerie Mark. Its more of a subplot but nevertheless present from book 1 onwards. They are all alive and together in the end
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art by @cassandrajeanā€‹
Zetian/Yizhi/Shimin, Iron Widow
This book was written by Xiran Jay Zhao, you can also find them here in tumblr. The book is kind of a poly Pacfic Rim fan fiction. But believe me: nothing can prepare you for this book. It is about Wu Zetian who lives in a world where the army fights with big mechas, called Chrysalis. Zetian joins the military to take revenge for her older sister. Slowly she discovers that the whole operating system of the Chrysalis was only build to oppress and control women and people who are ā€œdifferentā€. The story starts as the typical love triangle but Zetian quickly decides that she can do better then just one boyfriend. So she takes two. All three are bisexual and it is multiple times implied that Zetian is genderqueer. The book is dark. Zetian isnā€™t a hero, she is kinda a villain but you can totally understand all her actions, even though you might not agree with them. Go queen, burn the world. The book ends with a cliffhanger. Xiran Jay Zhao is alredy working on a sequel. Most likely it will be published mid of 2024.
In the end the are not happy, not together but alive.
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kajaono Ā· 15 hours
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consider this: sherlock & co polycule
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Found out there is a Lord Byron memorial here in germany, next to my home town and i never knew about that. because appreantly one of his peoms made our place famous? Wild!
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NEEEEEEEIN
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ā€žJane Austen is only about romance.ā€œ
Oh really?!
We cannot help ourselves. We live at home, quiet, confined, and our feelings prey upon us. You are forced on exertion. You have always a profession, pursuits, business of some sort or other, to take you back into the world immediately, and continual occupation and change soon weaken impressions.ā€
OH REALLY?!
Men have had every advantage of us in telling their own story. Education has been theirs in so much higher a degree; the pen has been in their hands.
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I love these because Wentworth probably thinks he is so sneaky and Anne just goes: ā€žI SEE YOU, HUN AND I LOVE YOU!ā€œ
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That Anne and Lady Russel do not even consider that there is another way for Mrs. Clay to become Lady Elliot, even without marrying Sir Elliotā€¦
In their defense, I also didnā€™t noticed it
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kajaono Ā· 22 hours
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Can you somehow track your glasses? I loose them at least once a day šŸ˜ž
Other than the sin of owning Apple products in general at which point do you have an AirTag problem?
Iā€™ve tagged everything dear to me like my dogs(ā€˜ collars), my bike and my house keys but it has helped my ADHD brain so much I want to tag my headphones and my bag and my work keys and my-
The only thing I always know where is is my iPad and I use that to find my phone which I can then use to find my stuff. Iā€™m dying hereā€¦
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@sarcasmatyourservice
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Exactly this!
What makes Persuasion so special imo is that it is the only Jane Austen book - apart from Lady Susan - where the female hero knows that the male hero is in love with her:
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And also knows that the male hero is jealous of another male. Yeah even being happy about that jealousy and ā€žsupportingā€œ it.
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The last 1/4 of the book is basically just Anne, kicking down metaphorical doors, screaming: ā€žGo man! marry me!ā€œ
No other female hero is pushing the male hero - so much - towards a marriage proposal (in a harmless way *looks at Lady Susan*)
And I think it is also fascinating how no adaptation so far has capture this spirit. Yeah we have the iconic: ā€žHe ought not, he does not.ā€œ - speech, and every viewer knows what this means. But no one ever shows Anne going: ā€žoh shit! He loves me!ā€œ
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Hochverehrtes, deutschsprachiges Tumblr:
Hier eine weitere Abstimmung. Nicht so hitzig, wie die ums StoƟlĆ¼ften, aber trotzdem etwas, Ć¼ber das ich gerne Klarheit hƤtte:
(Again, all non-German-speakers: Please just wait for the results
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Johns a short king but he can pick up sherlock, trust
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requested by anonymous >> thirteen + unwanted touches and people getting into her personal space
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