affirmations

you deserve to be loved and cared for. you deserve to be validated. you deserve to have your needs met. you deserve the world.

Healing is a constant state. You don't have to be "fully healed" to give or receive love, to chase after that dream, or to get yourself to that next level.

You are not disgusting.

You are not disgusting for what other people have done to you.

having someone who is very patient and understanding with you, even on your hard days, is my form of a pure love language.

Anxiety.positive

You don’t need to wait to get worse. You deserve help now. You deserve help whether you’ve been worse before, or seen others be “worse” and not get help. You deserve help. Right now. 

yes the cat is right u r gonna be ok ! hold on !

if you haven’t heard this today: i believe in you. you are significant, and your impact on this world is immeasurable. i’m so proud of how far you’ve come, even though it really hasn’t been easy at times.

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I recommend the album “Becoming X” by Sneaker Pimps. especially the song “6 Underground”: https://open.spotify.com/track/2n6gQZqhqMURh5MXcqDIh6?si=zF-mFFXvQRGgiyoq9X1CPQ (posting the link bc this version is my fave and the tumblr music addition thing doesn’t list it)

^ also these are really calming, semi-obscure songs.

HOW DID I ONLY NOW JUST SEE THIS BUT I LOVE IT THANK YOU SO MUCH

if you stalk people and genuinely don't care about what you are doing or the ramification i hope you fucking rot

i have to delete my main blog because i'm being stalked

i have to delete my main blog because i'm being stalked

It’s okay if your trauma happened yesterday, and you don’t feel affected by it. Your trauma is still valid. And it doesn’t mean you aren’t allowed to be affected later.

It’s okay if your trauma happened 20 years ago, and you do feel affected by it. There isn’t a time limit where you have to be “over it”.

There is no timeline for healing, and there are no rules for how long or how much you “should” be affected.

Roaming

Going to be turning this into a series of paintings and then prints!

You know sometimes I wonder why I'm still on this website - why so many of us are still on this website - and then I go somewhere else for five minutes and am told to kill myself for my very existence and then I remember that that's why I'm here.

That's why most of us are here.

Even if someone here says the same thing, I know there are a hundred people who would stand behind me lurking in my notes. and other places, I look around for help and I'm alone with a whole lot of people who don't care or would attack me themselves, given the chance

This is the website for the outcasts

I'm glad we found each other

I was poked at a lot growing up for having a bad memory and I don’t think it’s fair.

Having memory problems isn’t a moral failure.

Having difficulty discerning time isn’t a moral failure.

You shouldn’t be ridiculed for struggling with time management or bad memory.

It’s okay to be disorganized because of lack of spoons, you can never remember to do stuff, you won’t be able to find stuff, etc.

It’s okay to need your space to be crisp and optimized and neat in order for you to remember where everything is.

It’s okay to be both.