ok but the concept of a rivalry is just so funny. it’s like “i’m literally obsessed with you. you’re the only motherfucker on the planet worth my undivided time and attention. i spend hours planning in detail exactly what i’m going to say and do the next time that we meet. but, like, i fucking hate you.”

okay guys I’m gonna tell you a secret come here okay shhhh

ᴵ ʷᵃⁿᵗ ᵗᵒ ᵏᶦˢˢ ᵃ ᵐᵃⁿ ᵒⁿ ᵃ ˢᵘⁿˢᵉᵗ ᵖᶦᶜⁿᶦᶜ

dont tell anyone though guys!!!

I want him to hold my hand. I want him to pull me close. I want him to tell me he loves me. I want to feel his lips on mine. I want to hear his heartbeat. I want to smell his faint cologne and breathe him in. I want to hear him whisper my name.

I want him.

This pride month please don’t forget or exclude black gay and trans women, after all pride was started by them

Umbrella Academy cast photographed by Erin Patrice O'Brien

a note on people who always say “i don’t mind” whenever you ask where they want to eat/what they want to watch/etc:

usually this is because they’ve been punished in the past for voicing their opinions, not because they’re out to annoy you specifically. depending on how much flack they used to receive, it can be very stressful for them if you try and force them to offer up an idea.

a lot of my friends who do this appreciate me giving out like… three options. pick three different things that you will be happy to do any of and ask which of those three options they’d prefer. it removes the fear of “what if they don’t like my suggestion” without erasing their option to chose and have preferences so, you know, good all around

Umbrella Academy cast photographed by Erin Patrice O'Brien

Do you ever look at guys hands and think fuck yes

Me listening to a thunderstorm: this honestly goes off

San Francisco, CA - September 19th, 2017

As Pride celebrations around the country are underway, we lost another transwoman, this time directly at the hands of the state. Layleen Polanco Xtravaganza was found dead in her cell on Rikers Island today. She was scheduled to be released on the 13th. Layleen was a member of the legendary house of Xtravaganza and beloved in the NYC lgbtq community. Officials at Rikers, notorious for its abuse and in a long process to be closed, claim that there was no foul play suspected. We call bullshit. While Pride month is a celebration, it’s also a moment to reflect on the conditions which led to a need for such a celebration in the first place. Today, we are reminded of why Marsha P Johnson, Sylvia Rivera, Ms Majors, and the other courageous trans women at the Stonewall Inn rebelled in the first place. They resisted state violence, and fought for a world that would acknowledge their dignity and worth as humans and as women. They fought for a world that has yet to to exist. We have a responsibility to build that world, not just for them, but for Layleen and all the other transwomen stolen from us to soon. Rest in power Layleen Xtravaganza.

Toronto, Canada | 20/08

someone should put flowers in my hair and hold me

🏳️‍🌈 remember 🇷🇺

while americans and europeans celebrate Pride, remember us. remember that pride is illegal in Russia. remember that we are silenced and shamed by our government and by the society we exist in, that our human rights get violated every day. remember that russians carrying rainbow flags will be beaten and thrown in jail this summer. celebrate and protest, but remember that we can’t.

Hey if you went to DC pride today repost so I can follow you!!! (Please don’t lie I b e g !)

Reblog if you genuinely support asexuals

It terrifies me that there’s so much raging passion in the lgbt+ community that insist on marginalizing asexuals and implying that asexuals don’t deserve to have safe spaces. There’s still so much acephobia so I just wanna know which blogs are genuinely supportive and a safe space for asexuals