when you’re trying to find a benign explanation for your alarming symptoms:

hi idk if tumblr ate my ask again i was the anon having the spinal fusion, i had it! and it went well! im out of the hospital now but still am recovering. (if tumblr did eat my ask, i was anon who asked about a spinal fusion like a while back, you probably wont remember me tho lol)

I’m glad to hear it went well!!

I am so sorry that you've got everything going on, especially with your hardware. That is so so scary and I hate that it happened to you

If you need anything that I can do from where I am, please let me know, even if it's just mailing you some cat toys that I make.

Thank you so much for your kind words and well wishes 🥹 you’re kind to me

probably the same reason you get mad when people with mental health issues try to talk about their physical disabilities, and assume they're able-bodied for no reason.

nobody ever calls you ablebodied tho. they call you ableist and then you decide that means they’re invalidating your sore joints and adhd and attacking you with a brick and start fucking screamcrying and wailing in my inbox about how everyone hates you and the quads are all conspiring against you online or what the fuck ever you shoved up your ass and barfed into my inbox this week

Some fasciated dandelions I saw today 🖤 deformity is beautiful

why do people put you under so much pressure to like “pick one” of your disabilities to be open about and get mad if you are a physically disabled person talking about mental health because they assume you’re neurotypical for no reason . why is that

“Hardware failure” still sounds so foreign to me

so many ablebodied people never cared about capitalist eugenicists and social programs singling out paralyzed and quadriplegic and severely physically disabled people for euthanasia until the prospect of it potentially happening to an ablebodied person with adhd is introduced. then they think it’s the worst thing theyve ever heard about in their whole life. but as soon as the topic drifts away from those ablebodied ppl with adhd they don’t give a shit anymore. it’s totally selective compassion

augh my disabilities

I can’t stop fucking crying

….. is this what happens to your thought process / brain when the only disability narratives & content you consume is stuff about being neurodivergent ?

I really need everyone to see this video of Patty playing with (and popping) a balloon 🎈 she’s so funny

A land owner finally got pissy at me for planting flowers along the freeway and was literally BEHIND HIS OWN FENCE telling me to get off his land I’m like sir you do not own the goddamn highway everyone paid for that you are not in the Yellowstone show you farm soy beans. shut da fuck up

This is a safe space for whiners, complainers, bellyachers, and the generally unsatisfied

1.5 weeks left to go….

hardware failure :)

I just had some radish sprouts I grew myself and idk I’ve never had a veggie taste so good

Me: Using disabilities and symptoms of disabilities as insults or as setup and punchline to jokes is ableist.

My Comments: You can't say that because you don't have every disability ever, which means you are speaking over other disabled people. Also, you can't say that about the disabilities that you have because I assume people without your disabilities disagree with you. And I would know as I smelled a disabled person just like you once. This means that my non-argument proves that I am better than you. Checkmate, snowflake.