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Are you able to help with my sexuality crisis? If so;

im agender (pronouns they/them). i like girls and literally any nonmen, and i fantasize about being with them and i see myself with them. and then with guys it just doesn't really spark. I dont know if my "crushes on guys" were actually crushes or just gender envy. I've dated a guy before (though i wasn't really that happy) but i dont think of my future with guys? It also doesn't make sense with the fact im okay and wouldn't mind having a boyfriend, but only if they dont identify as a man. They just prefer using masc terms. Boyfriend in a gender neutral way, if that makes sense?

Dunno if im attracted to multiple genders with a prefrence or if im a lesbian experiencing comphet.

I actually have a pretty fitting answer for you!

The not-male-but-masc idea seems to correlate to either Demiboy* or Cenrell**, but that's not the root of your question.

The thing you're experiencing sounds a lot like Noma-***. It is defined by the attraction to almost all genders, but no attraction to men. It absolutely accounts for non-male masculine attraction, only excluding binary men.

Feel what you feel and do it confidently. Your attractions and non-attractions are real, and nobody's doubt is going to change the fact that you're still feeling them. Hold onto those emotions and explore them, because they are part of who you are.

I hope this helps, and remember, you are valid.

*https://www.lgbtqia.wiki/wiki/Demiboy

**https://www.lgbtqia.wiki/wiki/Cenrell

***https://www.lgbtqia.wiki/wiki/Nomasexual

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