❛      ––––     You’d better find SOMEBODY ELSE and get a hold of  YOURSELF    !!     ❜        

over 1000 screenshots of bobby and i’ve only done four videos JEEZ louise

i finished chase’s bio n rules page i am on a ROLL

Things that are making fandom toxic

(And things I’ve never experienced before when I was growing up in fandom).

Calling shippers abuse apologists, rape apologists, racist, sexist, homophobic, ableist, pedophiles, whatever, for what they read, write, draw, headcanon, or ship in fandom. Thinking that shippers condone wrong actions in their consumption of fandom.

Anti culture. Suicide baiting, sending gore/cp to shippers, intentionally triggering and misgendering shippers, sending anon hate, ‘go choke’, ‘uglies’, erasing lgbt+ fans’ sexuality and gender by calling them cishet whenever you disagree with them or ship something they don’t like, minors in nsfw spaces by talking about them.

Taking radfem rhetoric and applying it to fandom spaces and turning around and saying you’re not a radfem (being ‘kink critical / anti-kink’).

American-centrism that dominates fandom. Believing that American laws are the ‘one true way’ even though fandom is comprised of people of every background. (example: believing that you can only ship 18+ year olds sexually even though there are people who come from countries where the age of consent is lower and age gaps are common).

Thinking shipping only applies to healthy relationships or if someone ships something they want the ship to become canon.

Thinking that people who relate to or root for the villain are condoning the villain’s actions and are probably abusers themselves.

Demanding adults leave fandom or change how they approach fandom even though adults comprise most of fandom and basically are the creators and parents of fandom (example: not interacting with minors, adding their ages onto their profiles to ‘keep minors safe’, and stop drawing nsfw fanart of underaged characters or media aimed at minors).

Thinking that minors run fandom even though adults comprise the majority of fandom. Thinking that minors deserve a safe space free of kink on tumblr even though tumblr isn’t a space for children. However, spaces for children should be sfw but tumblr is not one of those spaces.

Demanding that fandom should be a safespace (mainly for minors, gay men, and survivors).

Demanding that everyone should include social justice and morality into their fandom experience. (Everyone does not share the same beliefs nor morals).

Thought crimes. The belief that thinking about something bad is the equivalent of the action (example: having an abuse kink makes you an abuse apologist, and if you’re a woman you are contributing to your own oppression).

Callout culture.

Conflating fiction with reality.

Conflating indulgent fanfiction, media, porn, whatever, to representation. Indulgent fanfiction, media, porn is and was never meant to be representation and therefore should does not have to be accurate.

Identity politics. Demanding that the main subject of said fanfiction, media, whatever, should only be enjoyed by the audience who happen to be the main subject (example: Yaoi should only be enjoyed by gay men because Yaoi is about mxm even though Yaoi was created by women for women while Bara, a genre similar to Yaoi except includes more muscular men, was created by mxm for mxm).

Thinking that women are ruining fandom with their ‘nasty kinks’ even though men and mxm can be just as nasty and kinky (not a bad thing). Calling these women ‘cishet’ even though they’re part of the lgbt+ community.

Attacking cosplayers of characters you don’t like.

Calling fandoms such as Hetalia and Attack on Titan 'Nazi propaganda’ and those who enjoy these shows as Nazi sympathizers or anti-Semitics.

Tagging ship or character hate in the ship or character tag even though you have an anti tag for that. Fandom is supposed to be fun and no one wants to go into their ship or favorite character tag and see that negative shit.

Less fandom-y:

Anti-kinksters. Conflating bdsm with abuse. Conflating cgl/ddlg with pedophilia.

The anti-recovery movement. Shaming neurotypicals, some who might even be recovered neurodivergents.

Feel free to add more. Antis will be blocked.

me: hey we can finally have a character who doesn't have a tragic backstory!

my brain: make chase's mom a verbally abusive alcoholic who takes most of her shit out on him and force him to have to move from california to hawkins, indiana with his dad and younger siblings to get the heck away from her at the age of seven so he's forced to adapt and understand this new life totally on his own (:

me: i mean, yeah ok sure

chase also has a Big Ole Crush on nancy bc why not make him suffer

hey hi if ur interested in interacting with chase, he’s gonna be at @blvksweater

ya girl got bangs

MK SO I !!! have an idea. chase will be the school’s “tech” guy, ya know he’s the guy who sets up lights n stereo equipment for dances n mans the booth for football games n runs the basketball scoreboard n does the tech stuff for school plays n recitals and !! is the “hey fix the PA system” guy and he’s a big ole smartie who knows how to hotwire cars n disable security systems bc he reads A LOT so yeah. boom. my FORTH stranger things oc bc i have the impulse control of a fucking peanut

fluffy/blushy starters

❝ you have something in your hair… do you want me to get it out? ❞ ❝ you can call me whenever you want, even if you don’t have a reason to. ❞ ❝ i’m bad at texting first, so i always end up hoping you will. ❞ ❝ no, it’s fine. i can wait until you’re done talking to them. ❞ ❝ you look really cute in that. ❞ ❝ god, you always make me blush. ❞ ❝ first time i saw you, i couldn’t get over how gorgeous you were. ❞ ❝ i wanted to say i love you for the first time without stuttering, but that failed. ❞ ❝ could you hold my hand? ❞ ❝ my friends get so annoyed by how much i talk about you. ❞ ❝ wanna, like – i mean, if you’re not busy, we could get lunch? ❞ ❝ you look so comfy and cuddle-able. ❞ ❝ you’re hiding under the blanket because you’re blushing? ❞ ❝ don’t give me that puppy dog face. how am i supposed to say no to that? ❞ ❝ let’s share my coat so you won’t be cold. ❞ ❝ you make me so happy. ❞ ❝ would you mind if i kissed you? ❞ ❝ i know i’ve kissed you, like, a dozen times, but just a few more, please? ❞ ❝ you’re the perfect height for me to rest my chin on your head. ❞ ❝ would it be too cliche if i asked you on a date? ❞ ❝ quit smiling. i can’t talk when you look at me like that. ❞ ❝ i remember practicing how to ask you out in the mirror. ❞ ❝ huh? oh, sorry. i was just watching you. ❞ ❝ you’re the perfect height for me to rest my chin on your head. ❞ ❝ i would’ve been up sooner, but you were sleeping on my arm. ❞

i didn’t know ppl watched bobby i’m hyperventilating and i’m getting excited for the oc bc u all are gonna get to love him

i’m gonna use this cutie patootie

i have a new oc idea lol

me: so yeah kiki is asexual

me, not five minutes later: this girl needs dick idk about you...

new wave indie rping: having a blog for the aesthetic of it. occasionally rp-ing unless you actually have the time/have super powers. tagging shit for ships that are further into the future than the actual ship. headcanoning becoming the norm. ditching the platform and passionately living in IMs/discord. feeling relaxed and less pressured. various timelines/aus for your ships bc all you do is headcanon with your partner(s)

i like to think kiki is the person at dances who will just sit somewhere alone and reject anyone who asks her to dance, but will get up and dance with a “loser” freshman to make them seem cool in front of the people who make fun of em bc WOW U DANCED W A SENIOR !!!

i am afraid that if i open myself i will not stop pouring. (why do i fear becoming a river. what mountain gave me such shame.)

Jamie Oliveira, “Erosion” (via wordsnquotes)