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As I get older, if I get to choose between what I love and what is right. I will choose to do what is right.
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Done that! Done this! Still ain't interesting. Haha
How do I become more social if I don鈥檛 have much to say to anyone I feel like I鈥檓 boring what could I do ?
How to make yourself more interesting?
Read more books. Start with fiction and non-fiction in topics that interest you, and once you've got the hang of reading regularly, you can move onto other genres and topics that you may not be familiar with. If reading is too much, start with audiobooks. You can find a bunch on YouTube to start with.
Watch documentaries. Marathoning shows and movies are fun and can be great conversation topics, but watching documentaries on a variety of topics can help expand your worldview and knowledge. Watch documentaries on different cultures, points in history, animals, and even space. There is always something to learn and there are so many well-filmed documentaries that captivate you as well as any movie.
Listen to different music. People love to talk about their music preferences, and someone knowing your favorite songs is a love language of its own. Check out different genres. Every genre has the top artists that everyone knows and famous songs. Start with those, and if you're starting to enjoy the music, you can expand from there.
Stay up to date with current events. This applies universally but is especially important these days, as there is always something new happening and there everyone has an opinion on the situation. But tread this carefully. Not everyone wants to be constantly bombarded with horror stories on the news, and it's best to steer clear of politics. These conversations come up naturally, but it helps to know what's going on.
Travel more. Even if you don't have the budget to leave your city, there is still so much you can do within 20 km of where you live. There are new restaurants and hangout spots to try. Many public places are either free or have discounts on certain events. That's a great way to experience something and also an idea for a spontaneous hangout with friends.
All these things help expand your worldview and give you more to talk about when you are with a person. The more you've seen and experienced, the more you can talk about it, even if it is to say that you didn't enjoy it.
Once you get talking, you'll also get recommendations, or learn new things from the people you talk to. Take note of that too. Look into the things they recommend. Who doesn't love hearing "Hey, I checked out that book/show/song/place you were telling me about"? Either you enjoyed a new experience, or you have another topic to talk about next time.
If you're not comfortable talking about yourself, that's totally fine. You shouldn't be telling everyone you meet everything anyways. A little mystery is good. People love talking about themselves and their interests, so even if you don't know much about what they're talking about, asking good follow-up questions can keep them engaged in conversation and help you learn something new.
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Sometimes the less person you expect to care is the one who really cares.
Dearest Anthea,
I know you won't be able to read this but I just wanted to express my feeling of appreciation towards you.
I know you felt my silence lately, and you gave me chocolates to cheer me up. You know I haven't done my eyebrows for the past months, and then you gave me a browliner. Hehe I was about to cry when you gave me those! Because those ones you gave me were expensive. You know I love collecting socks, then you gave me a pair of cute socks. We've been friends and workmates for just 6months, I cry!! Because you are the best I've ever known!
Thank you for always checking on me. You listened without judgement. I don't know if you will still love me if you find out the real me behind my mask.
In return, I will always be your venting machine, you will always have my shoulders to cry on.
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All the love in the world.
Do not let me go, you manage to transmit all your love to me and I feel happy about it.
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No me sueltes, que logras transmitirme todo tu amor y me siento feliz por ello.
siir-poesia 漏
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Are you ready to wear your bridal gown?
Ladies, please don't be in a rush or be fooled on the idea of wearing a bridal gown.
Before you marry make sure that you are ready to face big challenges in your life. Because marriage isn't easy. Once you enter the gate of marriage there's no turning back, once you decide to get out, it's a way too long process.
Find yourself first, don't decide because you are just pressured. Di porket nagpapakasal na ang friends mo ay required ka na rin magpakasal. Huwag makinig sa salita nang ibang tao , di porket you enter 25ish old ay required na tlga magpakasal. No! Unahin mo ang sarili mo. Then ask yourself if you're ready to settle down na. Are you really happy with the person?
Learn to say no on engagement proposals. Don't be too overwhelmed that he will put a ring on you already. If you're not yet ready, say no. If you still have priorities other than marrying go on! Di ka pa ready dahil you still have dreams and goals na gusto mo mong marating? Gosh, answer No! Magpapakasal kasi nabuntis ka? Marriage it is not the answer.
Pinaka importante, mangalangin ka.. Pray pray pray..
Marry when your ready.
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