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vesslef · 8 months
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Me after leaving for a year
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vesslef · 2 years
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I had a bunch of coffee cups in my locker for most of the year
Autistics and ADHDs have obscure facts in their brains and biohazards in their lockers
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vesslef · 2 years
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Geksvsjsbekshr I love sealsssss
BABYYYYYY JUST UNMUTE GOD
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vesslef · 2 years
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vesslef · 2 years
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Can I be nsfw
I'm sending this to the group chat
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vesslef · 2 years
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I want a trans guy to hold me like this. please I am literally so lonely. 👁️👁️
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vesslef · 2 years
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*casually showers my ace/aro friends w/ validation* "You were saying something?"
In all seriousness, Aces and Aros are valid and welcome in my community 😌
this pride month if i see ANY of you fuckers including ace/aro identities anywhere, if you even fucking say the words asexual or aromantic in any context of pride in any day this June, you have 0% of my patience and respect. this month isn’t for ace/aro identities and never will be. shut the fuck up.
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vesslef · 2 years
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Spooky AND Pride month :D
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vesslef · 2 years
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i firmly believe that we have moved past the need for shirts to have tags.
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vesslef · 3 years
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vesslef · 3 years
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if you’re an ADHD person reading one of my #actuallyautistic posts and wondering ‘do my experiences count for this’ the answer is basically always: ‘if you think they do, then absolutely!’
there is a huge overlap between ADHD and autistic experiences (I’m diagnosed with both). please feel free to relate however you want and add whatever tags feel relevant to you.
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(also, you don’t need to have autism or ADHD to relate to my posts on those topics. my whole goal is to educate people by describing my experiences & symptoms in a relatable way. relating to autistic and adhd people is good! it is so much better than the opposite.)
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vesslef · 3 years
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Aces and Aros are very much valid and I will release the hornets if you don't agree.
I wanna tell you guys a story,
Not too long ago, my friend Bella came out as aromantic to me, and now I’ve got some things to say.
I was the one who told her what aromantic means, because I was explaining different sexual orientations to her. I remember saying, “Asexualiy is when you have romantic attraction, but no sexual attraction.”
Bella immedently, without missing a beat, asked, “Is there an opposite to that?”
I asked what she meant, and she asked if there was a term for sexual attraction but no romantic attraction. I told her about aromantics. She got weirdly quiet, then excused herself.
Not two weeks later I was heading to my boat. I was supposed to meet Bella and another one of our muteral friends there for a day of fishing.
As soon as I was in earshot, I saw Bella storming off the boat, and our other friend standing there like an idiot. Boi had no idea what was happening.
Anyway, Bella isn’t looking where she’s going and walks smack dab into me. That’s when I realized she was crying. Puffy red eyes, wet cheeks, the whole nine yards… And if you know anything about Bells, she does not cry. Ever.
She’s been through some serious crap in her life, and she does not cry. She’s tough as nails. Bella has a steel core. She does not not cry. I’ve seen her fall off a roof and break her arm before, not a single tear. I can’t stress this enough, Bella. Doesn’t. Cry.
So seeing her in tears shook me. I took her by the shoulders and escorted her somewhere more private where we could talk. We ended up in the women’s restroom, which was weird as fuck for me, because haven’t been in a woman’s rest room for years. Luckily it was empty, and I’m realistic, I know I don’t pass so well, so I don’t think anyone would have said anything anyway.
Before I can even ask her what’s wrong she hugs me around my middle and burys her face in my hoodie. Then, in a voice I can only describe as traumatized, she says, “I think I’m broken.”
I’ve never seen her in so much pain, and Bella and I are CLOSE. She’s one of my dearest friends. She’s like my little sister, but if she’s like my sister, our other muteral friend is like her twin. He and Bella have know each other WAY longer, they’re practically inseparable. They come as a pair. They’re a duo. They’re a package deal.
Appearently, said muteral friend asked Bella out and forcefully kissed her. She shoved him off, and told him she’s aromantic, which she only recently figured out. She wasn’t ready to be out, but this muteral friend left her no choice. She tried telling him no, and he didn’t listen. Bella saw no other option.
Quote on quote, this is what he said to Bella. “That’s okay. You just haven’t dated me yet. We’ve been like, unofficially together for years. You’re probably just freaked out that it’s finally going somewhere.”
After that I’m not 100% clear on what happened, but apparently Bella kept saying no Nd trying to explain herself, but he kept insisting he could ‘fix her.’
Eventudally she started crying and stormed away. That’s when I found her.
Keep in mind, this was her first experience coming out, and her best, closest friend insisted he could fix her and forcefully kissed her. I found out later he also implied corrective rape would ‘solve the problem.’
Bella was traumatized. She’s still traumatized. I tried to make her feel better by buying her an aro pride shirt, and taking her go a local LGBTQ+ hang out. I wanted her to be around like minded people, so she could see she wasn’t broken, and her identity deserved to be respected.
Instead of a warm, welcoming environment… The first thing someone said to her was, “This place is for REAL lgbt people. You don’t belong here.” He also implied she wasn’t human.
Just think about that for a minute. Her first experiences with being an out aromantic have been limited to;
A person she trusted more than anyone forcing himself upon her, claiming she was ill, and needed to be fixed. (Raped.)
Sobbing in my arms in the women’s restroom because she thought she was broken and defective.
Being told she wasn’t welcomed in LGBTQ+ spaces and called inhuman.
This isn’t what I want for her. Bella deserves better than this. She needs a support system, not all this crap. I’ve spent the past week trying to undo all the damage exclusionists, arophobes, and people she trusted did.
Aromantics and asexuals belong in the LGBTQ+ community. You literally cannot change my mind.
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vesslef · 3 years
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New profile picture.
Drew Mikan and was really proud of her. Might draw more DR characters.
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Happy pride month!
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vesslef · 3 years
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Reblog, share PLEASE!!!
Tw, r*pe, pedophilia
It has been brought to my attention that on April 24th (this Saturday) it will be national r*pe day. According to the people who started it, rape will be legal for the day. It will target minors and women.
DO NOT PANIC!!!!!!
This is a disturbing tiktok trend that I discovered on wattpad when I got tagged in the comments.
Here are some things you can do:
-Travel in a group
-avoid alleyways
-carry a weapon or something to be used as a weapon
-If you are grabbed MAKE AS MUCH NOISE AS POSSIBLE
-be aware of your surroundings
-avoid dark places and suspicious people
-avoid family members that have r*pe/s*xual
assault charges.
-turn location on
-go in during dusk
-be careful on public transportation/uber
It may be a hoax but there are sickos who don't get that it is hoax. (Clarification: If it is hoax.)
Be safe and strong brothers, sisters, and siblings!!!!!!
(If I come up with new tags I'll add them)
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vesslef · 3 years
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So I made my own scp. Expect to see them a lot. I might digitalize this and make it my profile photo.
Anyways, don't pet it, or touch it, no matter how friendly it looks.
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vesslef · 3 years
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SCP 049-j finds your sin unforgivable
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“Light the cig, your grave I’ll dig”. 
HC that 049-j will not tolerate smokers…at all.(The cigar is making so much smoke because, anomaly)
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