Shushu/Tong AW22 backstage photos featuring YVMIN jewelry
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Working on Yourself Step 1.
Working on yourself means facing your own problems instead of pretending they don't exist, identifying with them, or making excuses for bad things you do. It's about understanding what you need to change and taking responsibility for your actions and feelings, acknowledging that you need to shift your belief system instead of clinging to it. This helps you become a better person by fixing the things that aren't good for you or others. It's like taking steps to grow and improve as a person.
This is how you start:
Face Your Problems: Instead of pretending your problems don't exist or pushing them away, you deal with them directly. This means being aware of your thoughts and feelings and trying to understand them in a helpful way.
Don't Letting Problems Define You: You know that your problems don't make up your whole identity. They're things you can work on and change, but they're not all that you are.
Being Open, Not Defensive: If someone points out things you're doing wrong, you don't get upset or defensive. Instead, you listen and try to learn from their feedback.
Changing Your Bad Habits: You actively try to recognize and change behaviors that are harmful to you or others. This might mean getting help, thinking about your actions, and trying hard to do better things instead.
Getting Better as a Person: The main aim is to improve and become a better version of yourself. This involves making good changes, learning new things, and building healthier habits over time.
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I've noticed that I've gained a lot of new followers over this week & I just want to say, make sure you guys are being safe & that y'all are drinking enough water, taking your meds/vitamins & taking care of yourselves.
I love you all, stay safe 🖤🦋
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⠀ 𝐚𝐥𝐥 𝐧𝐞𝐠𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐞𝐧𝐞𝐫𝐠𝐲
⠀ ⠀ ⠀ ⠀𝐰𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐛𝐞 𝐫𝐞𝐭𝐮𝐫𝐧𝐞𝐝 𝐭𝐨 𝐬𝐞𝐧𝐝𝐞𝐫
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Short person ED problems:
• Being 100lbs is still too fat since you have a smaller body.
• If your significant other is taller than you then you look worse standing next to them because you’re short AND fat
• You already fit into Medium/ Small clothes so it’s not really fun or exciting when you loose weight and your clothing size doesn’t change
• People can already wrap their hands around your wrist because you’re so fucking small, not because you’re thin.
• Eating smaller portions is risky because to everyone else your normal healthy portions are already small and when you start restricting they suspect your eating disorder right away since eating that little isn’t normal to them at all.
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I need an ana buddy!!
I'm going on vacation with my bf on New Year's Eve and I want to look really pretty.
Pls, send me ana discord groups, dm me or add me to any group. (If it's a group that sends meanspo & shames members for eating more than 500 cals, even better!)
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i love it when my partner grabs my waist and puts his hands on my shoulders, touching my collarbones. i feel so feminine & valid 💗💗
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spent the weekend crying in my room, self harming. i didn't eat a thing. I couldn't stop thinking about how i used to do this when i was 17. i wish someone would've just been there to give that poor, sad, lonely girl a hug. i wish i could break through my memories of her and hug her tightly...
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I wish my partner cared more about me. I'm going to stop eating again lmao. I actually want to die.
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