kinda wish i could be a cool blog and talk about the agents with others as well as my ocs, but i feel like i shot myself in the foot for having boundaries and being uncomfortable sharing

Hi! I'm too shy to come off anon, but I need your help understanding something. I hope I'm not bothering you!!

I don't want to interact with anyone who is a fascist, but I'm not entirely sure what makes someone fascist. Can you please explain it to me?

I know I could look it up myself, but I know that not all definitions online can be correct and I just want your perspective;;

Thanks!

Hi anon! Well, fascism comes in many forms so “sussing out who’s a fascist” is technically a little harder to do than having a simple checklist. After all, doesn’t a White Supremacist have different beliefs to a Japanese fascist? And doesn’t a Japanese fascist have different beliefs to a Wahabist? These beliefs clash don’t they? Well, yes and no. Sure the surface level beliefs are different but the underlying core beliefs of these groups are actually quite similar; it’s the specifics which are different. Even though it isn’t a “bible” on what is fascism and shouldn’t be taken as gospel, Umberto Eco has an essay called “Ur-Fascism” which contains 14 points, which can help us identify whether certain beliefs are fascist no matter the specifics of their belief system. I’ll explain the points in short and give some examples. Quick disclaimer, I am not an expert on fascism or any of the ideologies I’ll discuss by any means so if you aren’t taking Umberto Eco’s writing as the 100% correct truth, definitely don’t take mine as that either (this is how you should treat most sources tho):

1. Cult of Tradition and 2. Rejection of modernity

I put these two together because they’re kind of inseparable. This is basically the idea that there was a “glorious past” that people need to return to and modernity is a corruption of that “glorious past”. In British fascist thought, this past is generally the 19th century at the zenith of the British Empire or mid-20th century Britain. The latter is more common for people who wish to be a little more PC with their writings; instead of trying to use a by-gone era that pretty much no one alive can remember, they use a much more recent time with nostalgic ideas of “the good old days” which doesn’t seem threatening on it’s surface but is dogwhistling for a time when there weren’t as many immigrants in the country.

You may have seen the “reject modernity, embrace tradition” meme and it’s pretty much the most obvious incarnation of this idea. Similarly you may seen people online use “degenerate” as an insult. If you look at the meaning of the degenerate it means “having lost the physical, mental, or moral qualities considered normal and desirable; showing evidence of decline”; it’s microcosm of these ideas put into a single insult. This is why you tend to see conservatives use it more than progressives.

I’d also argue that terfs obsession with 2nd wave feminism and their utter rejection of intersectionality and modern feminism is another manifestation of this idea. 

3. Action for actions sake

This is less detectable in terms of individuals but still important to note that these people tend to support action without a cause. Sure the insurrection at the white house earlier this year was action, but it had no substance behind it. It was action for actions sake, which is why any principled leftist didn’t support it. Fascists will tend to openly just call for action but won’t be very specific about the purposes of the action; as long as they agree with the ideology behind it they’ll support it. It’s why fascists love harassment campaigns and mindless acts of terror. Take Wahabist terrorist orgs like Al-Qaeda or ISIS, it doesn’t matter if bombing an Ariana Grande concert has no point, the only point is the action itself.

4. Disagreement is treason  

This one’s pretty self explanatory, they will ostracize you if you disagree with them. Again, terfs tend to do this, and I had a long conversation with an ex-terf I called a dumbass, who basically said that she was ostracized by them and mocked for having different beliefs (hope she’s doing well actually). There’s numerous stories from ex-terfs like this.

5. Fear of difference

There’s a tendency for fascists to group people into “us” and “them”. “They” are considered to be intruders who need to be removed whereas “we” are the people who deserve to be here because it is “our” right to be here. In Zulu Nationalism, this tends to be any non-Zulu speakers who they deem to be “Shangaan” even if they aren’t actually Tsonga, it’s just a pejorative at this point. If you see vague references to the “elite” without any reference to who they are and what makes them “elite”, this is tends to be a dogwhistle for Jewish people. Western Fascists have very little issue with the workings of capitalism itself or the accumulation of wealth by capitalists, they just don’t like “them”, taking “our” stuff. Any references to “us” and “them” is pretty much a red flag.

6. Appeal to Social Frustration

Fascists will tend to brush upon actual issues faced by the poor today but will instead blame it on an outside force. You’ll see job loss being blamed on immigrants or vague “elites”. Terfs do this too. They’ll see young girls who are genuinely struggling with patriarchal issues and divert all that pent up rage towards trans people and the “q*eers” (which they do tend to use as a slur unlike what most people would have you think). 

7. Obsession with a Plot

Everything is a conspiracy! The election was rigged! 9/11 was fake! that fucking pizza place/this furniture company is a sex ring! All of these are supposedly plots by the deep state who are trying to do... something or other. You’ll notice these “Plots” don’t actually have a purpose, but the fact that there is a plot itself is the issue. This is a way of engendering paranoia in the group while also feeling that there is a constant war against you even if there isn’t. This is also why, despite news sources being pro-capitalist the right will swear up and down it’s leftist media which is controlled by “them” (usually just meaning Jewish people).

8. The enemy is both strong and weak

“Trans people have infiltrated academia and the only reason people refuse to see gender as an immutable biological concept, is because they’re too afraid of the trans cabal to say anything. But also everyone can tell trans people are crazy and haha you have a high suicide rate.” It’s contradictory that’s the point. They need to feel that they’re both counterculture but also they need to be winning at all times so that contradiction is necessary. Also the use of the word “cabal” is a pretty big red flag for all forms of fascism.

9. Pacifism is trafficking with the enemy, 10. Contempt for the weak, 11. Everybody is educated to become a hero and 12. Machismo and weaponry

All of these are kind of interrelated so I’m grouping them together (also this is already fucking long as hell so I don’t wanna bore you any further). You’ll tend to see a love for the military or at least military aesthetics when looking through fascist blogs. Guns aren’t just a tool for fascists, they’re representative of masculinity and the necessity of violence. Pacifists and anyone who refuses to fight are weak and therefore are “degenerate”. If you do not fight, if you are not willing to fight, you cannot be a “hero” (an ubermensch or a matyr). This comes with the fetishization of violence instead of the recognition of violence being an means to an end, and the worship of individuals rather than of communities and organizations. Take Japanese fascists and their lionisation of the imperial military and their desire to once again have an actual army.

Terfs don’t necessarily fit these roles except for arguably 10 considering how much they seem to look down upon the mentally ill and those who commit suicide and surprisingly 11 since that involves the hatred of non-standard sexual activities and terfs hate non-standard sex (this is from the most vanilla bitch who is very uncomfortable with kink but understands its not inherently good or bad). I have a feeling this is more so because terfs are mainly women (there are male terfs ofc) whereas this was written for male led organizations. 

13. Selective populism

When fascists talk about “the people” they tend to mean “the people we like”. “The working class” can be translated to “this cishet white christian man from Minnesota who owns land but hey he lives in a rural area so he’s working class right?”. They’ll also tend to have “tokens” who will suddenly become the mouth piece of the entire community they’re supposedly representing even if no one in the community asked them to (i.e. Milo Yiannopoulos). 

14. Ur fascism speaks Newspeak

They speak in terms which are both inaccessible to anyone outside of their circles whilst being so simple that once you learn them it becomes easy to understand. They abhor any form of “academic” speech so you’ll rarely see them source things (unless those things happen to agree with their views, which is rare but Jordan Peterson is popular for a reason) and if they do source things they probably wouldn’t have read them fully and will rely on you also not reading them. This is to limit any critical thinking so that your brain is basically jellified into an unquestioning organ which only responds “yes” or “no” and only appeals to a higher authority without any form of reasoning involved. This is why they complain about “the lefts memes being too wordy”... because they’re used to not having to read (this is somewhat tongue in cheek but heyho if the boot fits).

And that’s the 14 main features of fascism, if anyone is displaying multiple of these ideas then they are most likely fascist, and if an organization or group continuously replicates these ideas, then they are definitely fascist. I hope this wasn’t too long but like I said... very complex topic. (Also hopefully this is written well, it’s 10 PM and I am surviving off Irn Bru energy drink). Hope this helped!

Well, hello there fellers.

You can ignore this text post if you want, it comes straight from me, completely outside of Drawings or Proyect updates.

I just really felt as though I needed to take the time to write up my thoughts into a, very possibly, LOOOOOOOOOOOONG post, since I have a LOT on my head right about now.

So, my melancholy, rather depressing, but perhaps amusing, musings, under the cut.

Right, so my whole string of thought was sort of just... proppeled out of me reminiscing about the past... 2 years, maybe year and a half.

I got thinking hard about She-Ra again, LMAO. and I know, I KNOW, why am I even thinking about that damned show again.

BUT, I was really thinking hard about how much I went through, positively I mean, how much growth I had (Around my art and my vocation obviously) with She-Ra.

And really, if you were to scour through my blog, if you went back all the way to... maybe it was late 2018, early 2019, when I posted my first fanarts around She-Ra, you’ll see how far back I was, skill-wise. I mean I wasn’t exactly a beginner, but I weren’t no Grade A artist neither.

And PRIOR to all of that I had more or less drawn fanart intermitently.

Anyone who followed me back when I made RWBY stuff, specifically Whiterose fanart could attest to that. I wasn’t consistent at all, and I experimented more often than not with every single drawing I was making. And don’t get me wrong, I really enjoyed drawing stuff for RWBY, I sort of miss it now LMAO.

But I can certainly see just HOW POWERFULLY drawn I was to She-Ra, because my output of content and the growth of my skill as an artist was EXPONENTIAL. I suppose in a way I owe it really to MY sudden... obsession? Fixation? on that show.

VERY HONESTLY, at this point in time, I feel like I could REALLY speak on what things drew me to She-Ra, and precisely what things KEPT me there. IDK I think it used to be a very special little show.

On one hand? I really had just decided to watch it because I was starting to fall out of love with RWBY.

RWBY WAS a show I’d also loved, and which also meant a lot to me, but the things that MEANT a lot to me, were just not given the story I would’ve been interested in. That AND the small fandom space I’d carved out for myself was getting even smaller. Smaller AND very... toxic? Uncomfortable? I felt as though... my efforts and my involvement in that fandom were neither welcome nor appreciated at one point, let alone the fact that on the SHIPPING side of things, it stopped being fun.

So there I was, starting She-Ra up. I’d known about it for some time before, and I’d *Heard* that it was a fun good show, and most specially... *With an active, HUNGRY fandom, raging about a very popular Ship*. So I thought to myself, YAY, I’ll watch this show and I’m REALLY gonna do my best to go for everything popular.

I was tired of unwelcoming fandoms, tired of enjoying the very little measly, *Unpopular* things about shows, this was all about having a GOOD time. And maybe finally getting my works out, really finding a motivation to create stuff.

I mean in hindsight, now I know I fucked myself over MANY times.

You see because, as soon as I started watching She-Ra, I TRIED to do something different about the way I consumed shows.

In the past I used to be VERY ship-centered about my show experiences, to the point were FANON-Ship-centric relationships with shows would make the stories I was watching really boring and bleak in comparison. I had been afraid at the time, that THIS would also ruin She-Ra for me. So I really thought about... NOT tainting my vision and perception of the show with... Fandom stuff, Fanon or Ship-centric views, NOT EVEN CREATOR INTERACTIONS. I really tried to watch it blind and enjoy it for what it was.

Fool I was, I should’ve done the opposite.

It’s a tired old story, and a really redundant thing for ME to talk about. But I really felt a DEEP disappointment with She-Ra. Akin to LOSS almost.

Cuz you see, for a year and a half I ended up CENTERING myself on She-Ra, on more than one level.

On one hand, I TRULY believed She-Ra was a show with a story that I loved, there were plenty of characters that REALLY spoke to me. Characters like Glimmer? for example? And her storyline? for me are *one in a million*.

Of course I’m... REALLY compacting my She-Ra experience. I had come to appreciate MANY things about it. It’s world, it’s story, the characters, the comedy, the animation, the people who loved it and grew because of it, etc.

Furthermore, once my initial *doubt* about the show had passed, I really immersed myself in the fandom side of things. And I gotta say, I really enjoyed it for as long as it lasted. I think I experienced a new level of feeling like I *belonged* in a community, and a feeling that people LIKED what I did for it, and that people wanted MORE of ME in it.

Alongside that, and going back to animation. Geez, She-Ra came at the best *or worst* (depends on how you wanna look at it in hindsight now, LMAO), time of my life.

Literally on the verge of me finishing up with Prepschool and having to chose a career for University.

Prior to She-Ra, I really was trying to pinpoint my vocation, and animation had been in my mind for a LONG time, since Steven Universe really.

AND... Idk, AGAIN, THERE WAS SOMETHING ABOUT SHE-RA... which told me... “This is important”. Animation is important, being able to tell tales for people is important. Telling tales for people who need it, or people who don’t often get to tell tales is important. This medium is BEAUTIFUL, I MEAN, LOOK AT EVERYTHING IT CAN SPAWN OUT OF PEOPLE.

So it helped me make THAT decision.

Also alongside these things well... I go back to all of that about “Belonging”, and “community”.

Boy I met some of the most amazing friends I ever have in my life. People whom I respect, people who I admire, people who thought like me, liked ME, enjoyed this show, etc.

OF COURSE, at the time, and I really should’ve known better. We met out of our mutual LOVE for Glimmadora, LMAO.

ME? FALLING IN LOVE WITH AN UNPOPULAR SHIP? Who’da thought.

AND I DID SO, *DAMN NEAR DIVORCED FROM FANDOM* LMAOOOOO, you can see how my “I’ll learn to love whichever aspects of this show I’m *gonna* love, outside of fandom influence” policy really just fucked me in the ass.

AND GOD, DID I *LET IT* BE A PART OF ME.

That comunity, those friends, that ship, that show, those creators. It was all I thought about, and it DROVE me. so much so I put up with so much shit from my University. I put up with so many bad things in my life that were going on because of that show.

And I see now that many of those friends I mentioned did too. GOD, how I wish... we just hadn’t.

I think... for most of us things had already been pretty shit, not gonna lie.

There was the pandemic, for a start. Prior to May the 15th I had an uncle of mine die of COVID, which shook me to *my* core, but dear old She-Ra and the Glimmadora fandom gang were there to cheer me on. (This was around the time really horrid people in the She-Ra fandom, whom LOATHED Glimmadora with a passion were making “Glimmadora shippers must have Covid, since a symptom of Covid is a lack of taste” Jokes btw.)

And I think of my friends also, who have always spoken to me about their problems and their lives. For all accounts I think, they’d always had it harder than me, and they found themselves a WILL and a DRIVE to go on... through this, through She-Ra, and our friendship.

Then May the 15th came and it’s all been going downhill from there HSEBRGJKSEHRBGKJSERHGBJK.

I mean... I understand NOW, just how DAMAGING for myself it was to... cling so much to that show, to all of it. NEVER should’ve connected the drive of my vocation to it.

Cuz yanno... even if I HAVE continued to grow and get better the past few months, some things haven’t changed for the better.

For instance, I basically LOST my entire space here, in fandoms, in ejoying shows. I LITERALLY ONLY CREATE NOW... Either out of spite, or for my friends.

There is a VERY DEEP loathing now within me about stuff like... Catradora for example. I hate it, it makes me feel disgusting, simple as that. And THAT kind of feeling isn’t welcome here, also simple as that. So I’m out of a space and that hurts.

PFFT, basically all the pieces I produce now, which I still do with a She-Ra theme. Nobody’s gonna wanna consume MY content anymore, and they don’t. I made sure they couldn’t because I knew, I wasn’t going to be able to stomache this She-Ra fandom anymore.

That’s been another thing too. I don’t like being a contrarian, I don’t like being the guy who thinks the thing everybody loves is bad or wrong, and if I could SO HELP ME GOD, I’d change my entire view of it all. I don’t really care about being right or wrong anymore, I just want that peace of mind back.

HELL, there were people I knew since 2016 almost, who kinda just told me...

Shut the fuck up or leave.

On some cases I shut my mouth, on others I just left.

And yanno... I do feel miserable about it. But it also makes it all the harder when I think of my friends?

GOD DAMN, EVERYTHING THAT *COULD* GO WRONG, WENT WRONG FOR THEM.

ALWAYS, for all of my friends. And even through the hurt, I sit here and think, well I think I still have hope! I think I still have a drive to go on and persue animation  and tell good stories.

But I understand now... that *I* have a priviledge over my friends. The priviledge of support. I’m not REALLY alone, there’s people helping ME.

My friends don’t have that, and I can’t give them that, how I wish I could.

And it does just HURT only being able to tell my friends, “HEY! Have hope things’ll be better!” And then we all turn to the only beacons of hope we shared, and seeing them all dull and out of light. No Glimmer of hope.

Like, how do you tell people to hold out, to keep fighting, to keep trying to STILL CHASE THEIR DREAMS... When you can’t even help them keep their heads high when they’re trying yo get a damned job. When no matter how much THEY try they keep getting knocked down.

When there’s no longer a space were they feel confortable sharing their creations, because everyone they had ONCE tried to please with them? suddenly decided they were of no value.

So here we are.

I’m starting up a new semester in a couple of days, hopefully building myself up more to chase MY dreams... whilst all my friends suffer and can’t chase theirs.

Shit’s fucked. I wish I could do more.

PFFT, I guess, long story short:

Life unfair, Me Sad.

Me Angery, Me Bitter

Me Lost, They Won

Boohoo I guess.

SO ANYWAYS... I really just... needed to put these thoughts out in words. Scream to the void as it were.

I can’t wait to go back into discord or twitter or tumblr and see how my friends can’t catch a fucking break.

And how things will continue to get worse before they get better.

God I hope they get better, for all of us, if not atleast for them. They’ve already gone through enough.

idk if komanami is one of your otps, but komanami and q3? im curious (eyes emoji)

Thanks for the ask, hakai!!!☺ an anon also asked me the same question! Unfortunately I accidentally deleted the ask qq

 (under the cut for length and those people who wanted to avoid komanami (I don’t want my asks in the main tags so I am also adding a link here to prevent that hopefully

I never really talk about KomaNami, because whenever I do, somehow and somewhere, I find resistance ^^; It is one of those controversial ships, mostly because it is one of the “popular” Komaeda×(girl) ships that people don’t like others shipping. But yes, KomaNami is one of my OTPs! I love them dearly, but am too afraid of expressing myself more openly. Hopefully that changes this next spring! I want to create a KomaNami event.

3. What is your favorite AU/prompt idea/trope for your pairing?

I really want a DR3 AU, honestly. I do think they should have been much better friends than they were in canon. Like, in DR3 in particular, that set-up was right there… two students who outcast themselves from a chaotic classroom, and Nanami and Komaeda sharing a love for games and silence.

Nanami joins in the class, but struggling because they reject Komaeda, who is the friend she had before warming up to the class. She and him always pairing up for class activities because she refuses to leave him alone, and the feeling start to stir. She still feels awkward about how he talks about hope and they challenge each other’s ideals, but in the end, the only thing they want is to help each other. There’s also this struggle that she wants him to be accepted by the class, but neither he nor the rest of the class want that, so she’s stressed about that and organized more class activities so that at least she and Komaeda can still hang out and have fun “with” the class.

Whether it is romantic or platonic, I want her and Komaeda to be important to each other so that it makes sense that Komaeda falls to despair. It could be just the two of them at the end trying to figure out why the class is spread out, and even Miss Yukizome is acting weird, so they use class time to investigate and come across Junko. Junko finds Nanami to be just as resilient as Naegi with that optimism and decides to use her to get to Komaeda, who may be a “hope fanboy” but is already on the brink of despair with all the tragedy in his life. Using her typically means death/torture anyways. She probably has it be an execution for Chiaki Nanami and Komaeda’s Hope because she dredges up all of the past tragedies and extrapolates on future ones, and that she feeds Komaeda with the lie that Despair will bring a brighter Future as Nanami is being executed/becomes nonresponsive.

I even think a DR2 AU is necessary. Nanami in DR2 is annoyed at, and avoidant of Komaeda. That makes no sense for an AI programmed to create safety and observe the class to be avoidant of the “most dangerous” individual. I want her to always be following him and Hinata. With Hinata, it makes more sense since he is the main pillar in the trials and lost of them want to hang around him, since he is the safest. It is harder to justify hanging out with Komaeda. I think that it would start by her leaving food for Komaeda while he is captured without him noticing (whenever he is unconscious) but she struggles with finding food/drinks that won’t just spill/make a mess. He catches her finally and he really unsettles her, but as long as neither of them tell (and she doesn’t explain how she knows he was captured), she no longer has to be as secretive to him and feeds him (much to his embarrassment and resistance, but she hardly understands why). It becomes a habit that she gravitates toward him while there is free time since Hinata just goes to whoever (Komaeda makes it easy by mostly choosing the library while the others are on the first island/the fourth island). I would like to think she overhears Komaeda talking to Hinata about his life and, while still wary of him, isn’t quite as emotionally distant and is more open to working with him on the third case, even if he is still annoying to work with what with him having a bit of liars disease in him. Speaking of which, it is weird that she chooses not to stay at the hospital, so I would probably have her join Hinata, Kuzuryuu, and Tsumiki, and she would end up spending time at each place like Hinata, visiting each room. And in CH4, nothing really changes except that she is somewhat in the same area as Komaeda during free time. After Komaeda blows up at them in CH4 and the trial, I think that by breaking into Monomi’s house and stealing her diary, he figures out it is Chiaki rather easily since she mentions he had been captured before Souda and Nidai let it slip and she may casually mention him at the library a few times. He confronts her about it, but she remains unwilling to cooperate, so he takes things in his own hands once more. And that would be the end of their canon AU interaction.

Something that I really would want in post-canon is that they recover Chiaki and she checks up on everybody, including Komaeda. If she were to get a robot body, I want her to hang out with Hinata and Komaeda mostly XD Of course, she still hangs out with the others, but she would have spent most of her time looking after those two.

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Ok, so canon rewrite is probably not following the way the question was meant to be answered, and I kinda owe one more response to anon anyways, so here’s a trope!I really like the idea of a Hanahaki AU for KomaNami! I would like to imagine it going with mutual pining, but I can definitely see it as Komaeda suffering because of unreturned feelings for Hinata, and Nanami for unreturned feelings for Komaeda. Komaeda initially thought he only doomed himself, but to doom Nanami as well makes him, well, despair. And I could see three endings here. One would be where he can’t force the feelings because he genuinely doesn’t like Nanami romantically at all, but she’s his friends and he hates she suffers and wishes she would just get the surgery, but she dies first and then Hinata turns out reciprocating his feelings, letting Komaeda live, but they are both grieving over Nanami and blame themselves for her death. Another would be that he does actually like her, but not as much as Hinata. He had decided, for her sake, to get the surgery since she refuses to, and the two don’t regret it (well, Nanami does since he basically forced himself to not love Hinata, but he reminds her that he does love her, and it’s only grown since then). Actually, this could still turn into a tragedy where he convinces himself he loves Nanami and can save her by removing feelings he has for Hinata, but all for naught because she feels it disgenuine OR he actually never had feelings anyways and she passes away. The final one is that Nanami only thinks his disease is because he like Hinata, when it’s really mutual pining, and this could go two ways of they realize it too late, or they both realize it together and are equally embarrassed about the situation XD. Oh yeah and my KomaHinaNami heart has this as a three-way where Hinata is involved too and they all get together and are happy XD self indulgence is a key factor lol

Seane Corn on Personal Transformation and Social Justice

In a stunning mantra popularized by the Anusara custom, Om Namah Shivaya Gurave, each person is phoned call to see her very own strength and also independent vigor:

I acquiesce the benefits within myself, truth infinite teacher. This significance within me takes the kind of pure pleasure, pure understanding as well as pure bliss, always present, constantly luminescent and also packed with tranquility. This significance is my true nature, independent in its existence, full of light and also always supporting me.

This rule is a deeply encouraging one, a proclaim of self-sustenance as well as sufficiency, and also a deep bow to deep space's nurturing assistance. Seane Corn, the internationally popular yoga instructor, understood for her operate in social activism, might consider this rule just one piece-albeit a crucial one-of the yogic puzzle.

In her interview with Suzanne Bryant in the upcoming YOGA.IS seminar Corn opens concerning her very own process for planting tools of recognition that would eventually heal her very own injuries and also drive her on the course to assisting others. For Corn, the telephone call in order to help others has always belonged of her psyche, 'I have drive as well as an unusual quantity of stamina,' she informs Bryant. For Corn, who is of Polish Jewish descent, the ancestral shops of injury have actually provided her exactly what she calls a 'physical requirement to interact and also engage. It feels genealogical to me,' she says.

But just what is injury, and how does trauma connect to company and also change? According to Corn's mentor methodology, 'The genuine yoga method is connection and involvement not to move from, but to move in the direction of our traumas.' Trauma, for Corn, is 'anything that bewilders our capacity to cope and also leaves us feeling defenseless or helpless.' Naturally, as Corn informs Bryant, trauma will be various for everybody, yet unrefined trauma-which for Corn was sex-related molestation as well as a serious obsessive-compulsive disorder-as much of us have, operates in comparable means for everybody. If we're not educated to process our stuff, and also 'we're raised in environments where we're instructed to reduce as well as repress our sensations, and we're being introduced to drugs like food, medicines, sex, alcohol, high levels of caffeine, and tv as a method to numb ourselves out,' after that the power that is our trauma, states Corn, will remain in our cells as well as at some point we will certainly have to challenge it.

In Corn's very own journey, the effective device of breath in the yoga practice helped her appear the panic that surrounded her condition. Exactly what occurs in yoga, she states, is that when you stretch and move, you could open saved trauma and the refined power arises. From there, we have the chance to start to deal with several of the reduced feelings. 'These suppressed emotions block us, they make us close down, vital, they make us act out,' however ultimately, claims Corn, we must attach ourselves to all of the rage, sorrow, are afraid that is stored inside of us. 'In the method of yoga we can not divide ourselves from our darkness self. We have to find out how you can remain in relationship to it, pick up from it, grow from it, increase our perception not even with it, however due to it.' Eventually, in moving to our traumas, our concerns, and also our wishes, we'll start to establish a genuine partnership with our previous self as well as our trauma, as well as 'grow the wisdom that comes from it, and after that heal it in time with compassion, forgiveness and understanding.'

The eventual goal in collaborating with our darkness and also our worry, is to come to begin to acknowledge our regular patterns in our minds and in our bodies to make sure that, as Corn claims, 'When I'm in difficult, also heartbreaking situations, I can remain in my body as well as not dissociate ... and also choose that remain in alignment with my facility ... [this practice] enables for even more quality instead of reactivity.' Not just this, but Corn urges us to deal with our very own injury and also all at once acknowledge that our world is in 'cumulative trauma' and also most societal problems are taking place because individuals do not have the devices or skills to manage that injury, which causes distress, rioting, bigotry, as well as acting out.

Once we could develop that huge empathy that attaches our trauma to the broader common suffering of the world, we begin to stroll down the path towards makeover. As Corn states, 'Makeover provides you a possibility to consider the larger image.' In life, encounter arises that is commonly incomprehensible, however with the devices developed through concerning terms with our 'darkness self', we will certainly be able to see also the most dreadful encounters with a wider, even spiritual lens.

' It requires time and also determination,' claims Corn, 'however the outcome is that we can take obligation for the whole of our lives and comprehend ourselves and others, and transcend the limits of idea that maintain us stuck or dispirited.' We stop our regular relinquishing of control to the falsified tales we have regarding ourselves. 'We not allow our self-confidence to be influenced from the outdoors in ... we develop compassion for our self,' she says.

Corn states that giving up control calls for relying on the saying that 'in the technique everything takes place as it's supposed to for our spirit to change.' Though it is challenging to approve, Corn encourages us to see that empowerment can 'only originate from experience-learning how to remain in light could just come from understanding the significance of our darkness.'

And so Seane Corn's empowerment rule may look a little various compared to the one remembered above. 'If I could start to recognize exactly how fragile and tender my own specific trip is as well as just how the mentors and medication show up in various ways sometimes and that all of it occurred for the advancement of my very own awareness as well as the improvement of my heart, then I cannot assist yet look at other individuals and acknowledge that they as well are doing the most effective they can with just what they know and also the small amount tools they have,' she says. 'They also are dealing with trauma that I don't comprehend but it is no much less considerable to their awareness and also psyche and they are also right here to recognize exactly what love gets on a timeline that is really just between them as well as their god of their understanding.'

The critical, then, is that we could aim to have a little bit more compassion for the trip of others 'as well as hold a caring space for them ... to fulfill them where they go to and also share with them, if welcomed, so we can experience ourselves discovering a common pathway.' Corn's crucial power hinges on her capacity to not just expose her very own shadows and also susceptabilities but to call focus to the methods which also one of the most spiritual and spiritual communities are complicit in the perpetuation of inequality. 'The spiritual protestor's quest is to take liability ... [and also to start] recovery those viewpoints within ourselves so that when we consider the world we could participate in a manner in which's more spiritually literate, as well as really make a distinction.'

Seane Corn's complete interview with Suzanne Bryant will be broadcast on Friday, May 1, at 2 p.m. on YOGA.IS. See their website to access the talk and sight conversations with various other leading teachers.

Second Half of the Semester Highlights...

Module 5: Sexual Health

Sexual health is a crucial field of knowledge that everyone should place importance on. Without this knowledge, we would continue to lose people at a high rate due to infections and diseases such as HIV/AIDS. An article that spoke to me from this module was written by Maanvi Singh, and is titled “Sex Ed Works Better When It Addresses Power In Relationships”. This article spoke to me because it gave me immediate flashbacks to my experience during sex education. I was in 6th grade and attended a relatively large public school in Southern California. We used one of our class periods to have our gym teacher and regular teacher talk to us as a class, so we remained in our classes of 35 kids or so, we were not brought into an auditorium for an assembly or anything. Although I cannot remember the exact words, I can remember the topics talked about, and more importantly, wasn’t talked about…

We were given a brief talk about the anatomy of a vagina and penis as our teachers pinned some basic anatomical posters on the wall of each of the body parts. They described to us what sex was, and that pregnancy could be a result if we didn’t use protection. For some reason they really pushed the idea that pregnancy would result if we didn’t use a condom, there was little to no mention of birth control, and absolutely no mention of an IUD- but perhaps that’s because this discussion was practically a decade ago. As I stated above, I remember what we weren’t told, and what I wish I was told about sex. I wish they would have told us girls that it hurts. I wish they would have taught us about consent. Simply educating us on the physical motions of how sex works only prepares us for a tiny bit of what sex actually is. I wish they would have told us to wait for the right person, and to not be in a hurry to lose it. I wish they would have told us that it is okay if you are homosexual, and what you are learning about right now

might not pertain to you as a result.

As I read through this article by Maanvi Singh, it pulled me back into that classroom on the day of sex ed, and started answering the questions and giving me the information I wish I would have learned in sex ed. Through skimming through the article I realized that I didn’t want traditional sex education, I wanted empowerment based sex ed. Singh tells us that, “Knowing how to communicate and negotiate with sexual partners, and knowing how to distinguish between healthy and abusive sexual relationships, are as important as knowing how to put on a condom” (Singh 2015). In the article we are walked through how one of these empowerment based sex ed classes work. Children (age unmentioned) are taught the basics of sex ed: contraceptives, disease prevention, and anatomy. But then, they segway into a topical discussion about how to talk about safe sex with their partners, especially if they are in a relationship where they may be in a dis-empowered position. Singh goes into detail about the program when she says, “They play out, for example, how do they negotiate with their sex partner, particularly if they’re in a dis-empowered relationship, and maybe their boyfriend doesn’t want to use a condom and is threatening to leave, to hurt her… The goal is to help young women feel empowered to ask for what they want from their sexual partners. And to feel good about themselves, so if they decide they want to be assertive with their partner, they can do that” (Singh 2015).

I have considered being an educator, and if I don’t end up loving what I do with my Communication and Organizational Leadership degree, I am not afraid to go back to school and pursue a career in education. Therefore, if I ever go into a field of education, I can use this information and reference my poor experiences with sexual education to bring a better place of education for children in the future. Chances are that the kids I sat in sex ed with have experienced abusive relationships, and have not been taught on how to bring about a better power dynamic within a relationship. After all, a study by Huffpost states that, “nearly 60 perfect of young women have experienced abuse” (Glamour 2011). Additionally, Safe Horizon argues that “1 in 7 men are in abusive relationships” (Safe Horizon 2019). With these statistics in mind, I plan to use this information in the future to not only educate children if I go into a field of teaching, but to encourage those in my life to make sure that their relationship dynamics are healthy, and to encourage a conversation about safe, consensual sex.

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Module 6

This module was centered around the topic of Disability, Aging, and Sexuality. It was here that we gained a foundational understanding for disability, both as a theory and as a concept that we will all one day have to deal with. We were then educated on the definition of ageism, and applied this concept to the popular show of Grace and Frankie.

My favorite part of this module was writing and responding to other peer’s discussion board posts. After watching the assigned episodes of Netflix’s Grace & Frankie, many stereotypes about women aging and their sexuality were brought to light. It was a shock to me that one of the first examples of the two women being shamed for talking about their sexuality came from someone super close to them- their own children. Grace’s daughter went as far as to call the two “filthy women” for engaging in a conversation that I guess Grace’s daughter deemed to be too young of a topic for them to still be allowed to discuss. It also appeared that our discussion about the topic of constructionism could be looped into these episodes of Grace and Frankie. Social constructionism discusses shared concepts of reality, whereas age-constructionism happens as people develop stigmas of the older generation as a whole, rather than examining the behaviors and attitudes of elders as individuals. This is exactly what the women’s children were doing by condemning them for talking about their sex lives; they just assumed they were just a couple of old ladies too old for that talk, and didn’t stop to think about their mothers desires and feelings.

One of the most important concepts I took away from this module and included in my discussion was the concept of “fearless aging”.  As Health Gerontologist Pat Sanborn puts it, “everybody is aging, and it’s better not to have a fear around it” (Sanborn 0:37). Sanborn explains to us that, “When people are looking at the opportunity for fearless aging, they are considering options, they are gaining insights, and they are helping other people and they are not buying into ageism” (Sanborn 1:15). In the case of Grace and Frankie, Frankie continuously reminded, and taught her friend Grace that she still has an entitlement to enjoy her sexuality, regardless of her age, or what others have to say. It was also really inspiring to watch the show and see these two women continue to gain insight and want to help other women as they get into the vibrator business and even make their own lube. My goal for society is that we too can one day practice fearless aging, like Grace and Frankie. We should all be aiming to end the stigma that sex has to stop at a certain age! As I take what I have learned from this module outside of class, I want to first start by reminding my Grandmother that she is not defined by her age (which is 83). I know that she has struggled in the past with slowing down because she doesn’t want to be labeled an “old lady”, so I will remind her that that term, at least within our house, does not have to be a derogatory term. I will also make sure to encourage those around me way down the line to “go with the flow”. As Pat Sanborn states, age is something completely natural, so we should not be condemning ourselves for letting nature take its course!

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Module 7

Our last module revolved around the topics “Pornography, Erotica, Pleasure, and Resistance” (Watson Module 7). Our goal by the end of reading through and interacting with the module was to be able to connect how resistance plays a role in women’s sexuality, especially when it comes to marginalized groups. We were also tasked with gaining an understanding the role of intersectionality, which is looking at categories like sex, gender, race, and class, and applying them to an individual group to see if they create any overlapping or interdependent cases of discrimination or advantage.

In this module, the piece that stood out to me the most was a TED Talk by Christopher Ryan titled, “Are we designed to be sexual omnivores?”. It is here that Ryan examines the extent of our sexual nature all while relating it back to our origins, and argues that humans shouldn’t penalize themselves so heavily for their natural desires. Ryan first talks about the agricultural revolution. Before that time, we were foraging, and sharing all that we had, making sure that the women and the children came first. In a way, these items (meat, shelter, protection) were all being traded in exchange for women’s sexual fidelity. As he analyzed this sharing behavior, he related it back to sexuality. He states that, “human sexuality has essentially evolved, until agriculture, as a way of establishing and maintaining the complex, flexible social systems, networks, that our ancestors were very good at, and that’s why our species has survived so well” (Ryan 1:07).

Another common occurrence within relationships nowadays is the concept of monogamy. For some it is something that they actively seek out in a relationship, and for others it is considered a deal breaker if their partner desires it. And, although it has become common within our society to seek our monogamy, Ryan argues that it goes against our ancient desires, since we are so closely related to chimps and bonobos. He paints for us a picture of his parents; they have been monogamously married for 52 years! But does that mean that the exchanging of wedding vows was also an instant repellent of attraction for people outside of his parents marriage? No. Chances are his father sees hot women in the streets and has occasional fantasies, or his mother goes to see a movie and falls in love with the lead role actor. This is because human’s don’t stop desiring sex with others just because they have a commitment to one another. As Ryan puts it, “to argue that our ancestors were sexual omnivores is no more a criticism of monogamy than to argue that our ancestors were dietary omnivores is a criticism of vegetarianism. You can choose to be a vegetarian, but don’t think that just because you’ve made that decision, bacon suddenly stops smelling good” (Ryan 4:57).

Ryan further argues his point that humans are sexual omnivores when he brings up the topic of female menstruation. He states that, “humans are among the only species on the planet where the female is available for sex throughout the menstrual cycle, whether she’s menstruating, whether she’s post-menopausal, whether she’s already pregnant. This is vanishingly rare among mammals. So it’s a very interesting aspect of human sexuality” (Ryan 5:47). It is very hard to argue his point when evidence is brought about like this. If we were not designed to be sexual omnivores, we would not be so sexually active, and our bodies wouldn’t be designed to be capable of such great sexual activity. After all, Ryan told us that the average human has sex roughly 1,000 times per birth. Meanwhile, other typical mammals like gorillas and orangutans have sex only roughly 12 times per birth. He wraps up his point by urging us to move away from the classic saying “men are from Mars, women are from Venus. Because, the reality of this situation is that, “men are from Africa and women are from Africa” (Ryan 11:44).

This talk spoke to me so greatly because I really feel it as though it will help me with my relationships moving forward. Ryan talks about how families are continuously ruined by our false vision of human sexuality, all because we have engineered this idea that monogamy ultimately ends our sexual desires for others, while our history does nothing but strengthen our sexual desires beyond those who we are in a relationship with. Moving forward, if, say, for example, my parents were to get into a fight because my dad looked at a lady in the parking lot for a little too long, I will aim to understand his sexual nature rather than retaliating with a comment such as “ew, gross, you’re married to Mom!”. In the end, your relationship status doesn’t end your sexual desires, and we should stop making it seems as though it does. Like Ryan said, when someone becomes vegetarian we do not assume that bacon stops smelling good to them- so we need to end this mindset and false assumptions about the aftermath of monogamy.

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                                                  Works Cited

Ryan, Christopher. “Are We Designed to Be Sexual Omnivores?” TED Talk, Feb. 2013, https://www.ted.com/talks/christopher_ryan_are_we_designed_to_be_sexual_omnivores.

Glamour. “Shocking Number Of Young Women Have Experienced Relationship Abuse.” HuffPost, HuffPost, 17 Nov. 2011, https://www.huffpost.com/entry/glamour-relationship-abuse_n_857472.

“Domestic Violence Statistics & Facts.” Safe Horizon, https://www.safehorizon.org/get-informed/domestic-violence-statistics-facts/#our-impact/.

Singh, Maanvi. “Sex Ed Works Better When It Addresses Power In Relationships.” NPR, NPR, 17 May 2015, https://www.npr.org/sections/health-shots/2015/05/17/407063066/sex-ed-works-better-when-it-addresses-power-in-relationships?utm_source=facebook.com&utm_medium=social&utm_campaign=npr&utm_term=nprnews&utm_content=20150517 https://www.guttmacher.org/fact-sheet/facts-american-teens-sources-information-about-sex.

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